₦airaland Forum

johnime:
am a pretty girl with welcoming attributes, a 19 years old 300 level student. But I think something is wrong with me, at times I think and end up tearing so bad.
Ever since my last relationship by last year November, it's been difficult getting another date, at first I didn't consider it an issue cos I know am pretty and young too but right now I can't help but panic.. Have been single for a whole year, no sex, no fling, no boyfriend. Is something wrong with meOr did my ex bf curse me?? I don't know.

Apart from my parents, I don't have any guy at all that could dash me even 5k, not even subscription. Nlers please is something wrong with me?? The funny and annoying thing is that most people don't even believe I don't have a boyfriend, they are always like "fine girl like you?? Na lie jor".

Am just confused and worried. Isn't this something I should be worried about Am not disabled ooo, am not ugly at all, I don't have bad personality. Am even a seamstress ooo plus my academic excellence. So please what's the problem I know a lot of bad girls with bf that would die for them, ugly girls too. And I wonder if I have an issue I can't see. Have always wished to marry immediately after my N.Y.S.C, but is this how I will marry when I can't even get myself a boyfriend??
P.S. that my ex is the only guy have dated and it took me months to get over him. Now I believe am fully over him but I can't get another date..
nlers followers something is wrong with me right Please my identity should be hidden

Um, na your real picture dey your DP so? If yes, I can't believe that person is younger than 20.

And with a look like that, people like me will definitely walk on by, even as I never get money so. I hope you know you're not likely going to attractive someone responsible projecting yourself in such way. Just saying, not judging.

Christaks:
BetFair app is not on playstore too...dt means thy r also wat?

I came across your post via a search; I know it's been some time.

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sonymax16:
On the 1xbet app, scroll down on the menu, u will see financial exchange, tap on it and you will see betting exchange.
Yea, the other sites accept Nigerians

Thanks, brova.

sonymax16:
Laybet on 1xbet is messed up. Try betfair or ladbrokes

Thanks for the response. But is the option still available? If yes, how do I locate it?

Do the other sites accept Nigerians?

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emperordelis:
i wonder what will happen to people like you if you wake up one day and realize that google is gone.you'll probably live the rest of your life with no brain.for your mind na everything dey google abi?? Ewu

You obviously lack good manners. I won't bring myself so low as to engage in mud-slinging with you. It's not worth it.

And about Google, you need it to avoid making a fool of yourself next time. It's a bad, disgraceful and dangerous thing to utter or do things from half-knowledge.

I rest my case. If you are incorrigible, it's not my business. Peace.

emperordelis:
i no get wetin to tell you,all this 3" lads.park well abegi

What can you tell me? You obviously know nothing.

It is a disgraceful thing to claim knowing something you don't have a clue about. If you're not lazy to learn, Google is your friend.

Nbote:
Wen will dey introduce a stable and improved ntwrk?? Dats my interest.. Until den I'll still with Mtn and 9salat

You're on point, bro. It's not by quantity, but quality. The last time I tested their N500 plan hoping to get 1.6GB I got 800MB.

What was more frustrating was the quality of connection and I had 10 days to use it up.

The supplementary N500 (500MB) monthly plan I had been using on Etisalat/9mobile was way better.

emperordelis:
Smart bisi,na oyigbo him marry,oyigbo wey no dey get reach 14"...if to say na black madingo dey knack am,him for no see hand take snap this kain picture

Who you know wey him own reach 14 inches? Na horse? Abegi.

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Feshizzy:
Here comes the Broke Billionaire,
All show and no go!


Kadlaj carry your foolishness and go,
We don't want to join you,

After like 300 losses you then cut and join only the good few you managed to be in profit,


Kudos,
But no one is dumb enough to fall for such trash!

Sir, any proof of the bold, please?

onlinetomola:
Nairabet....But make badluck no follow you as e follow me when i lost 170k my house rent to dem o.

Funny. You get mind o risking such an amount at a go. I have lost lots as well, but never did a 10th of that at once.

Strangely, you still advised he tried same.

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CeeKay17:
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donpata:
I was moved to write this epistle cos of the fp topic of marrying someone who earns 35k yesterday. I have seen such questions on NL but I normally ignore them. Someone even asked if a lady can marry someone who earns 100k . I normally laugh at the comments and move on. I laughed at the sheer ignorance of many commenters, and the foolish statements many made. I decided to assume that 70% of the people who commented are either undergraduates still studying who have a big Disney picture of the sweet employment awaiting them or some who have not really known what is out there in the world. The remaining 20% earn well probably and so feel life should be like that for everyone. The remaining 10% commenters are those who really see life as it is in reality – DIFFERENT STROKES FOR DIFFERENT FOLKS. Now am gonna be objective and subjective at the same time. And let me warn you – IT’S LONG

Me? 30yrs, had my BSc in the north but did my MSc at UI. Hoping to register for Phd by next year.
My fiancée? 24ys old and currently awaiting 300 lv registration. Will be done by 2019.

Fact: without any serious research, I think I am save to say that at least 50% of families (basically father and mother) in Nigeria earn a combined income of less than 40k in a month.
Fact: The federal govt claims it has about 100k civil servants. Add paramilitary and military with about 500k personnel and public office holders, I think 800k people in active service on FG’s payroll is a fair judgment. For the sake of argument, let’s assume fg has another 800k retired personnel on pension. That’s like 1.6 million people. Nigeria has a population of 180million people. The WB estimate Nigeria has a workforce of about 60 million in 2016. If we delete the 1.6million on FGs payroll, we still have about 58.4million people left. Obviously, the remaining are left for the State and Local govt as well as private sector to employ. How many are employed?
Lagos state claims it has about 100,000 workers in its payroll. Let me be liberal enough to use it as a benchmark for all Nigerian states and fct. 100k by 37 = 3.7million employees.
Obviously, we still have over 50million people to employ. How many will the Real private sector pick? Yeah those that will pay a graduate from 60k above – how many can they pick? Now many will have to be entrepreneurs, “self-employed” people, petty traders, artisans etc. How much can they really earn monthly?

Fact: 80% of state and LGA workers between level 1 and 10 earn less than 50k in a month. Apart from states like Lagos, Rivers, Akwa Ibom and a few others, most states, especially in the North, pay quite low. On level 8, with Kad Govt, I earn 35-37k. It fluctuates monthly. Note that there are married people with at least 3 children that are on lev 1 - 6. Do the maths.

Wedding:
Many asked how one will pay bride price. Well, I have crossed that bridge. I know my status so before I even got a lady, I started buying some stuff like wrappers to keep. More so, my savings, family and friends rally round me and that was solved. Only a foolish lady will think of bride price as an issue here. Except if her family is poor, why should they demand too much?. 2 of my sisters that married had their bride price pegged at 5k each. The total money paid on the first was 25k and 50k for the 2nd. Mind you, they are currently running their masters programme so they ain’t illiterates. Let me stop here.

So the Wedding? How will I handle it? SIMPLE: I AM CUTTING MY COAT ACCORDING TO MY POCKET

Box: I went to the market and saw boxes of 100-200k. I was showed a set of 5 for 30k as well. I opted for a set of 5 at 60k. That’s my own level too. Mind you there were people picking that of 30k too. Different strokes for Different folks.

RECEPTION VENUE: Church Premises. My church got a lot of space so why should I spend 200-500k (that I don’t even have) renting a hall for a 2hr event? A guy who got married last month in my Church did not do reception at all. Again, Different strokes for Different folks.

Wedding Cards: Saw a nice foreign one. They said it will cost me 30k per 100. I needed 500. I was showed another that will cost 5k per 100. I Finally opted for the one of 10k per 100. Even got a 5k discount.

My suit? I opted for a 16k suit and my best man decided to pay for it.

My shoes? I got really nice shoes but coz it’s my day, I opted for new ones. I picked up a very nice one for 2k. It aint top notch quality but it should take me through the day. It can actually pass for a ck or d&g when viewed from a distance.

My Chairs and Canopies? My organizers are 20. Lol . They have paid 80% of the money.

Cake? My aunt who has a HND in catering bla bla and has been in it for almost 15yrs running has taken that as her contribution.

DJ and Camera man? My men in suit, (5 in number) have paid for that service.

MC? A friend is good at it. That is his contribution.

Wedding Gown: My cake designer linked me to a lady who rents out. She thus charged us 10k for a nice wedding gown. I deposited 5k. Will pay 5k after the event.
Need I continue? I don’t think so.

The main thing – The marriage life
Yeah I know you are saying all I have said na wash. You are waiting for how reality will hit me after the marriage cos that’s the main deal. You gonna say you await my regret thread after some few months. Sorry, your expectation will be cut short.

Fees:
Now, my to-be wife will be registering for a new session by December. Her fees is just arnd 30k so I kept that amount and I have promised myself not to touch it until its time. I don’t even need to touch it. Everything appears almost set and done.

Clothing: I filled my wife’s box to the “brim” with both native and English wears. So for now, cloths aint really an issue.

Accommodation: Here in KD, a 1 bedroom mini flat cost between 80-150k depending on the location. Am not talking of a 2 room flat cos, truly, I don’t need it now. But I am not even thinking of taking the mini flat either. A room and parlor (real face me I face u) cost between 18k-45k depending on the location. There are better ones; mostly new houses that cost 40-60k. I’ve gotten a very nice one for 55k. Just 2 tenants in the house and the other guy is single so we just gonna be sharing the toilet with him. It’s not that I can’t afford it but wisdom must direct me. I got 2plots of land already so I don’t even intend staying in that house beyond a year or 2.

My building: I already have 2 plots of land. I’ve struck an agreement with some guys who will supply me mud blocks at N20 each. At my estimate of 3000 blocks, that’s 60k . Havent paid but after my wedding, I will do it jejely. My plan is to rush the building and roof it b4 the rains come next year. I paid some guys in my area 7k so by next week, they are gonna go there and dig the foundation of a 2bedroom flat for me. Not that I am building now but I have to dig during the rainy season cos the land gets hard during the dry season. My intention is to use just ¼ of the land for that so that when I am blessed wella, I will use the remaining ¾ of the land to build my pent house. Need I tell you that by estimates, I need 6 bundles of those “aluminum” sheets to roof it? I bought 3 last year when it was 16k. I could not add cos it went up to 30k. I heard it’s 20k now but I can’t buy the remaining 3 now cos of my wedding preps. Will do that after my wedding when I have relaxed a bit.

Feeding?
A 50kg bag of rice takes me over 5 months now that I am alone. I believe in varieties so I got different things stocked in my room. Adding one or two extra plate should not make life difficult. I planted maize on my 2 plots. Once harvested, I won’t need to buy semovita all the time. If you have been to the north, you will know that with my harvest, Tuwo is served. Need I continue? I don’t think so. Let me not bore you further.

My support to extended Families
Someone asked in that thread that how do one take care of his families and inlaws. Well, my family aint rich but they can cater for themselves. My dad and mum earn and have only one child left in the university. Moreover, they are sensible enough to know that they should not expect from me. Rather, what is sensible is for them to support me if need be . My fiancées’ parents aint rich either. But I know they aint so poor to demand me to take care of their own responsibility when they know I have their daughter to cater for. Of coz, once in a while, I will do what I can for our families.

Children
Just a child and I will pause until she is done with school. I know it’s gonna come with challenges but I don’t think you expect me to plan out every day of my life and budget for same here. I know that I will cross the bridge when I get there.

Other wants
I am a gadget freak. Before my wedding preps, I buy things impulsively. Now I know I have to control that. I know what lies ahead of me. That’s why I didn’t go for an iphone but went for a hot note. When the hot note packed up, I didn’t kill myself for a Samsung s7 even though I love it. I went for my sweet Ulefone Tiger @ 31k. When I went for a tab, I didn’t go for an ipad; not even a tecno pad. I went for imose xii . Instead of ps3 console, I download games to my laptop and play them. That serves me.

I CAN TRULY GO ON AND ON BUT CALLING SOMEONE A FOOL AS MANY DID ON THAT THREAD YESTERDAY IS QUITE ILLOGICAL. My dad married at 24. My mum was 19 then. Both are now degree holders. Things have changed and that’s why I am marrying at 30. I don’t want to clock 50 and yet taking my first child to write Common Entrance. If you like say I am rushing.
Firstly, I love my fiancée die. 2ndly, I am a Christian and my bodily desires are building up strongly. Marriage is the way out. 3rdly, I love kids. Since they are an inheritance, I can’t wait to have one as God wills. Lastly, I wanna retire in peace. Not old man using my pension to train undergraduates and Jambites.
Finally, I am not complacent with where I am. I have handled a few millions before but this is where I am now. I wanna go for my phd and I hope to reestablish myself in business. But I can’t again let my social life suffer cos of where I am today. I have a job now; low paying as it is, I know if well managed, I will make it out. Even if I remain in the employ of the State Govt, I cant earn 35k forever. I am young and will keep moving on.

DISCLAIMER: This is not meant to force anyone to get married when he is not ready - Not at all. I just want some people to know that there are different strokes for different folks. There are too many factors that determine happiness and success in life and marriage. Your salary is just one. YOU CANT CALL ME A FOOL FOR MY DECISION. I HAVE CAREFULLY WEIGHED MY CIRCUMSTANCE AND PROSPECTS AND I FEEL I AM READY TO TAKE THE LEAP. I KNOW IT WONT BE A WALK IN THE PARK; BUT IT WONT BE TOO DIFFICULT EITHER.
FOR THE “FOOLS AT 40” WAITING FOR THEIR MILLIONS TO BUILD UP BEFORE SETTLING DOWN, TILL UNA COME.
FORGIVE ME FOR THE LONG EPISTLE. HAD TO TAKE MY TIME SO THAT SOME PEOPLE WILL APPRECIATE THAT NO TWO PEOPLE HAVE SAME CIRCUMSTANCES AND SITUATIONS.

I PROMISE TO RAISE ANOTHER THREAD ANNUALLY TO TELL YOU HOW FAR WE HAVE GONE.

Bro, I highly respect people like you - those who really think things through and know themselves. I wish I had your courage, though. I must say you are lucky to have such a lady as well.

Many people are petty, paying most attention to trivial matters. They devote most attention to issues such as bride price and wedding, when what matters more is the married life.

Little wonder why an increasing number of marriages don't last. If I do get married, the preambles, including wedding ceremony, will be on low scale, God allowing. Those matter for less. I don't compete unnecessarily or try to show off, even if I have the werewithal.

adaeze12345:
plesae i sincerly need your help U1

Just checking today. May I know what sort of help that is?

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How much is your tool and can we see it in action? You aren't on WhatsApp.

This is one of those bad weeks it is wrong to go with crowd mentality. To think I had the band on Kane until deadline day. Hm.

The title of this thread perfectly capture my thought: beware of Nairabet!

If this is the best bookie in Nigeria, you guys depositing huge money are out of luck. Just know that when issues arise, you may be left on your own.

I was trying to make a withdrawal weeks ago without success, merely because I used an initial for my surname (well, that's what I think). There was no single response to about three emails sent to 'customer support' inquiring why I couldn't make a withdrawal.

I even posted on the thread started by Mr. Akinalabi on Nairaland, but I got no acknowledgement let alone a reply. You may check here:

https://www.nairaland.com/2821845/nairabet-customers-agents-free-bets/28#60290729
(Sept. 09)
https://www.nairaland.com/2821845/nairabet-customers-agents-free-bets/29#60371694
(Sept. 12)

Note: I made this post on Oct. 17.

Needless to say the money never landed in my bank account; had to transfer it to a 'friend.' Beware! My two cents.

NL1960:
Is this in Lagos?.

Yes, but on the outskirts.

NL1960:
If you are going through your account officer, stop. Just ask for the TB officer or you go to a branch that is not yours and ask for the TB officer.

I don't even know my account officer, although I have been trying to do this at the branch where I opened the account.

The bad part is that the second nearest branch of the bank is about 20-30 minutes away by bus.

spriteB:
I got 15.5% for 87 days from Stanbic IBTC secondary market this morning!

I wanted to go fill out my bid for 91 days,primary market when the Officer told me 87 days was available at the secondary market @ 15.5%. I filled out the form sharp sharp!

Ma'am, did you invest up to N250m?

You may be surprised by the question. But that's what some apparently clueless customer care agent told me I needed to invest in the secondary market. The person told me I can only do primary market with less than that amount.

If there were any limitations, such are more likely to apply to the primary market. I was aware that the minimum for that was announced at N50m months back. Still, people still do lower amount. So I knew the agent had to be clueless.

I'm amazed at how people seem to get secondary bills at Stanbic with relative ease. I went there four consecutive days two weeks ago for same, but it was one story or another as to why I can't get the TB.

I actually got the erroneous or deceptive customer care response after visits to bank failed to yield something positive. To think I opened the account recently solely for this purpose. Fund movement looks inevitable as things stand.

HAkorehdeh:
copy /paste the fellow's number on olx.
Use Google search for iPhone 6 pictures..
Tell em you wanna sell your 'iPhone 6 for 20k giveaway'.

Una don give am work niyen

Some people for this Nairaland sha!

It's just strange how MTN, and maybe other networks, can't help customers do something as simple as blocking a specific number. Not every line is used on an Android or iOS device and so not all customers can install apps for this purpose.

There's one odd fellow that has been bugging me for almost a month now. He beeps my phone practically every day.

I called him around the fourth day after he started the rubbish. After responding to my 'hello' normal way, he began to talk gibberish in some language. I ended the call immediately.

After observing for a while, I noticed he usually called in the morning. I decided to start keeping the phone off till afternoon since it's not my primary device. The fellow somehow still beeps, just once a day, when I eventually put the device on.

I just can't fathom why a person in his right senses will do something like this. To think MTN can't even help to prevail on the fellow. E taya me.

xynerise:
Mine is 37 minus 12pts for transfer
Total is 25.

At least, I have found someone I do pass.

MaziOmenuko:
Shey now that I scattered my team to get Kane in, he can't find the net again. Bloody ars'ewipe costing me -8pts.



You seem to have it all going for u this season. Keep it up.

Na wa for that Kane guy jare. Na now when 'ordinary' Bournemouth show him no fit do nada. Na wa! To think I was contemplating Jesus, but for fear of rotation and Kane's popularity.

Sorry for waking a dead post. I just have to add something to this.

Had similar experience as the OP with a Tier 2 Instant Savings Account at the same bank last year after liquidating some thousands I fixed from the account. They put me through very tough time. I got the account unblocked at a time and it was blocked again after making a withdrawal.

They rejected all forms of identity I had, insisting on permanent voter's card, national ID card, driver's licence or international passport. Long story short: I had to cough out roughly 30K to get a passport for just account unblocking. What a bank!

Greetings! $230 (Payoneer) up for grabs at 77K Sold!!!. Do get in touch via the number in my signature if interested. BUT before you do that, please note:

* I don't send first
* If you wish to use escrow, you will do the arrangement, although I have specific persons I can accept

Thank you for your cooperation.

Greetings! $230 (Payoneer) up for grabs at 77K Sold!!!. Do get in touch via the number in my signature if interested. BUT before you do that, please note:

* I don't send first
* If you wish to use escrow, you will do the arrangement, although I have specific persons I can accept

Thank you for your cooperation.

I wonder why Stanbic didn't have secondary market bills for yesterday and today. Is this normal, people? Recently opened an account with them based on what I read here. But they are starting to disappoint already.

It appears they place more emphasis on the primary market, while the banks I previously used won't even let you have that option with little capital. Could someone in the know please tell me the minimum they accept for primary market?

Adegbem01:
I am a young graduate, passionate about agriculture and since I left school I have been over several aspects of farming. I am currently into cucumber farming and rabbit farming. The farm is at is early stage with great potential, but fund is crucial at the present stage. Please it not a dark or online business, if you are ready to do business and invest or partnership. I will walk you through my plans and projections.
If interested please pm me through my signature. Thanks

Hello, sir. I think I'd like to know more about your plans. Who knows? I may be interested. Do respond to your PM.

katamo:
If CBN continues to print large amounts of money to support government borrowing, it will result in even higher levels of inflation. With higher levels of inflation, the real rate of return (nominal rate - inflation rate) will decrease. T-bill rates should adjust to reflect inflation in the medium term so bit better than longer term bonds.

Anyone looking to invest in longer term bonds like the FGN or sukuk bonds need to consider inflation risk before they lock in their funds for the long term.

Nice point, sir. But no matter how bad it gets, TB will always be better than leaving your money in the bank insofar as you will get your money back.