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Golden057:
What else does the aboki know about life than to marry and keep marrying?

BeeBeeOoh:





Things hard, things hard, no be for where aboki dey oh. He go just dey marry, dey chop kpekus, dey born children dey go.


Wetin konsanam

Robertgreene1:
oga so all those Gospel u wrote up there is js 2 encourage guys 2 start fvcking married women...is fvcking Married women now an achievement or what?...mtcheew..much Ado about nothing...

my dear help me ask am o
but guy be calming down small small

have you ever heard the phrase "absence makes the heart grow fonder" why don't you take a few weeks break from him maybe during the holidays you and the kids [or even without the kids if you have some1 that can look after them] should take a vacation away from him. i remember doing this early last year during easter/lockdown we spent like a month plus and my man was begging us to come back. he got tired of video games and alot of his personal stuff trust me when get back you will experience a few months of specie before everything goes back to normal

Jesus Christ himself surrounded himself with only male disciples and apostles E get why. a big why.........

MPESA:
Your points are valid... I will suggests she told him about half of what she earn as her monthly income with fake evidence such documents to back it up for him to believe her.... Immediately open another account to transfer most of her saves to tally with the said amount she to him that she earn monthly.... While am advising her to do this is because the man true intentions of her income is unknown yet... There's nothing wrong about couples knowing each income it will make them to plan well about their family and limits unnecessary spending.... But at this case now there's no trust between them so let the woman hide some for the sake of tomorrow and the kids until she's well convinced that her husband will not misuse her funds if she entrust it all with him.

that's a very nice point as well do you know the reason why I even bothered giving her advice in the first place is this

last week when I went to buy trampoline and at the shop where I was a man who was there before I came was telling the sho owner that he's was just coming back from the police station that his sister's husband locked her up for close to 1 week in a room and give her a bucket to be defecating and urinating into she's not been able to bath for a week reason being that he the husband asked the lady to transfer the 1.5 million Naira he saw in her account into his own account meanwhile the lady works in a bank and has tried to explain to the husband that the money in her account is not hers as she works in a bank but she also has a side business where people transfer money to her she does waybill forthem then pay for the goods and then keep the profits but still the man insisted that she must transfer the money in her account into his own account I don't know how she was able to contact the brother and the brother went there and arrested the guy with SARZ officials
a lot of things are happening in marriages I will advise everybody to open their eyes especially women so that you will not go and labor for someone else to eat there is a possibility that this man could have killed his wife because of ordinary 1.5 million Naira I know I don't have the money but I also know it is a chicken change

UzorChinonso:
Good day Nairalanders, I have been married for just a year now and it has not been easy here! My Husband wants to know every thing about my finance. He has disturbed me to know how much is my salary worth of.

I have always denied him of the fact, what I know is that I used my money to refurbish our flat, got some new things to change the outlook of the place....

But I am not really finding it funny any longer. As we speak, he collected my ATM card since last two weeks, said I must tell him the pin or I should forget having it back. I went to my bank, told them that I lost the card and they changed it for me last Friday and he collected it again said it's either I tell him the pin or he will do something funny ...

I don't know what funny thing he's gonna do but I am worried! Pls is this how marriage is?
He claims to own me and own my salary! Is it fair? This marriage is too early instead I would have quit and I am pregnant at the moment!
What do I do? I don't want anybody to know anything about my finances including him till I have my baby whom my spirit accepted that I should make my next of kin.

What do I do ?

first off madam I don't care who you are whether male or female the only thing I'm going to tell you is this, you married not only an insecure man but a gold digger as well please do this for me go open another account do not request for an ATM card then go to your savings account transfer 70% of the money in that account to your new account and don't ever request for ATM card then give him the pin of the old accounts and just watch him and see what he does with it that's how you will know the real character of the person you married do not keep any money that you can not let go in the old account

I hope you see this

Belafonte:
All these wonderful cravings never happen to teenage mums, or kept second wives or baby mamas. Men make una dey Mumu una sef una hear?

All these cravings are intentional.

you are wicked for saying that
u don't deserve a baby

me I have been craving smoked chicken with pepper
hubby has refused to buy it
its not that I don't have money to buy it o just that it must be some1 else who buys it
my husband is wicked

NextD18:
That car won't still give her happiness without a husband and a complete family.

My dear
most of the people that has tasted this Union called marriage wants out and the people that are yet to test it wants in
so many divorces is are very happy singles because of what they saw in that Union called marriage if you're not strong enough, obedient enough, humble enough, tolerant enough , you cannot last a day because sometimes all your thoughts, sacrifices, compromise, doesn't even count to the person you are sharing that Union with
you see that Union it's a very rough path

if there was a death penalty attached to anyone caught involved in boko haram activities. all these nonsense would have stopped

i hope they stone him with pure water

that's a very old picture

thats a very old picture

How is what's happening between Iran and American Nigerians business, they have been threatening trump on twitter since morning hence this update.
Why bring trouble to our doorstep, ordinary boko Haram we couldn't fight is now Trump/America that you people want to draw into the boko haram's trouble that we already have.
Guys have a rethink please

Racoon:
What about the jollification the governors & northern elites were involved in during the wedding of the daughter of the GM-NNPC last week? What about the security votes you lots have been constantly collecting without any improvement in security?

What more about the the culpribility & conspiracy of the core northern leaders and elites who are benefiting from the self-inflicted BH insurgency?

Both the hypocritical leaders and bribe-taking soldiers are guilty.So let him that comes to equity come with a clean hand.

look at the way he's talking to them sef like he fears them...........

he's a married man

J111333:
This is personal so please be courteous with your comments.

I have a married female cousin who takes church serious more than her life, well I don't wanna waste your time with that part of the story.

I have tried to help her husband and her financially for a long time now and I'm afraid I've turned from helper to head of household, not funny. I jokingly told them to hang their boots after they had their fourth child but as I'm typing this, baby five just landed.

Their first son just got admitted into Unilag and guess who they called to help. I've severally decided to stop helping but thoughts of those lovely kids of theirs have always affected my decisions.

I told the newly college admitted boy to open a bank account so that I can channel my help properly but her mum said he wasn't 18 yet so she would be the one running the account until then.

A little background story.

My cousin is a graduate but helps her husband in an imaginary business of his which I have put in like N10m if not more yet nothing to show for it. I later switched to helping my cousin get a job, she ended up getting duped of the money meant to pursue the job Nigerianly.

She was/is my favourite cousin growing up and she was more than a nanny to my sister and I when we were little.

How can I put an end to this madness without feeling guilty about the kids? Mind you, I love their kids very much.

i am in the same situation but kinda different because in my case it's my sister
if not for her husband i wouldn't have written waec cus my mom was so broke we didn't even have anything to eat at that point in time

now my advice to you,

if God has left in a position to help do help them but don't displease your self in the process, don't be stupid and neglect your own needs and responsibility because of them.
find a particular amount that wont affect your budget and pay to them every month end after you have received your salary if you are a salary earner or after you have done your account at the end of the month if you are self employed and after that give a deaf ear to every other pleas from them until the next month end of course its gonna be hard but you have to learn how to say NO AND MAINTAIN IT . this will help them manage and budget every funds they receive and even make them have a rethink about how they spend cash and also lessen your burden
sorry that i quoted you i just needed to make sure you see this cus i believe it will go a long way for you

some people doesn't even have a sponsor/a way to enter school, some didn't even finish secondary school, and you are here complaining about gaining admission late appreciate the little thing you have honey

worst part is secondary school kids that will be writing waec next year are now required to register for national ID cards

This is how people blow this stupid guy who think that he's exposing the Lady by recording di video but before you know it someone will just pick this girl up and set her up for life his recording the video probably to shame Will lift her up

look at globacom that has few network mass in the east instead of them to make their network standard in nigeria first they are wasting money with cnn they dey try

JERRY1925:
Lol... Truth is, you can't satisfy a woman sexually.. They always want more even when u tired...
So, do your best and leave the rest for the next.

You say this because you don't know what is romance when you are actually romance a lady and you touch her in the right places or if possible make her come before you penetrate nah she go Dey beg you to come down that she's tired

90 percent of them big dicks doesn't even know how to use it.
All they know how to do is thrust
They don't even know how to use it and please a woman

The national identity card is registered since 2016 i still haven't gotten the ID card. I am still carrying around the laminated paper

i can't wait for this movie to be out, i was obsessed with that movie, i hope they also bring back legend of the seeker some how

You people should kill us with technology
No money no friend

LOVE IS TRULY BLIND

Let me chip in something that can help
Op don't do quick sex
And also focus more on fingering and rubbing of her clitoris
If she ever cums by you
She's in for life
You sound like she has never had an orgasm