dude i dnt have much advise to give you.

but listen...

no matter how you think or take it, that babe is GONE!!!... if she's not gone yet, then it's a matter of time before she officially leave you...she's dnt even pity you anymore,forget the food aspect.

please stop calling, texting or begging her for food, it's going to be difficult but you just have to stop... STOP...STOPP!!!!!....the tough time is when to know who is who..

i am a carbon-copy of you,hardly keep friends,relate,socialize,always indoors,once heart broken like you from my trusted babe due to financial difficulties,SO I TELL YOU,you now have to be emotionally strong whether in a relationship or not,you now have to pick off your self from the ground, dust your self,move on and face the reality...TRUST ME MAN,..YOU ARE GOING TO BE FINE,YOU WE SURVIVE,YOU WILL SMILE AGAIN...its only going to be a matter of time and focus..

please i repeat,DELETE THAT BABE OUT OF YOUR LIFE!,dnt put any hope and faith in her...

and whatever advise nairalander's gives you,please take it,infact, screen shot it and read Them when ever u are depress because this guys are pros when it comes to giving advise;Dthough they will insult and troll you sha o

Davash222:
She’s giving you over dose . Enjoy bro. Happy married life in advance bro.

hahahahaahah.

over dose plus++

op dnt play that game with her...i repeat DONT!!!..atleast nt just now..
observe more,let the green light be a legit one cause if you dare make a move and the green light is not a confirm one,e go make her look down on you the more and she go come they win you 2-0 if you no what i mean..

however,if its a confirm one that she wants you back,o.p runnn,,i repeat runnnn and nvr look back...he cant eat her cake and have it back..

no matter the step or action you take,that mark is already in your heart..

midehi2:
!. You don't love her much for the wait.

2, You already have a double mind, the new girl is already an alternative for you.

3. There's a clause for your relationship (your parents, her age).

4. There's tendency you gonna disappoint her in future.

(my advice) Please breakup with her in a good way, let her find the best way now, if not she will never forgive you for disappointment.

op are you still looking for advise?? well, look no more..

dude am experiencing thesame story right here...

everything was going on smoothly,help her secure admission after spending 2years at home doing nothing.

got admission, within 2weeks, everything about her totally change..

broke up with her last month..

though she's not back yet and even if she do,am going to forgive and accept her back with a plan of carrying out revenge..revenge that might end up destroying her future...and i mean it...

oga shame no they cash you?
goan dash person thqt phone jor...
sell phone for 7k, then person go repair am for 10k

please nobody should follow this shitty story of try to p.m the bitch...its a scam

o.p you sound depressed, dumb, childish, pained and frustrated...

if you like bleep heaven and earth, e go still pain you say that babe block and dump you

you probably thinking she cant live life without you and your 'only God knows the monthly salary you are talking about'
e kan paiiinnnn

mtooorrr...

currently experiencing this noww..

fayded:
Bro, she is cheating, she will cheat and she has probably been cheating.
your instincts are never wrong. follow them

i love that word " your instinct are never wrong"

dude relax..your body will heal itself..
just abstain from it..
its a matter of time

if you apply all this to some nigeria girl,they will call you weak and take advantage of all it..

donproject:


Yes I know, I think I have flint of those entities you mentioned. Only that they desert me whenever I need them the most

lolxxx.. u are jst like me bro..though,am improving

grad2012:
You don't just know what trouble you are saving yourself from when you have self control.

Must you have sex with every random gal you meet. just take a look at were you landed yourself.

See I think she has used you for some diabolical purpose. If you are a Christian pls meet your pastor n if a Muslim meet your imam for prayers.

OP.... please listen to this lady's advise...no matter how shameful it is..

this should serve as a lesson to you..

i lost my manhood some years back though mine was a different case..
it was spiritual,they took it from me because i was a virgin and refuse to have sex even in d dream..

story short..i met my pastor n 3days prayer was conducted on me, the forth day morning,omo na dick stand erect..

so o.p, i did advise you to do thesame,if atall u dey even go church

very painful exit..

he is my course mate and we were about to defend our seminar before this shocking news arrive.

we will be mourning him tomorrow morning, walking around the entire school..

r.i.p bro...

we will miss you...

Kelvin30286063:
She was proud and manipulative. She visited me when I was broke and started struggling with me for 4 days.
I was running around to get her tf back to her school whereas she had 10k hidden in her bag.
Unlucky for her, she was in the bathroom and I wanted to take my phone she hid when we were playing and there it was, money staring at me!
I just pretended as if I didn't see anything. Gave her the 500 for tf instead of 5k that I was going to give her.
Then she had to temerity to call me when she got to school that why did I treat her like that?
I just told her to spend the money in her bag, she started making excuses like the money is for this or that.
Bitch you were with me for 4 days and we ate food without meat or fish, yet you don't think I should know you have money?
I guess at some point she got use to taking money from me.
She made me feel like nobody and she was not even proud of me. I remember visiting her in school and she didn't want me to meet her friends.
Anyway, that was years ago, everything changed so rapidly after we broke up.
Got a deal with an American company, bought a car, bought a house and found a good woman who is now my wife. She's still single and she's following all my social media handles, spying on me and regretting I guess. Lol
I just thank God I didn't end up with her cuz I would have become a miserable wife beater!

wow...thats great..
i tap from your grace...

Nesso:

Sorry about that. Try and move on, but never take back a girl who left you.

thanks alot for this...
lesson learnt..

Dmpaul:

bro. . .move on. Dnt stress ursf. Dnt try accptn ha bck. Dnt looseguard.

thanks alot mr. paul...

she had feelings for someone else,dump me probably the other guy was rich,lost everything she had for me for 5 good years..respect? love? care? attention? every fucking thing..only for her to discover the other guy had 3 extra side chick and 1 was pregnant for him..

told her we can still come back am ready 2 forgive her.,infact,i already forgive her..

she replied " am sorry,we cant, i like the kind of life am living now.."

she dnt tell me what happened or whats happening, the kind of life she's talking about, what i did wrong,why she cant come back despite forgiving her..alot of shit she kept as secrete and couldn't tell me..

babsadekunle:
pls nairalander I need yr help..i met a gal and ask her on a date.she told me she had a boyfriend but does not care if she is living or nt and later on she agreed to date me telling me where she stays was rented for her by the boy friend and she need to quit as s guy d love her we secure a room Rogers with all money av saved just to make sure she is happy... I saw a number on her phone saved with
.(MY OWN) and nw telling me it her boy friend in d village and can Neva leave him.. which she Neva told me earlier .av invested all I had please what should I do

hahahahahahahahah...

wait lemme prepare for church,i will comment latter..

""invested all you had""?? Rogers with all the money you saved""?

just wait,pros are coming to totur you, but meanwhile, goan read other peoples previous posts on heart break/spending on ladies

FreeMejoor1:
we brokeup and she is begging and i give her the honour to give me a breakup line saying am done with you..shaply i deletes all her chats and pics never will i allow any woman mess up my feelings.

modified:

but dude, i believe there are more issues to what you said..
breakup just like that? dnt even bother 2 fix the issues?

anyway.,thumbs up man..you won!
you gat the balls!
trust me,she might come back begging again..so its up to you..

i did advise you to keep snubbing her 2 show her u are the boss but base on experience, oga break d silence cux thats hw i n my ex had issues and end up breaking up..

Zombiekiller010:
Whats her age, is she up to 26?
Are you planning to marry her anytime soon?
Are you financially stable?
Do you truly love her? Have you masturbate on her picture to see if what you have for her isn't lust. If yes is your answer to my questions, then be calm, talk to her, draw her back to you with sweet talks and propose to her asap.
But if you're nit ready to marry her ,please free her togo so that you wont continue to hurt yourself.

thanks alot...she's gone..

ILuvBreasts:
I am a 400l student in a federal university. Since i got admitted, i haven't being in a relationship or had a girlfriend. I am being yabbed daily by my friends for not having one. The thing is that i am not too interested in it for now, i see it as extra stress. I dont know if its normal. I am not a virgin as i have had sex with a couple of runs girls while at home.

dude am a finale year student,currently experiencing heart break..
though,it isn't going to be the reason i will begging you now to pleaseee,i the name of what ever you are serving,please bros,i abeg u,FACE YOUR STUDIES!...since you've had sex before,forget relationship for the now..

ubunja:
give me 2 people you know who have died of porn and I'll give you 100 who have died of pussy

lol...hahahahah..guy u well so

apelike1:
what a wonderful piece of shiit you wrote

Real men my left yansh biko! If you don't have money forget about this nonsense write-up! That same real woman will still open her leg for the rich guy.

Who got time thinking about a woman's need! A typical black woman (naija women to be precise) have nothing to offer apart from receiving diiccck.

rideon sir
tellam oh

dnt date a beautiful jobless and shameless "UNDERGRADUATE" under d age of 18-24 with no specific source of income,dnt even take them serious cux its a waste of time..

new date asking for t.fare and sub says alot about the incoming money sucking/maga relationship

anyway,just keep thing up with her observe and see how it goes,provided u keep on applying brain like turning down d money/sub request u did earlier.

o.p its normal especially if the guy is in love with you..he's just scared of messing things up..
its only when you start dating him he can gain confidence or you can see he actually has confidence.

Acetin:
Guys should be careful about this, no matter what you give to a girl she will always see it as nothing because another guy out there bought or gave more to his own girlfriend. So be careful and manage your life jeje.
Only give to her what you know you can give to your follow guy without asking for something in return.

true talk

lahizak:
Recently, I have been reading guys complaining real hard that they are spending all there savings on girls who later betray them. Even though its understood that it's guys that are not very rich that make such complain but I still dey wonder, Why the hell will you spend al or a huge bundle of your savings on a girl. Even if you in a serious relationship, the girl that mean well will want you to save up. Guys please stop buying heaven and earth for a girl when u dont have much. If the girl call you stingy, just smile and leave. Let her go hit herself a rich guy or sugar daddy. Please, stop disturbing us with the fact that u spent all your savings on her. At the end of the day if you break up, she will still say u spent peanut and u stingy. I'm not saying you should not spend on her ooo. Spend the amount that you know you will still sleep confortably after spending. Thats my little advice

my brother u are 100% right ooo...this is seriously becoming too much..
the worst aspect is if they want 2 break the relationship,no matter the heaven and earth you spent,they wont even take a seconds to think twice abt those things

iamHighDee:



Sorry about that bro.

I think you people need to start dropping the names and pictures of these kind of girls so that the rest of us won't fall victims

hhahahahah...true talk ooo

victorian:











For your mind

Come carry me , give am fucvk!

Goat!

lier..!
they there dey make mouth..

na ur type dey go down for just 150 indomie with no egg