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[quote author=lola.luv]@Osheshe
I love you!

@Op
I don't subscribe to asking for money from a guy. However, a married woman told me that a stingy partner could be a huge problem in marriage.
When you love someone, it comes naturally to get them stuff and help out if need be.
When I was leaving my state to start working somewhere else, my unit in church credited me, arguing that they wanted to help in their own little way before I find my feet in my job.
Did I ask for the money? No!
But they did it out of love. That is how people who care about others act.

Same with my relationships. If I like seeing my man in khaki shorts and he doesn't have one, I don't ask him to buy, I get one for him. And when he sees a purse I'd like, he gets it for me.

I don't see a boyfriend as someone to pick up the tabs of my expenses.
And I thank God for that mentality because when I broke up with my ex, he forcefully sent me a large sum of money, saying I deserved it.

Months later, he called me and told me he wanted the money back. The money was a trap, meant to humiliate me and make me beg that I had spent it. And I was a student, with no means of income.

Guess what? The money was the way he sent it untouched and I sent it back promptly.
Guess who was embarassed? Guess who ended up begging and pleading?

As a woman, nothing like making your own dough jare. I cant explain the feeling the first time I got my salary alert. Salary for work that I did with my own hands.
He he he!![/quote]I can see you and osheshe abi what's the moniker are the working class without a companion and I can understand how you feel cos I have a few of your types in my office.
Guess the system makes it hard for you to get your social life up and running again just like your school days where you have a lot of time for other things.
Truth be say, we have both faulty males and females and it's left for one to set their query to suite their desired specs when searching.
Another truth is that if you miss it in school and NYSC days, it's really hard to know people in and out when your schedule becomes tight. If I didn't meet my babe in school, with the kinna girls we meet these days, I for stay single. I have a boss who couldn't marry. He was jus f.u.cking around until he met his secondary school babe from lagos unmarried and sharply married her. She is 37 and he's 40.
Your good man dey come IJN! AMIN *sprinkles her holy water while I smoke my holy piff*

I was passing by some churches today and I hear loud singing and dancing in "good friday" service and I only but wonder if they even know what they are commemorating.

Two words: SOBER REFLECTION

no dullin: Pls how much is yours?

And hope they would still be selling at 40

Srzly, many pple will never experience what true love is cos of their mentality.

Chomzy19: oburu ogwu omanre!!! Siddon there dey luk, u know no say ashewo dey marry b4 Gud girls? na so boys go dey deceive them

Marry?
To what end?
Smh
TIME lil one, TIME!
Thank God for my *Nigerian* gf #lucky me

Chomzy19: my dear shebi u get ur own toto, if u dey give ur guy who give u nothing nd I give my guy who pay my bills, wetin concern me, dt u do for free doesn't make u less of an ashewo dan the person doing for money. D key word in d word 'ashewo'being d opening of ur legs, if u say its because u re enjoying it, wetin come concern me

Pls pple let 19 year old chioma be
She will get to the 32 "I need a man" stage and maybe get wise.

bubbllie: In Naija especially. I mean a real kiss and not just a peck.

No naw.. haba
Even oyinbo no do

Hungry gehs! Time to stop flashing

I have two questions for you
1. Do you mean in 9ja?
2. Kiss like "french" or what?
Provide answers , then we know how to deal wif this
Cheers!!!

Les: Source

www.channelstv.com/home/2013/03/22/ncc-slashes-call-tariffs/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter

Good move by NCC

Hope sisters stop flashing now

eastOFwest: Most Nigerian girls would make these demands, but u don't have to pay out. Haven't heard of the word posting? They are trying their luck and most will still date you if you manage to navigate the demand stage.

Correct guy
For those complaining that the gehs will call u stingy, just know that such gehs will admire you for standing ur ground and @ that u are most likely gon get some.

A sensible family would make the positive out of this like getting patent for any "my oga at the top" brand..
I also doubt that this news is true

And they turned the silly thread into some tribal war..smh

Meanwhile, how will this ginger the akwa ibom people to protest akpabio's buying a car for tu-face from tax payers money?

@Op this is some serious if you are highly sexed but hey! You sure you got game on ur woman? She wouldn't even know how to resist you.

These days we ask for collateral when these gehs make em' demands without mincing words..

HectorTroy: Abi you knack your mama in law? Which one be the rest is history?

Do u want him to tell you how his oga at the middle reacted?

FOR ME, THEY SHOULD INCREASE THE PAY TO SAY 50K AND MAKE IT TWO YEARS WITH AN OPTION TO OPT OUT AFTER A YEAR FOR THOSE NOT WILLING TO DO TWO...

@Op leave him a way that you could still come back just incase you don't get to find anoda better than him cos at the end physical stuff wouldn't matter, it fades..
Goodluck love

soccerinfo9ja: Real G talking. Bless you fam

tanx bruv

Like srzly, I hate the big bum ish
@op don't fake, be yourself..ur man will not pass u by.

Dude spoke his mind and ya'll busy insulting and "gay-ing" him..smh for ya'll pathetic slowpokes.
@op many dudes who know what they want always get through this phase.. I had a lot of girls b4 my current girl tied me down and I swear, I can't let her go. She practically brought out the best in me and I'm so gon marry her
Keep on doing ur thang homie, you'll soon meet HER..
These f.king nollywood girls believe every relationship should lead to marriage that's why they had to start bashing you, and all dem lil priick brodas who called you gay, they practically 9ja biatch bottom lickers.

*in justin timberlake's voice* I'll be on my suit and tie s.hit, tie s.hit, tie s.hit, can I show u a few things?

Pastor chris oyakhilomen,third class.
Wole soyinka, third class.

Theory: most third class candidates in 9ja were not supposed to come out with such and so the educational system is judged a failure.

Ijogz K: This is becoming a cliché grow up kid.

Bet you didn't see what those boys did to the first page big man

Strauskhan1: i just want to ask a question!



Must you do that?

click like if you think this slowpoke and the other clown (@debedebe) needs to be at yaba.

modification
Since no likes, I hereby concur with the doc who said a good percentage of 9ja people are mentally #shuts

Yield: You didn't answer the question.

Using "jealous" instead of "angry" wouldn't have made any difference.

Even the creator said he's a jealous God my dear....we fall in and out of love, that's if you have being there..

christemmbassey: bro i clicked quote and what you saw came up, so i dont understand what u mean by the above, but if u mean by dat posts u didnt support the former card, my apologies. God blesr

You quoted me a second time removing the "I feel" part which outrightly changed the dimension of my statement..That being said, I still say we should let God judge and stop playing God's role.

@christembassey
you quoted a sentence and removed the main part....smh
That's how you judge people too
Leave judgement to God

Yield: Since when does the presence of anger signify love?

Maybe I would change the word "angry" to "jealous" for u to understand me more..The lady used a word and humans will always use what your take on a subject is to judge what your actions to such situation will be like..And please read the next line after what you bolded from what you quoted.

What has low funding got to do with bad scripts?
What has low funding got to do with bad directing?
What has low funding got to do with mediocre stunts?
What has low funding got to do with bad language construction?
i can continue...
85% 9ja movies fall into the shit category

You mean you told him you don't blame girls that double date? What do u think he will infer from that? Although I was not there and wouldn't know exactly how you said it to make a statement.

Dude surely loves you that's why he could get angry @ those words.. If I no send you, if you like tell me say you dey do gehs join me, I no go send.