₦airaland Forum

safarigirl:
oyibo and female children.....the possibility of 95% of white guys having sons is like 5 in 1....no wonder they say the black population will outnumber the white population by the turn of the century

Huh?

fhunmi:
hy....i gained admission this year to study economics and i need ur assistance....i have some questions to ask
thanks

OK then. Do the needful.

ruffDiamond:
which right?? Who doesn't know his right? Na only Yoruba u dey talk?MOST TRIBES in Nigeria HATE and DESPISE the Igbo's for that very disgustingly unacceptable loathsome behaviour s!ask an average Hausa man on the Street ,in fact ,ask any tribe u ll get the same answer as mine. all around the world ,RESPECT,next to LOYALTY, isrecognized ,appreciated and rewarded .even one famous Mtn advert says it all: BOW DOWN AND ACHIEVE remember that? Little wonder y'all finding it difficult to produce a President after the respected ZIK it all boiedl down to lack of trust and confidence in the Igbo, a tribe which prides itself and mistakes lack of decorum, being generally disrespectful, haughtiness and uncivilized behaviours to so called bravery and courage and the vain pride they so much love to indulge and delude themselves with ad infinitum as if other are just simpleton, all cos of a very faulty and absolutely wrong orientation and poor upbringing .as for me I CAN NEVER have anything TO DO WITH ANY SUCH PERSON OR PERSONS

Just read the trash you wrote up there. That is why you all are slaves to your crimin
and useless elders. especially that Bart are called Tinubu.

Continue

Now you see why Africa cannot progress.... Power tussle among incompetent lots who will still ruin the state is raisin this kind of dust.
Is a shame

Freshboi:
My brother, think well. With the migrant crisis in Europe and the economic issues that would result from it, you need to look before you leap. If you want to hustle, wetin you wan go do for there? Wash plates? Sweep road? With a Masters degree here, you stand a better chance of employment. With it, you can enter other African countries and make a life.

Which other African countries will you recommend for him to make a life after masters? Just curious?

ruffDiamond:
then u be never had much with the type of kids u mentioned in I the post ...that part abt trying to control adult ehn, the flatees kids broke all records in all form of RUDENESS, AND PRIMEVAL BEHAVIOR S,DISGUSTINGLY CRUDE ATTITUDE .respect for others is never part of their upbringing and culture right from infancy!do yr research well ,they come up top of the list .just add b to east and u know the rest

Keep quite there.
I bet you are Yoruba, so let me educate you.
I'm an igbo person, and our culture is founded on egalitarian foundations. That is imbibed in his/her head from childhood. So every one, both old and young respect each other, as opposed to Yoruba culture that the elders don't respect the young.

You cannot just shout down an Igbo kid or young adult, just because you think you are older than him, especially when he is on his right, neither can you just push Ihim anyhow. Yoruba on the other hand, promotes such thongs.


It is a culture clash. That is all, and that is why Yoruba people don't understand Ibo people.

ruffDiamond:
That's how most Igbo flattiees children are brought up .very rude ,disrespectful, uncouth, ills mannered ,poorly educated despicated lots.from where the finally become nuisance and menace to society everywhere they go the kinda children who wake up their parents in the morning with a KICK, demanding for food

Look at this tool.... Bringing tribalism into this.
This problem cuts across board, and is not peculiar to any tribe

ziccoit:
Constitution allowed for substitution of candidate in case of death except before the commencement of an election. The same constitution asked the deputy to step in after the election has been validly won and something happens to the boss.

Audu died during not before the commencement of an election.

Election has not been validly won according to INEC rule and electoral guideline.

APC has won this election already. The only battle ground is the Supreme Court. That is where it would be sorted out whether the new substitute or Audu deputy is the right figure to head the government.

PDP has no case here, going to court would amount to wasting of money though that may see to development of our body of law and constitutional provisions.

Nigeria will be great again.

About your picture? now that is a sensible country. Not Nigeria that the citizens don't give a shot.

Naturalle:
Seriously dude, stupidity is unbecoming! Lots of parents Don't know when their teen has had sex cos teens will never confide in naija parents. As per email exchange, do you know if she's looking for closure? How do you try to explain a psychological problem with a logical fix?

You don't need to reply him. He is a chauvinist and a fool who knows nothing.

dinachi:
I blame the HIV infected sperm that produced you for giving the world a pathetic compoud fool like you. Your parents should have pounded you and the mortar and solfd you to those native doctors for charms that cure dysentry. You are infinitely silly, and you have ansolutely no sense. A jilted hoe just employed you on nairaland to be her publicist and you agreed. If any adult is around you there, ask him to kill you!

Bla bla bla..........

dinachi:
Shut your rotten crap you call mouth. Where was her mother? if she was a minor, where was her mother?As a minor she is under the care of her mother.This is a very clear matter. Her family thougth the relationship was headed to the Altar. it didnt happen and the evil nymphomaniac went beserk trying to pull the guy down. This is pure rubbish. Foolish men like you are why girls like this spill this kind of story.

You are a big fool. Instead of condemning the man for taking advantage of the girl you are talking rubbish.
She is not a saint and she made wrong choices, but that doesn't give that goat the right to violate her like that. If a kid is asking for knife, will you give that child the knife?

you are a useless son of an unfortunate parent. May sat an male your daughter suffer such fate. In fact, the paedophile will pour hiv infested sperm inside her.
Bastard! !!!!

I am disgusted with the posts from some men (boys) and even women about this case... This goes to show how depraved Nigeria is, and how close to animals their thinking faculties are Some are commenting trash because of guilty conscience, as many of them engage in such acts themselves.

Nothing justifies taking advantage if a minor. Simple. even if she was allegedly stupid and was dating him, as the adult, couldn't he use his discretion to decline such. Oh, I forgot he is Muslim. Sleeping with minors is no thing to them.

Many boys here are just frustrated and they are venting here If it was ur sister that was the victim, will you talk like this? You think it cannot happen to your sister? Just watch out!!!!!

Back to the topic::
The matter should 've thoroughly investigated, and if indeed he did this, then his own daughters will be gang banged in the a.nus mouth and v.agina at the same time, and they would all pour hiv infected s.perm into her a.nus and mouth.

After all the sins of the rather also befall his offspring

JJJC:
Read this

Ewuo. Let us see how this ends.

9jatatafo:
You are in the spirit. That is why I don't envy other people because of their status since all that glitters are not gold

Na so my brother. I no know say the man gist don Kast. Damn it. My father did contracts for some of these men, and on getting closer to them, you will just go home, kneel down, and thank God for your life.
Am telling you.

9jatatafo:
Na wa oo. These guys are monsters in human bodies.
I won't doubt this story because I know a very popular and prominent rich man who disvirgin his own daughters before they start meeting men outside

I know that man too. And people outside are envious of them.

baslone:
He could have lost all the crazy money he had in his prime.

Tyson is still worth about a million dollars as at today thats around a quarter of a billion naira.

How can that be "dead beat broke nigga"?

Compared with what he had in the past, that nigga is broker

VISTIN:
When I see people insult Buhari on Social Media, I detest it. No matter what, he's our president. But on the other hand, APC thought Nigerians how to insult a sitting president.
I know somebody like you will not last a week if given the opportunity to lead a town, let alone Nigeria.

Jonathan wasn't stupid, he tried in his on way and we pray for a better gvt. You can be more gentle, friend.

Exactly. APC taught Nigerians how to insult and disrespect the sitting president. And now Buhari is being paid back in his own coin for good reason, they want to flip the script.

APC are just a bunch of hypocrites

jacobs123:
This is a very interesting thread and I couldn't resist the urge to make a few comments even at the risk of repeating others.
People relocate for different reasons so a general advice will suffice.
Make sure you understand why you are relocating and your destination can offer some help in that area.
Be ready to work really hard as there are no pounds on UK streets or money on the streets of these other countries, it helps if you have good education.
Ensure that you are a legitimate immigrant and keep your legitimate status always as immigration laws change everytime.
Do not burn your bridges before you leave and maintain contact with Nigeria. I know of someone who because he won a green card did a fraud in his bank and ran away.
Be aware of your environment and try to acculturate in your new environment rather than just sticking with Naija friends and also get reliable information from friends/families on situation back home. You and only you should make the decision to go back if you are already outside, their info may/may not help.
Make sure you have enough money to settle down properly as people can be harsh outside the country.
Most Nigerians are economic migrants (even students) so if you fall into this category, do not be ashamed to take up odd jobs for extra cash especially if you have a lot of idle time.
Prepare for surprises and most of all be ready for discrimination (subtle or clear). Abroad is not Naija where foreigners are worshipped, you just moved from Second class citizen (if you are like most of us in Naija) to second class Non-Citizen/Citizen but there is hope!!!

I was in the UK a couple of years back and I hope I won't bore you with my experience and that of friends.
I came in for M.Sc and finished the M.Sc without a job in sight so had to do odd jobs in ASDA etc, eventually got a job here and work permit was arranged but also got an offer in Naija. The UK offer was in one of the BIG FOUR Audit firms but the offer at home (Oil coy) was too good so I left before work permit was stamped on my passport. I didn't want a situation where they'ld think I'm just after their permit especially as I was the only black person that was recruited. I defererred the offer in UK and went back home and eventually liked it and called off the UK offer. Personally, I wasn't ready to go home and search for jobs because I know how those proud recruiters will look at you wondering why you came back.
I compare my life now and my life as a poor student in the UK and I will tell you that in terms of quality of life especially as someone not given to frippery, I'm not much better. Yes I have a car, generator, inverter, gateman etc. Many of the things we show off in Naija are not just needed. In UK, I could go for mid-week fellowship, how easy is that in Naija for those of us who close early not to talk of the bankers slaving away from 5am - 9pm for the Jim Ovias. A friend's wife was asked by her boss (A married woman) in a bank why she can't sleep with a man to meet her target.
Now life can be tough outside but it's tougher in Nigeria.
people have talked about the dignity of labour and that is so lacking in Nigeria, the God we worship is MONEY even if it's dripping with blood. So many Nigerians are better off outside even as cleaners at least they won't ask their parents for money (let the old people enjoy their pension!!!). I don't understand the talk about being first class citizen. I certainly don't see myself as one yet as i have to leave the roads everytime I hear a siren and the lebanese is prefered to me in my own country. An expat in my workplace recently boasted to a colleague that he will pay a policeman to beat him up and it sure can happen. A police officer jumps down from a moving car to open the car door for our MD, is he a first class citizen. And what about those drivers, house maids, cooks etc who are living the dreams of people like Babajide Salu (no offense as he's helping them out) instead of their own dreams (when will they feel that slavery has been abolished) and to the person that says he can't wash plate for a whiteman, I say lucky you because right inside their fatherland many people are doing worse things and not just those drivers, some of our "Big Men" are doing the equivalent of washing white man's plate right inside Nigeria.

Just to butress my point about people traveling for different reasons, a couple left Naija as pressure was on wifey to give birth after years of marriage. They ran way from the families and God answered them so different strokes for different folks.
To those who want to relocate to Naija because people are becoming well off in Naija, things are not always what they seem. Naija has so much dirty money and you may just find out that you cannot do what they do. Business environment is tough also as you have to bribe everytime and if you will be a salary earner, I'd tell you to get a good offer and secure job and it becomes easy if you are like me and can adapt quickly especially if you grew up here.

This post is the best post ever!!!!!!
I agree with everything you said here

Brugge:
The problem is that Nigerians always shy away from the truth and we like wiping up sentiment. Have you ever considered what most kids go through as kids, ranging from having the worst living condition to hawking around goods at a very tender age, rather than being children. Have you ever considered that if most parents have set their priority right they would never put their kids in such situation?

You may not want to accept the truth but I have been with parents whose financial status aint good and they are about having a new baby in addition to the ones they could barely care for. Most of them their responses are same 'that God will take of the kids or that God will provide'. How on earth will a loving parent put their so called loved kids in such a situation?

I hope when you are old enough to start a family that you make a better choice so that your kids will be kids when they are supposed to be kids and be adult when they are meant to be one.

I agree with you. Nigerians like burying their head in the sand like ostrich

tola9ja:
be your own security

The land historically belongs to Israel. Though I'm not in support of their extreme activities. Just stating the fact

Ginaz:
Something is eating her deeply, may be something that happened to her, a bad memory or experience. Except she makes it known to everybody, she won't change.

Exactly my thoughts too.

Hello house, I have been following this thread with keen interest and I wan ask all the oga dem which school you will recommend for an M.sc in economics.

Thank you.

Bamz:
LOL you guys should enjoy your youthfulness oh. There are some levels you'd get to and you won't be comfy doing all these things again.

Oh those days when boys will dress down and all cos they wanna see a movie at The Ozone.

You remember?

That was when men were kids.
It's all part of growing up.

rahymat:
i visited one of d visa free countries.it was a worst experience.d only best tin is d 24hrs electricity.their food is dirty nd horrible.there is poor security.etc

Which country was that??

These suggestions are very nice..... thumbs up

Guyman02:
Jealous of our resources both human and material. Thats whyn they invade and plunder the continent using arms and weapons which they focus a lot of efforts developing.
It was jealousy that led them to destroy Libya a prosperous African country which was living far better than Greece, Portugal, Spain etc

lol @ plunder out resources. Africans like overestimating their importance in the global stage.

Wow! !!! The good old days of nairaland where threads span years, have useful content and changes lives. I wonder where the posters in this page are today?

Chai!!!!!!! memories are just coming to my head I
True true, person dey old o

musicwriter:
Pan-Africanism wasn't and isn't a fraud. Africanists like Kwame Nkrumah, Nnamdi Azikiwe, Kenyatta, e.t.c set you free. How could it possibly have been a fraud?.

Dr. Walter Rodney wasn't African, but a Guyanese. And since it appears you don't know him, I'll advise you to please stop quoting what he doesn't represent.

Please, let's end it here, unless you have a credible counter debate. If so, state them and let's talk about it.

Lol!!! you are getting emotional already. I know Walter Rodney very well, probably even more than you In my undergraduate days, it was compulsory to buy his book to take a particular course I pol. Science.

He visited Africa and was a socialist in inclination. true or false?

Why I said pan africanism is a fraud today is that they don't acknowledge the role we Africans play in the ruination of our beloved continent. Simple as that. Fela was one of the few exceptions because while opening out eyes to the way we were cheated, he also chastised u.s. for the role we play in ruining ourselves


That said, for true emancipation, and true pan africanism, we would need to put our stupid clannish nature of ours in the dustbin, and unite. simple.


I read a lot about Jomo Kenyatta and the tribalism in politics that has messed the country up ( between kikuyu and the luo) is due to his clannish style of politics.

What of Nnamdi Azikwe, Awolowo and the rest.

Look at all these things dispassionately and tell me what you think?

chrisbaba1:
The funniest are
1) Gandoki 2) Akpororo 3) Buchi 4) I go dye 5) that niger delta guy basket mouths friend (cant remember his name)

You mean bovi?

flyca:
Julius did. He gave someone $35K for scrotum surgery, days ago, na beans? Abeg who you don help?

Thank you for that question.

jascon1:
Who them help?

Who dey help himself/herself ?
That's the problem we have in Nigeria. We expect the high up to just help us.
The question you dimwit should be asking us....
Who helped them get to where they are today? Isi Okuko