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Reminderz:
..reading stories here I can't but shake my head the hurdles men climb or the risks men take just to have sex... and all to what endsif such passion or energy was put into their self development they won't be were they are.

I wouldn't say that people who engage in risky/stupid sexual behaviours are not doing well. Ignorance and lack of self-discipline play a major role.

Some men need to know about post-nut clarity and that sex no de finish!

Fück and live to fück another day.

Regex:
I think it is a crime not to tell anyone you are HIV positive. She is obligated to tell you.

Unless there is a law, it would just depend on an individual's moral code. But then, what has morality got to do with casual encounters.

Martinez39s:
Post-nut clarity.

CGA!

I think we have to hammer on the need for men to refrain from having sex under the influence of alcohol or similar substances that may impede brain chemical signals.

You could use enhancers that work only within/around the penile region e.g Sildenafil, condom with local anaesthesia, if you need some prolonged action.

Sex with strangers is too risky to not be 100% in charge of your decisions.

chikasnight:
The redpill is not what you teach and want everyone to apply it the way you do. Tho we have a common enemy everybody knows how it best suits them to confront it, when I knew about the red pill and observed there’re other parts of it. I just chose what I thought was best for me and will fit my existing lifestyle
.....Gaming because I love women already
......Semen retention because I want to gain control over my myself.
As long as it’s in line with the pill others should use it how they feel is best for them...
I stand to be corrected
I’m still a learner

Your submission is valid. Redpill is a template/toolkit and men here come from different backgrounds and have had varying experiences.

Motto: Learn and apply accordingly.

imaxdocuments:
Anambra amaka. Anambrans plays American type of politics. God continue to bless Anambra- the light of the entire black race

You have no idea what American politics looks at the moment.

SkyFlint:
I feel bad for Bezos. The girl totally embarrassed and emasculated him. Made him look insignificant and jealous.

Her body language is completely opened to DiCaprio. Inviting him to take her. It's like Bezos is not even there.

The girl just told the whole world that DiCaprio could fxck Bezos' girl with EASE if he wants. Funnily enough, DiCaprio probably wouldn't have even taken the time to entertain her if she was not sharing the prestige and status of Bezos.

This shows the importance of learning how to navigate a relationship with women. Because that, and perhaps looks, is the only thing that DiCaprio has over Bezos.

Bezos is roughly 780X richer.
Bezos has more influence.
Bezos is likely to be even more famous 'cause I personally didn't know DiCaprio by name or work until today. Only as a meme.

Now, Bezos is so hurt he had to call out DiCaprio on Twitter. This is another typical Beta Behaviour - crucifying a man for the offence of 'your' woman.

Bezos should learn from his ordeal with Mackenzie.

Apparently, Bezos, with all the money and fame, is still stuck on beta-ness. Someone needs to send him some redpill links... including this one.

heartofcity12:
I saw the video . The lady seems to have a huge crush on Leonardo DiCaprio. She was all over him in the video even in the presence of Jeff Bezos. You can’t negotiate genuine interest/desire and hypergamy isn’t only money related lol.

Hypergamy may not always be only about money. However, much as DiCaprio may not be as rich as Bezos, he is not a regular joe.

One thing with money, at some point, if you are rich, you are rich...how much rich is no longer important.

kollinz1234:
Apga is the only party in Nigeria different from APC and PDP that is still holding onto a state; I wish Ipob can channel all their energy to take control of the party, they would have been able to make the party dominate in the south east at least and from there they can spread it to the south south and muscle it into the southwest, before you know it, it will begin to encroach into the north and the whole country will now accept the party. But for now, Ipob is only reduced to sit at home





But what do I even know

Theere is no need to spread it outside the East. Put the right people in power and watch the East grow.

This is at the top of my problem with Nnamdi Kalu. After his time in jail, he could have transformed himself to a political heavy weight, without contesting of course. But he went back to calling Buhari names and shit.

Our problems are political, and can only be resolved politically.

wunmi590:
Nobody is saying the woman will not have a say, what we are saying is that husband should stop forcing their wives to split bills, bill is the sole responsibility of the husband....

My wife pay bills, she buy fuel in her car, it was suppose to be my responsibility, because I gave her the car, but she does it at her own will....

if this works for you, fine. But stop talking like it is the constitution or something. You do you...you no de other people pocket.

Emmynator:
Nonsense and ingredients.
I hate hearing things like this.
A woman should become the president just like that, men should just vote any woman to become president or what?

There are political processes involved in electing a president, how many women have taken the first step in the process? Men should just give them chance
Hey, Martha will you like to become the president of Nigeria? Oh congratulations, men have decided to let you win the election.

It's annoying, at least the difference between men and women in Nigeria's population is not that much, if they really want it, they should work towards getting it, instead of blaming men for their own inadequacies. Most women don't care about politics and won't bother enough to vote their fellow woman into power, they'll rather talk of the latest fashion trends and whatever frivolity catches their fancy.

The issues with feminists in Nigeria is that the average Nigeria woman doesn't have feminism as a core value, they just fancy it because they can use it to their advantage in some situations, and then drop it when it doesn't favor them, that's why their double standards and hypocrisy is something else in these parts.

Not just in Nigeria (feminism by mouth) . it is a core feature of feminism. Check their reactions following a move by congress (USA) to require women to be drafted.

Ambeed:
You guys are calling him simp and pussy and niggar because he chose to honour his woman.

Honour my foot...what did she do?

chronique:
The plundering of Nigerian resources by these people is something else. I'm really surprised that we still have a country with all that has been stolen by these people.

shey what you have now is a country?

olaric:
It's just ridiculous how we do things in this country.

it is by design.

ImmaculateJOE:
Nigerians should be learning from Ndi Anambra state.

After this election, APGA must spread its wings to other Igbo states esp Imo and Abia state.

APGA has won before in Imo and also Abia (never declared). Rochas ran away with the mandate. Parties should challenge defections, especially for elected positions.

ZooCountry45:
More over guys, I'm not a simp. I have taken my own red pill.. I rather stay single than allow a woman foolishly use me.
One thing I hate in this life is taking advantage of woman.. I don't do it.

Lol. play or get played.

ZooCountry45:
Exactly.. Thanks for this advise..
Young babes don show me paper and I found love in a single mother web

who is gonna tell you? Well, given her situation, she has to pretend for now...she go still show you paper.

Raise your game and deal with whatever comes -- a single mom is not the answer.

But hey, you do you.

33bandit:
One thing I always tell myself is ..never carry a womans baggage ...the ratio of women to men in the world is 10:1 why would I want to be with someone whose life is already complicated ...

chai at 10:1

tayour917i:
If nah apc dey lead.... This land for Don dey on fire

APGA is not a "national" party. But it doesn't have to. It can be a powerful regional party so long as its manifesto improves the lives of the people.

Money does win vote. This is an anomaly and that's why it is in the news.

princepee:
3.5m car in 2018 will loose it's value in 2021.
A car is not an asset.

Not when naira is always depreciating.

MRDEE01:
Same as saving money.
Save in dollars

i have lost almost 500k because of some Euros i converted to naira in Zenith bank fixed deposit.

OhBritannia:
They have an hidden agenda.
They are just passing through the corners.

Not so hidden these days. It is the weakening of men and making women assume masculine roles.

chidonweb:
Every body want to Japa.

Stay and fight for your country.
The country you are running to, people fought for it to be what it is today

Nigeria has an estimated population of at least 250 million. Thats more than enough to fight.

Mercychen:
No amount of money is ever enough because the more the income, the higher your expenses and the more you'll want to improve your standard of living. All these end up gulping your finances, making your income insufficient at the end of the day. hence the need for a higher income. That is why the rich still hustle despite all they have.

Money is never enough at any level you find yourself.

This is not entirely true. objectively speaking, obce your income is enough that you start buying things that you don't need, it is enough.

Of course you would still continue to hustle, whether actively or passively. Else what is live!

Someone said no value for lives, no sense of urgency.

Welcome to Nigeria.

Mrbenny001:
Honestly.. he talks too much...he doesn't even talk about the major challenges destroying Nigeria..he goes bushing around

He is in power but cannot do shit about those major challenges. However, he wants more power. His boss is quite useless, so he is cautious of the topics he talks about ( but still fails)

Chai. she is using the "i was raped line".

Oboi...if abroad no gree you, na to join one of the trending victim groups.

englishmart:
Education isn't for employment, it's basically for human enhancement.
Everybody has what it takes to be rich and successful. All these you can achieve without formal education.

Btw, Muslims pray 5-times a day yet no result. It's either they pray amiss or they are praying to the wrong allah

You can say what you want. as much as you may not need formal education to get "rich", it does improve your chances.

And also, not everyone has what it takes to be rich and successful. that's just cap.

lusid:
Zzor, jumping from one thread to the other, what do you do for a living?

nairaland resident nuisance

Biglittlelois:
So in other words, you're saying all married men are SIMPS?

no. not necessarily. However, to deal with a woman in a marriage comes with a lot of compromises (aka man hands are tired). This can be costly for men with no red pill awareness (women nature, hypergamy and shiii)

Heck, even my people say na one eye dem dey take marry woman.

With sexual revolution and social media (especially), to sleep with different women is a lot easier. So committment is dwindling.

Biglittlelois:
If it favours women most of the time, how come men and women keep getting married every weekend?

nobody said SIMPs dont exist. They simp until they get badly burnt...then leave or stay because they have simped way beyond return.

As it stands, men have no reason to marry. bedroom fun cheap and easily accessible. #Baby mama industry