₦airaland Forum

LordKO:
From your far-reached resolution and connotation of your submission, you don't believe in altruism/love, then don't sponsor her immigration via a spousal visa. You'll be better off having a contract marriage with her or any other woman, for your peace of mind in particular and sanity of the both of you in general. I expect you to man up and tell her boldly that you don't believe in love, instead of taking to disingenuousness in relating with her, and allow her to decide whether or not to continue with whatever that exists between the two of you.
A wonderful response.

However, assuming that you're a proponent and practitioner of altruism/love, I don't see anything wrong in one sponsoring his fiancee or wife's immigration via a spousal visa; all the news about betrayal happening and flying around notwithstanding. The reason is simple, whatever cause I believe in, I give my best, and I don't condone anyone who doesn't meet my set ethical standard.

So, anyone I vetted and chose as a lover/wife, I've always accorded her the privilege of being part and parcel of me as a proponent of oneness, while staying a discerning step ahead of her, of course. You need to master the art of giving everything without losing anything and walking out like a boss when things turn sour.

Meanwhile, opportunism and its peripheral vice aren't female gender exclusive, because personally, in an issue like this, I have suffered more betrayal from fellow men; well, that's because they've been my major beneficiaries. My motto in this regard is simple, betray me, shame on you; outsmart me, shame on me.

Love remains a sign of strength, not weakness.

ashewoboy:
where is that guy that sells perfume on nairaland?. you should meet him. he says a lot of stories of how ladies stampedes him.


what brand of perfume do you use?

TheSourcerer:
Moment of peace if you've gotten here so far , This is a reminder for you to breathe deep and long even longer then breathe out , unclench your jaws and fingers , relax you shoulders , Smile and Stretch your limbs and fingers , it's a beautiful evening to be alive ♥️

TheSourcerer:
Yes Religion provides an answer to our reason for existence
But that is only one answer admits hundreds others
But thinking your whole life should be indebted to the worship of a Creator , is not logically the best choice admits other logical ,modern in fact I dare say factual reason for our existence.

Again kind sir why do you still believe in God?

TheSourcerer:
which God? It's just that words like 'God ' and ' Lord' are just TITLES
I'm sorry it's just Capitalization of the first G in god doesn't diffrenciate your god from 3800+ gods ,who also have their'Gods' name capitalized in their languages too ,

posh4545:
I told her one or two about me ..that's y she kept on calling

Fiscus105:
If you never seen, you are supposed to have heard, rich and famous in yesteryears who is shadow of themselves today. Take it or leave, there are several destiny killers and destroyers, not only women even among men. If you are not teenager, ask about actor Anuku, you can also Google about Eboue among others, Giggs in recent time if you want White man.

Google famous and ruch who down because of pusssy if you want see it all

ehinmowo:
Perhaps he pulled it down himself. Joro has employed a US attorney to charge him for internet bully and illegal immigrant. The state where Tunde stays in US has very strict law against internet bully. And there many people coming forward that they have been bullied by Tunde with proofs.


These are tough times for the poor boy. I heard the she*male (Bobrisky) is having problem with him too.

post=97305532:
When you dream that we are making love to someone,
it is usually an indication that something is not complete in our lives and a desire to overcome points that may be obscure to ourselves is usually revealed through dream images.

Your dream life is partially affected by what you feed your spirit and mind.
For example, if you are reading or watching things that are sexually oriented, you are likely to attract such dreams.
The approach would be anything from avoiding romance novels and sexually explicit movies, fantasising about sex, among other things.

Minjim:
19 year old is no longer a teenager, she us a lady.
But no woman deserve this .

clockwisereport:
This is an example of "compare and contrast"

GOTVee:
That is quilox price list. I wasted a lot of money there before I became a born again Christian

Deicide:
Don't fall for this Scam Na for marriage people day get secret pass.

Tango123:
OP, while i am trying to understand ur plight, i praise u for walking away from the girl in ur house. Thank u

At 27, please have the midset of not rolling with anyone that looks under 25.

That is how u will avoid underage girls with grown body

That girl u came inside, if she becomes pregnant, u hv no proof that u didnt know she is under 18. U could be prosecuted for statutory rape. I say statutory because she may say the sex was consentual. That will make it no longer rape, but statutory tape. Consentual sex with a minor is statutory rape. And statutory rape still carry prison sentence in most countries. Lawyers in the house will tell us what it is in naija

Uncle93:
Why will you curse me ? Wetin i do u ?

Magnoliaa:
Op, I think you should add in a little a detail of how women are recalcitrant and sharp-mouthed—anybody's sister anyway... So, for other guys that'll be answering they should bear in mind that their sister might have pushed the good man into a position of disciplining her back into her position.

mansakhalifa:
But her death can scarcely be described as tragic.

Let me intimate you on what a tragic death is; getting your skull crushed/fractured by a carriage.

If it isn't excruciatingly painful, then it cannot be described as 'tragic'.