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Fahvvy:
From a legal standpoint, there's nothing wrong with this, two consenting adults are in a mutual relationship, so nothing wrong ...

But if my son tries this, I will disown him asap ...

THEN YOU'RE A HYPOCRITE...

victorclean:
Don't he has his body count as well?. Marriage is for future and past should be thrashed totally for peace

This is the type of evil mindset that makes you people misbehave.
YOUR PAST IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING. YOUR PAST IS WHO YOU ARE TODAY.

A lot of you are just hypocrites to admit the fact.

If you commit evil or crime today and the government puts you in prison tomorrow, they have judged you by your past whether you claim to have repented or not.
EVEN GOD WILL EVENTUALLY JUDGE US BY OUR PAST, BUT YOU DON'T WANT A GUY TO JUDGE YOU BY YOUR PAST.
IF YOU DON'T HAVE A DIRTY PAST, YOU WON'T BE SCARED OF ANYONE JUDGING YOU BY YOUR PAST.

victorclean:
Gbam!!!!. Why must you ask me about my body counts.

Only wasted loose WHÓRES feel uneased to answer the VERY ARMLESS AND SIMPLE QUESTION.

IF YOU WERE A VIRGIN - WHICH IS WHAT IS EXPECTED BEFORE MARRIAGE -, WILL THE QUESTION ANNOY YOU?

LESSON:
DON'T BE A LOOSE WHORÉ
LOOSE WHÓRES DON'T HAVE VALUE AND ANY GIRL WITH MORE THAN 2 BODYCOUNT IS A WHORÉ.

Jewessgratitud3:
I just thought to share and again it's no bodys business what I share about myself here. I chose to do it and don't care if it sits well with anyone or not. My life, my share .

I'm sharing this just to let some ladies know that being a widower doesn't break a man and will not stop him from being an unrepentant cheat if he wants to. I used to think a widower will be more responsible and loyal to one woman considering the fact that he's now a second hand value bachelor and the death of his former wife will make him get closer and more committed to his spouse, home and family at large but I was wrong cos after my experience with one, I realized men will always be cheat men.

This happened in 2013 after staying away from relationships for a long time. So I joined Badoo ( it was the rave then, though I joined in 2012). A young man ( in his 40s then) chatted me up and I checked his profile. There he stated that he was looking for a lady for serious relationship and added he was a Christian. He was also looking very handsome and tall. We chatted and exchanged numbers.

When we got talking he told me he was a widower. It was hard to believe because he looked very young. He now told me he married very early. He went ahead and told me he has 6 children 👀👀👀. I didn't believe until he showed me their pics. 4 girls and two boys. He said the wife kept having children because she wanted a male child and died after giving birth to the last child, a male. She got home from the hospital after childbirth and started bleeding immediately and was rushed back to the hospital but never made it back. Meanwhile he was not in the country when this happened.

This made me have compassion and developed feelings for him. After a few months of inviting me over, I finally agreed to visit after he assured me the elder sister is staying with him to look after the baby ( he was already a year then but was not walking). He never liked the boy because he was always saying the boy caused his wifes death and each time the baby boy sees him, he'll be screaming due to the way he looks at the baby and I'll be telling him to stop, teasing him that it's him the boy resembles. So when I visited for the first time, I was shocked at what I saw. He actually owns the house he was living in in Sango. He built it when the going was good but after the wife's death, he came back and stayed for a whole year without a job. He just got the job he was doing as a hotel manager when I met him and his take home was not good at all. So to maintain the big house was a challenge. He could barely feed his kids. Even the two older ones were not with him. They were living with his brother just to ease him of the burden. when the sister saw me, she got angry and told him that he has not finished taking care of his children he's bringing in another lady. He told me to ignore the sister and face him. If I go there, I'll cook and serve everybody because he was always complaining of not having money but sometimes he'll give me part of the money I used.

Initially the children didn't like me and he said I should be buying them snacks. So then if I close from work, I'll go and meet him at his office and we'll go home together. I bought snacks and the children reluctantly collected the snacks. He went to work on that Saturday and I gathered the children and started telling them stories. They began to come close. When he got back he drove all of us to a football viewing center and bought me pepper soup. I thought I had found the right man. I was even saying I don't need to birth any children since he already has six. We'll just stay with his own children ( lol . small girl sense). He would tell me no, that he wants me to give him a beautiful daughter like me.

Six months into the relationship, I noticed something in his room while he was away at work. I saw a foreign prison card in his jacket I now began to connect the dots. I remembered him saying he was away when the wife died and while she was pregnant, he had problem abroad. So she developed BP. He even told me he wasn't around when his house was built that the wife supervised the whole thing before he now had a problem but be never told me what the problem was. I then discovered with the prison card, he was prolly in jail all that time. I didn't ask him anything.

Later he started telling me there's this single mother that has been begging him to marry her and she buys him stuff. I was like marry her now afterall two of una na second hand value. He'll laugh and say God forbid. That he wants chassis. The lady buys him and his children stuff. At a point I told him to stop collecting the gift or risk our relationship. He promised to stop.

One day he was sleeping and i was just going through his phone ( I never used to do that) and saw "my love". My head sparked. I woke him up with a heavy slap and showed him, he started saying its you I love. I said no! Tell me who this Is.. then I began to cry because I just knew it was over. He started begging and called his Aunty into the room. The aunty said the person is a family. I said call her. He now called the number and an elderly woman picked and he started telling her that I'm crying my eyes out here because I saw a message he sent to her. The woman spoke with me but I wasn't convinced. Throughout that night, he played "please forgive me' Brian Adams. hmm.. feeling nostalgic now. I calmed down and we continued.


After some months my chairman sacked me because I refused to go out with him and told him I'm in a relationship. After I lost my job I reduced my visits because bus fare from mainland to Sango was quite expensive and he too could not sponsor my visits regularly due to so much financial responsibilities and since I had been the one doing it when I was working. It became a once in a while thing.

Then one day, he told me to come to his office let's go home that he has missed me. I asked him, do you have money he said we'll manage. This man did not tell me we were going by train ( chai things we do for love) from his office we set out to oshodi. This man put head for train lane. I said waaaat t... I almost went back but it was already getting dark. I entered train for the first time. See me shaking. He had to hold me before one man now stood up for me to sit. Because it's been a while I've been to the house, when we got home, the aunty said you'll not stay in one place. Today you carry this, tomorrow you carry another one. I told him what the sister said and he told me not to mind her. In my mind i was like... see this second wen I dey manage too wan dey play ... I kept asking until he now confessed that the Aunt was referring to the other single mother that the lady has been forcing herself on him but it's me he wants. There and then I zeroed my mind.

After that visit, as we were going that morning, we quarreled on the way because the vehicle we borded got spoilt plus I wasn't happy after hearing what the sister said. So I was just edgy that morning and blasted the driver and some of the passengers. He got angry and left after trying to get me off the bus and I refused, saying I should run after him cos he's running late for work. I was just looking at him. I didn't get down. I waited for him to go far, I now got down and took another route to my house.

I didn't call for a week and refused to pick his calls because whats the point killing myself over a widower with six children who has refused to stick with one woman. When I eventually picked, it was my guy ( now ex) who told me to pick in the bus that day we were going to camp and he was chyking me. Oga kept calling and as usual I ignored him but the sound was disturbing our conversation so my gy told me to pick and hear him out. I picked and he was crying and put all his children on the phone to beg me. He said they are missing me and one of them is sick. I said ok, I'll call you later. That was it. I blocked him. Went to Badoo and blocked him there in fact I deleted my Badoo account. Deleted his number and ended the whole thing..

Men will always be men

Modified

When I said all men are the same what I'm simply implying is, whether they are poor, rich, widower or handicapped they will still cheat or have that tendency to cheat. Take it or get lost!

A man's vulnerability doesn't stop him from exhibiting those bad habits (cheating and deception). They'll will always do that thing that make us call them meennnn... If you know what I mean and if you don't Gerrit, forget abourit. .

You're actually deluded comparing a widow to a widower.
It's only a widow that can be seen as a second and never a widower.
INFACT, MOST WIDOWERS ARE USUALLY NOT INTERESTED IN MARRIAGE, THEY JUST WANT TO FUÇK ANY AVAILABLE LOOSE GIRL AND MOVE TO ANOTHER ONE...
IT'S YOUR LOSS. NA YOU MUMU YOURSELF

CandyOps:
You get mind to do BBL for 9ja. Just like crossing over to Mexico city for a surgery because it's less expensive than US.

Pele... if a whole 1st Lady of the country, Miriam Abacha , can die from complications after a Lipo who are you, my Gee/Geeress (female Gee)

Even Stella OBASANJO

Hmn
It's unbelievably pathetic
When I went to Benin, Togo and Ghana in 2013,
1 naira was 2.5 cefa.

THE MAJOR PROBLEM IS WITH MOST NIGERIANS
MOST Nigerians are evil by nature
GREEDY
WICKED
and
VERY SELFISH
90% of times when you borrow people money, you will have to beg or force them to return the money.
They will never pay back in the time they promised to pay back.
Most times, they will even break the payment into pieces, delay the payment, frustrate you until you angrily give up on asking for the balance.
I have stopped borrowing people money because of these reasons.

The was a time I borrowed a brother and a family friend money, he was supposed to pay back in one month, but at the end he paid back AFTER 5 YEARS.
I DIDN'T HE EVEN ASK, HE JUST TRANSFERRED THE MONEY TO ME...

No matter how touching your story is now, I WON'T BORROW YOU ANY MONEY, NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE TO ME.
THE BEST I DO NOW IS TO JUST GIVE YOU WHATEVER I FEEL LIKE GIVING YOU, WITHOUT EXPECTING A REFUND.

You can't blame the desperation of those loan sharks, most Nigerians pushed them to that limit and THOSE DEBTORS DESERVE ALL THE EMBARRASSMENTS THEY ARE GETTING FROM THEM.

HOW MANY OF THEM ACTUALLY MANUFACTURE AND PRODUCE ANY OF THE PARTS THEY USE?


The correct word should be ASSEMBLING COMPANIES.

nairagenone:
In my opinion, the most important thing for a man is peace of mind.
No woman is perfect, so just highlight what is important to you and check if a lady ticks 70 percent, if she does then go for her.

For me, I was looking for -> fidelity, respect, good family orientation(especially her moms personality), godly and loves God , lastly she must not be olosho(very important).

On my journey searching, I saw plenty things because of my requirements I started going after SU looking babes, my brother, wetin my eye see shock me.
Even deeperlife babes some of them I slept with them same day they came to my house... I just dey shake my head.

Las las I met a lady who is SU, and she con be virgin and as I dey follow her talk she con get sense, theres always a level of risk but with this babe I was ready to risk it and since I made that decision I have never regretted it.

She doesnt have money and comes from a very humble background but to me thats a credit, cos many ladies in her shoes would have used that as an excuse to start doing hookup...

Enough of ranting and back to your question... I think you should consider marrying your baby mama, if you think you can't marry her then find a lady who you think has good morals and values, target the SU looking ladies => deeperlife, mfm, cac etc... But in all remember what the bible says, be wise as serpent but gentle as doves...

I wish you goodluck.

YOU CAN NEVER EVER KNOW ON THIS EARTH IS A GIRL IS OLOSHO OR NOT IF SHE'S NOT A VIRGIN.
To me, a girl with more than 2 BODYCOUNT is olosho.

Do you know that a girl can date a single guy for 5 years and in those 5 years, she would have been Fucƙed more than a thousand times and even done many abortions for the guy?
Now, imagine a girl that has just dated 2 guys, how many times she must have been Fucƙed and the possibilities of abortions.
That her mouth that you kiss, some other guy have released sperms in it multiple times.
AND FOR A GIRL THAT HAS MULTIPLE BODYCOUNT, IF YOU'RE KISSING HER AND GIVING HER HEAD, YOU HAVE LIKELY TASTED AND SWALLOWED OTHER GUYS' SPĒRMS THROUGH HER ..
The best girl any man can be with is a virgin.
If she's not a virgin, then:
SHE IS LESS
SHE IS A LEFTOVER OVER
SHE IS A USED PRODUCT
SHE WASN'T PROBABLY RAISED BY RESPONSIBLE PARENTS
SHE HAS LOW MORALS
SHE MIGHT NOT LIKELY MAKE A GOOD WIFE
THE TENDENCY THAT SHE'LL NOT BE LOYAL AND COMMITTED IN MARRIAGE IS ALSO VERY HIGH...

Mumu man

Dey play

yinkus6750:
Shouldn't be for the wife alone.
The husband should cross first, while the wife will follow.
Don't mind the cheating cheater of a husband.
Kettle calling pot blacky.

MUMU
When will you have sense?
So if your father tell your mother to do this now, you'll still accuse your father of cheating on your mother?

Absuchat:
The word "Terrorist" should be replaced with "Islam" in the dictionary

May everything good in your life be replaced with pain and miseries.

Absuchat:
The word "Terrorist" should be replaced with "Islam" in the dictionary

Woe betide you senseless mistake product of a whoré and a drunkard fool.

epondudu:
What an achievement
His comments actually strengthen the Naira, petrol is now selling at the rate of 200N per liter.

Lol
Werey elepondudu

epondudu:
What an achievement
His comments actually strengthen the Naira, petrol is now selling at the rate of 200N per liter.

Lol
Werey elepundudu

EteBabaagba222:
Hope it has nothing to do with her death sentence of Adedoyin?

It does absolutely
GOVERNOR AND KILLER MAN BELONGS TO THE SAME CULT

iCauseTrouble:
i hope this is not related to the Timothy Adegoke and Rahmon Adedoyin's case

Most likely the case
THE GOVERNOR AND THE KILLER MAN BELONGS TO THE SAME CULT.
THEY'VE SHUT ORIYỌMI HAMZAT UP ON THE CASE...

Righteousness2:
😂😂😂

[i]Hamas Terrorists do not even value their own kids.

Today the IDF busted a Hamas terrorist home . He used his own daughter as his shield.
His own daughters room was where he fires and stores rockets.

These guys are not only demonic but they are satanically destructive. The devil has taken full residence in them.

If they don't value their own kids, is it those in the hospitals they will value?[i]

Or deh terrorist
E go soon reach you and your family members by God's grace

TONY042:
Hit em all!

Or deh terrorist.
E go soon reach you and your family members by God's grace.

Jokerman:
What did AbdulSalam use $750M for in less than 1 year as an interim president?
People are not asking questions

The useless old fool thief re-looted it and many more.
Na obj own worse pass, the greatest and useless thief of all.

Sirheny007:
Look, Tinubu can make a Guinness World record.
If he can do 5 push-ups...

I don't think there's a president that has attempted that.

ZELENSKY CAN DO 50
PUTIN CAN DO 100
JOE CAN DO 5

Desusi:
Its treacherous to get separated from the wife of your your youth. Men generally are the causes of their life's predicament. Nonetheless, Adesuwa is now playing God in ighalo's life? Where is the place of Almighty?

It's more treacherous to be a foolìsh egocentric wife. If you don't know your place as a woman, you'll only continue to put yourself in pain.
Ordinarily, you can't compete with a man, not to talk of a successful man who has more options.
A society that broke-shame men for being poor doesn't not have the right to set standards and rules for him when he becomes rich on how he should enjoy his money.
No woman alive can condition me to be loyal and committed to her. It'll be a choice and based on her behaviours towards me and more importantly, HER PAST.
IF I FIND OUT THAT SHE WAS ONCE WAYWARD WITH MULTIPLE BODYCOUNT, EXs, I CAN NEVER IN THIS LIFE BE LOYAL AND COMMITTED TO HER.
ONLY WOMEN WITH GOOD MORAL, VIRGINS AND DECENT WOMEN DESERVE PEACE IN THEIR MARRIAGE AND LOYAL AND COMMITTED HUSBAND.

Coolsperm:
You can't be a Terrorist if you can't be a Muslim

You can't be a senseless pig and HYPOCRITE if you can't be frustrated IPOB.

chatinent:
We? You are just a person.

And I guess you're a million person?
See mumu

chatinent:
The reasons they gave for not making the ₦5000 note was also totally illiterate.


For theft safety? Really? So you prefer carry money in $$$ in Nigeria, whereby increasing their FX?

Why must we increasing the $$ forex in Nigeria when we don't really spend it here!! But you can't even try that in Las Vegas gambling pool!

Is this also international relations?
We dumb.

WE DON'T WANT 5000 NOTE
STOP SPREADING EVIL
STOP SPREADING PROPAGANDA
FEAR POSTERITY

chatinent:
Do you know that the cost for printing one ₦20 note is one thousand times more expensive than the note?

Dey der dey DECEIVE YOURSELF.

Na only one note dem go print?

yinkus6750:
This is serious.
Adopted daughter from generation of Jezebel.
Slept with father and son.
But, who the hell is leaking this at such a period Mr Ibu is struggling for his life ?

I even heard that they've eventually cut the legs because it refused to heal ...