₦airaland Forum

fykes:
True love is when this dude has 10M and he still remembers the girl

You have said it all

NotNairalandi:
Some people still don't believe love is a scam..the only true love is mother to child love.mothers can stand and be proud of you no matter your condition,but your wife or girlfriend will abandon or hate you when the thing that attracted them to you goes off.

If you are caught as an Armed robber ,at a point of trying to burn you alive your mother will cry for your rescue but at that point your wife or girlfriend will disappear out of shame.

True relationship shouldn't be an agreement,it should flow naturally.people go into agreement when they only want to exchange some thing,example;the man needs kids or sex from you while the woman wants money/material things and security.

I just love her/him unconditionally,this statement is a scam.

father to child love nko?

na joke i dey o

but I see your point

humans are opportunistic in nature

gloria34:
Most of our mothers sacrificed their lives just to keep their marriages going till old age, what award did they receive? Was a special grave dug 4 them of were they buried in d air? Marriage is sweet when both parties are putting effort to make it work, d minute one party starts to frustrate the other, na to waka dey ground o. I cannot come and kill myself

Not only women back then

even men back in the days had to put up with ill mannered wives but were stuck in such marriages because divorcess were stigmatized

that said, you are right that it takes two parties to make the relationship work

It could be the woman who is not being cooperative, and that is where a lot of women refuse to accept
according to them it can never be the woman's fault.

I agree that men sometimes no dey try, but it's the same for the women too

not all marriages go bad because of the man

frozen70:
My dear, no woman goes into marriage and wants divorce

Some situations and circumstances leads to it

Those things that leads to such behaviours are displayed during courtship but the ladies would be thinking it will get better, rather it gets tough and bad every day

No marriage is sweeter

Every marriage is like different pots of jollof rice with different tastes

Even the men are seeing marriage as a favour to women and the women are proving to them that life goes on if the marriage doesn't work

No body prays to be in a marriage that lacks love and happiness, its like eating a pot of soup that doesn't have salt but every other ingredients are in it

Typical of you

Always blame the man

According to your logic, women are never to blame


after my life experiences, I often scrutinise befire I take the woman's side or any side

Quorax:
The government have a role to play. None of my kids will bear English names.

That is your choice

which is good

but don't vilify others who don't want to do same

it's a free world

gabbytabby:
Maybe them tire to endure the deadbeat, cheating and sometimes deceased wey won infect them, thieving, wife beater husbands wey full ground.

Or them suddenly realise say some men are only good for something so them cut their loses and move on.

so in this many instances, it is always the man that is to blame?


which kind twisted logic be this

flyca:
Maybe they are running away from deadbeat dads, who knows

it's but about dead beat dads

these ladies are NOT ready for the rigors of marriage in the real sense of it.

which is not bad in itself

But that's the truth

A married person needs to make a lot of changes in lifestyle

unfortunately, these ones are not ready for that

Thales01:
Which one is Xavier again?I wonder why most African parents opt for foreign names for their kids at the expense of indigenous names that are reflective of our culture and African identity.No wonder our culture is on brink of extinction.We keep co-opting the western culture symptomatic of identity crisis.

nothing wrong with giving your kids foreign names tho

It's a global practice (well except amongst some Muzzues tho)

Slynation:
Lol.... He has seen little children naw
Don't forget as at 12yrs ago, Mikel was on dsame level with Lionel Messi

Typical black nigga

why do my people reason like this bikonu?

izzou:

In the land of the blind, a one-eyed man is King
Mikel is too experienced for that kind of league
Tufiakwa

Typical black man

netpro:
Russians colluded with Trump campaign to help him win, he is yet to shake it off even as president.

Now due to selfish interest and desperation to return to power and continue looting, the PDP and their supporters are hoping on United States to install a puppet.

Come Saturday the 23rd, Nigerians will join hands together and resist every forms of interference.

the current idiot in aao rock benefited from foreign collusion as well

so why are you cry babies crying?

it's pointing to one direction

Buhari will be chased out BY ANY MEANS come Saturday

watch and see

oglalasioux:
Dear OP,

Thanks for your post. I understand how you feel. Every right thinking man thinks same way too. But the sad truth is; we are in Nigeria and your sentiments don't work here. More often than not, women here see men as their meal ticket. Love is dead here. Any woman that accepts a man for who he is has a sugar daddy somewhere providing those things she is not asking from you.

I hear you say there are established women out there. Good. How did they get established? Behind every successful woman there's a sugar daddy. And for the ones from rich homes; they will marry only men from rich homes. Sorry.

this line is very powerful "Behind every successful woman is a sugar daddy" is the case in Nigeria

not all


but too too many "independent" women in Nigeria

buJu234:
I think just we pray to God we need to live wisely. Nigeria is becoming more & more a dangerous/funny place to live in..., try and reduce any avenue for evildoers to manifest..

Some safety tips:-
take ur kids to day school, avoid Nanny/maid, stay in a good gated estate, reduce ur night movement, take flight if possible instead of bus, live a low level life, carry less cash, use high quality private hospital , dont argue with uniform people, -always stay alert and observant etc

too much stress living in Nigeria

bigtt76:
People don't seem to understand the issue here

1. Gbenro is in the US courtesy Osas' US nationality
2. Gbenro needs to be in the US for a long stretch of time or his green card would void
3. Gbenro is working his ass out to fend for the family. All those pix with him flexing is just what it is
4. Gbenro meant well by trying to get Osas in order

exactly so

people are not seeing that

Why are they not all settled in the U.S. like most of their mates

But its their life sha

Naughtysite:
Abuja and Kaduna boys.
Sons of politicians and their business friends

You know them well

lereinter:
This comment is wrapped in perversion

That guy yiu quoure is saying the truth

Which kind wahala be this one na

Vado:
Osas was just a Thot in Cam'rons Killas Season movie a decade ago. I bet Cam doesn't even recall her now but she's a celeb suddenly in Naija because na Americana. Tueh!

lmao

lonelydora:
Homosexuality is too much in the Northern part of Nigeria, abuja inclusive, and other parts of Nigeria too.

In fact, for you to get connection in Kaduna, Abuja, Kano, etc you have to belong. Gays plenty, Lesbians plenty.

Even in the southern part too, 3 out of every 5 girls you meet in Owerri and Port Harcourt are lesbians. Many married women now claim to Bisexual just to belong


If God do not punish Nigerian for this, He may need to apologise to Sodom and Gomorrah

God is under NO obligations to apologise to anybody

But I get your point

Guyman02:
This is the reality

this could be true

Richdad50:
I wonder why there is no
"I believe that there is no Allah but God"
"I believe that Jesus is God's only Son."
"I believe that Christianity is the Only True Religion."
"lā ʾilāha ʾillā-llāh, muhammadun rasūlu-llāh is a useless phrase"
The moderators restrict Muslim posts and allow you to tongue lash the gospel. Keep commenting

#Richdad

it's a shame

Esseite:
Did APC meet the time line? NO
Did PDP meet the time line? YES.

What does the Constitution say?

So the Law should not take course because APC failed to file aspirants?

SDP didn't file presidential as well because they had court cases till the time line elasped... who is fighting for them?

We are destroying our institutions.

EXACTLY

babaolofin:
Fayose is a very crude & uncivilised person who used hooliganism and rural populace to become a governor of a rural state - Ekiti. I wonder who is behind assassinations in Ekiti. Bunmi Ojo rest in peace.

Only loser and a very weak party will be excited when a strong and formidable opposition is penalised from fielding a candidate in democracy election which is built on popular votes.

No matter what happens, can PDP in Ekiti be prevented from fielding a candidate against APC thereby leaving APC as the only unopposed governorship or senatorial candidate? It is not possible. Bashorun Afe Babalola, Falana, Wole Olanipekun know there will be anarchy .

I don't see how Democrats or Republican party will be penalised from fielding a candidate for Senatorial, House of Reps and Governorship election in Texas, Kansas, Idaho, South Dakota, North Dakota, Tennessee, Montana, Alabama, Florida , Indiana, Hawaii, Missouri and other strong Republican & Democrats States in USA. The Chief Justice of United States knows that will be an invitation to anarchy.

In South West Nigeria where I come from, I am from Ogun State, I don't see how APC or PDP will be penalised from participating in Governorship election giving victory without election to the only candidate who contested unopposed even before election as the situation is now in Rivers State.

In Lagos, no matter what happens, if APC is penalised leaving the race only to Jimmy Agbaje, then Jimi himself knows there is a problem. The same thing is applicable to all states in South West.

Fayose has never been an urbane person. PDP should be prepared to meet APC on the election field of Zamfara if they are not intimidated by APC supporters. PDP has blackmailed INEC and created confusion and chaos leading to logistical issues which led to the postponement of the election.

why did APC contravene the law by not conducting their primaries and submit names as at when due?

APShit under their use less chairman set the party up for failure and the law is clearly against the candidacy of APC in these states

Oyegun would have done a better job, but as the useless party they are, they prefered an illiterate loud mouth

now look at the result

APC cannot win elections in those states

The law will nullify it

it's a female trait
even tho they often deny it

Dukeolumidemans:
Suddenly we have become the subject of redicle all over the world due to the way we think.
In summary crop the people of America and paste them in Nigeria, crop the people of Nigeria and paste them in America and America will turn to Nigeria and Nigeria will turn to America...
Wealth is not in places, it's in the people...until the people change their mentality, poverty, backwardness and stupid leaders will not cease to exist among us...

Modified; I've changed mine and it made me rich in less than 2yrs. U too can do it if u choose to change.

You have said itall

MacLovington:
Nigeria seriously lacks philia. That is why you first of all an Hausa-Fulani, Igbo, Edo, Yoruba, Tiv, Ijaw, Berom and so on and depending on circumstances a Nigerian as a distant second.
In such circumstances patriotism and a sense of shared identity and citizenship are in very short supply.
For those ITK goons, I am responding to a specific post here, not directly related to thread topic.
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destruction of the educational system is to blame

Angela777:
some do, as I said, any person is different. But yes, mostly Nigerian men don't marry for love because Nigerian men are selfish users, most of them. Same they don't marry Nigerian black young women for love, just because the family expects them so and to use her for to have children.

Generally speaking, my advice to any woman, white or black or yellow, do not marry a Nigerian man, he paints love as real but it's all pretending. If you wish to marry a Nigerian, make him spend lots of money on you for to see how badly he wants you, it's only rule they understand, money.

not all Nigerian men are like that

note that


If you or any other one was jilted by a Nigerian, it's due to their character, not because it's a collective thing

nwanneni:
shut up!u dey live with them? Una don start this una casting dem Jealousy

Is it not the truth

ayaside:
They do!There are hundreds and thousands of oyinbo that condemn this bit of course you wouldn't know cos YouTube them as a yardstick for civilization.And so you don't forget,we started this a long time ago.Checkout the movie "the gods must be crazy"

conservative whites are the ones who condemn it

Conservatives are the same globally

Just that most Africans are conservative pricks

But it's a balanced mix between conservative and liberals in the western world

rentAcock:
This is rubbish, we speak English and not pidgin English. They teach us English in school not this crap. My parents used to punish me for speaking pidgin English, so I definitely have a problem with the white man trying to speak it as if it's our official language. Foreigners all think the moment they add "O" to the end of a sentence, it automatically makes them fluent in pidgin English.

what is wrong with this one?

bianconerriii:
Oh well, after some deep soul searching and introspection, I have decided to end it for good.
Lesson learnt, moving on.

God save you......


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