₦airaland Forum

Jeezuzpick:
I have a personal friend who said he lost two nieces in that school.

Who dafuq's lyin?

ahnie:
Hers is even good....
Me and my husband doesn't even remember our birthdays,our anniversary's
Infact we stopped wishing each other happy birthday years ago....and we're cool with it.
It's not a do or die thing!

MelesZenawi:
Nwoke

Enwerom efe gi..

Agwago m gi ugboro ugboro, that I will personally help you chota nna gi na Bauchi..

Afuru m na Ichoghi Ima ife

StreetFight:
Tell us about your father who is not a coward. Is your father qualified to be Osinbajo's gateman?

valarmorghulis:
Na omo onile o, back of trade fair very close to my house

Gforce2019:
Uniben is a school where even some student pastors are also participating in cultism.
Cults in uniben are run as if the organization are officially recognized. As you are filling your student form so also you will be filling your cultism form...you can't stay neutral in uniben, You must belong to one cult or another

Jayoficial:
This hell hole.... That picture na scam ohhh

franchasng:
Pocoh.antas
Tripitaka
Sisis.ioge

Mariangeles:
Your long useless epistle still does not change the fact that child exploitation and abuse by adults is wrong.
Every child deserves to be HAPPY and FEEL SECURED.
No child deserve to live in unnecessary fear of the unknown.
That your mother did it to you does not make it right.
Jesus Christ condemned abuse of children in the bible.
He says it were better the abuser's neck be tied to a stone and drowned than cause a child to be offended. ( IT IS DANGEROUS TO OFFEND A CHILD'S SPIRIT)

Keemsleek005:
Abi, damn only one man they lash women like these, bought 2 way ticket bla bla, abegi yes some men are irresponsible but dont distroy or give the already dented marriage institution more bad names.

Hmmmm...OP had some good points here and there but majority were words in the dark...you never had such experience, simple. You know what they say about being more knowledgeable about the comforts of shoes if well tried?

The aunty had kids in the house but still managed to have a maggot filled kitchen, yet she took it upon herself to teach the new entrant how to clean. That's the basis of everything else, why didnt she teach her own kids this before the new girl arrived?

franchasng:
Cc: Tripitaka


First you are right, the poster of that first thread is a stubborn girl, maybe due to one-sided parenting for blatantly refusing to do the first task given to her by her host Aunt. I agree with that.


But then, that cannot take away the fact that the Aunt is not a good person, just like majority of married Nigerian women when it comes to maltreating maids, helps, visiting in-laws, etc.


So I still stand my ground that majority of Nigerian women are bad towards maids, house helps, domestic staffs, in-laws and those below them economically and financially. There is nothing to argue about that.


Only very few married ladies are exception and if you go figure out, such ladies probably grew up in midst of guys or their husband have been fighting them about the issue.

PrimadonnaO:
Kindly clarify your main points @OP, because it would seem you're speaking from both sides of your mouth.

Did you say your mum mistreated her maids, too?

The girl in the initial story, yes she obviously lacked tact for refusing to clean the house when she was asked. But if we have to be objective here, would it have been so hard for them to treat her like a guest on the first day?

If her refusal to clean on day one was what set the tone for her maltreatment, then her aunt who's a pastor's wife is such an unforgiving person

The children of the house will always have more privileges than the non-biological children, but it doesn't have to spell ill treatment for those kids

So yes, even if kids aren't your biological children, an inability to love them and treat them with kindness and consideration is wickedness. It's not a natural phenomenon that should be sucked up.

google1:
Atlético are looking really solid defensively but I don’t think they can hold up for 90 mins

XhosaNostra:
I don't consider J. Cole & Kendrick, pretty boys. They're both scruffy.
Now Trey Songz is pretty.

Sweetpink:
Take your bitterness elsewhere!
Is she the only one who posts screenshots of other people's opinion that she agrees with or you just want cheap likes?
Mtchewwww!!!!!

AmazonHippolyta:
Chai !! This one enter ooo

donbachi:
Wicked man...see as him wan cut short d girl destiny.

DBestDoc:
You’re missing the whole point Op. It’s not about jealousy, the house or the achievements ( you said it yourself that they’re not poor people), it’s about your actions and inactions.

The reactions they pulled off is not because they’re not happy for you, they are just overwhelmed with shock and disappointment that you could spend almost one year achieving something so huge without giving any of them a clue whatsoever while still dinning, interacting and communicating with them on your WhatsApp group. Out of 5 siblings, not one of them is worthy to be your close buddy and gist partner, not even your mom?

You make them feel like they’re some sort of bad luck that you have to hide your success from. This may not be your intention but it’s exactly how you make them feel.

Moreover, you have the privilege of knowing almost all that’s going on with them but hide yours. I’d also keep away from someone like you. Far far away.

They wouldn’t be pissed if this came from a Stranger. As family and good siblings without underground rift , they felt you owed them some level of openness especially if they’ve always been open to you.

LilMissFavvy:
The wife is okay in Nigeria, he is the one who wishes to relocate, so he should be ready to shoulder the financial costs, if she assists him, fine. I do not understand your last paragraph, I don't know what you mean by ''it's the man's fault that the two women do not get along'', I never wrote that, so I don't know what you mean. Like I said earlier, you cannot force people to get along with others. If he has tried enough like he mentioned to make both women to settle their differences without success, isn't it time he let's his wife be?

LilMissFavvy:
That's why I said make money, enough money, tell her you will be able to afford a home, then see her reaction.

SmellingAnus:
All I can say is that may we not have such friends like you that will be waiting to bang our wives after our demise in the name of wanting to date her...

GraGra247:
That woman is a total senseless idiot. You have to make her see her error and if she refuses to change send her back to her father's house and get you a brand new girl very young and fresh blood.

made2fit:
Thank you. Thanks for understanding.