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PoliticsRe: 18 Killed As JTF Bombs Boko-Haram Training Camp In Borno by ujoatu(m): 3:52am On Feb 02, 2013
Pl how do I benefit from d 72virgins bazaar without being a muslim or BH faithful? I dnt wanna die yet as well but wnt mind em virgins when I depart eventually
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Is It Proper To Reduce Your Age To Get a Job? by ujoatu(m): 3:34am On Feb 02, 2013
admajorem: I laugh taya oo! If u reduce ur age, u reduce ur date of death. Haaaaaa! Wen u meet Baba God, He ask u ur DOB. If u ask in return, original abi d oda 1. Satan go say: Oga Jesus, abeg na my costoma be dis. Eeeh na u talk, giv 2 siza wat belong 2 siza and 2 God wat belong 2 God.
LWKMD
PoliticsRe: Police Still Mounting Check-points In Imo State. How About Your Area? by ujoatu(m): 11:03am On Jan 30, 2013
this morg at naze polynekede rd grin

Nairaland GeneralPolice Collecting Toll by ujoatu(op): 8:51am On Jan 30, 2013
Policemen on DUTY along Polynekede Naze rd at the moment

PoliticsRe: Archbishop Averts Okorocha, Obi’s Clash by ujoatu(m): 2:46pm On Jan 28, 2013
MY GOVERNOR THE PUGILIST grin
RomanceRe: What Do You Call Cheating??? by ujoatu(m): 2:31pm On Jan 28, 2013
HOW DID THIS TRASH MAKE FRONT PAGE cool
Crime⁠ 2 Nigerians Arrested For Global Marriage Scam by ujoatu(op): 8:35am On Jan 26, 2013


2 Nigerians arrested for global marriage scam



Two Nigerians have been arrested by Thai police for running a global marriage scam, posing as US Marines in Afghanistan and preying on hundreds of widows and single women, after worming themselves into their hearts.

Bangkok Post reported online that the country’s Department of Special Investigation (DSI) arrested the two Nigerians alleged to have defrauded about 20 million baht($670,000) from scores of Thai women through a global marriage scam in which they pretended to be US marines.

The full report by Bangkok Post:

“The DSI said Benjamin Olakunle Owewole,(possibly Oyewole) 44, and Oladapo Awooyele, 35, had told their victims they were US marines deployed in Afghanistan and promised to marry them after they completed the early retirement process from military service.

“They asked the victims to wire them money to help pay the discharge processing fees. One of the women eventually became suspicious and informed the authorities.

“The Nigerian men were arrested with approximately 11 million baht($367,400) in cash in their possession. The DSI reported that at least 400 women all over the world had fallen prey to the fraudsters and about 20 million baht had been scammed from the Thai victims.

“According to DSI chief Tharit Pengdit, the suspects had approached their targets, usually single women aged 40 or older, many of them widowed or divorced, via online chatrooms and Facebook.

“The alleged swindlers elaborated their stories by having accomplices play different roles, such as sick family members, superiors and subordinates calling the victims. The women were duped into wiring funds into accounts in Malaysia, Singapore and Taiwan.

“The Bureau of Foreign Affairs and Transnational Crime, working with the police Crime Suppression and Technology Crime Suppression divisions arrested the two suspects at a shopping mall in Nonthaburi province.

“At their hotel room in Bangkok investigators found US$370,000 in cash along with computers and cellphones used in the scam.

“DSI investigators believe the gang is running their operation in several countries, including Sweden, Malaysia and Singapore, to make it difficult for authorities to gather evidence against them.
Christianity EtcWhy I Raise My Children Without God by ujoatu(op): 10:33am On Jan 24, 2013
Saw this thought I should share:
Why I Raise my Children Without God.

When my son was around 3 years old, he used to ask me a lot of questions about heaven. Where is it? How do people walk without a body? How will I find you? You know the questions that kids ask.

For over a year, I lied to him and made up stories that I didn’t believe about heaven. Like most parents, I love my child so much that I didn’t want him to be scared. I wanted him to feel safe and loved and full of hope. But the trade-off was that I would have to make stuff up, and I would have to brainwash him into believing stories that didn’t make sense, stories that I didn’t believe either.

One day he would know this, and he would not trust my judgment. He would know that I built an elaborate tale—not unlike the one we tell children about Santa—to explain the inconsistent and illogical legend of God.

And so I thought it was only right to be honest with my children. I am a non-believer, and for years I’ve been on the fringe in my community. As a blogger, though, I’ve found that there are many other parents out there like me. We are creating the next generation of kids, and there is a wave of young agnostics, atheists, free thinkers and humanists rising up through the ranks who will, hopefully, lower our nation’s religious fever.

Here are a few of the reasons why I am raising my children without God.

God is a bad parent and role model.

If God is our father, then he is not a good parent. Good parents don’t allow their children to inflict harm on others. Good people don’t stand by and watch horrible acts committed against innocent men, women and children. They don’t condone violence and abuse. “He has given us free will,” you say? Our children have free will, but we still step in and guide them.

 

God is not logical.

How many times have you heard, “Why did God allow this to happen?” And this: “It’s not for us to understand.” Translate: We don’t understand, so we will not think about it or deal with the issue. Take for example the senseless tragedy in Newtown. Rather than address the problem of guns in America, we defer responsibility to God. He had a reason. He wanted more angels. Only he knows why. We write poems saying that we told God to leave our schools. Now he’s making us pay the price. If there is a good, all-knowing, all-powerful God who loves his children, does it make sense that he would allow murders, child abuse, wars, brutal beatings, torture and millions of heinous acts to be committed throughout the history of mankind? Doesn’t this go against everything Christ taught us in the New Testament?

 

The question we should be asking is this: “Why did we allow this to happen?” How can we fix this? No imaginary person is going to give us the answers or tell us why. Only we have the ability to be logical and to problem solve, and we should not abdicate these responsibilities to “God” just because a topic is tough or uncomfortable to address.

 

God is not fair.

If God is fair, then why does he answer the silly prayers of some while allowing other, serious requests, to go unanswered? I have known people who pray that they can find money to buy new furniture. (Answered.) I have known people who pray to God to help them win a soccer match. (Answered.) Why are the prayers of parents with dying children not answered?

 

If God is fair, then why are some babies born with heart defects, autism, missing limbs or conjoined to another baby? Clearly, all men are not created equally. Why is a good man beaten senseless on the street while an evil man finds great wealth taking advantage of others? This is not fair. A game maker who allows luck to rule mankind’s existence has not created a fair game.

 

God does not protect the innocent.

He does not keep our children safe. As a society, we stand up and speak for those who cannot. We protect our little ones as much as possible. When a child is kidnapped, we work together to find the child. We do not tolerate abuse and neglect. Why can’t God, with all his powers of omnipotence, protect the innocent?

 

God is not present.

He is not here. Telling our children to love a person they cannot see, smell, touch or hear does not make sense. It means that we teach children to love an image, an image that lives only in their imaginations. What we teach them, in effect, is to love an idea that we have created, one that is based in our fears and our hopes.

 

God Does Not Teach Children to Be Good

A child should make moral choices for the right reasons. Telling him that he must behave because God is watching means that his morality will be externally focused rather than internally structured. It’s like telling a child to behave or Santa won’t bring presents. When we take God out of the picture, we place responsibility of doing the right thing onto the shoulders of our children. No, they won’t go to heaven or rule their own planets when they die, but they can sleep better at night. They will make their family proud. They will feel better about who they are. They will be decent people.

 

God Teaches Narcissism

“God has a plan for you.” Telling kids there is a big guy in the sky who has a special path for them makes children narcissistic; it makes them think the world is at their disposal and that, no matter what happens, it doesn’t really matter because God is in control. That gives kids a sense of false security and creates selfishness. “No matter what I do, God loves me and forgives me. He knows my purpose. I am special.” The irony is that, while we tell this story to our kids, other children are abused and murdered, starved and neglected. All part of God’s plan, right?

When we raise kids without God, we tell them the truth—we are no more special than the next creature. We are just a very, very small part of a big, big machine–whether that machine is nature or society–the influence we have is minuscule. The realization of our insignificance gives us a true sense of humbleness.

I understand why people need God. I understand why people need heaven. It is terrifying to think that we are all alone in this universe, that one day we—along with the children we love so much—will cease to exist. The idea of God and an afterlife gives many of us structure, community and hope.

I do not want religion to go away. I only want religion to be kept at home or in church where it belongs. It’s a personal effect, like a toothbrush or a pair of shoes. It’s not something to be used or worn by strangers. I want my children to be free not to believe and to know that our schools and our government will make decisions based on what is logical, just and fair—not on what they believe an imaginary God wants.

What do you think of this?
CelebritiesRe: Which Celebrity Would You Marry If You Had The Opportunity? by ujoatu(m): 9:40pm On Jan 23, 2013
Abeg leave TOnTO for my DIcKE
venorite: Tonto dike, I love her so much.....tools, I love big ladies too
PoliticsWho Killed Laz by ujoatu(op): 8:09pm On Jan 22, 2013
WHO KILLED LAZ? We demand justice. Share if you CARE. Late Lazarus Anyanwu was thhe Protocol officer to the Imo State Dep Govnr

SportsRe: AFCON: Nigeria Vs Burkina Faso (1 - 1) On 21st January 2013 by ujoatu(m): 6:44am On Jan 22, 2013
GREAT MAN
eklassical: Nigeria 1 burk 1 ........ Quote me aafta d match
Nairaland GeneralRe: Thank You For Making Nairaland Forum Great (My Message To 1 Million Members) by ujoatu(m): 10:16pm On Jan 18, 2013
I had no issue with NL until d tribalistic inclusion of THE PEOPLES NOBEL LAURETTE in your hall of shame
RomanceRe: Can You Elope With Your Lover At The Expense Of Your Career by ujoatu(m): 8:03pm On Jan 16, 2013
Abi she be antELOPE?

PoliticsRe: Abductors Kill Imo Dep Gov’s Aide by ujoatu(m): 8:21am On Jan 15, 2013
Sorry dear laz is my friend we play ball tgeda evbery satday mrg
amy max: Jesus!!!My uncle,May God always b wif ur soul.Mum will ve 2 cum bk so sad nw.Will miss u darling uncle cry
PoliticsRe: Abductors Kill Imo Dep Gov’s Aide by ujoatu(m): 8:17am On Jan 15, 2013
abagoro: I think it is high time Ohakim and his friends stop this war for the good of everyone. I'm beginning to have a feeling that there is high political undertone to all these.
I thinK there is some thing you know d police shld question you about.pl displayy ur mobile for further communication. If u dnt then u must be a DUMB AR*E
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Adeboye Drove Car Without Petrol From Ore - Lagos by ujoatu(m): 10:37pm On Jan 13, 2013
ifihearam: I ask through Jesus and let me explain it for you. In those days they prayed with the God of Abraham,Isaac and Jacob. So I have the right to pray with the name of my prophet and ask through Jesus.
If u ask tru Jesus how doz adeboye come in.stop worshipn ur felow man abeg
Christianity EtcRe: Is Eating And Drinking At Burials Part Of Christianity by ujoatu(m): 12:57pm On Jan 13, 2013
So if my grandfather lived for 80yrs I shldnt celebrate him.or if my guest re from far I shlknt refresh them?
PoliticsRe: What Exactly Is Rochas Doing In Imo State? by ujoatu(m): 6:49am On Jan 13, 2013
YoungUd: Come to Oweri town nw u wil see no hold up cos the man hs creatd roads every where. Go to concord hotel nd see hw beautiful it is nw. !
No go slow for people wey dey use leg.wen ever u get to buy a car I wld listen to u
CareerRe: Advice On Career Path To Build Upon. by ujoatu(m): 9:15pm On Jan 12, 2013
Goldenheart: when am i gonna be the first to comment?? embarassed
When u find a joB
FoodRe: Do People Still Eat Three Square Meals Daily In Nigeria? by ujoatu(m): 9:12pm On Jan 12, 2013
No one seems to understand what a SQUARE meal means so far. He is asking how many nigerians eat 3 SQUARE meals and not 3times daily
IslamRe: Imo Traditional Ruler Converts To Islam by ujoatu(m): 8:56pm On Jan 12, 2013
The man is a fraudst*.a chieff is not an eze.no autonomous community he is an impostor lookn for favors
PoliticsRe: Hadizatu Ahmed, Female Ruler In Northern Nigeria by ujoatu(m): 8:03pm On Jan 12, 2013
greenoak: Wow am second to comment can't believe it !!! Anyways what a man can do a woman can do it even BETTER
God punish UNEMPLOYMENT
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Bbm Pin Exchange by ujoatu(m):
234CAB01
LiteratureRe: How Do You Deal With Procastination?? by ujoatu(m): 3:14pm On Jan 07, 2013
[quote author=#80million]*speechless*

Thank U Father!
I can't believe i came first!

*takes akeregbe, and fills it with palmwine, then sits down to watch the rest of the thread*[/quote]father lord,pl biko abeg banish joblessness from naija ijn,amen
Nairaland GeneralRe: Let's Pray For Our Leaders And Not Insult Them In 2013 by ujoatu(op): 7:36am On Jan 07, 2013
Eziachi: I am not asking that you regrets it, I am asking that you demand it 24hrs of power because you deserve it as matter of right for something that you paid to be supplied to you. Its not free, it not a luxury, its a necessity of modern life.
Its just that years of misruled has placed your expectation so low that you considered having 18hrs of power as a big deal and halleluya event, because I told you before that in nearby Cameroon, most folks there in their 50s probably had never experienced power failure once in their whole life. We are not talking of United States, Germany or Britain here, I am referring to Cameroon, your next door neighbours.
How many hrs did we've wen ur brodas seized power from 1967 till God knows how long.what kills us is not being appreciative.u ought 2 appreciate then demand 4 more.ucan move 2 cameroon 2 get power bro,u wnt be missed
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dike Apologizes To Fans For Absence At ‘Rhythm Unplugged’ by ujoatu(m): 7:31am On Jan 07, 2013
ogugua88: [size=13pt]Waiting for CFCFan's crush on Tonto Decay to expire undecided[/size]
If his expires mine wld NEVER.I have told my gf 2 get ready 2 park out as soon as my sweet tonto shows up
PoliticsRe: The Most Respected & Honoured Man In Nigeria Currently by ujoatu(m): 10:11pm On Jan 05, 2013
ogaemma: Dear Naira landers,
I came up with this thought after I watched live on AIT the wedding of Gov. Okorocha's daughter in Owerri.
I this the most respected man in Nigeria is Obasanjo. I do not know if there is any living man in Nigeria who have equalled the kind of public respect and honour that is giving to Obasanjo in occassions.
What do you think? Pls share your experience; who is the most respected & honoured living man in Nigeria?
Yea oBJ anytime.saw d commotion dat ensued immediatly he entered wit rochas,I was like WOW
RomanceRe: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by ujoatu(m):
Lol

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