Cutehector:
Lol we hav to pour u water

ah! Ciroc no de rain again.

A little validation never killed anyone you know.thanks for the big cake nairaland.its been an awesome experience.

freecocoa:
You didn't make any sense.

really? Well then the complexities of raising healthy children by two parents is on it self telling this days.how much more one growing up without one.no single parent child ever grows up same with a peer who has the presence of both parents expecially a father.if you are not married or cohabitating with the father, its still a man's sperm who i imagine would be alive and breathing with the knowlegde that he has a child with you. or maybe you would have the child through sperm donors.but the point is if you had a child from a man the old fashion way i suppose, what would be the picture with the father? The closest i could guess was that you performed some sexual cannibalism just like the praying mantis.

freecocoa:
And what makes you think the child won't his dad in the picture? Let's even assume he won't, what makes you so sure, he'd be miserable? So all the kids raised without their dads end up miserable?

if you'd grown up without one you would have known what it is like.and c'mon please swithrt you and i know you would rather the father trips down a staircase and snap his neck if his existence will cause any discomfiture or insecurity.atleast it will make an easier story.

freecocoa:
I definitely want children(the thing I'm sure of/want most in life)I don't have kids yet because I'm not as financially secured as I think reasonable enough to raise kids, now if marriage happens along the line, then fine but if not, I'll have my kids anyways.

It should be different for everyone really, don't let society decide for you, just do what will make you happy.

I don't believe everyone is meant/built for marriage(as we know it).

creating further misery for a child by raising him/her without a father cause its just about what you want that matters.children are not a pair gucci heels you decide to pick off the shelfs of shoperite when you feel bored.that child has a right to a normal life.same which you enjoyed.

@shymmy3x how did you particularly come to know them bad bois and good bois on that your list.i dont suppose you met them personally.gat to be from your perception of them in the media and movies i think but please Terrence Howard should be 10 times the bad boi eadris Elba is.

SeverusSnape:

Asylum... You're terribly funny!

The humble man went for tourism and vacation and you're talking about asylum. Jonathan is going no where, let Bubu do his worst.

atleast for once you lot provide that much needed formidable opposition.

if for nothing, well i always thought shina Rambo to be a pretty cool name.

Alero3Arubi:
I sent it to your email. Or would you rather I sent it here?

yea here.the email for my nairaland account is an old one.

Alero3Arubi:
Oh I want to meet you alright

can i have your number?

Alero3Arubi:

Troy sha. Frankly I always love the way you respond. With a lot of energy.

thanks.you have alot of it yourself.thought you didnt want to meet me.

CuteTj:
Will save my wife. My mum has done her own bit in life and we that we are just starting our own, she should give us a chance.. If you save your mum this time, won't she still die someday or even tomorrow sef??

For those saying mother... No be una dey talk say make dem old people give youth chance? And you guys don't want to relegate your parents. See hypocrisy!!!!

no mind them.yeye.who the hell takes $100million in this climes likely.your mother has lived a fulfilling life herself and produced you along.you have yet alot ahead to do for yourself and for children who you will have to be responsible for.i think my conscience will most be disturbed by the lose of my wife.well i better not love her that much.but really what the fvck is love?

$100million! I will already be thinking about the investment with that money.this doesnt need a second thought.frankly.

uchenna for igbo and Troy for english.

saw how the marriage riuned tiger woods.couldnt imagine such a talented golfer could be so dumb.who the fvck with that much fortune expose themselvs to that much danger.

FrancisTony:

Lol, I pity a woman that will marry this type.
Anyway, the emboldened got me thinking because according to you, it has to be reciprocated.

Are you saying, "As a man if your wife asks you not to attend something, try talking
it over with her but if she is adamant then don't go"?.

Lubbish!!

why dont you just stop dripping puccy juices all over the place and leaving sents, getting all us unsure of our game.men are on heat season.i beg you.

bukatyne:

lols
Have you read 'The Manipulated Man' by Esther Vilar
CC: Edwife, cococandy

quite a read i tell ya

OREMUSSANCTUS:

How is saraki a yoruba boi, stop bin fuulish

even if he is not yoruba,he is core fulani muslim still with a good touch of yoruba.so how much difference is he from any of our supposed "enemies".making him an ally is the most dumbest thing we've done as igbos.why do we always have to show our emotional stupidity.honestly we have lost so much exteem as a people.saraki played the usual politics based on his personal ambtions using us and we are foolishly doing his bidding.he is not an igbo apologist.we dont share boundry with kwara state and even worse he is a fulani/yoruba muslim.so its still one and thesame.when the dust settles, "everybody go take him own alignment"and we will be the loser in all these.

its a shame really.why would a man treat his side chick better than his wife.ofcourse there has to be reason for this behaviour.i think its better to find out than to start a world war lll.

not everyone had breastmilk you know.besides if everyman had a baby "friendly" peharps we wouldnt be so damn violent.the things cow milk has done...

julietchic:
Not every man. my man is not like that.....he is faithful.

but he is not jesus.you see thats the point.

something very fishy about that berifecrealties.ernie4life please verify that site.

but frankly why even get married.since the evil patriachy is more evident in marriage why dont you feminists advocate for the distruction of marriage and save us all the gory tales.hit the problem at its roots.am at lost really.

had to read it again and all it creates is the plain emotion of pity.not anger not embarrasment not loath nor shame but pity.that narrative was a cry of a man for help.plunged into unimaginable depths further again and again a quick bit at a time and probably clutching to the last strand of his identity.he is going to explode intime no doubt.but for the time being let him serve as an example to men who are married to these feminist women and in general as an example to the evil feminism represents to humanity.they say patriachy inhibits women but in its place is the looming darkness of feminism even the devil shudders in unbelief.

freecocoa:
Really? I'm yet to see the correlation between promiscuity and feminism, i'm a feminist that doesn't mean I want to share my partner with anyone neither do I want to be sleeping with other men.

It's just ignorant that people want to place their excesses on feminism.

so you dont want it all? How unselfish.

frankly, respect yourself mrs cococandy.

cococandy:


Respect yourself Mr Troy.

i dont have to take yourside always you know.this one time i'm for the op not making hasty emotional short term decisions she might wish eventually she never made.and yea how about you pursue more strongly the adoption of divorce courses in our school curricular.you seem to have a wonderful team behind you.

2good:
My question is why should a man marry a wife when most women are useless to him? A wife will mostly not contribute to rent, bills, demand money for her family upkeep, complain about taking care of her own child, complain about cooking etc.
Why on earth should a man marry a parasite? You can choose to live alone and do everything yourself at 20% of your current monthly expenditure and not have to tolerate a parasite you feed and take care of insult you all the time. African women want to play white without being ready to take care of 50% of financial responsibility. I pity them because they fail to see that divorce is now about 50% in Europe and America plus 70% of young men in the age group 20-35 are unmarried in the U.S. because women are just not worth it anymore. Keep on pushing for selfish idea and see your society decay like the west. Men don't need marriage unless there is an incentive for them to but women crave for marriage. Marriage is a scam for men.

its a growing trend in the west.i guess men are waking up.you read up stuffs like this and you wonder why you shouldnt save yourself all the troubles.and look up the comments by some of the silly hot headed women here.

edwife:


Beautiful and very objective.

i couldnt agree more.nice to read something sensible in all the hasty comments above.as always the pack of commenters above will never fail to disapoint with their teenage emotional acumen.beats me all their years on nairaland why dont they learn anything from the more experienced women? I guess its more to do with their rough inexcapable background.

any nairalander close to the op should please take him out.this is treason.

your son is the melancholic man lol.same goes with your husband i guess.inferred that from your refference to him here and your previous topic on your marriage.its not particularly that you are a bad parent or mum.it could be that he is reacting to a stressed environment.he possibly could sense the difficulties you and the father are facing with family responsibilities.definitly there will be an expression of those difficulties and people like that are naturally emotionally intelligent to read more than you are even letting out.just prod him on gently always with the assurance that things will get better whenever you both are in the best mental disposition.#Team melancholic men.they say we make the best lovers you know.

why the eagerness to comment on a very unclear and poorly narrated writeup.some sentences cant even be understood.the op either poorly exagerated the events or probably created a fictituous story.it will help if there were some verifications before all these flying emotions.you women commenting should be disapointed in yourselvs really