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Its quite possible the wife is not satisfied with her treatment and the side effects of the drugs, but doesnt know how to go about asking for a different regimen.

geeez: How I wished NL could do that too?

Thats a fantasy.

So what are they supposed to do then?

Didnt read the write up, however i thought public schools are open to all.

Men full ground na, even on nl there are plenty of males who say they're in love with her.

I dont see why she should have any problem getting a man, unless she's picky.

But its ok to form impression based on a story or stories if its tpia, right?

Hospital is where you go to get better after displaying your madness, not vice versa.

mysticgal: the man looks flirty,and the problem is he's handsome

Is there a shortage of handsome men in your area?

I dont see why his looks are a big deal.

I nor do is i nor do, what concerns handsome with that decision.

So if you see spanish, you go faint?

dayokanu: 1. The wife never admitted she is mentally sick Its the Chime side thats pushing the mental illness story probably to justify the detention.

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The wife agreed she had a nervous breakdown.

She also agreed she's been seeing doctors for treatment, although she says she now wants the doctors changed.

As per whether the governor caused the mental health issues in question ( as some people have been claiming), remains to be seen.

stitcheD: They got married after he became governor and she knew he is a womaniser. Infact that is the root cause of her insanity.

Ok, as per the womanizing, i saw a rejoinder where the governor denied the stories, so what exactly is the truth here?

Lady Excellency: Can you imagine the reason stated for sending Mrs Chime to her paternal home is her request for total rehabilitation overseas?

Gov. Chime is trying to intimidate her into succumbing to his tricks.

Insanity my foot.

Wait, that wasnt his reason for sending her to her parents though.

Well, when i say i appreciate not being a man ( even with menstruation and any other blah), some people say i'm pretending.

What on earth could be more irritating than being obligated to go perform stud service on women when you'd rather be doing something else, eg you are tired or whatever, maybe you want to kick back and watch a movie, but you must of necessity go and start servicing various women so they dont raise the alarm that you're either impotent or dont like them/their town/tribe.

Or traditionalists insisting you must not have just one wife and using relatives to scatter your peace or brain.

That is the lot of the nigerian man, naturally speaking.

anyone who knows what's actually going on, should please update the public.

or is this a typical marital conflict scenario where various stories keep flying around and its all he said she said, thus making a mockery of the hearers.

Seems no one is even sure whats happening, the only person who is directing matters is the wife in question, the governor himself seems at odds on what exactly to do.

If this is a case of mental instability then of course the lady should be attended to by a team of doctors. Either at home or in the hospital, doesnt matter.

maybe this will lead to increased funding for the mental health field in nigeria, people have been mentioning the challenges for long.

firstly, all parties need to agree mental health issues are involved in the matter.

secondly, your statement does not explain why rich nigerians still have abusive marriages.



as per #1, since all parties involved, including the complainant, agree mental health issues are a factor, then the topic should address that as well.

james 3

5 the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark.

6 The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.

7 All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and sea creatures are being tamed and have been tamed by mankind, 8 but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.

onila: the British legend Elton John asked her out

good one.

btw, is your mum white or something?

anyway, all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God, dear.

your grandmas nko, have you checked that side?

thought you were raining curses on your stepmothers the other time.

didnt you say you had plenty of stepmothers seeing as your dad was a billionaire?

africa is not a country regardless of those who want to pretend it is, cultures differ, lets keep that in mind when posting on topics.

we are all negroes doesnt mean we are all identical even if it looks that way to outsiders.

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Nashville: Sorry but there is no justification for a woman in her mid-fifties to have a sugar boy. Even if her husband were in his sixties, his d*ck may not be like it used to be; so she would still need sugar boys anyway.

I agree with you a large age difference is not ideal, but there is no one size fits all marriage. This 46 yr old man may enjoy another 40 years of good health - who knows? Who knows who will die or go senile first.

Besides it took him all these years to find a wife, he finally finds one and you are suggesting he should drop her because of age. His next relationship may be at age 60.

you can yab o, see yabbing

ona means way, its use in a name should imply an esoteric/metaphysical association.

like ifa, ogun, etc, names.

awo,

Well, didnt read the write up but not everyone wants to marry.

And sometimes, when you see the attendant troubles that come with some decisions, you can understand why many prefer to remain single.

Half baked.

Her makeup does.

"In sin did our mothers conceive us".


We cant change how we were conceived but we can change our orientation.
Maybe its men who have an excessive desire for female presence and like being around women all the time who venture into polygamy for other reasons beside occultic and cultural ones?Dunno. Lord have mercy sha.

The other day i saw a satire where a man was angrily contemplating how he wanted some alone time but instead had to go round his numerous concubines and wives and have sex with them even though he wasnt always in the mood.

Not doing so would result in the wives and concubines becoming angry, complaining of neglect on his part, and besides, their relatives and kinsmen were watching to make sure the women in question produced pregnancies and children or else the deal would be off for the communities so joined.

So the man had to giddy up somehow and do the needful to the waiting women, its a wonder he even had time to attend to other matters of state, maybe he had assistants or advisers do that for him.

ladionline: ALAKA is about 3 variants: aka (vault) as found in 'awor re mbe l'aka' and aka 2 means swinging fruit as in 'agba bi...' (swinging like) aka or pluck-able. Thus Alaka means vault owner, revolver or plucker. ALAKIJA means 'strong in battle'. ATANDA means a child that has to be conceived in a subtle way for his value, or a 'child [product] of light.' APEKE means one that is cater to by crowd. ABAYOMI means i would have been rejoiced upon. The collection is okay.

Apeke should be call to cherish, not so?

One of those lovey dovey yoruba names i should think.

macof: good point when u consider Balogun and Abisogun

Its not news to anyone who knows yoruba.

Abayomi is ota iba yo mi sugbon Oloun ni o je.

One of the longest yoruba names ever.

Nobody will learn anything from it.


People will insist there is nothing wrong with married men playing the field.

Wont a child be confused if they cant tell which one is their own mother among a number of women?

Just wondering.

He could have gone with an older lady but its up to him.

owolabifunke14: Giant of Africa hired a Togolese! #sad

owolabifunke14: ok he was nationalised #teamtheworldisaglobalvillage

check his name dear.