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Ahmeduana:
ARE YOU A STAMMERER?

DRealGeesam:
Silence is the best ans for foo*'ls. So u didn't have to reply her. Honestly, who cares? Smile and move along my dear, she aint worth it.
Op, this is a really really, I mean really good post. If only girls will learn. Maybe many wld be married by now, but they prove to be "smart" only to lose at the end.

Bro thanks for the encouragement

prettythicksme:
LOL

prettythicksme:
u must b kidding,y dont u let me b ur val naa

Shiifi:
nice one Op bt u talk as if dats you field of study right from nursery school

hahahahaha , Funny enough I'm an Office Management student, just that most people think I'm studying a psychological course

Tapgist:
Hahahahah I love this line like çrazyyy' it the fact, thumbs up

hahaha

Bros, the statement sef dey make me laf here

Tapgist:
Nice one.

funmilayoB:
Tosyn2much ur articules sugests u'v bn heart broken in d past

naturallysmart:
Op is so on point.
There is this girl I was really feeling, she just got back to sch and I invited her to ma place 2 days ago. I actually felt we cud make sumtin meaningful, only for her to demand money from me to fill her gas just bcuz she agreed for us to date.I cud have bleeped her dat day but she was on her flow. Then yesterday she called me that she needed money to get a fan (she don see atm machine). I invited her to cum spend the nite at ma crib last nite buh she said she can't cuz according to her its too early for her to start sleeping at ma crib. (But its nt too early to start demanding cash abi? Smh). Anyway, I promised to give her the money for the fan next week. GUESS WAT MA PLAN IS

hahahahhahahaha roflwkmd ilrfg lmao

I laf so tey water dey comot for my house for here

whizqueen:
It doesn't matter who I carried out the research on. What matters most is that this theory holds

prettythicksme:
Tosyne why naa? #u no go for val with ya girl?

I no commot for house ooooo

whizqueen:
2. Please NO SEX When We Date
When a lady says this, the chances of her been bleeped is on the high side

wristwatch:
Gud one tosin. On point.

naijaboiy:
And you think we give a fhuuck?

Like can you use that pride to withdraw money from a bank

Why not keep it to yourself

ronald4lif:
Almost all the reasons are right on the money.

This is a controversial created not for you to pat me on the back so critics is allowed. This thread focuses on the act of ladies which sometimes warrant being dumped.

Personally, I get so pained when ladies lay curses on guys who dump them aftermath of sex. However, It's very evident to me that some of them strip unclad in the middle of the night and rain curses on those guys but little do they know that they are sometimes the cause. Hence dont put the blame on them at all times

Lemme stop beating around the bush and let's get to business

Just sit down, relax and don't be in a hurry to read

Reasons Why Guys Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts

Note: I'm not in any way trying to support pre-marital sex before some people will start quoting Bible verses on this thread

1. You Claim You Are Wiser
Take it or leave it, we are in men's world and no man will ever admit that a lady is wiser than him. Ladies are cunning in nature and we so much detest ladies who think they can screw us up claiming they are wiser than we are. It's just one of the reasons why we prank them and zoom off as quickly as possible

Let me share an experience with you. Way back when boys were still hustling, there was a lady I had crush on. She was financially handicapped and needed to obtain a GCE form. I promised to obtain the form for her as soon as I receive my salary

The day I received my salary, I called her told her to come for the money. Could you believe someone that has been coming to my house all alone brought a friend with her and I was like "whatdafcck is this for Christ's sake ?" Does this lady think I want to render help just to get under her skirt. To end the story, I disappointed her without giving her a kobo. I told her I was very disappointed in her. It's just one of those things they do to outsmart us which haunt them

2. Please NO SEX When We Date
Who tells a guy this ? This is an implicating statement ladies should avoid saying even if you don't want it. Even if sex is not our priority, we don't like when ladies tell us that they don't want sex in the relationship. Many ladies are like " let tell him so that he will know that I'm not for sex and if he doesn't like it that way, he should bleep off. I can swear with my life that if you tell a guy at the early stage of the relationship that you will never allow sex in the relationship and he agrees, your chances of being dumped if he eventually get dumped after the deed is very high

3. You Want Him To Make Promises Before You Give It To Him
You want him to promise you marriage or Iphone 6 before you open your legs. I smh for you

4. You Want To Maga-rize Him
When a guy senses you are trying to exercise your magarizm skill on him, he tries to set a trap for you and as soon as he gets what he wants, bye bye

5. Another Guy Is Bleeping You
He agrees to be in a NO SEX relationship but you are giving it to a dude out there. He pretends he's not aware but the moment he marks register, he waves to you. Hehehe

6. Ladies Are NOT To Be Relied On
I grew up with the mentality that of "never invest so much on ladies" and I'm pretty sure I'm NOT the only one who grew up with this mentality. You show you true love, she she dumps you; you don't show her love,, she dumps you. It's just one of the reasons why guys zoom off as so as they get what they want

7. You Aint Worth The Unnecessary Stress
You have been playing hard to get since the time of Soddom and Gommarah and you haven't been giving him the attention he needed but the funniest thing is that, it's so disappointing when we get to see the calibre that the calibre of guys you are giving attention to are way beneath us. When just try to mark our own register and wave goodbye

8. Revenge
When look back and remember the emotional trauma ladies have cost us, sometimes we derive joy in taking revenge on the good hearted ones that come our way.

9. You Are Taking Him For Granted
No guy likes to be taken for granted you know ? He has tried his best to gain your love but you been treating him like a bag of Dangote cement. He's most likely to wave to you as soon as he finds his way into your pant

10. You Demand So Much

Lemme share a secret ladies don't know about us. Guys do not really go crazy about ladies who give them money but ladies who can help them him cut down expenditure and help them save more than they spend. Guy however cherish and respect ladies who can reject money offered to them. When a guy has to beg you to please ask him for anything you need cos he knows you are NOT the asking type, I can assure you that he will hold firmly onto you. That aside, when you demand so much, you lose your value

Written by Tosyne2much

Source: http://tosyne2much..com/2015/02/reasons-why-guys-dump-ladies-after.html

mizkeleke:
Hmmmmm I can't say yes to a guy who might hurt me if he gets angry......Eg: u throwing me outa ur helicopter if ah say no

Twaci:
He is married. I don't do married men.

diddydiva:
my shout out goes to my Nl friends

I love u all!!!


And to that special one.

I looked through the sea , through the land, I can't find someone like you.
I looked into the sun it's cold but into your eyes I find warmth
your smile so bright, it can light a dark cathedral
on your shoulder I wish to lay forever
your scent I wish to inhale till ever
hold me closer my love
never let me go my joy.
cos until my last breath I will love u



I Love U

Fabdedon:
Tosyne2much no vex ehh.. I dont tire to de tell you nice post everytime.. Just know that..
If perfect what you search you know i never ask you to change..your write ups are just amazing..!!!!

mizkeleke:
Emmmm I don't c u on one knee with a ring

Dotwillis1:
'of dhiz nature'

immortalvoices:
Tonsyne2much..... No one writes it better than him

Kudos

ireneonyy:
Tosyne2much hope say I nor be like this

Dotwillis1:
I tink u v dropd a post of dhiz nature once before....


... 'K and whatever'....men, diz 2 responses sucks

ITbomb:
Another annoying list that tosyne2much create to make me delete him

hahahahahahha

oyah delete me nahhhh

I'm dropping this cos it would be an eye opener for the ladies who have poor communication skill but would never admit it. Majority of them are most likely to blame it on their mood or because they are not into you (if I hear)


Lemme quickly chip in this. Guys please never force any lady to chat with you and never hesitate to DELETE any lady that is always waiting for you to message her first. More so, someone who values and cherish you will always check on you unconditionally

Lemme keep the ball rolling

Annoying Things Ladies Do That Kills Chat Which Makes Us Delete Them

Note: I'm NOT trying to say the use of abbreviations is forbidden in an online chat

Let me start

1. The use Kkk

I have made a little research and I have come to conclusion that 100% of guys detest it with passion. I personally place ladies who reply with the use of "kk" on probation and as soon as they are not ready to change. DELETE

2. BIS About To Finish
I personally detest seeing this kind of updates so as my fellow guys too. My respect and reverence for a lady head on diminishing return as soon as i see such updates

3. Sending Gospel Messages To Claim What They Are Not
I once had a classmate who used to send godly messages frequently. The annoying thing is that the same lady was always uploading pictures of different guys expressing her love for them

4. Post Me First
I guess this should come second. An average Nigerian would definitely be waiting for you to message her first else, she might remain in you list till the end of time without thinking you exist.

5. You Are A Guy So You Should Lead The Chat
I'm not trying to say this is bad but it shouldn't happen every time. Since chat should be a two sided thing, the flow shouldn't always come from one side

6. I Have No Gist
Most ladies don't know how to keep a convo running because they aint innovative. You always have nothing to talk about. Let's have a gist of how your day went, you just can't give a summary of it. It's one of those things that makes us delete them

7. The use of "Same"
When you can take your own time to type a full sentence, only for someone to give a "one-word" as reply. I mean what kind of laziness is that ? Let's assume you reply " my night was worthwhile and I thank God for seeing the light of a new day" and you inquired about her night and you got the reply " Same" isn't that annoying ?

8. Chatting With Us In Time Of Need
When some ladies in your list message you, without reading the message you already know It it's either they need you to render help or financial assistance



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