₦airaland Forum

yinkeys:
So what are you doing with them?
Biking only

Biking and having kids

Candidlady:
After getting married ,some men are still sleeping with the sugar mummies that they were dating prior to marriage.
On the marriage day the sugar mummies will even show up and be spraying money on the newly married couple and the bride will be saying thank you ma'am,thank you maam.
It is quite disgusting that some men are into this misdemeanours and they should know that God is watching them

This is one of the differences between males and females. Men would still try to reason and understand your point while women believe they're always right regardless of what they did. This why we don't hold females at a high regard on this forum they're unreasonable

guobe:
After getting married ,some ladies are still sleeping with the sugar daddies that they were dating prior to marriage.
On the marriage day the sugar daddy will even show up and be spraying money on the newly married couple and the groom will be saying thank you sir,thank you sir.
It is quite disgusting that some ladies are into this misdemeanours and they should know that God is watching us.

This is the reason I'm against any form of commitment to women. After their bullshit they'll still claim that it's not their fault. Marry, engage or date a female at your own peril.

Marriage or dating is detrimental to men. Don't ever commit to females. It will always end in tears.

gidgiddy:
The same Yoruba man is on Facebook, Twitter owned by others, so?

Why don't you create your own forum so that you can further Biafra

CCIA:
Nickelodeon pussy

Yeh. My turn next

OKC22:
Made possible by the dot nation.If not for Igbo businesses in Lagos ,Lagos would have still being an Island with nothing to show for it

Why don't you leave our island alone

gidgiddy:
I dont know about being the economic superpower power but they never managed to develop anywhere outside Ibadan

You do realize that this forum is owned by a Yorùbá man

SMARTMOTORS:
U show us pikin dead body and u no fit show Dog own!...abi una still lock am for cage??

The dog's life is more valuable than a human's life

Sensitivity:
I hate dogs❗❗❗

Me too

tyup:
Aww that's so sad and sending my condolences to the family of the boy.

I sincerely suggest they take the Dog to a veterinary therapist for evaluation and given necessary treatment so incidents like this isn't repeated. So sad

The dog has to be killed slowly

dboY1123:
Hi everyone,
I actually want to know if a guy of
29-30years of age can go into a relationship with a lady of 22-23years old.
I am actually the guy, when she asked of my age I told her 27 and that was after I knew that she's 22years. She's kind of mature and intelligent, she is going for NYSC next batch and she'll be 23years next year January.

I completed my service year last year too, she told me that she had already promised herself that anyone she says Yes to after she graduates, the guy will be her last guy(get married to).

Do you think I can go into a relationship with her because of her age? She is still very young and she might not be considering marriage anytime soon.

We have not started dating tho, but from everything she has been saying, it is certain we'd date.
I just need your advice.

This guy is still trying to get married

Godoverevery:
I made a thread on Sunday about a lady staying with me and guess what the worst happened that Sunday.

Due to fact she called me a stingy man I totally change toward her and wanted her out of my place.

She had been technically staying with me for 8months and all the bills on me.....her mother and aunties are awear of her staying (only her dad doesn't know).

I came back home on Sunday night to meet all the food stuff in my kitchen gone along the things she brought to my house.....I don't have any issues with her moving with her stuffs which are mostly bucket and kitchen utensils but this lady had the nerves to clear my kitchen down to salt and some of my appliances.

This lady took things that belongs to me without any form of fear.....imagine carrying half bag of rice, gas cylinder i just filled and the table top cooker.
Now I just understand how wicked some people are but they will still play victims in all there past relationship.

Have gone to report at police station but seems they aren't interested cos is a lady involved.....I called her mum and explained everything to her but she can't reach her cos all her number is off and she reading all my messages on whatapp.

Should I go to her parent house and report to her Dad.......the man know me but isn't awear she was staying with me or what is the best approach to get my things back.

Note : she fears her dad alot and they stay in another state.

Don't commit to any relationship with women. Commit to females at your own peril. Imagine if you were single would you be looking for foodstuff or would your foodstuff disappear on their own m

9jaRealist:
He probably could just kill the gateman instead…
QUIT BLAMING THE VICTIM. She’s not the reason for his homicidal mind!
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The reason she was with him was because he was rich. It was greediness on both she and her mothers were part. Also how are you sure he would have killed the gate man do you live with him.

Nobody truly cares about you as a man till you die.

This is why I asked men not to commit to any relationship with women. Imagine if he remained single instead

MrBrownJay1:
NO MAN ON THIS EARTH SHOULD TRY TO LIVE LIFE WITHOUT A GOOD WOMAN BY HIS SIDE!

contrary to popular belief, committing to women is not the problem here, committing to yeye good for nothing deceitful unfathful untrustworthy women is the problem here. you cant blame women for being wh0res, you should instead blame yeye foolish men who try to wife/date these wh0res, instead of chop and clean mouth... the rules are very simple: you meet an olosho, you go and chop then take her right back to where you met her, so that other men can sample her too (regardless of how nice/sexy she was).

as the saying goes:"THOU SHALL NOT TRY TO DATE/WIFE HOES!"

I'm doing it right now without any females

Samantha124:
Jobs are not easy to find.

Then learn a skill and work with it.

MrBrownJay1:
you are starting to confuse the issue...
you stated that "cheating is only cheating when you have paid the bride price", while i stated from the get go that "cheating is cheating, whether you are married or dating".

now you are saying dating is stress... but stress is irrelevant to the issue at hand. you actually believe that:"if your gf cheats on you thats NOT cheating, its only cheating if your wife cheats on you that you consider it cheating".... correct?

What I'm saying is men need to stop both dating and marriage. Commit to females at your own peril

Samantha124:
What do you expect us to do when we're hungry?

Get a job

MrBrownJay1:
bro, so what you are saying is that, if you are about to marry your future wife, and find out (one week before the wedding) that she was sleeping with your best man, it isnt cheating because you guys were not married?!?!

BWAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH! what wont we read on NL!

I'm also saying dating is stress

kalufelix:
But i thought every human being has five(5) sense organs, four(4) limbs and a single head...why will one be looking for a provider, not even a heads start but a life time provider...are they incapacitated or what? i am not understanding..

Women only care about money not love. The sad truth is the vast majority of men would never find a woman that loves them for real. Whenever a celebrity becomes very successful the only person they thank is their mother. During mothers day mothers are praised unconditionally while on father's day fathers are barely wished and they only direct to 'responsible' fathers. Mothers don't have to be categorized as responsible before being praised but men have to. If your child becomes a very famous person there's a chance only his mother would benefit from it while your child would abandon you

kalufelix:
i don't know what year it is but marriage sounds so outdated to my ears..

Marriage only benefits females that are looking for a provider after wasting their good years

Exmilitant:
You have no such powers, I repeat.

Loss, look who is warning Exmilitant
You want a taste of my Goddess?

Females are so dramatic.

linearity:
All your reasons against marriage and for advocating for men to be single also affect single men, every one of them:

1. Single men also have lots of responsibilities, some even more their married counterparts.
2. Single men still go through sex starvation.
3. Single men still get cheated on.
4. Single men still get abandoned by their kids, more so than married men.
5. There are single men sitting in jails today because they could not pay child support.
6. Men on average, single or married die earlier than women.
7. Single men still raise other men kids.
8. Single men still get nagged at.

So, what is your point actually?

Bro you know I'm right. How many married men are happy with their marriage ten years down the line

MrBrownJay1:
sorry to be the bearer of bad news.... but all the above you mentionned can happen to you, whether you are married or not.
- you can be cheated on without being married
- your children can abandon you at old age, whether you are married to their mother or not
- women nag whether you are married to them or not
- if you miss out paying child support (even though you aint married to babymama) you will still go to jail
- you can raise a child for 20yrs (while not being married to babymama) and learn after 20yrs that the child is not yours.

marriage is irrelevant to the above facts you mentionned.

If someone cheats on you and you were not married to them she wasn't cheating on you it's different when you've paid bride price. My neighbors wife has a crush on me and been giving me green lights for years and I didn't respond to them because I feel bad for her husband. Women cheat very easily they don't even care about their marriage. No woman I'm not married to or dating can nag me

Jazmine10:
Women this, women that. Accountable for what exactly?

You do realize that insulting is a two way street. If you start attacking me I could do the same. I'm only holding non virgin females like you accountable to protect Innocent men from being trapped in a union with someone like you who will stress them and cut their life span short

Jazmine10:
Tunde835 e pele my dia. Take heart. All your threads bash women. Now you decided not to marry.

I only hold women accountable

Getting married for men is introduction to a world of responsibilities, sex starvation, your wife potentially cheating on you, your kids eventually abandoning you at old age, nagging and if you live in the western world divorce. There are men in the western world who are sitting in jail cause they missed out on child support payments. As a man you can have children, take care of them but don't get married. There's a reason men die earlier while women who have almost no responsibilities outlive them. There is nothing you can achieve in a marriage that you can't achieve single as a man. Imagine raising someone else's child for 20 years and the wife fully knows its not your child.

Guys need to wake up to the fact that marriage doesn't help them. The only person that benefits from raising kids are the mothers when they're grown they'll forget and abandon you. You can have kids but don't get married

Rokiat:
So what do you want us to do with this piece of information?

Are you a child or are you just incapable of making decisions on your own, that you need random people on the internet to tell you what to do?

With this your comment what do you think it'll make people think of you