₦airaland Forum

Babacele:
This snake thinks he can just talk non sense and get away with it. When Oshio was governor he worked tirelessly for the state ,and any mistake therefrom is only normal human frailty but same can't be said of you Obaseki. Prove to the whole world how Oshiomole wanted to defraud the state through you- an Oshio who didn't defraud Edo when he governed? This snake ,using decoy and pretence, gained power only to show his real sef. The late Oba tactically warned Oshiomole. .......hmmm.

Judeerons32:
Talk is cheap. Obaseki should provide evidence.
You do not want godfather what are u to the 9members you inaugurated. You do not want godfather how did you jump the line in the pdp primaries. You do not want to share money the billions paid for ticket was from your savings account abi. Obaseki should point to his land mark projects. MOU governor. Social media Titan. Elections are on the field nobody should cry rigging.
Edo people are waiting Sept 19

iokpebholo:
September will speak for itself,cast for iyamu and I will cast my own for Obaseki.At least my vote go cancel ur own

bluecircle470:
Says ipob pigs

TheGodlessGod:
obaseki is a goner. At least he'll win nairaland votes

IamWonderful:
Before mama come out to campaign something must have change hands

divicode:
You said this same thing in Imo, what is happening again?

Ayemileto:
Well, I think it's many.

Advantages
1. You must have heard of Okarfor's law before.

Many people who cheat on their spouse do it with someone they've been with before marriage, who did it "properly" than they are getting with their current partner.

Also, I believe majority of people who complain about their partners not satisfying them sexually in marriage are those with numerous experience.

Just imagine a lady who was into runs during her college days, and have being with over 100 men in the process, getting married to a man who have never been with a woman before, how will their skills match? How will he satisfy her sexually?

if they both get married as a virgin, they get to learn together and build up their skills together, making it far easier for them to become compatible.

Also, there's no 'ex' that have given them an unforgettable sexual experience before that they can go back to.


2. If they both marry as a virgin, then there's less likelihood that the past of one of them will come back hunting their marriage. Scandals like having hidden children, sex tapes leaked by an ex, inability to give birth due to a past infection or abortion and many other things.

All this type of Marriage wrecking scandals will be far from them.

3. If they both marry as a virgin, then there's less likelihood of having recurring STDs that can destroy their marriage.

I was at someone's house in school last year and the dude was discussing with another guy.

Apparently, the guy have Gonorrhoea which he have treated, but somehow, the infection returned.

So, by marrying each other as a virgin, it will be difficult for them to contract all this recurring STDs and it's consequences.

4. Sex also have some spiritual stuff attached to it as many religious people believed. Even the Bible said something like "Anyone who commits adultery sins against his own soul".

So, whatever spiritual stuff that could have been contracted by sexing around would be avoided.


I think there are other ones though. But this are the ones that came to my mind right now.



Updated.

Another Update
As for disadvantages, a post made Front page few months ago. The guy was complaining about his wife being scared of sex. He said his in-laws even bought lubricants for them and many other things.

In one of his comments, He said he was initially at fault since he can't identify the hole to put his pencil initially.

I think this is the only disadvantage, but it is also an advantage since they will get to learn everything together as stated in point 1.

Gentle0wavez:
I have been thinking here for about 3 minutes, Guy no disadvantage dey oh.

callmeRichie:
Ama "HE" bro

Fear, as in fear of having sex at least for the first few months. Some of them would be so childish this moment ehn, they would be like "Awnn honey, it would pain me" lol

InfinityFabric:
There is no disadvantage in here.

Rabbi4real:
Good da ma’am,

I was referred to Lively Stones by a close friend. I need advise for my marriage. We are having issues and I do not think I trust my wife. I met my wife about 5 years ago. At the time I was wooing her,she gave me a hard time . I tried to date other women because she was playing hard to get but she was the only woman who truly caught my heart.

After trying her for like 4 months,I finally gave up and decided to forget about her. Like almost a year later,she started chatting me up and this time,she seemed ready so I went after her. I am not a perfect guy but I tried my possible best to make her happy.

One thing she said was that her last relationship really broke her heart,so she is finding it hard to trust a man again. I assured her countless times of my love and commitment. She did not introduce me to her family until almost 7 months.

She tested me several times to see if I truly loved her and to the glory of God,I did my best. I showered her with love,gifts,nice things. I even started to be more godly because of her. I began to go to church with her. I love the fact that she was even challenging me to be a good Christian.....

A year later,I felt I had passed her tests,I proposed to her. God saved me that I did not propose in public like I have always dreamed. I proposed to her in her apartment. I was in love,crazy in love and she loved me or so I thought. But when I proposed to her,she......

https://livelystones.ng/2020/07/17/my-wife-broke-my-trust-our-marriage-because-of-her-ex-boyfriend/

phidipe:
Please fellow memeber how do I behave meeting an Online date for the first after few months chatting on Facebook.
THANKS

APCHaram:
And the security patrol had a landline in their 504 patrol vehicle abi

PIMPAR:
You have left the the message. Why should Edolites vote for party of Tax collectors?

MetaPhysical:
There is no doubt APC is going to win 2023 at national level.

The permutation is, if PDP wins Edo in October it will put your state in opposition from 2021 to 2024, when you will next get opportunity to do another election.

Choose between a ruling party and an opposition party for your State. The affairs is in your hands.

Kissiemu:
Nna men!

Do I look like a mad man to you? So as a bachelor wey don sample ashewo,oloshos, girlfriends n enough friends with benefits I will now open eye to go n marry virgin?
Well unless there is #100m attached to the torture of marrying a virgin.

I no discourage virgins but since I am not a virgin why will I look for one to marry...abeg...abeg...shoe get size. Na non virgins be my size.

What can a niggah do?

callmeRichie:
Advantage? Earn high selves value, prestige and respect from your partner and families in the loop.

Disadvantage? Complications may arise during child birth sha depending on the body/tissue arrangement of the lady though. Fear is another one.

Kissiemu:
Let the virgins talk...A virgin I am not

Ayemileto:
Well, I think it's many.