FrancisTony:

No one else could have said it better. Dayuuuuum!!!

As a fellow man, I vehemently concur, endorsed, cosigned and dusted.

THREAD CLOSED

always needing to leave in a statement of being a man eh? Something tells me you are even beginning to doubt your sex

the world has become so full of sh!t i might soon build a bunker to hide from it...or even, i think i might join ISIS.some crazy sh!t!

PreciousBro:


Emphasis ? How ? .... I don't think you've been reading the prior posts, if you have you would have seen where I'm coming from, opinion should be backed by a valid and reliable institution/school of thought. If your opinion is born out of nothing but just an individual perspective then it is null.

Besides she started with the whole bible quoting,and i just reciprocated. I maintain if this argument is not from a religious background then it is better not discussed.

well i hardly think God will disaprove of my individual thoughts or else he wouldnt give me the power of such.we may disagree on opinions make citations according to our beliefs but making such discriminatory remark is quite the extreem of it for a christian.And it is shuddering to think that we may not that be better than ISIS afterall.

PreciousBro:


I think it is self explanatory, non christians or should we say, people that don't believe in God or the teaching of christ...

Like the lady that initially asked where heaven is as though it doesn't exists.

am also a christian bro.i see you making emphasis on it.i feel its very inappropriate making such discriminations.we have enough as it is.lets just share our opinions instead.

PreciousBro:
Speaking from a religious point of view, doesn't this quote below defy it, or are we going to take the part of the scriptures that suits us and turn a blind eye to others ?




This is the same reason I initially said I don't argue with non believers ,which is why i ignored that first girl that quoted me ,even if it is quite clear she has the IQ of a puppa of a grass hopper by her lack of moral stand point ,she sarcastically made reference to my sisters and crack" in the bid to pass across a dud point that got her entangled in her own logic with the "1mbecile analogy of a woman marrying one ,and that she shouldn't submit to her man (because he is slow)...

She was the one that made reference with that example and still went on to stipulate that, intelligence should be the only determining factor. Now if someone is intelligent, shouldn't the person know that the intending spouse has enough intelligence to lead her(even though,she is more intelligent than spouse)and rule over her ?

could you elaborate on what you mean by non believers?

2CatWoman:


No I wasn't pregnant but that was the kind of extreme example that gives the pro-submissives HBP.

Now I come to think of it what has cooking got to do with being a submissive wife . I direct this question to the OP

you are hale and hearty and in a usual loungue i assume watching telemmundo while your husband is weeping up a meal.frankly i have no issues cooking for my woman but why the hell then did you paint that picture for if it has nothing to do with it? Your first comment has no correlation with the topic mrs catwoman or rather there was no motivation for it.Ok we get it he is the one submitting his ass.and with a smile too .

cococandy:


Why are you not shuddering at the thought of men killing their wives? Or some women killing their husbands.

People thinking there is justification to take the life of someone they are married to is what's killing the marriage institution.

oh i am shuddering and there is no justification for murder so this is insanity then.you enter into marriage with someone, sane and the only means to get out is this.if you arnt secured in such union where else would you be.i mean for something to do you this bad to choose a death sentence or live imprisonment... frankly this sh!t is really frightening.turning a man into a murderous beast takes alot of determination.

maybe its better black men and men taking wives from home just have a child or two out of wedlock just like its envogue with the whitemen.you settle with there mother to have full responsibility for your children.then find a woman to cohabitate with if and when you want to.the institution of marriage is even dying anyway.give it a few more decades.you look at the comments and lack of grace of women here even, am shuddering at the thought of getting married.maybe its the fear that has made me not yet married.

Ewuro4:
who is calling my name ??

peharps indeed it is your name.

kaboninc:


This is where you come to lament your hatred towards men....hmmmmm

my broda dat one de wear am like 666 for fore-head.you would doubt any man has ever greased his d!ck on her punny.

"....you will force me to divorce your azzzzz..." for real? I blame the man.he must have taking some sh!t for so long that got to this level.there is no justification for that B!tch's public disgrace of herself, her children and husband before a crowd.i wont even take that in private.see how messed up the American society is.see how the wests and its social laws have turned married men to wimps.its no surprise why they lament now.hope any bipolar b!tch that makes any sorta excuse for this is married to a "Real man" like him.expecially now b!tches are dying like flies.

i think it should even be a rare privilage for any father.

FrancisTony:

Good for you!
I don't deal with "Nasty women"...

well actually i meant men who have had encounters with women.not women who've had encounters with women.

FrancisTony:

An eye for an eye, only leads to more blindness.

By the way, I don't see how verbal abuse equate Physical abuse.

you see eh, a man who has had encounters with women would never say he doesnt see how verbal/emotional abuse isnt as equally damaging as physical abuse.

So much has been said of feminism here its even becoming tiring the back and forth and all.But it is indeed a very serious issue much more than it has been giving attention in the world today.for sure all the self acclaimed married feminist expecially here dont practise their dark pursuits with their husbands(thats if they are married to men who still have their wits about them)but its nevertheless an ideology they truely truely believe in and would be eager to take advantage of if they sort out a weakness.this is where i fear for the sons, the little boys they give birth to eventually.the damage is done from the infancy of these vulnerable baby boys.the men are being breed out of them by their feminist mothers.its even worse with the single mothers without the presence of fathers in the lives of these growing boys.i guess finally the responsibility lies with we men to be more responsible fathers.a boy growing up without a father is never thesame.i hope statistics and researches done on that sentence is enough proof.

her husband in her discription is perfect, kind, the dream man.she was happy couldnt believe her luck snagging such a man.i mean she had to be.hard to find those kinda men these days.doubt i'll be half that good with my best efforts.she was fulfilld until she found some pre-wedding rump(emphasis on the pre) made as sex tapes deleted after he wedded her.common now this can be resolved.men have all sorts of sexual fantasies just that many dont have the courage to explore them; various societal conventions have supressed these fantasies and more so for our respect for the institution of marriage.its just the way we were wired its not easy fighting your nature you know.its just like fighting God.her man has been very lucky to enjoy those fantasies in his bachelorhood and he seem happy and now focused in his new union so why she go digging up dirt if she didnt have an idea of the man she married? After everything he'had been to her now he is monster like some women are trying to discribe here.this is wicked! And frankly if she quits this union like you women want, then she dont even deserve him.

seedord247:


Nah Felicia ... Get yourself a man before this inglorious celibacy turn you to a bipolar candidate

all feminists are bipolar.

brownie10:


Thank you!! But I cant pretend for six months!! Ive never been one to hide my true feelings! I havent told a soul apart from this nairaland. How do I tell? Who do I tell? Is this a good palatable story to hear!! I am even still struggling to believe what my eyes saw!! How can I tell ooo!

you are making alot of situation out of this.give yourself a break.all these emotions.he is this perfect yet a few past experiences before he wedded you is amounting to all this? I think he deserves better.

what now.you want a medal pinned to your breast for admitting you're a feminist?

offcourse you find all sorts of unwanted stuff in a bin.what where you rumagging in a bin for if its not in hope of finding something unpleasant.these are things he did before he married you and he deleted them after marriage.if your pre wedding past is dug up i hope they show you all up in white frock with angelic rings round your head.

how can death forget you when you are just a noose away.

EfemenaXY:


So, the man's got the problem, but the woman should be the one to address it?

And while she's "praying" for him, what will he be doing in the meantime?

they pray together na.arent they couples.its a collective problem now.just as it is with menstrual pain and labour.i think God also had one for men which is our mad testesterone levels.5minsmadness made some grand points i thought you appriciated.please dont let me beguile you with further details of what we suffer.you'll pity us really.

EfemenaXY:

Who is being tempted?

haba men offcourse

EfemenaXY:

Excuse me?
Why should the wives pray for the husbands?

so they can withstand temptations.

@5minsmadness nice one buddy.how we hate to be this perpetually h0rny with all these natural testeterone levels and all.but as they say you cant fight nature right? I think wives should know how important it is to pray for their husbands often.its not easy.

there is no shame.apparently acting his age.but its a disgrace on the brazillian FA.they wanted a poster boy just like England did with becham and rooney.placing captainship armband only the likes of CAFU wore on an irresponsible amature young rascal.

FrancisTony:
Buhahahahaha! It takes an hermaph to know how hermaphs behave.

Who's deceiving who? Some hidden secrets are opening one by one.

francis tony is a woman.why you guys breaking your heads over her sex.as for you francesca why dont you put down the masks and maybe even the "equality for women" placards and bare those curves for once.i know beyonce does.i just cant imagine a true feminist hiding behind a mask.its a shame really.maybe edwife was right.

an organized attack because of an innocent comment? This is another version of psycological abuse but a pity who speaks up for us poor men? Has there ever been a topic on psycological, emotional, verbal abuse men encounter daily both at home and without? I doubt.when often we know that these physical abuses on women are often reprisals of verbal abuse.for every one physical abuse on a woman, there are ten verbal, psycological and emotionally abused men who gulp in the pain as it weighs down on our poor hearts cause thats what we are supposd to do as men right?just as someone had mentiond earlier about a woman saying if a man cant take her abuse then he is not a man right?not justifyng any but do you know how equally damaging verbal,psycological abuse can be? there is no worse feeling i swear.you hit the bottle to recover a little.you walk with your tails tucked inbetween your legs, you walk face-down with the re-occourring thought, maybe she's right, maybe she's not maybe she's right maybe she's not...it is impairing.and you wonder why wives outlive their husbands by over 30years.well there you have it.i think we have been through many topics like this.@edwife if the tetesteron fueld aggression is not suggestive of the existence of true active feminists who have announced their presence to you then maybe you need to redefine your meaning of feminism.i suggest you lean more to the sentiments of their opinion if you want to keep your feisty friends.

the freedom of information law gives the press more access into events in government most expecially and with the growing awarness on social media we get to know and vent(atleast thats what we do for now)and with a more sophisticated and fair Electoral system they become couteous and accountable knowing any misconduct can marr their political ambitions.this is how it is in developed nations.honourable ben bruce for president.

edwife:


It's funny "when people" say it end here really?coco? And how does she know i don't do anything about it?So posting on NL is doing something about it? I do a lot by the way about it,and here on NL.Some young ladies who i will keep anonymous can attest to it yet i don't shout feminist everywhere.

When i talk about feminists my true opinion about it is that i don't see any here;That's just me and i was not even referring to Nairaland alone but Nigeria as a whole,as you can see i was referring to Freecoco post.

It's like someone saying married women are cheats,why should i feel offended when i am not?And suddenly it was no longer about marital rape but about feminists?really? Is what the topic is all about?

well why the hell you say there is no feminist in nairaland when we have a growing army.and your comment is not leaning heavily enough towards the known fact that men are beasts.thats why some of your sex want your head.the topic is on domestic violence and it should have just been that.but the op just veerd off into very false and debatable angle.

bukatyne:


Interesting

Dude, this is NL...,

What you think of women doesn't affect my world neither does what I think affect yours

the comment is not just about me.neither do i assume it affects your world.i laid that out as a bait and it drew a response. just wanted you to have a peak into a different world of men.peharps you might understand why thinks are the way they are.