Faults and being prone to error is one of the things that define humanity. But dealing with it with the right attitude is what's important.

The wrong attitude - like some people do - is to recognize the attitude and continue with it or not bother to change it due to malicious desires or the carefree attitude and excuse of "everybody has faults".

But the right attitude is to recognize that fault and strive as much as possible to correct it; getting back up and continue to try if someone fails or relapses in it.

People are out there with their own faults; there's most likely something you wouldn't like if your present girl was replaced with a thousand different women. You'll probably find an area where she's lagging in character just as you yourself are lagging in perfect character to some extent.

So eliminating someone from your life - just because she has a MANAGEABLE/REPARABLE fault - is somewhat illogical or not ideal as a move.

Anger is not a good thing. it destroys things and its consequences can be very disastrous. There are numerous aspects or examples of life affairs that I could give in which if anger was to be applied, calamities will most likely follow.

What you must do now is to come together with her to identify this problem and try as much as you can - with all credible means within your capacity - to rid her of this problem. On that (the measures you're going to take), you should do your research. This is not a time to leave her. She needs your help; it's a time for you to help her.

But if after all efforts and no considerable changes have reflected, then you have to pick a choice.

Take her like that, knowing you're at risk of whatever fate has in store for you as a consequence of her anger OR you leave her to free yourself from whatever her problem could result to for you in future.

Take care son, and God guide you.


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Onyi22:
Hmmmm

Is it only "Hmmm" you're going to do?

Are you not going to commend the men that were given awards, blush over how successful they are and then use that chance to rant and condemn the "broke" boys on Nairaland like you regularly do?

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Yoruba say: Kokoro tin je efo, ara efo lowa.

"The pest that is eating and destroying the vegetables is located just around the vegetables" I don't know if I did a great job in interpreting it though.

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It's because of the inferior system and standard of our security systems and maybe even corruption in the administration that's making them fear the "comeback" of bandits.

If the systems were standard, an attack on them will score a considerable, powerful victory against them and if whatever is left of them decides to retaliate, they will be repelled and conquered as well until all the bandits meet their end.

Imagine if I run a company, one of my subordinates misbehaves and I'll have to be begging and imploring him to come to peace instead of taking strict actions. It means my power as the administrator of the company has waned niyen...

By the way, Gumi should - for the sake of his image as an Islamic Cleric - watch how he involves or affiliates with government before they stain his image with their dirt.

like they did to Osinbajo.

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I think he makes f**king sense.

My wisdom is not that great though so I could be wrong.

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But why kill her? Why the shooting? Any report?

we aren't living in a video game, are we?

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donbachi:
He said,i should tell u "he never for once,felt offended".

Ahn Ahn...

Oga, with all due respect; you can lie!!!



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Serious! It's quite risky to be issuing blames though.

Perhaps the officials did what they had to do to stick to necessary and legal protocols.

God console the bereaved.


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Were ni a lot of people inside this country.

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But why?

Or are we living in a video game??

Why the shooting? Any report?

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I guess the only reason why terrorism also thrives under this Buhari Administration is because none of Buhari's children is affected, according to the logic of Brother El Rufai.

Nigerian politics is a dirty game. instead of addressing the point with logic and sincerity, they will result to seizing the opportunity to blackmail one another.


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Thank you very much for your comment sir.

I don't think there can be a definite overall answer for this. I think it depends on different factors

- The nature of the matter to be discussed: Perhaps the wife is not in best position in knowledge and experience to answer. But it may still be good to tell her on the basis of love and sharing your problems with the one you love. You never know what support she could give you out of love. Love is powerful.

Or it could be about something dangerous for the wife to know. Like if the man's side chick ran away with his money or possesion. He definitely wouldn't wanna tell his wife cause that'll mean telling her about the side chick.

- Another factor is the kind of woman the wife is. If she's proven to be intelligent, wise and useful in solving problems, then he'll likely tell her. If she's proven to be a problem agravator, then she's a no go area.

- Another factor COULD be because of a mentality the husband grew up with that women are only all about luxury and cannot provide profound insight and solutions to problems. Or that they're only for breeding children and taking care of the house.

And so on...

So it depends on different factors....


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Have you heard of Maryam Sanda? that stabbed her husband to death over an issue?

I'm not sure who's wrong or right in the "issue" but one thing's for sure; the introduction of knife and such degree of violence into the "issue" was extreme and eventually bred irreparable catastrophe.

Yorubas say "an elder that falls into a pit will make other people learn from such calamity"

A word is enough for the wise.



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For as long as humanity will not go through the PROPER means to navigate the affairs of their life, they will continue to fall in calamities as a consequence of them not going through the proper channel.

Now in your case, what's proper??

A man sees a woman he likes, they court each other, finding out about each other's qualities and see if they are fine with them.

They must ask each other important questions and know all what's vital to be known about their prospective partner.

If they are fine with each other, AND they are now ready for the next step, they now introduce the family members.

The family members, especially the elders, will use their wisdom to assess the candidate to see if there's something that their son or daughter could have missed from the candidate as a result of them being blinded by love or because of inexperience and naivety.

Another importance of introducing the family members is that it sets everything in motion with a serious impression and outlook.

for example, if a man toasts a woman and tells him he wants to marry her, they've courted and the woman likes him, if she tells him to come see her family, this will instill the impression of seriousness in him or will expose his intentions. If he has sinister motives in mind and isn't serious about marrying the girl, it'll reflect in the way he responds to that request.

Now if all the family members are involved and matters have been settled, they now marry each other. then they will feel at ease sharing their assets or possessions (sex, money, properties) with each other cause of the bond that has now binded them together.

That's the proper channel. But humanity will go through improper channels and rush things with themselves these days, giving out their possessions to people that have not proven to worth it yet and they will start crying when the consequences arrives.

This proper channel may not guarantee that there'll be no problems 100 percent of the time but its waaay more credible and safe than not doing it.

And the wisdom in what I've said reflects in your life already. Just for you to know I'm telling the truth.

You gave out yourself to your first man, had two children with him and now he's not ready to marry you. You have now become a single mother, striving to foot all the responsibilities all because you gave yourself and your intimate commitments away too early to someone who doesn't deserve it.

Let this serve as a lesson for you. Don't let love or emotions blind you. If you meet a man that's not showing any commitment to you and is asking things from you too early and is seeming to hide some vital information you should know from you, jilt him and Block him!!!

If you don't heed daddy's advice (meaning me) And you get hurt, don't come and cry to daddy (me) about it.

God guide and help you to do things properly oo..







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Eleribu!!! Go and be having the sex in jail

By the way, OP, I don't mean to be biased oo. But is it that it's only stories that feature atrocities of men that you love carrying?

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saphiere:
Jesus came in human form and he is not a male.

What your you say about "Man shall not live by bread alone"? Was it males alone he was referring to?

Okay, in all those occasions when he was called SON of man, I guess the "son" was also a general son? All the places he was referred to as boy or man was also in general sense?

Someone came to this earth, was born a boy, bred as a boy, grew up into a man, had appearance of a man, was called a man, most likely had sexual/excretion organs of a man and yet he was not a man?

okay whatever you say oo!!!

By the way, if we leave Jesus out, what about the others I mentioned? They're also whores?

There were two creatures of different genders in the garden. The devil wanted to mislead the two. He studied them, did his research and he concluded that the female gender is the one who has, not only the stronger inclination to heed his call, but also the stronger capacity to entice and mislead the other.

If the devil found such potential in them, abeg, why I no go fear them?

PS: I'm not saying women are devils and men are saints. If you don't get the point, don't bother.

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saphiere:
Jesus is not a man point of correction. God is neither a male or female.

Acts 2:22, NIV: "Fellow Israelites, listen to this: Jesus
of Nazareth was a man accredited by God to you by
miracles, wonders and signs, which God did among you
through him, as you yourselves know."

Abeg, wetin bible call am for there?

I know you Christians believe he is God who was made flesh to come and die for sins of humanity. So still, according to that belief, during that time when he was made "flesh", he lived and walked this earth as a "man" obviously.

By the way, even if we remove Jesus, the rest nko?

Abi no be only Jesus dey list nah.

Even though it may have its effect, hardly will all these be able to rid of off the cast wey he don cast.

God no go shame us oo




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As a foreigner, I won't comment on this. Just acknowledging receipt

Sure, you won't comment on it.... Now!

But you will use it as a point when next Nigerians and South Africans are having their next online wars....

Or is that not it?


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Men are whores?!!

I'm not tryna upset you in anyway but since you said this, are you ready to affirm that your father, your uncles, your grandfather, all the elders in your family, Jesus, Moses and so on are all whores??!!!


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Man was indeed created weak cause he finds it difficult to control his desires.

And whosoever doesn't strive to control his desires and put them in check, will most likely continue to perpetrate atrocities.

It's not today that satisfaction of urges has been bringing down great men yet the numbers continue to rise and rise.

If you want to succeed and maintain that success, guard your tongue and your private parts and may God help you.

see as he just use him preek spoil him image.


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Condolences to their family.

From God we come and to him, we shall return.


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