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tiaraLOVE:
Its the Nigerian mentality & you guys ain't helping it.
Especially as we have alot of boys in men skin. smh

Well i wont argue with you sweetheart, infact i agree. As matured as my brain seem to be, i can be a boy in man skin too. But dont worry its only a matter of time. By the way you look very beautiful dear.

Well bro. I am not a professional, but i can tell you that your friend is right. Attraction is hard to understand. Women are somehow connected to a guy they have had intercourse with. Also, the only time it is hard to have sex with a lady is the first time, and it is usually because she not yet comfortable with the guy, once she does, the guy wont go through a lot to get into her pants the next time. If the guy should approach her again, he knows the right places to touch and things to do in order to get her in the mood for intercourse.

On the part of a girl, especially the types that are proud and sophisticated, they usually humble themselves in the presence of the guys they once had sex with. It could be because of shame or attraction. HOope this answered your question

It is called social conditioning. Its abnormal or unusual for a girl to walk up to a guy in our part of society. However, ladies are approaching men nowadays maybe you have just not heard about it. Also theres is this ideology among ladies that if you approach a guy he is not going to place much value on you, and will take you for granted.,

nkemdirim104:
Thank u very much

you welcome bro

nkemdirim104:
It doesn't boot into recovery mood, have tried it. Seems the boot loader is locked.
That would have been the solution.

okay do you have a computer. download odin for samsung. search for it on google
also download KIES FOR SAMSUNG

Or better still, search on google with your post topic than add "xda" to it. click on the link that best solves your problem

I dont know about the rest but i some how concur with number 5.

This might be helpful. switch your phone off to recovery mode by pressing "volume up+power button+home button" at the same time for 15 seconds or more until you see the recovery mode. select the "factory reset/ wipe data" (warning: everything on your fone would be wiped away) then reboot.

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i dont know the process. But my advise is to snap a picture of the bottle with the content in it.

In my opinion, a child going missing has nothing to do with his or her parent's financial background. And besides i am sure your question will be interpreted as "How come only poor people's children gets kidnapped"

Well written. Please if you dont mind Brother, could you give us a hint as to what is meant by true education. Do you mean indegenous education?.

well. Hope you find the help you deserve.

jaelz:
oga nah from bookshop this one commot o

Nawa o. Maybe the publisher is a friend of the proprietor. Connection tinz

Pardon my curiousity, but the image you posted seem to be one of those story books sold at garages for #150.

Tell Mr landlord that I graduated with third class, and I attended my convocation and snapped lots of pictures with people. I didn't socialize a lot, and struggled through school, I sought solutions to my memory problem but all effort was futile.

Though, I was sad and I never wanted to attend but my parents Insisted that we all attend( I love them for that). They went with me and waited till the ceremony was concluded. Though some terrible souls that had 2:2, had the guts to be telling their friends at my back that " he (I) has a third class degree and yet he had the guts to attend convocation instead of crying at home" , The words almost got to me buh I shook it off. It was a sweet day for me, I was just smiling all through and snapping pictures and having fun.

I am not saying its a good thing to graduate with a third class hons, buh just be grateful to God for everything he has done in your life. Well shout out to team job hunters though. We will get there by the grace of God.

How do you identify a well spoken or written english sentence?

Is it because of our knowledge of the rules of English language?( of which am sure 60% of us are not conversant with, I stand to be corrected though.)

or is it because it has been used by people who appear to be conversant with the rules of English language?

Or because the grammar sounds correct?

I ask these questions because Nigerians are quick to laugh at grammatical blunders.

How do you identify a well spoken or written english sentence?

Is it because of our knowledge of the rules of English language?( of which am sure 60% of us are not conversant with, I stand to be corrected though.)

or is it because it has been used by people who appear to be conversant with the rules of English language?

Or because the grammar sounds correct?

I ask these questions because Nigerians are quick to laugh at grammatical blunders.

Come to think of it.. Op you are right!

Okay! I created a topic on how to end premature ejaculation for guys, if you havnt seen it, check it out here . https://www.nairaland.com/2592799/want-free-embarassing-problem However some have complained that they are yet to see significant result.

Well, you are supposed to do kegel(I.e squeeze ur p.c(pubococygenus muscle) twenty times and albove every day for three weeks and that's it. Just three weeks.

Okay!. Straight to the main issue. If you have done the kegel and still no significant improvement in curing your premature ejaculation problem. Well here is the solution. It is called reverse kegel. Nb : this is not a replacement for the regular kegel, but just and addition.

So how do you do reverse kegel?. I will keep it simple(no technical languages). While having sex, you will notice, if you are observant, that there's always that sharp involuntary clenching of your PC muscle, that sharp involuntary squeezes is part of what is making you ejaculate so soon. So what you have to do is to just make a sharp push, as if you wanna urinate (3 times). It will relax your PC muscle and will rreduce your sexual tension.

Also, whenever you notice you are about to get to the point of ejaculation, just push as if u wanna urinate(reverse kegel), and then tighten your p.c muscle( do it three times). Remember to Take deep breathes while doing the exercise.

As you keep practising you will get better from 2minutes to 4, 5, 10, etc

You can also practice alone (for those that understand).

Lol

Visionwriter:
Thanks for the answer but I'm more interested in how it works on sites like that or apps like Zoto, Jara.

K bro

fantazia:
Well i heard that it becomes possible and easy for a witch to press someone at nights when d person sleep and faces upwards.

And have you confirmed by yourself.? Have you made research on the internet yourself. Stop asking people who are no better than you knowledge wise. Sleep faced up or side and make sure u dust your bed bfre u sleep.

fantazia:
WHAT? bro u dnt understand d spiritual implication of sleeping facing upwards, i heard its not good.

From Where did you hear that??.

If you cant face up, roll to d side. Just dont face down...even for male sleeping faceing up will prevent nocturnal emission

Prince16:
Thatz wadid iz!
I'm glad some others have tried and tested this SUPERIOR WEAPON Rev 12 v11.Its fail-proof! It works ALL THE TIME!!!

Funny even the Muslims when they read ayat qursi. The paralysis disappears. It has somefin to do wif will power.

For those who would listen,...if you wanna avoid sleep paralysis. Sleep with one of your legs totally outside your bed(if your bed is high.). Or if your bed is low sleep with your legs touching the floor. Also sleep facing up or the side & not down. Make sure you dust your bed before you sleep. Also change the entire vertical position to the other side.

Use quickteller.com its not complex. Just mk sure ur ATM card is close by

I thought this is limited to our area (ikorodu) alone. Yes this has been happening since sallah celebration. Nawa o

BROTHER!. If you want to get over this addiction, you need to keep yourself busy every time ( find a job or help people or visit your friends, learn new things). This would prevent you from succumbing to the pressure. Also dont try too hard to fight the addiction, because it takes time to break habits. you have already discovered the problem and shared it. I assure you soon the solution will be found. OR

So here is the technique,

Whenever any strong sexual desire arises (whether to masturbate or have sexual intercouse), Exhale all the air from your lungs completely and retain the breath.

Then contract your belly (and squeeze your pelvic muscle) and take your navel back towards the spinal cord, that is, suck your belly in from the lower abdomen.

Make sure you do the above two-three times. You will discover that the passion is pacified and you will be saved from sexual urge and seminal discharge.

You will notice that your scrotum has become flaccid, kind of like that of an old man. Lol

Relax. This technique will not cause you any physical or health harzard. And please do not be discouraged if it doesn't work immediately just keep trying and you will be surprised at how easy it is for you to suppress your high sexual desire

onyi4edu:
The rate at which road accidents occur these days is terrifying. I pray the occupants of the cars survived

Amen o

lol

TRADELYN:
My goodness!!!
Chai! I just found you now...I for nominate you for Buhari's cabinet as minister of women affairs.

If that girl has been avoiding you recently because you disappointed her by Erupting two minutes during sex and even after giving you opportunity for a second round you couldn't continue because your joystick refuse to erect. You have reduced your sugar and your salt intake, you have taken several mixtures and still end up with the same embarrassing problem. Well you might have changed everything but have you changed your mind,? in other words have you reconditioned your mind to stop Erupting so soon?.

In case you think you alone have got this problem, think again, even that your friend that boasts he lasts up to an hour might be lying to you. So you are not alone. Nowadays people resort to all kinds of pills like tramadol, e.t.c. or some resort to strong alcoholic drinks. while some mix all sorts of concoctions ( egg+alomo+ tamadol+yoghurt+milk+ pakurumo) as if they are about to fight third world war. This habit has consequences; it may eventually damage vital organs in your body; you become dependent on the above listed, then the dose becomes less effective and so you increase it to a point where it becomes addictive and hazardous to your organs; also if you are silly enough to Erupt and your partner gets pregnant there are chances of having a child with deformity.

I want to let you know that you Dont have to depend on any harmful external substances to avoid premature expulsion. You can actually eliminate it from your life and then there won't be any need for external substances. This implies that you get to save your money and your health.

Before you can proceed, I will advise that you have a steady partner, maybe your girlfriend or your wife. If you have none of this, since you may be discouraged to engage in a sexual relationship to avoid further embarrassment, you have yourself to practise with( I.e you can masturbate.). But for practise alone, because, excess masturbation leads to depletion of vital energy and this may drastically affect productivity in aspects of your life. Also you should always eat good, healthy foods and not junk foods or food that contains excess sugar and salt.

This journey is for those that are willing, in order words for the strong. Because to recondition ones mind or break a habit takes time. It is gonna take up to a month to see huge result, so get ready. Here's is what you have to do:

Step 1: The belly breathing
Step 2: The kidney exercise
Step 3: The pelvic muscle exercise
Step 4: The energy Draw method.

I would like to make sure people are interested before going further. Thanks.


Step 1: The belly breathing

This is important and you can do it before you start having sex and also during sex. Most importantly, you have to do it every morning. This exercise will help you relax, and you will be able to breathe more deeply which will result to less anxiety during sexual intercourse. Its a little bit uncomfortable though. so how is it done:

1: Raise your two hands high up
2. open your mouth wide
3: Bend a little to the back as if you want to back flip. stay in this position. Breathe in and out for 5counts(you can extend it as time goes on)
4: Return to your normal posture. Make sure you do it every morning

Step 2: The kidney exercise:

Do this every morning, and also strictly before sex. Use the back of your hands to massage the middle of your back down to your waist in an up and down motion ten times while taking a deep breathe at each count.

step 3: The pelvic muscle exercise

Your p.c muscle is the muscle that you use to stop your urine from flowing. To confirm this, go and urinate and stop stop the flow, that muscle you just used to stop it is know as p.c muscle. To be able to stop premature expulsion you need a strong p.c muscle. This is how to strengthen it:
1: whenever you are urinating, pause, then hold your urine for 5seconds, let it flow, hold it for 5 seconds again. repeat as much as you like.

2. In the morning when you wake up or anything you feel like, squeeze your p.c muscle just like you did while urinating (nobody can see you nor will they know) hold for 5seconds, then release, squeeze for five seconds again then release, repeat the process as much as you want t and remember to always take a deep breathe while doing this. The more you practise the stronger it becomes

Step 4: The draw: This is the main activity.

The aim here is to recondition your body and mind to the times you want to have sex before you Erupt. The body and mind can get used to anything if you are willing to train it or condition it to do so.

To do this you will need a partner and if you have none, like I said you can masturbate. You will have to practise with this method Three times a week(you can pick a day of your choice). you will need to set a timer, set two minutes if that's the time you usually Erupt and 10minutes if that's the time you Erupt also. the aim of this is to keep track of your progress. Here is how to do it:

1. Make sure your joystick is erect, stroke or penetrate 30 times (only count when you penetrate (20 times if your joystick is very sensitive). you can extend the count to 50 in the second week depending on how fast you want result.

2. Stop stroking or penetrating after the counts( whether you feel like Erupting or not) relax for 10 seconds( 5seconds for pros), while taking a deep breathe as you squeeze your p.c muscle if you are masturbating and if you are doing it with your partner use this time to engage in pre-intimacy with her.

3. After the 10 seconds breathing relaxation, press the top of your joystick with your thumb & index finger gently . then return to number 1 (penetrate or stroke). and then number 2(pls Dont forget to squeeze your p.c muscle, because it will help you to push back the pressure and tension

4. Keep doing number 1 & 2 until you start to feel as if you go further you won't have any other choice but to Erupt( I Dont mean when you are about to Erupt, I meant like 15seconds to expulsion). stop peneterating immediately and stand on your feet. do the exercise of step 1 ( bend to the back with your hands high and mouth open for as long as you can). You will realise the sexual tension has reduced dramatically and you joystick will still be erect but not at a very high level.
you might even feel as if you have ejaculated. lol.

5. You can then return to number 1, then number 2 and so on.

So guys that is it. That is all you have to do to stop premature expulsion totally and make love for as long as you want. If you practice as i have recommended, then you must surely see result. The more you extend the practice the better for you. Soon, you will realize you don't even have to practise any longer.

Thank you for viewing my post and if you like it, share this with a much people as you can, we need to put an end to dependence on drugs for every little thing. And I hope this conservative topic makes it to front page. Thanks.