₦airaland Forum

achillesfoot:
I briefly grew up in Macon Georgia so I perfectly relate to what you wrote. I had to move to NC in pursuit of education and where I currently live.. My problem with you is this. There is no need protecting your identity and lastly you might actually be away for a very long time except God of Joseph remembers you.. Stay strong and build yourself mentally.. Truth be told there's little or nothing anyone can do as long as it's that racist Georgia.. Forgive my long write up but I want Nigerian youths to know this.. You guys are strong, brave and hustlers forget anything.. You see those young guys especially in Atlanta, Douglas, infact the whole of Georgia down to South Chicago, they are the real lazy youths.. All they do is stereotype, rape, kill, drugs and baby mama and breaking and entry.. Good morning people.. Let me add this, there's no hospital in Baltimore that you won't find a Nigerian doctor.. Not one

The last part is rather astonishing!

Your unmentioned assumption that ladies are the same and that we like same stuff is rather alarming!
It's like saying all men masturbate, are aggressive, sexual predators or that every Nigerian is a fraudster.

There are men who are househusbands and it's all dependent on the understanding that exists between the parties involved. Not every woman is bad as not every man is bad.
I have seen women earn way more than their husbands and they still live peacefully.
Househusband doesn't necessarily mean he might not have a business fetching him some cash and if he doesn't, it's their business.
As for those mentioning feminism, please do your research well on it. Feminism isn't about how a lot of Nigerians understand it to be.

Drella:
I didn't say it seriously like that.

I couldn't have known.
I'm sorry I misunderstood you.

chaloskyx:
THATS THE AFRICAN MAN FOR YOU RELYING ON PRAYERS ALL THE TIME HAS YOUR PRAYERS HELPED YOU AND YOUR COUNTRY NO IT HASNT SO KEEP YOUR PRAYERS IN YOUR POCKET IF YOU CANT HELP THE MAN OR FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL

You aren't me to know prayers haven't worked for me, do you know me? No! Mind your business and let me keep to my faith and what I believe in, don't shove your 'prayers don't work' in my throat!
SMH at some people and their inability to let people rest. Also, rather than mention people about their faith, use that time and energy to learn to use punctuation marks.
Laisse-moi tranquille mec!
Mafilomi dasi alaini nkan shey.

That's what veterinary doctors are for!

Silentgroper:
Hahaha.. So bcuz i said ur pidgin is weak. U wan com dey reason me for d lingua. Well it's still weak. I offered to help u brush it up, u didnt reply..


You better brace up, cuz am cumin hard on u

Dem go cum hard on you.

Grew up in both Lagos and Abuja, although I love Lagos, the rush there is too much, Abuja is peaceful but I miss Lagos a lot! I can't choose. I don't know a thing about PH except it's way expensive to live in.

RichThugg:
And who has prayers ever helped??

Learn to mind your business dude!

Silentgroper:
Did anyone ever asked u if u did 2go

Oga, face front and mind your business. Did anyone ask you to mention me? No make me change am for you because na jeje I dey go o.
Also, it's 'ask' not 'asked'.
Silentgroper you dey find trouble o.

Freestainworld:
The name is serpent Buhari

Haha, you no get joy ooo.

Lalasticlala has retired and is no longer a mod, how sad! He would have pushed this to the promise land asap but let's hope you'll get noticed and get your answer!
This one there are snakes in your vicinity, I hope it's not bushy or something?!
You might want to fumigate that place o.

Alex is gay and was only trying to use her for his selfish reasons, she found out and called off the wedding but some are busy blaming her!

Pride

Drella:
So the man too no fine abi?

You people will just be creating problem where there is none! I made that comment when it was just the first 2/3 pictures he had uploaded and his face wasn't so visible then I edited it when I saw I had made a typographical error.
I no like wahala for this my life, no bring am come near me abeg. Na jeje I dey go.

There are some men who give with nothing attached sha. If a woman is wealthy and decides to help you without strings attached, you go say no?
I agree with you sha, if you can't reciprocate the feelings or wants of a man then it'd be wrong to lead him on/deceive him, that is just pure greed and deceit when you lead someone on for your own self-centred reasons.
However, if you tell someone no multiple times and they keep giving you when you've clearly told them you aren't amorously interested in them repeatedly, then that one is another thing.

Be careful, be careful some people won't listen! She even said she didn't know it'd trend! That means if she had known she'd probably have taken them to somewhere else!
Carry small shame dey follow body o!

I hope your case isn't that of colourism.
If you don't want her again then let her be, better tell now than fall out of love when you're married. Unless God gives you light skinned kids, she doesn't determine what your children will look like. Also, it's like you've not seen light skin people give birth to dark skin kids abi?
Chiefsosa: Amadioha can strike anybody anytime. He shouldn't overlook the fact that it might be the girl that is even managing him self. Also, you should be happy with her because you can't expect a whole lot from a person, she already has 70%.

May you not end up with the wrong person just because of looks. That thing wey you dey find, you go get am.
God help you.

Davash222:
I'll let this pass. Don't try it next time, inugo?

Ahan, I no come understand you again ooooo.
Wetin I do you?

Streamz:
Me:
Late 30s
Athletic build
Fitness maniac
6.1 feet
Generous
Good sense of humor
Master's degree
Working class
Moderate income
I do house chores myself. I've been taking care of my boy since when he was 1+ years.


She:
25 - late 30s
Be Loyal
Ability to adapt
Educated
Integrity
Honesty

Send me a mail.
brampage@yandex.com


“Love can be found in unexpected places. Sometimes we go out searching for what we think we want and we end up with what we're supposed to have.”

How old is your child now?
picture for us too see what you look like?

That'd be nice! I hope it will be properly maintained and that it stands the test of time and not crash. Anticipating!
I never did 2go though.

I don't like the label 'ugliest man'. He didn't ask to be born this way.
Those of you trash talking the women he's married to are something else, if no woman had agreed to marry him you'll talk, they married him you still talk.
Nawao.

This is serious and if this is true, I pray you're exonerated as soon as possible. Since I can't help, I'll put you in my prayers.
I hope you find the help you need in order to be set free.
Keep a clear head.

This country is in shambles!

How sad!
This girl will grow up now and will be labeled a hoe by some people who are like some nairaland men.
Virgin hunters will say she lost her virginity because she was loose, some will not even want to marry her because since she isn't a virgin, she won't make a good wife.
Rape from/by any gender is a crime and the offender should do the time! I just dey pity that baby.

Well, mine should be 2 hours plus, I have some friends with whom I can have long conversations with (few though) and I'd never get bored.
If it's whatsapp then it should be 4 hours plus with my former course mate. His birthday was on the 1st of October and I had ghosted him for 10 months, he's my closest course mate and it's a ritual for me to call him every year on his birthday, I never forget. I called him on normal call then we later spoke on WhatsApp for over four hours.

brosom:
180 .m.t.n

Whenever I wan complain give them, na so them go play me all sorts of music for my hear, sometimes I go take some nap before Dem go pick..

Lol, so true! I make sure to recharge my phone, I no wan hear 'one minute remaining' when dem never even pick up my call.

Lazyreporta:
I won't

Imela, nagode, oshey, danke schön, spaciba, shukran, merçi, asante, arigatou und thank you.

Shey small food still remain for nairalanders?

Hopefully you get the needed response.
Dubai isn't a country, it's a place in United Arab Emirates just as Lagos is a place in Nigeria.

Silentgroper:
Yenyenyenyenyenyenyen

I no go give you the opportunity to vex me. Take care of yourself.
Have a great year ahead.

I once stayed in Osun state for about 8 months, I observed that they grow it in abundance there, some uncompleted houses that were abandoned even had cocoa trees, you can try Osun state. Someone also mentioned to me while we were discussing about cocoa business that it's also grown in Cross river state, perhaps you could try that place as well.
It's a good business and I'd really love to venture into it when I have enough money, I'd love to grow though.
All the best.