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Vulcanheph:
There's a difference between a love a mother has for her son and the love a wife has for her husband... This is the absolute truth and any man who doesn't realize this, is an idiot.

The only woman that can give 100% love to a man is his mother (and that's because she's his flesh and blood) any other love he's ever gonna receive in his life basically based on what he has to bring to the table.

I'm not saying you're completely wrong but the OP TheGidRedpiller makes a valid point (although I admit in a slightly misogynistic way) because any man that can't be manipulated by sex is gonna be seen to be very intimidating to most women because that's the only thing most of them bring to the table in relationships (this is the absolute truth)... When once a man can't be manipulated by sex, the only women that won't be intimidated by him are women of worth that actually have a lot to offer .

TheGidRedpiller what do you have to say?

Manipulation can come in any form, there are men who are also highly manipulative of women! I don't know where some of these men meet the women they say only have sex to offer. Look there are dunce men and women everywhere who have nothing to offer other than sex that's why you see a man who can't cater for his family and leaves the bulk if not all the responsibilities for the woman to shoulder.
Gender wars have never made any gender completely right, rather they've made each gender to hate/loathe the other.
A man or woman who was raised with love will most likely know how to properly love others.
Some 'Men use men, women use women, men use women and women use men.'
A bad man/woman who knows nothing about loving and respecting people when he/she is young will grow old and probably remain same.
I grew up having a loving, respectful, wonderful father who saw nothing in providing, cooking (he even pounded yam), cleaning, teaching, learning and more, he wasn't perfect but he was amazing, do you think with the type of father I had I'd want to settle for less? My mother also did a great job.
Look, there are men who have nothing at all to offer! People should stop making excuses for their gender and pushing the blame on the other gender and just work on themselves.
There are women who bring more than enough to the table, position yourself well and you'll find them.
https://www.nairaland.com/6553596/what-worst-experience-youve-ever/7#101724096
Men shared their experiences with the room mates/friends while in school, maybe it'll help you see that some men are nothing but TERRIBLE also!

Truvelisback:
Don't take his words too serious. My gee is heartbroken as a result of his previous experience with women. Those unhealed wounds are the reasonings he is reacting this way. I optimistic that he will get married someday. As For now, his heart needs this.

Then he should see a therapist!
Is he the only one who was raised by a negligent mother?! Is he the only one who is from a broken home? Is he th only one who's been hurt?
He needs to realise gender doesn't determine who'll be good and who'll be bad!

https://www.nairaland.com/6553596/what-worst-experience-youve-ever/7#101724096
This thread is one thread that'll make you realise that you'll never speak to nor date a lot of men if they were women.

This is totally wrong! The man didn't ask to be a father, he didn't ask to have a child with her.
Rather than rule in her favour, the judge ought to charge her for sperm theft, exploitation and whatever else they can charge her with.
This is totally wrong and manipulative!

Women don't do this, women don't do that, I am certain many men here on Nairaland were mostly raised by women who provided and sacrificed more than men.
Some of them are still being supported by their sisters, mothers etc.
The fact that some of you are products of bad mothers or dated ladies who used you doesn't mean others went through what you went through. In fact, the ego of some men here won't let them admit their gfs, wives, sugar mummies etc fend for them.
Let each man speak in an honest manner for himself.

TheGidRedpiller:
Men don't manipulate women with money for s€x, women give away their body because there are seeing money in it for them! Be educated!

Why do you think women go into prostiitutionn Are their customers manipulating them then? Think! Stop being ignorant!

Men only give women what women are asking for, there is no manipulations here pls!

Ogbeni calm down, don't act like there aren't male prostitutes, gigolos, strippers and narcissistic males. This is ridiculous.

Carot:
unlike you

Unlike me what? Do elucidate because I no get.

Hopefully this isn't you trolling me.

I had a pupil like that when I was still a teacher. The boy was in nursery 1 while I taught nursery 2, his mum hired me to be his extramural teacher, he was only 3, I became his class teacher when he was 4, by the time he was in primary 1 he could read, spell, do some not so difficult division, multiplication, addition and subtraction. He could read sentences made for primary 1/2, I would teach him 10 new words at least once a week and then construct sentences. Please encourage her o, teach her as much as you can, get her things you know will help her learn. I like kids who learn fast.

Untainted007:
This is mutual consent between them. It's possible Shagi japa wen he can't cope again with the canal he found himself.

It's also possible there was no canal and that she was a good person to him.

Karlovych:
She should take Tinubu along, he needs help in that regard

Ah!! Ahaaan!
This one no come too loud.���

Veneers not Venice abi veneese.
It doesn't come 'ship'
Everybody wants to stay popular.

Will any of these Nairaland 'women are this, women are that' marry this guy if na woman him be? This guy's mentality is so whack and I pity the woman he'll end up with.
Odiegwu o.

The person who came up with this design or made it might be a paedophile.

Jeon:
Well I'm so ashamed to know that you and I are sharing the same sign....




NAH YOU BE THE FIRST LIBRA WHERE I SEE SAY YOU BITTER.. You lack all the personalities of a SCALE, SO BETTER SWITCH TO SCORPIO[ Scorpio is bitter because being bitter puts them in their element of hate. They relish moments of feeling bitter because they like the feeling of negative emotion coursing through their veins.]



WE LIBRA DON'T NEED YOU

Hello Jeon, I am a Scorpio and I am certain hate doest dwell in us. You might want to do more findings.

Jiji, konga or Jumia.
Reliable site: Konga.
If you decide to buy it on Jiji then you can select the state you're in, the local government and search, if it's available around you, you'll know and it'll be easier.

Allah'Akhbar!

Abstract art, it's a thing of the mind, the viewer fills the empty space. The mind works funny and abstract arts go with mind/imagination.

Ay92:
Thanks for your response. But I can't give it to anyone, I can't be listening to stories everyday.

You don't need advice then, you already purchased it, what do you expect we tell you?
The risk is yours to take.

I sometimes find it rather offensive.
Just because some ladies do runs etc doesn't mean there aren't ladies who work or run businesses to finance their lifestyle.
It's more offensive when the question comes from yahoo boys/loaders/pickers/funds wirers/ dubious people/guys, those ones wey their hands no pure follow dey misyarn!

You'll have to calculate your tfare at the end of the month for both places, do you have more money to save working both Job or you have less? This will help you decide whether to do both or keep one.
I think one of the benefits of doing both is that you can do after-school lessons/home lessons which means more money.
EDIT
Since you edited your post and included the bike part, maybe you should give someone trustworthy to ride the bike and being you a certain amount daily/weekly while you keep your jobs. If he fumbles then you know what to do

walkbrazil4k:
She won't be punished because she had no idea, but those that did it would be punished

Thank you for the information, I guess the law works there.

Long story short, Brazil is better.
How much is Reais to Naira?
Your wife is correct, frustration level has skyrocketed! Cost of living is high!

Unless she was asked to act this way, I do not believe this story at all. Someone is discovered not quite long and instantly begins to dress and act this way, naaaaaaa, this is a scam!!!

I love waist beads. Women from time immemorial have always worn them, it's fashionable and can also be used to know when you've lost or gained some weight.
Depending on their colours, they can be a sight to behold.
Don't come here with 'lesbians/prostitutes/charm' whatever' the royals who wear beads on their legs, waists and other places, will they also be labelled?
I dislike ignorance.

Ask her this same question you're asking us. We do not know her mind so we can't categorically tell you why she did what she did.
You both should discuss it, explain how you feel about her action, if she's remorseful then let it go but tell her she mustn't do such again.
Communication is key!!!

I like that healthcare is free in Brazil, thanks for having mentioned this as I never knew about it prior to your having created this thread.
In a situation whereby abortion is forcefully performed on the woman, will she still be punished? Let's say she's drugged and and abortion is performed on her or she's threatened, what will happen to the person who ensured the abortion is carried out?

AutoChick4U:
You wanna help me locate them?

I don't understand o, don't you know any of his relatives? Were you guys dating with even knowing just a family member of his? You don't know his house, church/mosque, friend/friends, family members, workplace etc? You don't know a thing about him?
Please elucidate if you can. I've tried grasping the whole thing but still can't. Where in Abuja do you reside?

This is rather disheartening! May you, the wife, family and friends have the strength and courage to move on/heal.
I feel so sad for the wife, 6 months, just 6 months and not 40 years and she already is a widow!

Just about one of the disadvantages of racism.
Imagine the sort of lives they'd both have lived had they not been victims of racial discrimination, the type of love that they'd both have had.
Perhaps, a better union, better lives being married to each other. There wouldn't have been need for 40something years apart. Just love, laughter and peaceful existence.

ashewoboy:
A woman earning more than her husband and she is submissive? that is a lie.

Ok.
Have a great day.

Charmingrascal:
Tubaba will always play the victim card because he knows he is loved and respected by many.

The is the same way he cheated Blackface and played the victim.
He knows he will always get support from the people.

Y'all that will say trash and try to broke shame Brymo should know that Brymo is one of the few artists we have in Nigeria with sensible, intelligent and intellectually sound lyrical contents and he is worth more than 3 Million dollars

Brymo is stubborn and he was fully ready for this before calling out 2face.

Tubaba should stop playing saint all the time. He is a cultist and cultists can't be trusted.

I don't know about his worth but the rest, very true.
He writes in an impeccable manner and is quite intelligent compared to some artistes.
I'm a huge fan of his as his songs are really sensible.