₦airaland Forum

Ejimagifty:
This is the reason we advocate for the ban of Christians and Christianity in Nigeria. The federal government should enforce Islam on every Nigerian. Christianity is a scam and a joke

you well so?

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futurist369:
olodo it's female and not femala

Alright thank you.
but u should atleast be wise enough to know its a typing error...

Preshy561:
Constant headache and fever.

Really u nor get issue b that.

funmijoyb:
She was happy she found a boyfriend but see the result... Men are very wicked.

go and sit down the world is full of wickedness both in male and female frame. not jst men except u mean men(both femala and male).

Botfuss:
I don’t understand how rational is the rationale behind sharing pictures of you crying at a funeral? I mean,did you pose for the pictures or something?to tell us you indeed mourned your friend?

When did crying equate genuine mourning sef?all these yeyebrities sha.

sometimes i get annoyed by stuff like this u dey eat posting, walking post, sleeping post, anything at all ppl jst living for ppl in this life. everybody get waitn e like do shall.

Gabrie300:
Chai!


Look at Money Flowing Everywhere!

God!



When will money locate me and my fellow Narialanders?

soon bro.

lilianofentse:
1. Did he have sex with me??
No.
I wouldn't even allow him to have sex with me.
2. You shouldn't have quoted the whole thing. You just filled up space for people that have important things to say.

your number 1; i can bet you is a truthful lie cos if there was no interuption third base direct cos u were already out of control.

Dottore:
Eeya but she can maintain a positive attitude about it. She can use one puna to flex in her youth then reserve the other puna in a virgin state for her hubby.

When asked: are you still a Virgin.

She: to be most honest, yes and no.

may God have mercy on you.

This is good oooh..God make me this kind friend to ppl oooh blow me finish.

Nobodyperson:
It's clear that woman only graduated because of her what's on her chest and back
5 in every 6 Nigerian women are prostitutes

interesting atleast the statistics include females you have in your family immediate and extended no doubt.

Nobodyperson:
Mÿnd44
Rule 2 and 3

rule ke wen u nor make use of ur brain...u need sense.

That was bad shall. But the truth sey some ppl go still complain like give dem full day. Jst wait and see thosf wen nor do well ho blame am on the system.

LesbianBoy:
Some men like leftover sha. This girl wey wizkid don fvck tire na him another man wife

The one you go marry na still left over cos las las she has also been bleeped by someone na so e be.

No. But sometimes i have this funi imagination of how will i even know that am gone? What is it like? Sometimes wen i hear die i'll jst sey to myself las las even me self go fall oh, but how will i know am no more? Life we jst living to die someday

OkaNaUbe:
That kid will start smashing in your house.

That is disrespect. Know you as how? A 20yr old

He nvf said 20 early 20 mayb 21 or 22.

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Seems she is talking from experience. But why is looking like Mo Wetta of xvideos in the last pix.

Sweet milf

So u don know the names of ppl wen dey xvideos finish bad guy.

harry2ve:
I need any sure 3 odd please

Na one sure odd u read so barca to win juve to win tank me later.

Unik3030:
so what will now happen to those who embezzle d doctors pay? or they don't deserve to eat n live fine? so it's until they start dieing like that kogi doctor that u will know what's up. bro channel the anger to those fools that deprive them of their rights

Baba atleast there is what dey call human sympathy nah...for christ sake dem take oat to save life nah not to watch am die nah...assumimg nah any doc. Pikin dey this condition now, wouldn't that doc child be treated Asap? It could be anybody.

No one truly owes anybody happiness cos we're our own happiness. In aspect of relationship or marriage, we try as individuals to put smile on our spouses face. Sometimes u can be near perfect to ur spouse but they might not be happy.

blessedvisky:
The English dominance would be restored and R.Madrid will finally get a chance to win the much coveted Europa League

Restore or notbnxt 10yrs bro R.madrid will nvr play europa games take my word.

What is it nah? Or is it not this same guy dey said he is the only of a widow or mayb this na step dad.

prigoz:
Sudden death is your portion and that of your family member this year. To the dead, RIP. Just learn to do good and surrender your life to Jesus because one day you and I would be like this irrespective of where it happens.

You well so?

Ttrrffyyghuuh:
There's nothing more frustrating than a spouse that doesn't make the least effort to work on some character flaw that you find disturbing...
Forget anyone that says's she doesn't like attention, she posts pictures of herself online and with family and even with your child but refuses to be seen pictured with you...
Everyone else above has put up nice submissions, but i want to inquire however, you never made mention of her attitude towards you in social functions you attend together, weddings, parties and the likes. How does she behave at such functions, does she also refuse to be seen with you? Not like it matters anyways, since her overall attitude towards you is cold..

which leads me to my next question....

Also you made mention of gifts and such, how is your daily life, do you ever laugh together, talk deeply about stuff, pray together and so on? does her indifference only come up when you buy her gifts, you made mention of her impersonal disposition towards your gestures but is she like this everyday, do you come home to a wife that is always avoiding you, doesn't let you touch her, shows obvious disgust at you for nothings sake?....

Its easy to say she's opted for you as a last resort due to her age factor after she couldn't get her dream man, which is the most rational analysis, but knowing the answer to this questions will help in finding a solution....
It's worthy of note that she may not be cheating, the fact that she post pictures of her and her child shows that she's stating it loudly that she is a mom...It's just you she's ashamed of.

If she doesn't avoid you at social functions and you have your good times privately (which i believe because you said she took out time to celebrate your birthday with you, but seen pictured with you is an abomination and you also mentioned she performs her duties as a wife, even with her schedule as a surgeon), then you might be able to salvage your marriage, it simply means some part of her still values you although she is ashamed to show you to the world which is your leverage...

Use it well, put it to her bluntly what you think and if she is ready for this marriage or not!!!, you are condoning this rubbish by allowing her jargon excuses to stand!!!, sit her down and tell her all you have told us and let her make a choice, that's the only way to know if your marriage is worth it, else you'll live in an unhappy marriage for a long time, sulking everyday..

if on the other hand, she avoids you everyday, you don't do stuff together, horrible sexlife, doesn't like to be seen with you at social functions or church, then you have no leverage honestly, if you push her to a certain level not even a child or the title of Mrs will make her stay, she will be like even me that is managing you...




Something in my body sha is telling me it's how you look, honestly(Not beauty, since you said you're a fineboy , Maybe you are years older or years younger (Abeg OP if you see this post answer this, what is your age difference?). Her reactions towards gifts from you maybe another thing entirely, have you seen anyone else give her gifts or complement her?, parents, friends maybe? how does she respond?
If she's also cold and distant to others as regards gifts and complements, then that is a character flaw and has nothing to do with you, which could be good in a way......

But this your wife na complex human being sha, see as i dey rack my brain dey try understand person i no sabi, like say i no get work

Bro i have seen person like this o.p wife for real life a distant family though.infact almost similar occupation. Smiling is war, accepting gift self is an issue, o.p wife dey ssce level. If u wan snap her self she does not allow you to talkless of having a group picx. They're always very proud and feel nobody reach dem.

PaulAris:
He could be, infact he must be.
But that doesn't change anything does it.
I feel he was used or prolly still being used.
Like you said, she saw she was ticking so she accepted out of pity.
No wonder she dosn't wanna show him off. She must have bragged to her friends about the kind of man she wants or must have been engaged before and everyone knew about it. But fortunately(lol), she got dumbed and used and became heart-broken prolly even a sadist who knows.
And Yh, she surely must be cheating, don't ask me why, the signs are just clear.
Writing sweet words bout' your Masculine friends instead of your Husband?
C'mon!
...
By the way, I notice you seem to know a lot of similarities about such women. You been in such shoes before huh
I do not wanna believe you still in it

She might not be cheating per say make everybody nor jst conclude the guy jst need sit her down ask her confirm question simple

All this signs u saw and still married her, what were you thinking? She was going to change or what or the fact that she's a doctor wish one bro? Look before leaping and not the other way round.
And for the social media issue bro u gat non. U be mature guy nah is not compulsory that everybody must live their life for media i was ashamed wen you were even complaining she does not do this or that on social media; she might nor be a fan of it or might be this highly introverted person, and besides how is her social life like?
Your wife gat her flows plenty behaving more like a proud person and someone that is not really into you. Why not talk to her about ur feeling then pray and go for councelling too. You don enter, you don enter.

She even said its her last okay oooh

Hmmm 45k and somebody somewhere is owing huge sum still living still get mind. Wel, na their time reach abi e get who deh owe wen nor dey pay.

ImaIma1:
No he didn't. Read it again even the heading

I mean he would have used some.

As if nor be nigeria u deh..

ImaIma1:
4 girls or even 100 hundred girls out of over 20 millions of girls in Nigeria. Is that a fair conclusion?

The guy said most* maybe some wud have been better is a two way tin though

Are you avoiding having sex with her cos of your position or probably cos of ur spirituality or should i seh change of heart? If its for the former sorry bro ur reasons are some how. But the latter, then ur reasons are genuin cos positon dey change hand. And besides in as far as she wants sex that much and na girl her body don need am badly the posiblity of her cheating is 100.10% plain truth. Is either you sit her down and tell hef ur mind cos there's not like break up with out hurting anybody. No mtter how u form strong heart reach u must feel am. Jst be plain.