CaveAdullam: Women's desire for "chaotic men" is an evolutionary instinct that helps them determine a man that can protect and provide for them and the children.
Women are the weaker sex, so they constantly need a man to be bounded around them. (If you notice carefully, since the advent of feminism and "what a man can do, a woman can do it better", the patriarchy pillar around them has collapsed and you can see that every generation produces sets of more damaged women than the previous). Because no virile figure to guard them.
That evolutionary instinct makes them gravitate towards bad boys and jerks at their youthful age. They play. They have sex. They have fun. They have party. Meanwhile, they ought to use that stage and age to lock down a man who has a capacity to provide and protect even though he lacks the physique and destructive character of Brock Lesnar.
Women who openly forment chaos in their relationship, brewing useless drama is one that either is either a h0e or lack a strong father figure that exposes her to the peurile way of the street.
Looking for drama, quarrel, and war rather than praying for the consistent peace of the union reeks of extreme foolishness which sits on a low IQ bench + damaged enough to even be considered as a mate.
That's why there's always an emphasis for men to get married to virgin women only + or women that have a strong father figure in their life.
Those other ones that have found glamour in the street are only fit for sexual recreational purposes because they are the ones that always seek for chaos + they are baggages of worst sexual and emotional experiences.
A woman is the resting nest for a man. That's why she's softer + tender + finer than the man. You don't expect a man to fight battles outside and still come back home to repeat same with a person lower than him and even at that, no ROI for engaging in such drama.
This is also why men must be assertive too. Because it helps to calibrate the hubris of women around them without being domineering, a talkative, or fighter. Being assertive and dominant will send signals to her that you are aware of her drama + won't participate in it + if care is not taken, she will be thrown outside.
APOPTOSIS: Number one for a man na Peace of Mind. Every other thing na secondary. IF you get peace of mind and hardworking woman na bumper package be that. A man will never prioritize madness and nagging over his sanity just because the woman is wealthy especially when the man is very hardworking.
It's easier for a male medical doctor to marry a receptionist, than a female doctor marrying a male receptionist. Not because the male doctor is afraid but he wants mental sanity and not nuclear wars. And not because the receptionist won't give issues, but the receptionist would always look up to her husband in admiration and respect. Men crave for respect & peace.
I get baffled when I read articles and comments about how guys loses their hard earned resources to some golddigging ladies.
See, there are super rich ladies out there who'll spend dirty on well orientated guys. Much isn't needed, just look good, speak well and make sure to have a great sense of humor.
I live inside Westend Estate in Ikota Lekki, a lady rented the apartment for me. I met her as a Dispatch Rider.
Freshtruth: Jurgen kloop is the biggest problem until he is sack Liverpool will keep loosing. In xabi Alonso we trust the owners should go all out for him. Jurgen kloop you have over stayed ur welcome enough is enough
don't even know what you are saying.......... Because other teams are there to play abi. This is not farmers League.
There is nothing wrong in deciding you cannot marry people in certain professions, after all, some men will tell you they cannot marry actresses or bankers or even lawyers.
The real issue here is that she was wasting her time and his time, dating someone she had no plans to marry.
Bodmum: What was she doing in hotel? These commercial se* workers self. Rip to the dead but its a joyful thing to die in an active service. 3 men arrested in connection with her death, hope its not 3some gone wrong. Rip. for those of you quoting me, remember police will first investigate what brought her to the hotel, what's her mission there.
........ Do you even know the meaning of hotel..... Every one that goes to hotel is a prostitute. .. illiterate
Fourwinds: Yes .. They had a plan .the money they were expecting was never theirs and they can not lay claim to it..so why will thek man sell his only means of feeding the family to wait for a promise in the sky...wisdom matters in decision making
.... It's called gamble. Ask a he richest men on the he world, at one point you gat take that decision,...... Left or right...... One mistake can ruin you.
Fourwinds: That guy you quoted is right...he trashed the problem intelligently.... You don't throw away water in a bucket because it is cloudy and you are expecting rainfall...allow the rain to fall first before emptying the bucket for another water...it is an African proverb
......... Want to ask you, do you think everyone does not plan, if it works out for you doesn't mean it will for me, at least you could see they had a plan.
Bluezy13: Poor planning... You shouldn't have counted your eggs before they hatched by planning on money that you were yet to get as if it was already in your hand.
You and your wife need a physical councilor because it is obvious she reasons as you do and it is never healthy for a family. You never mentioned reaching out to a family member for assistance; or have you tried ?
Toktee: If it's not poverty that eroded your family why will you be billing a guy as if he is your parents? What ur papa and mama cannot do for you... you expect ur mam to do for you as if he is responsible for backwardness of your family... Laziness is what send many of ur gender into prostitution.. Lazy breed...... you want every good thing from a man and the only thing you can offer is one violated hole that's not even safe.
....... She's an idiot, if you see ladies that have things to offer, they don't brag. Bastard's, the only thing they have to over is their hole, which they never created.
Firstcitizen: In as much as bragging is a distastful act. I disagree with Okon. To get a woman, a man puts in a lot of hard work, to get a man all a woman does is to look attractive. Women will size a man up, check if he can provide emotional and financial security etc but men hardly do same.
Like he said women have a choice. Women are choosers and men are chasers. The one that puts in a lot of work and succeeds should be the one to brag.......... although childish
Mineralzz: Hello everyone. Am an active member on this forum, I've have my main account but I wish to remain anonymous, i just want to hide my identity and i will deactivate this account as soon as I get a solution. I'm so heartbroken right now
I thought my fiancée was different from every other guys, despite his gentle and innocent face I never knew he was a liar and a cheat
He's fond of connecting his laptop to his smart TV (65 inches). What displays on the laptop automatically displays on the smart TV screen. See what happened, he went downstairs to pickup something, So I wanted to see a movie on Netflix, while I was looking for a suitable movie to watch, a message popped up from Facebook and it stated "Whr are U? Check ur phone...6 missed calls "
At first, I wasn't triggered to open the msg but what drew my attention was the "cry emoji". When I opened the msg my heart melted, I was crying . Their secret affair has been going on since April last year. A married woman with 2 kids, I checked her profile I saw her kids and husband photos everywhere, she has visited my fiance at home several times, I saw lot of romantic messages.
I videoed their chat conversations as evidence, thank goodness his TV screen is wide enough for the blind to see. The moment he came inside he noticed my mood has changed, he was smart enough to know I opened his msg. He's started begging me, he said he can explain. Explain what?
Am on my way home now feeling devastated, heartbroken and sad . I plan to upload the video on Facebook and tag all the woman's friends until her husband sees it. I will also send the video to instablog, Linda ikeji.. Honestly I feel dejected and heartbroken. Help I don't know what to do .
............ Your last paragraph states it all..... You are pathetic,
Pick up few cloths and leave the house, and gain your sanity. If you die today she would still live her life and Bleep another niggar. Your daughter will understand..... Make investment for your daughter not your girl friend, which is not your wife.
matthew41: A lot of people are running after virgin simply because of tightness of the vagina. I assure you that’s going to expire after the first child and you’ll have to run after another virgin girl like an Alhaji.
..... God bless you, he doesn't know what he is saying, when a child talks you will know.
Iniobong34: These is one of the disadvntges of tellin the truth because they will use it against u. Bro trust her my opinion tho. I prefer her type if u ask me lemme not go far
....... What if the girl didn't tell him, am not sure he will post this
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City Vs Manchester United (1 - 2) On 15th December 2024 by Trogge: 11:38pm On Dec 15, 2024
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