₦airaland Forum

EPOMA:
All this Godswill servants, the picture says 2006

True, it means it was constructed under Victor Attah the previous governor .

That poster is probably just a hired mercenary id.

not sure. . . . . hope I wasn't picked up from a baby farm. . . . . . . . . .

perryy:
My baby is about three weeks and my wife bleeped me last night. Hope nothing will happen?

wait for some years before having sex again, this one time can pass. . . . .. . . . . .

nellyme:
A friend of mine just put to bed a bouncing baby boy. I went visiting and we got to discuss a lot of things. She told me a lot of things...(I'm keeping ma mouth shut)....what got me concerned was that she said she had intercourse with the husband cos he insisted. At first I was shock but I feigned ignorant of that...when I left her I got to do a lot of research and decided to share it here cos I think der might be people in similar situation.
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Here are some questions I considered:
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Is a mother able to have intercourse with her husband while she is still nursing her baby?
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What effect does the mother's milk have on the child if she has intercourse while she is breast feeding?
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How long should she wait after birth before she can have relations with her husband?
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***i also heard somewhere that a woman doesn't dare give milk to her child once she has begun to have sexual relations. If she does it, the child will become sick and even die***
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The answer I was able to deduct from my research was : "Yes, a mother is able to have intercourse with her husband while she still nurses her baby, providing they wait for a few weeks after birth until her organs are back to normal."
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REASONS:
1. It takes from 4 to 6 weeks after birth for a woman's uterus to return to its normal state. There is a red discharge from the uterus after the baby is born which is called the lochia. It lasts about two weeks and tends to flow most when the mother is nursing her baby. Later the lochia becomes a lighter colour and then it finally stops.
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2. The father's sperm cannot enter into the milk and cause the baby to get sick.
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MY ADVICE:
The best way a father should show his love to his child is to love the baby's mother. Mothers Please don't abstain from sex totally during breast feeding because it pushes the impatient husbands to infidelity and fathers do not rush your wives, give them time to heal.
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CLOSING REMARK:
It is even true that mothers who breast-feed their babies are more interested in returning to active intercourse with their husbands as soon as possible after birth. They want to express the love and gratitude which they have in their hearts for the father of their child.
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Cheers!!!
I rest my case
But what do you think

you asked the questions and also provided yourself answers.

what do you want us to think?

the family that preys was good, likewise I can do bad all by myself.

confessions of a marriage counselor was interesting in its own way though the plot was corny somewhat. There is no way that man could have seduced the lead character like that, imo. Something would have to be wrong somewhere.

shymmexx and his cohorts will never be found on this type of thread.

emmysoftyou:
Urge is a strong thing that demand urgent need for mankind..
So if situation like this occurrs,
What do we do..
This is a question that demand urgent constructive answer
with wisdoms and knowledge....

After childbirth how long can you wait before commencing on sexual activities again

Let your brain tell you what you should do.

Anyway, how will this law affect females who are (intended to be) human trafficked.


Is it just my imagination or are Nigerian lawmakers spending a lot of time discussing sex?

Here we go again with the oversharing.

Aka who asked you.

Cherlene:
Good morning

Hmmm, here to VIEW COMMENTS!!

Cherlene

Its afternoon where I am.

And you can view comments without informing us.

^^ you forgot this lady:

[img]http://fg2bh.files./2009/09/fg2bh-hope-olaide-wilson.png[/img]

Was someone asking if she resembles him?

Actually, there's plenty of nobility in humility

Prexios, you can check this thread

Afi rent a husband nah,

Shymm3x:
I don't want the Egba blood in me to start kiriji war with the Ijebu blood in me.

No, you don't want that.

Shymm3x:
Lmao @ Igbos. What's there to compete with Igbos?

Perhaps the op is Igbo

what view am I supposed to have?

lashunda:
I have been seeking a Nigerian man for marriage....im SOOOO attracted to Nigerian men BUT all the ones here are already married.

not true.

i can guarantee this guy whose user id isnt coming to mind, is not married.

and many more like him.

the yellow guy who is a programmer or coder?

StepTwo:
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gbozaaaaa.....Bros, this ur question be like my bullet.

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Me I no sabi oo, na read i follow you d read d article oo.

you for google am.

MrTeymee:
This thread is quite irrelevant if u ask me

true that.

Tdhforreal:
Somalians Naaa, highly doubtful mate!

are you saying there are no Ijebus in Somalia?

Ijebu are the greatest. Fact!!!

you know what they say: oun a ni lan gbe laruge!

If you dont praise yourself, who will praise you?

who ate the meat. . . . . . . . . .

oh, wow.

the op must be one of the types "debating" university and poly.

if i told you, it would no longer be a secret, not so?

anyway, nobody.

ok, when the op's pictures are completed, let us know.

StepTwo:
the point here is that He prays with His eyes open, unlike other Muslims.

do Muslims pray with eyes closed?

the ones in somalia should give a shout out?