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FamilyRe: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by tosyne2much(m):
ststyreal:
I feel like blessing you today. It's obvious omo de shi nii Op yii sha, him never sabi wetin marriage bi. Habaa! My cousin with three children just got married to another man last year, na man like you marry her, with just a child you dey fear your family, it shows you are not strong enough to fight for her, so just leave the girl for correct strong guy wey fit defend her to marry her abeg.
Let me come in here and correct a notion

What I want you to know is that every man has a standard/taste and it has nothing to do with "maturity" or not.. Your cousin might find a man who married her despite having three kids, but I, as a person won't marry such a woman due to my standard and personal choice.. It has to do with personal choice not me being immature.. However, the fact that a man can take the risk of getting married to a baby mama doesn't automatically qualify him to be more matured than another man who can't do that. You don't expect people to marry out of pity just to show to the world that they're matured


Back to the issue

We are in the part of the world where all protocols are duly observed when it comes to marriage.. Though, you can go against the protocols and stand your ground, but what happens afterwards? Hatred and enmity would be hurled at the lady by these family members

So my dear, in this kind of situation, the best you can do is to settle it amicably with your family members and give them reasons for your decisions.. No be by gra gra jawe.. No be by "wetin be una business with who I wan marry".. It's just more than that
FamilyRe: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by tosyne2much(m): 8:39pm On Mar 24, 2017
Rhea:
In all honesty, I do not think you are ready to marry. Marriage is a decision taken between two discerning and willing couples without any external coercion. You and your partner are the ones planning to get married, not your father, mother or great grand uncle. You do not marry to appease parents (unlike what most parents intend their children to believe). Most parents genuinely seek the happiness of their children when they start intervening like yours and dictate who you marry or not. However a good number of them let this love for their children to overwhelm their common sense of judgment. Listen to their advice as your parents, but DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO. The consequences or blessings from your actions are yours and your partner's to carry/enjoy. If this decision is difficult for you to make, then you are not ready to get married. When you are ready, nobody should stop you.
And you're talking like someone who never grew up in Nigeria
FamilyRe: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by tosyne2much(m): 8:36pm On Mar 24, 2017
gabbrri:
I am presently battling this same issue. the funny thing about mine is that no member of my family have found out she is a single mother
And you don't intend telling them make dem no pour sand for you garri abi? cheesy
FamilyRe: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by tosyne2much(m): 8:35pm On Mar 24, 2017
olaszydaruma:
This is exactly what is going on in my life too. Although my family is yet to discovered that she already had a child before. She said I should not let them know yet, that when its time she will let me know.
I just hope they won't kick her ass out when they know, or what do you think bro?
RomanceRe: How Did You Feel The First Time You Had Sex? by tosyne2much(m): 8:29pm On Mar 24, 2017
Cutehector:
grin I just dey look u dey laugh
Na every kitty-cat thread dem dey always see you cheesy
CelebritiesRe: Olajumoke, Patoranking, Clarence Peters & Toofan Pictured Together by tosyne2much(m): 8:22pm On Mar 24, 2017
kilode100:
Yinmu. What is special about her life? Nigerians are tired of her already biko.


Her time don waka.
But the landmark has already been made .. She brought fame and fortune to her family despite her inability to speak coherent English cheesy
RomanceRe: Has Anyone Been Able To Overcome The 3 Common Dirty Habits? by tosyne2much(m): 8:19pm On Mar 24, 2017
Chewing of nails ehn... Na God go deliver me from that one cheesy
FamilyRe: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by tosyne2much(m):
limitless777:
tosyne baba U too much.

MARRIAGE matter NO BE bread and butter.
make them ask Tonto, Funke Akind, etc

HAPPY Weekend bro
When you marry someone against the wish of your parents and family members, they will frustrate your life minimally but that of the girl go brutal gan cheesy

No matter the civilization, culture still holds ground in some families my brother
CrimeRe: RCCG Woman Rescued From Jumping Into Lagos Lagoon Reveals Her Problems. Photos by tosyne2much(m): 7:58pm On Mar 24, 2017
cremedelacreme:
*****Warning*****

Any Nigerian caught trying to commit suicide must be rescued and arrested. We are all in this economic crisis together. Nobody is going anywhere. angry angry
Hahahah cheesy cheesy
FamilyRe: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by tosyne2much(m): 7:48pm On Mar 24, 2017
limitless777:
ADVICE when mostly needed IS less heeded.
my brother in Ur best interest and for Ur future's sake, NO try marry dt chic. IF you do: IT WILL ( and very very likely may/might ) be the worst decision U'll make in Ur LIFE.
It looks like it's going to be "Ur DECISION" NOW but when the chips are down and DONE U'll understand that MARRIAGE is beyond a MAN AND a WOMAN "loving?" themselves, living together to bleep till GOD calls them apart.

A WORD is enough for the WISE.
God bless you my brother.. Marriage is beyond "both of us love each other, oyah let's fix a day for our wedding whether our family members like it or not"
RomanceRe: How Did You Feel The First Time You Had Sex? by tosyne2much(m): 7:38pm On Mar 24, 2017
Mathematical:
wink
thank God you admit say you sef dey do am tongue cheesy hehehe
CelebritiesRe: Olajumoke, Patoranking, Clarence Peters & Toofan Pictured Together by tosyne2much(m): 7:20pm On Mar 24, 2017
safarigirl:
who dash monkey banana?
E no matter jhor cheesy
CrimeRe: Two Nigerian Ladies In Europe Fight Each Other Brutally At A Camp. Photos by tosyne2much(m): 6:10pm On Mar 24, 2017
Why girls never fight unto my head before too nah? No be two heads this man wey these ladies fight over get nah
CelebritiesRe: Olajumoke, Patoranking, Clarence Peters & Toofan Pictured Together by tosyne2much(m): 6:01pm On Mar 24, 2017
safarigirl:
how do you know they are not balling?


All these curvy ladies can be very industrious o wink
Are you not curvy too? wink
RomanceRe: Does It Matter If A Lady Marries A Younger Man by tosyne2much(m): 5:44pm On Mar 24, 2017
icebird25:
is not bad o, as for me I'm dating my mom friend she is hot mehn. iffa hear.... the one above pls take it easy o
Bro, abeg take an easy ooo make you nor enter six feet ooo cheesy
CelebritiesRe: Olajumoke, Patoranking, Clarence Peters & Toofan Pictured Together by tosyne2much(m): 5:34pm On Mar 24, 2017
safarigirl:
they are? Last I checked Daniella Okeke, Toolz and Toke'a likes are having a blast grin

Daniella even built mansion and bought Range Rover on a nonexistent acting career cheesy
I mean those throwing shades at her here on NL grin cheesy
FamilyRe: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by tosyne2much(m): 5:07pm On Mar 24, 2017
Where are the feminists of Nairaland nah?
CultureRe: Ooni Ogunwusi & His Wife Collect Offering At A Church In UK (Photos) by tosyne2much(m): 3:57pm On Mar 24, 2017
This Oba earns my respect anytime any day sha
CelebritiesRe: Olajumoke, Patoranking, Clarence Peters & Toofan Pictured Together by tosyne2much(m): 3:48pm On Mar 24, 2017
Go on girl!

They say you're ugly, local, overhyped and can't speak coherent English yet you're in high places

Those who are pretty (with nice curves and shape) and can speak English fluently are busy roaming the street with tattered clothes and shoes cheesy

# Irony of life#
RomanceRe: How Did You Feel The First Time You Had Sex? by tosyne2much(m): 3:48pm On Mar 24, 2017
Cutehector:
angry
I know say you go find me come here cheesy cheesy
RomanceRe: How Did You Feel The First Time You Had Sex? by tosyne2much(m): 3:45pm On Mar 24, 2017
I was like "so na this thing wey Mathematical dey tell me say e sweet wella be this?" cheesy
Christianity EtcRe: Woman Accused Of Transforming Into An Owl In Lagos (Photos) by tosyne2much(m):
Why is it that things like this dont happen in exotic places such as Lekki, Victoria Island, Banana Island? Why is it that it only happens in places like Ikotun, Igando, Iyana Ipaja, Agege?
Car TalkRe: Flying Cars Collection - Which Of These Will You Go For? by tosyne2much(m): 12:27pm On Mar 24, 2017
9jakohai:
Am sure in Nigeria, our ancestors were already 'flying' long before this car thing was thought about

(African Power grin)
Na so now cheesy
RomanceRe: See Photos Of Bride Wearing Pant And Bra On Her Wedding Day Goes Vïraし $㉫㉫ Pħ✿†✿ by tosyne2much(m): 10:59am On Mar 24, 2017
Arrant nonsense!
RomanceRe: Reasons Why Some Girls Will Never See Mr Right by tosyne2much(m): 10:22am On Mar 24, 2017
lordsharks:
Later they will say God is not kind to them
Lmao

RomanceRe: Reasons Why Some Girls Will Never See Mr Right by tosyne2much(m): 10:12am On Mar 24, 2017
Dandeson1:
Every girl wants 2 be engaged and marry by a serious man, and wish to get married but what kind of man will want 2 engage a girl with status' like - "liquids loading" "Elegushi loading" "wine bar Abuja 2bad“ "6 bottles I gallant" "clubbing mode activated" "missing my bed tonite" off to crystal lounge " "Am gonna party real hard 2nite" Owerri, Benin, lagos,Abuja, calabar,Bayelsa on my mind " " painting accra blue and red ","Dubai and Ghana mood activated" u wear skimpy cloths,almost naked,you put dp's u took in different hotel bedrooms, bathrooms and swimming pools, Alhaji, thank you.Baby thank you (As ur bf no get name.) Senator, God bless you. Hon You are too much . take pix in different cars Are you a driver?. Ipad, Iphone 7 as DP and your bf dey use curve 2. Brazilian hair. Romanian hair, Peruvian hair etc. who is fooling who or u think those men ain't seeing?
u better have a rethink, Maybe wen u are 33 years, u'll change ur status to" Church on my mind", "I love Jesus", "Jesus saves" 35 years you start, all men are evil"
@38 you no go miss any church service or crusade again by then menopause calling
# Recieve_Sense_Biko
# Ok lemme come and be going
You no go kill me with laf cheesy cheesy
RomanceRe: Reasons Why Some Girls Will Never See Mr Right by tosyne2much(m): 9:43am On Mar 24, 2017
OP, you forgot to add laziness and stinginess
RomanceRe: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation? (Photo) by tosyne2much(m): 9:37am On Mar 24, 2017
Bumbae1:
More than five thats like easy nao
Can do that with my eyes closed

That one na domestic abuse grin
Better girl.. Be like say I go propose ooo cheesy
NYSCRe: Akwa-Ibom Corper Dies After Slumping During Football Match by tosyne2much(m): 9:13am On Mar 24, 2017
To go for service sef dey fear person
PoliticsRe: Dino Melaye Shares Photos Of His MSc Project. Nigerians React by tosyne2much(m): 8:45am On Mar 24, 2017
fiizznation:
I thought his real names are Daniel Jonah meleye? Then why am I seeing Dino meleye on this MSc project? Who is deceiving who?

When this news broke out, I thought SR were just speculating as 'usual'. Few days ago, someone told me the said Dino meleye never graduated from ABU, that the man had many carry-overs in his final year, but he never reseated for any of the papers, meaning mr meleye graduated himself from ABU and not the other way round.

Besides this Dino is just too controversial, so I won't be surprised if the guy never graduated from ABU. Too much of controversies are never good. At the end, little miscalculations from controversial people usually bring them down.
Hahahaha abeg no use laf finish me cheesy cheesy
PoliticsRe: London School Of Economics Debunks Dino Melaye's Degree Claim by tosyne2much(m):
oruma19:
what's happening on nairaland? I tried making comments on the discovery of Allah on a tree and could not comment because it is a Muslim thread. Y can't we ( non Muslims) comment on the thread when in the real sense, Muslims are the ones commenting the most on Christian threads. I don't understand oooo.
My brother the same thing happened to me last week and ever since then, I dey grab rice anytime wey I hear "Islamic section" cheesy

A creed is usully on that section which prevents non Muslims from commenting in that chaotic section. You should know that Muslims are aggressive people who are ready to pick offence in any slight thing, so egbon had to reduce the fight between Christians and Muslims by placing embargo on us cheesy
CrimeRe: Burial Of Sholape Oladipupo, The Air Force Officer Murdered By Her Lover (Pic) by tosyne2much(m): 11:25pm On Mar 23, 2017
Homeboiy:
sesrch for the thread where it was announced that the girl was shot by her bf

the first thread about her death n u will c the comnent
I have seen it... Baba you sef fcck up ooo... You no suppose make that kind comment for front page now cos e go attract ban

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