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Oh this is good. . .damn good. Lol

Everybody reaches breaking point when inadequacies are exposed, right?

We're all human afterall even behind the whole born-again facade.

I'd be right back later this evening to address your concerns and offer my help.

Please do note we're discussing physical abuse on children using a self confessed victim nuclearboy as a case study.

He's personal attack on me is merely a defense mechanism. I can only imagine why this topic will be painful for him to discuss *I say this with a heavy heart*

For those who have ears, Beating kids = physical Assault = Child Abuse, STOP IT!!

BlueDiva:
Sleeping with your buddies girl would attract death in the olden days when real men existed.
That is how grievous the crime is.

Seems honour is dead amongst you lot.
I'm appalled by some comments i see here.

Why can't you answer the question; Were W.bridge and Vannessa still romantically involved when the alleged affair took place?[

/b]

What is wrong in dating your guys [b]ex-girlfriend?

So because they ONCE dated and had a kid together (not even married) then wayne bridge owns her for life?. . . .you gotta be kidding.

What has happened to all the men whom fell for women?
David, Samson, Solomon, Casanova?

Learning how to zip your trousers helps my friend.

BTW, we're talking about a married man getting his friends chic pregnant.
If you're saying that it's no big deal, then i rest my case.

Now this has entered into the realm of pure speculation and lies. . .can you provide a source for the preggers part?

bgees:
Terry really messed up by bleeping[b] Wayne Bridge's wife.[/b] how would that sound ?,'' my captain has been bleeping[b] my wife[/b]''. No respect , no discipline coming from a captain of a national team and  it had to be team mate's girl. In fact, he should be sent to jail.

And it was YOU most rev bgees who married and made them husband and wife, right?

And who told you she and bridge are married or still romantically involved when the alleged affair took place?

Terry should be ashamed of himself. As a matter of fact , he should turn in the captaincy immediately. Right now, there should be concerns about having Terry and Bridge on the same world cup team.

Keep dreaming, when push comes to shove any right thinking coach would gladly dump bridge for Terry.

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I wonder oo. . .and they're all here acting like JT murdered someone.

BlueDiva:
Do you know how many people look up to JT?

Academy kids, Reserve kids and all footie-loving kids worldwide.
He's even the captain of country and club, a role model for fellow players.

I never saw anywhere JT claimed to be a beacon of morality.

He's a football player and exhibits professionalism in executing his duties.

When you look up to him as a role model on the field fine but when it begins to transgress the boundaries of mistaking JT for your local priest then its your fault if you get disappointed. Coz he's human afterall.

e's an ex team mate.
Even if he wasn't, he's an English player.

Most importantly, he's a friend of JT.
To think JT is even married and Vanessa has a child with Wayne. 

Can you say for sure the alleged affair took place when wayne and the chick were still together?

As long as wayne bridge wasn't romantically involved with vanessa during the alleged affair then he's got no business with who she dates and who she doesn't date.

Damn right. . .and joseph was in on the whole thing too.

I wonder how someone would impregnate my daughter and tell me it was the holy spirit who did it.

^^
That settles it then, there's something seriously wrong with you.

So google somehow is a demon-o-meter that shows how demonic a music video is, right?

The question asked should be were wayne bridge and the girl still dating when the affair allegedly occured. . .

Either way I don't give a damn, he's paid to play football and no to be some professional good role model for your kids.

And for the training ground fee, that money collected was to go to a charity org and not his pocket.

And anyone wonders why Africa is still in the sh.itters?

In all the rubbish you posted above, the below statement of "regret" is the only thing that stuck with me and I can only feel sorry for you and other abused children out there

nuclearboy:
I remember the whipping I took when he found me smoking at 11.



That didn't stop me but I wish he'd gone further till I stopped when after 19 years of smoking, I found my health severely damaged.

Now, as you put it, you yourself knew your father was "strict" and from all indications knew the 'fate' that awaited you if he caught you smoking. . . . The question to ask would be why would an 11 year old child knowing what the father (who is prone to violence) would do if he caught him smoking but still goes ahead to do it.

The answer is pretty simple and lies in this word spelt A.T.T.E.N.T.I.O.N.

Such a child has over the years come to equate assault, violence and abuse by his parents to LOVE. Infact that might be the only act of 'love' shown by the parents and has become all he's come to expect.

Such a child wanting more 'love' would do anything that'll get him beaten/assaulted by his parents.

Now, in your own words you said,"
That didn't stop me " - That is you know it was pointless. . .if the beating/abuse didn't stop you what is the guarantee more abuse will work, nothing!. But still you went ahead with this eternal regret- "but I wish he'd gone further"- i.e You wish you had more abuselove.

To systematically abuse/assault a child till he comes to accept it as a way of you showing parental love, driving him to do unspeakable things including endangering his life just to get some more of that 'love' and 'attention' is such a wicked thing to do to a young innocent mind.

This should be legislated against and such animals fronting as 'parents' should be thrown in jail and the 'damaged' children thoroughly counselled and rehabilitated.

nuclearboy:
@Pastor AIO:

I obviously wasn't referring to child abuse parentage. Do you get the idea from my posts that I was abused? [/b]Religion-wise, my father woke up sundays and we drove around. We entered whatever church caught our fancy and I remember a white garment church where they took brooms to us cos we walked in with our shoes. My dad (army officer) pulled his service revolver in return and it was quite a sight. Army kids mix with all sorts probably more than any other category cos you move around in your formative years and catch varied "realities". But he was strict and as an example,[b] I remember the whipping I took when he found me smoking at 11.

*yawn* And if you were to go to the street and whip, beat, knock or slap anyone, what would you be arrested for if not assault?


Why is it okay to assault children but you can't do so to adults?

That didn't stop me but I wish he'd gone further till I stopped when after 19 years of smoking, I found my health severely damaged. Your western world has a huge problem (brutal understatement) because youth as it were, do whatever they please and involve themselves in all manner of things. Its come across the ocean on the tide of "Fad", 'civility' etc but we still have cultural values and discipline which have kept our youth relatively within check. That said, quite a few go too far with "discipline"

And in Africa where the so-called youth are supposedly "well-disciplined" and "in-check" with brutality HOW IS OUR SOCIETY ANY BETTER? Is our society not a billion times worse? All the corruption and crime where did they come from? Several countries in europe have low crime rates and prison population despite as you put it "their huge problem" I wonder what happened to the disciplined Africa?

Keep deceiving yourself, its obvious you abuse kids and thats why you're desperately trying to justify this barbaric act.

@Tudor:
Model Citizen?

Well, if your idea of a model is a contentious, mocking, self-righteous, rude, over-bearing, arrogant he/she/it who believes in their right to crash any party (well, thread in the case of NL), insult at will,

The funny thing is all these nonsense you mentioned are purely subjective. . . . Good thing is the perception of an adult, abused as a child by a( most likely poorly paid) frustrated soldier is not taken seriously.

Infact in civilised societies such an individual would be advised to see a therapist rather than misfiring brain cells in a public forum.

claim being atheist is to DENY God forgetting the rest of us speak english and know the consequence of that statement;, then my dear, you are a model citizen.

Infact, not only were you physically assaulted by your parents, they even denied you the basic right of education. . .sad.

Can you please bring ALL  the meanings of the word 'DENY' that you know?

But in reality, dear, all these only portray you as exactly what you claim as being attributable to others - frustrated!

Anything to classify me in the same boat as you, right?

In your defence, with the little information I gleaned about you from your posts, if I had your life with its attendant frustrations, I probably would deny God myself.

You obviously can't gleanread. . . I've had a sweet and comfortable life compared to many.

No child should be left in the care of an emotionally imbalanced frustrated soldier who carelessly and crazily wields his firearm in a public place filled with civilians. . . Now why in any civilised country would such a man be allowed to raise and abuse kids?

And you wonder where the frustration comes from (is it suprising you sought solace in cigarrettes at such a young age? Something was obviously missing i.e parental L.O.V.E). . . And sad enough, this thing is cyclical, an abused child would inturn abuse his kids including the wife.

Africa kids including yours are indeed doomed.

Abegi make una leave him personal life e no concern you.

If there was a natural disaster or an outbreak of endemic disease you'd be suprised at the fibre-optic speed they'll disappear from quanzhou.

How many years will it take them to pack their few belongings and get the hell out?

What happened with cossy and dogs?

nuclearboy:
@Tudor:
Why?

Did your parents and teachers leave you to your own devices when growing up or did they attempt to correct you when you did wrong?

If your answer is that they left you to your own devices, now you know "you had irresponsible teachers" and "why you turned out like this."
If you answer they tried to discipline you, you'll understand why "any loving father needs to instill discipline". Unfortunately in your own case, you rebelled and turned out like this.

Pele!

Sorry but my parents didn't physically assault me under some bogus claim of 'dicipline' or 'guidance' and look how I turned out. . . A model citizen!

But that I cannot say for most of you on here, years of parent inflicted blunt trauma to the head is prolly why you have many retards on NL today. . . This is made worse by the fact most of these abusive parents are merely taking out their frustrations on the kids. . .poor things.

And where did you get this ridiculous idea that insults between xtians and muslims reduced with the creation of the islam board?

You can't blame them at least they're bloody smart in trying not to deny the obvious.

When the TOE is verified, the stubborn ones now would be left hanging.

Whats the big deal?

I used to think pat robertson was dead until all of a sudden he's allover the news. . . .that guy looks 95, he must be senile.

Yes, it was Angela merkel and Gordon Brown who killed foreigners in the xenophobic attacks. . . I saw them.

For a book that claims to be 'holy' this bible sure encourages/ glorifies some disgusting and unnecessary violence. Why is this?

[quote author=~Bluetooth link=topic=329937.msg5402929#msg5402929 date=1264685912]No matter how peole may want recognition for gay right in nigeria,ther will continue to be strong oppostion against courtesy of[b] moralists like me[/b] who just can stand this barbaric act in our society.homosexuality is never about democray or freedom but about a few selfish sexually-deranged minors who just wnated any but to spread their lust around.[/quote]ha ha ha ha. . . Moralists like you? What have the so-called "moralists" like you done for this country?

Where were you with your "morals" when the military were rap.ing this country through the arse?

Where was your "moralists" when OBJ and co are looting this country?

Where were the "moralists" hiding when the government was increasing salary and allowances of national assembly members while the minimum wage is in a sorry state and salaries of doctors, teachers and co pitiful?

Is it only to sit behind a computer and claim moralist only to be ranting, huffing and puffing against gays only?

Dude put on a pink shirt, it might just suit you.lol

DatNiggaAk:
there is something i've observed.
it's only on the internet that gay.gots accept that they are gay.gots
i'm a nocturnal animal (night crawler to some) because of the nature of my job.
i close btw 6-8pm daily so when i get home i chill out for about 3 hours
i normally leave the house at about 11pm to get my drink on.
i either hit a garden or go to a bar/pub where i meet my peers(cubana,kl, roxbury, Agura etc Abuja peeps)
i meet a lot of people and for once i've never met a muthafuka come out claiming he is gay.
even gay a.s.s muthafukas who look the look hustle chicks with us.
but when they get online they spew all the rhetorics about being proud to be gay,
gay loving equals civility, gay movt is akin to the black civil right movt of the 60's, BULLSH.IT!!!
If you're gay and fearless like you claim online, why hide in real life?
dumb a.s.s lily livered homos

Since you are fearless why not march to Aso rock and demand change for nigeria? All the more easier since you live in Abuja and can jog to the presidential palace.

You have a sick absentee president, a non-functioning government and a national assembly which is a hub for corruption. Have you never read of the french, orange, cuban and islamic revolutions ALL CARRIED OUT BY FEARLESS PEOPLE LIKE YOU CLAIM TO BE.

But NO, you prefer to sit in a beer palour at 11pm, drink alcohol and make merry like everything is OK with your country while looking for ga.ys to bully. Who is the coward here?

Hey, lets not despair, it ain't all gloom and doom. . .at least someone got a stamped piece of paper american visa out of the earthquake. Lets thank God and broadcast it to all nations including the mourning haitians burying their dead. . . . ? ? ? ? ? ?

manmustwac:
@JeSoul
So if it wasn't for the earthquake which killed over 200'000 people injured many more and made them homeless, your friends wife would not have had the oppotunity to get her U.S. visa from the Domican Republic. Well given the circumstances in which her visa was obtained i don't think it was a good idea to write a story about it. A boy here in the U K raised over ₤160'000 to help the Haitians thats a good story and a teenage girl was just recently pulled out alive after being trapped for 15 days when neighbours heard her screams thats another good story but yours Jesoul in respect of those who died and were made homeless i don'tthink u should've wrote this story about it. Sorry JeSoul.

Pls hammer it home.

But no, they'll say you don't 'understand' because you're french, dutch or atheist.

Since your christian brethren have ignored and abandoned you, do you want my own contribution?

I thought you claimed to be Holy spirit filled? Why not ask him/her/it?

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Why is the asking price invincible or do we pay you in spiritual currency?

Na so e dey start, from wanting you to be his "third eye" it'll graduate to "third leg" for "support" and finally "second pillow" to replace his wife.

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I too seriously wonder. . . .