davidflipcy5856:
Bro, let me tell you the undiluted truth. Tell her it's over before she does. The signs are too clear the relationship won't last. She is obviously dating another guy and she can't love two guys at same time. I know you love her, shit happens. But for you not to feel heartbroken for so much and start having evil thoughts in your mind maybe for revenge or whatever it's better you act fast.

Break up with her now before she does.

E go pain gan you if she is the one to say it's over

thankss..true words..i will keep that in mind..

aprilwise:
Don't beg a woman to love you or stay with you cos u will slave to her. The hand writings are on the wall , Use your tongue to count your teeth .

okay sir..
thank u vry much for this..

Onequietgirl:
Please can anyone help with the phone number of MANI (mental health awareness) please its very urgent and important

lolxxx
babe hope it has nothing to do with me oh

Fidelismaria:
Nothing more to Say
The professors don talk

abi oo..anyway thanks.

ImaIma1:
As hard as it may seem, give her space...put her at arms length. Reduce your calls (resist the urge to call her often). And when she calls, don't pick up, then call back in 1hr.

When she sends you a chat, delay in responding also. You need to stop acting like your life depends on her. She knows you are crazy about her and she is taking advantage of that.

All these things are not easy to do, but it will help you get your respect back or move on.

wow...i will score u 90/100
its if u u were in middle of our chat yesterday because everything you just said is actually true..
i do exactly what u said...
thanks alotssss...

davidadenrele:
This is why nairalanders gets feed up with some folks you asked for a sincere and candid advice and 90% percentage of good people on nairalanders said you should move on but your response "it's not easy bro" not easy to let go off a gal who is technically cheating on you, if based on your story the gal in question is under pressure with other guy, who perhaps has been showering her with gifts and money, if she truly loves you no amount of money, gifts will make fall so cheaply, you saw the handwriting on the wall like the biblical story " MENE!! MENE!!! and you are still asking for reasons, you said you are in your finals right?? That means you should graduating and be preparing for your NYSC my candid advice let her go else she will hurt you more some gals don't worth kill onself over graduate, go for your NYSC pray hard get a good job move look at the bright side of life, trust in no time she will come back on her begging you to have her back by then you would have step up to another level gals are elevators the higher you move up the better you meet some of the best of them don't kill yourself before a gal kills you!!!

thanks alot for this manh..
i strongly believe she is under pressure with the other guy.

drezzyx:
If this is love , I am sure I will not have anything to do with it...
I remembered d last tym I begged a lady I regretted doing that..

menh...its freaking hurt...
i dnt think i will go into it again..till am ready.

Irenemmeso:
people differ, as for me if I delete her number it would hurt me more. The first thing to do is to remove your heart from anything concerning her(what's the need of deleting her number, pics and all while you still have everything in your heart and still thinking of her..you are deceiving your self)...why deleting her number immediately? Is she your enemy?

okay...have heard you..thanks.

Engr1:
My brother...........all i have to tell u now is stay focus and leave that girl sharp sharp! If u want to know or hear from me now, de girl is a gaol (another man has won her heart already) so just space her for now and focus on ur studies. That is my little advice brother; let us not hear bad news that u don go commit suicide o bcuz girls of now adays are terrible.

lolxx...suicide?heheheh...i wouldn't try that? for wetti naa

OneSentence:
she's your first love right? don't worry...you are on the right path. like others you will have to learn a lot of lessons from her before it is over between you two. you are obviously still a wimp for her and she def prefers a man who is the man not the one who shakes like jelly when he sees or talks to her or the one who has to beg her to give him hope of love.

hmmmm....sad...but true..

ochibuogwu5:
How I pray that you will give your emotions to JESUS CHRIST and your life on this earth will be secured from all these emotional tortures; take it or leave it more emotional issues are coming on this journey of life even inside MARRIAGE there is NO ESCAPE ROUTE however "HE WHOSE HEART DWELLS IN THE SHELTER OF THE MOST HIGH JESUS CHRIST AND ABIDES IN THE SHADE OF THE ALMIGHTY WILL SAY TO THE LORD, YOU ARE MY REFUGE, MY STRONGHOLD, MY GOD IN WHOM I TRUST" {Psalm 91:1-2}. It is advisable that our hearts should be ESTABLISHED/STRAIGHTENED in the GRACE found ONLY IN JESUS CHRIST {Hebrews 13:8-9}. GREAT GRACE TO YOU!!!

thanks alot for this...u said the truth though..feeling sad.

idu1:
The story long abeg


After I gather courage read your story.

You love her more than she loves you.

And the girl is gone so sorry bro

thanks alot...it hurt, though, no option than 2 move on..

shege45:
WORD!!!
this is the painful truth
I could remember when i was serving, i used to love one corper babe like that and i showed it to her. She just dey use me dey play
As i dey like this, even if i like u too much, I would show u today, change am for you tomorrow just to let u know i can do without you. For some I don’t even show

thanks...u boost my moral with this.

Akinbahm:
Bro, will modify my comment later my battery is almost down...

okay..thanks..i will keep abreast..

SkinnyDude:
you expect me to read all this... for what?

whatever!

clive2u:
i had to check the moniker if its not me months ago.
bro she is enjoying the attention she is getting from that gentle man on the other side,
my humble advice is get ur heart ready to be broken cos its coming like an avalanche.
i could be wrong tho but i'm 70% sure she will leave u.
you will leave sha


ps: never let ur new girlfriend know you are scared of losing her, the farm tool will take advantage

noted!

she hasn't left yet, but the red light is crystal clear..so am preparing for d worst..

never.d.less, thanks alot.

kollinzgee:
My nigga ,since she is your first love its normal for you to feel this way we ve all being there before even the strongest of us.But i want to tell you something there is absolutely nothing wrong with loving a girl or showing love but you should know where to draw the line what a woman really wants in a relationship is a strong,decisive and forward moving guy she can rely on.a real man is not supposed to to love more than the woman ,even if he does he should hide it.when women notice you love too much they begin to misbehave because they dont want to take the lead in a relationship but they will never tell you. never make a woman feel too good in a relationship i mean never make her believe she is all you got .go to dating drills or read my old posts ....peace.. .

your words broke me down..
stupid i got carried away..

dating drills is currently restoring my stupidity..i really made lots lots of mistakes..

thanks alot bro..

Manpoly:
Guy.....i know its painful..just try 2 get over her....with ur family and friends....it will really help u....and do wat u like doing best...if u deleter her number from ur phone..wb ur heart did u delete it from it..??leave d number save it as dont call.....clear ur convo with her for a while...avoid her..if she doesnt give 10 bleeps...u too dont give 2 Bleep.....free her......and concentrate on ur studies...and paro another babe in ur school...balance both of dem....das all i av to say shaa

thanks for this..
though am not good at storing numbers ofhead,so frankly speaking,i dnt have her number in my heart or head...

however,am the type guy that hardly middle with either friends or family..i jst like being alone and studying..i know this is now going to worsting things and hurt me down..

never.d.less,thanks..

Martinez39:
One rule of relationship : when your girl starts distancing herself from you, she is no longer interested in you.

okay...thanks...noted now.

Biglittlelois:
You are an overly emotional guy, ladies don't respect over emotional guys, we tend to take advantage of that, next time learn to balance rationality with emotions.

overly emotional,that true..
thanks alot for this..
i never knew..
will have that in mind.

irumole1975:
Where is @Harddon
Dating drill Harddon dating drill is your best companion.
READ IT DAILY

thanks for this...am into it now...

ednut1:
Another weak fool.

whatever...thanks..

aswani:
Go to YouTube and find videos of people really suffering, especially children with serious health issues. That might help put your life in perspective.
Good luck.

thanks..

Irenemmeso:
Uwc dear
Don't mind those saying you should delete her number and block her, that's not a healthy way to leave your girlfriend it would hurt you more.
Just forget about her in a cool way..it should be a gradual process

okay..thanks alot...

please if i dnt delete her number and other stuff about her,i cant completely get her off my head na.
i will be tempted to call or text her.,so i think they are right..though it will hurt me d more,bt i think its also the first step i should take if am to recover on time..or what do think?

elvhinzey:
My Mum once said:
"Make sure the girl loves you more than you love her,with this; you'll be on the safer side."
Having inculcated such an advice-no worries.

okayy..thanks alot..i will put that in mind..

lilmax:
see wetin love dey do my guy

lolxx...ahahahahahaah....chaaiii....ah don suffer..!

Irenemmeso:
Op, there is 98% chances that the girl would leave you soon! I'm sorry, it hurts
You said you have been dating her for 5years now and you both are still schooling under your parents care. My dear the gal is not seeing any future with you, but she is seeing a future with the other guy who is independent and telling her about marriage.



















Loll don't mind me ooo, this is mere assumption
Face your studies dear, don't let this affect your studies ok

okay thankss..
we stated dating in our early 20s.

kullozone:
This type will eventually commit suicide

lolxx...i dey mad?

say naa wetti?

enuk80:

Then you are not ready to move on with your life.

thanksss...am ready...it will try...

plagiarism1:

Many of us were once like you 'WEAK'. Taking responsibility for ones weekness is a good sign of growth.

Please, dont call her again. Stop chatting her, avoid her at all cost. Spent time with friends. If she loves you for real she will come back within at least 3month.
That link would make you master your masculinity

thanksss...

plagiarism1:
You're a sissy. You're begging her.
You should be the lion king but he'll no, she's in full control.
You even went to the extent of letting her know you love her.

Bro, you're the puppet. Just forget her. Block her and delete her from your life.
You're weak n vulnerable. Unfortunately, girls don't like nice people

Your solution lies here on nairaland. Click, read, meditate n ask questions

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only

The way up is the way down, the way down is the way up- Sir Haddon

all thesame, thank..i accept the fact that am weak..it jst broke me down..