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Truths9ja:
Thank God the lady exposed speed Darlington here.

exposed like how? He didn't do anything wrong, i even like his direct approach and I didn't see any begging there since he only mentioned the sexual relationship once and when she said they should get to know each other first, he said okay.

Castlevania:
Please i need help 🙏... I need to pay my convocation. Good Samaritans in the house please!! Without this I can't complete my clearance

First bank
3109078301

unilorin has already done convocation now

Kukutente23:
Steal his money
Just kidding.
You didn't mention your education level but judging from your write-up, you're definitely above average.
Resign. Dump the fool. I don't know your location but you're better off organising evening lessons if you're in a low income area or private tutorship if you have access to the rich and upper middle class.
Whichever way, you stand to lose nothing by dumping that fool. You're far better than what he's offering you. Don't let your present circumstances dictate your life or living.

even if someone is using primary school certificate, just imagine 10k

10k salary and u accepted it. As small as the 10k is the wicked director can't still pay it in full, that man must be very wicked and this are the kind of people that will go to church or mosque and be doing holier than thou.

Persephone1:
How did the man handle his own loss and misfortunes?

Most men struggle to remain the loving, responsible, cheerful and peaceful men they were when they experience setbacks. Most men's mental stability is attached to their ability to provide and spend. How do they react when things don't go the way they want.?

I believe this narrative of women changing when things go sour should be checked. It is far from reality! It is an exaggeration also. There are women who stand by their husbands . At least "your mothers" did that. And when women change was it really due to lack of funds or the inability of both husband and wife to manage themselves.

You all want women to support and also care for an overgrown harsh baby who refused to grow up and work towards overcoming his challenges. Abeg!

he only pointed out a scenario here and didn't say all women behaves like this but u took it too personal and for u to even use our mothers as example shows u tend towards the kind of woman pointed out in his story.

U know one thing about all this cases, if it was the other way round, the publicity of the case won't be this much, even the punishment will be very minimal. But anytime it is a man, the will drag the case. I read cases of female teachers sleeping with their male students and they just give them like 1year jail term, but let it be a man that does the same. His own has finished.

Makunahatata:
sharrap ,u don't insult blaba .. if u can't Show us the part Igbos were mentioned then you're truly a real foolish idiot

okay, u can rest now

Makunahatata:
sharrap ,u don't insult blaba .. if u can't Show us the part Igbos were mentioned then you're truly a real foolish idiot

okay

Makunahatata:
point out to the Part Igbo's were mentioned to b okada riders and beggars or shut up forever... U b fool obviously

I don't usually respond to people who resort to insult when trying to pass a point. But I will make an exception to u. Always try to be respectful, we aren't Fighting and ur insults means nothing. Resulting to insult just shows how immature one is. Wishing u the best and hope u change

Makunahatata:
what's ur problem? U igbo's think everything is all about u, the guys moniker is Adamu, u still find a way to make it all about Igbo, trully u guys are suffering from severe inferiority complex.. den curse una ni?

I don't want to have any problem with u, and for ur info I am not Igbo. So face front and it shows u have a problem with Igbos because u immediately assumed I was Igbo because I stated what I have observed. The person that said most of igbos kinsman are okada riders and beggars doesn't have a problem but me that stated what I have seen have the problem. Come to alabata Ogun state and check if u won't see more Yoruba and hausa okada rider. Go to challenge Ibadan and check if u won't see plenty Hausa beggars. I have even read most of ur comments on this topic and I can see where u stand so pls don't, I don't need ur response.

BadMaster:
Men, I present to you, the simps in our mist. These are the reason why we will always have stupid men amongst us. I am very sure if I ask you guys now, you would probably tell me your girlfriends or wives are loyal to you, not knowing that they are being banged behind your back.

A woman is trying to tell you that most, if not all, women that have achieved a certain age and unmarried, have committed abortion at least once. Mind you, she's not referring to women of all ages, you should know this already, as it's common sense.

u are the simp here. She said every woman which is a false generalization. Because people don't agree with her doesn't make them simps

Makunahatata:
stop capping nonsense.. online billionaire, most of your kinsmen are okada riders and beggars in the Sw

I don't agree with him, but I strongly disagree with u. I don't think I have seen an Igbo beggar or okada rider as much as I have seen Yoruba and Hausa okada riders and beggars. I have stayed in 3 south west state(Lagos, Ogun, Oyo). Never the less I don't think igbos are the richest in Nigeria

I am not someone who is good at plenty story but u see that mathematics en, I like it like die. It is like there is a magnetic signal in my brain that can easily understand math compared to things like biology. So I smile each time I see math

Cruise777:



Africans tend to see alcoholics as a problem

However there are highly functional Alcoholics in the society

There are people who drink regularly and still function properly and there are people who drink and constituite nuisance
.

I disagree with this ur statement, even the white see it as a problem, especially if it is consumed to much

Dsimmer:
But he doesn't play in the serie A

he started gambling on games when he was still at Milan and he do carry Milan games self

Acidosis:
Why haven't you gone back to your village despite the hardship in Lagos, Abuja, and Port Harcourt?

how does the two correlate pls. He isn't complaining of being lonely and sad where he his.

YoungLionken:
Is the above username mad or something !? Coming up with a long useless note up there(I didn't read shi). Well, you're not relevant..

To the topic;

I even thought he went to somewhere better and more hidden..

We often times, underrate the Nigerian government a lot, they feel they don't need to do too much to hide from the government. Kanu Nnamdi made the same mistake too and he was nabbed..

For the men seeing this; A man's temperament, determines his future...

it wasn't thew Nigeria government that found him, but someone who knew his face and alerted the authority and he was stupid enough to go clubbing

Flamemignon1:
It is sexist,days ago,I saw a Facebook post about how a man was raped by another man in Cardiff England in a bar after he was drugged and slipped something,the victim wasn't even gay,now if you won't say the same shit to that man especially when there are men out there who can't hold their liquor,why say it to a woman? It all falls under the "blame the victim but never blame the rapist" trope. I also love the comments that were pouring out from that Facebook post, people were blaming the man who was the victim asking him why was he drunk? It was great to see the dynamic shift to the man,in the post,the man said he finally felt how female rape victims feel when they are blamed for being raped

both male and female don't get drunk that u lose awareness of things around u. That is the best

Imagine bragging about sleeping with a 16years old. Some people are just stupid, like very stupid.

The second statements their I don't see anything wrong there. At least as a precaution, a lady should try to avoid getting drunk so they don't take advantage of her.

Hugo55:
hahahahaha.... What difference does it make!. For an award, it has to the best!, and ranking, its still the best. And in all is the best we are after.

Ronaldo was number 1 last year, does that make him the best player last year?

eteebanky:
But, why'll you beat my child

Do you know how much they sell drugs right now?

Do you know what it takes to receive proper medical treatment in this Godforsaken country?

why will ur child jump fence and steal someone else palm wine? If they take them to police station for theft, they will still be flogged

Hugo55:
Messi also bought this award right?, oh no they rigged it for him in the award and the second time ever right? When you are the best you are! Simply the best GOAT ever.

it is not an award now, just a ranking

Let's be sincere the list is a sham. Ronaldo at 27 and a lot of women players are more marketable than him, imagine

KosiGee:
You are the one with no insights about what you are saying.

Bamboo have higher tensile strength than iron rods?? You should be arrested for this? Your certificate if you’ve got one need to be withdrawn. The man constructing this building should be banned from building sites.

maybe they are mistaking iron for steel

Even sniper kills them

UnemployedGradu:
please don't put pressure on yourself in marrying early. The economy is bad. I am 28 years graduated from school since 2017, did Nysc 2018/2019. I have been jobless for the past 4 years. Won 390k in bet9ja used it to start laptop and phone repair in Kano state but everything scrambled. Kano is just somehow. I left Kano to Ibadan just to hustle now. Ibadan isn't easy oh. See am not pushing pressure on myself because I have never had a girlfriend for the past 4 years. I would advice you not to put pressure on yourself to marry, just follow your pace. Everyone has different destinies.

I can't even pressure myself at all. Me that I know what I do to feed myself alone, i will now go and add another person to my bill again, no that can't happen.

UnemployedGradu:
are you male or female?

male

TruthsFM:
wow you are much on point here.

it depends on the laptop u are using. There are a lot of mac book that cost more than the amount stated. But on the solar own, I agree with u. It pays far more than purchasing fuel everyday

zed7:
This generation would rather make excuses rather than address the issues.

Being 30 and above without being married would give anyone who desires marriage some concern, euther make or female. No need for consolations. Go out more, join social groups, make yourself attractive, don't act desperate, get something doing, change bad habits etc.

People should adopt lifestyle changes instead of consoling themselves in public and weeping in secret.

All the team big and beautiful proponents are gradually finding ways to lose weight and flaunting their new figure all over social media. They once told us that fat is fabulous, after adopting lifestyle changes, they don't allow us rest with their new look pictures.

I will be 30 very soon and I don't have plans of marriage anytime soon. There are other things occupying my mind now and marriage is the least. At least before I reach 33

Houseontherock1:
He's 55 you're 52, close age range...you need each other; you are growing old at the same pace

will Smith doesn't need her. She has so disrespected will Smith that I wonder why he remains silent. I have seen like 3 interviews from her this month and she has only spoken negative things towards will smith, like she has not said anything good in any of the interviews I have seen and she keeps talking to paint him bad. It's like he has been bewitched and what annoys me the most is that will is so good looking that he can get any woman he wants, but decided to settle with her(she doesn't look attractive to me, both past and present image of her). Like I have to agree with everybody that called him a simp. He and Samson should be placed in the same category of simps.