enuk80:
the best thing to do at this stage is to walk away from her and never look back. don't allow your emotions eat you up. you already saw the signs that she no longer need you again but you are just trying to force yourself on her.

Op , let her go. She has too many baggages and she is seeing someone else. Besides, you are just an option, you are not her choice.

Try to look for another girl and when you do, don't tell her how scared you are of losing her. Be the man in the relationship and don't let any girl manipulate you neither play with your emotions.

So bro, man up and stop behaving like a child standing in the sun

thanks alot...
but its not that easy bro..no matter how hard i try to overlook it and pretend i care less, the more it hurt me the most..

DanDeeBoss:
Just find your way out bro... Don't give a lady any chance to play with your emotions

true...

Orla234:
My dear please just take some *lionheart * pills and you'll be fine.


Your girl is on the way out.. The signs are too crystal to ignore.

You put all your cards on the table, now she knows there's no trump card.

What to do? Just give her some space, like just blank out and see what happens.

Let's see if she would *fight* for you.

wow...thanks for this..i was thinking of this too but was scared she may not have let use the word *power* (emotionally) to fight for me back, probably thinking maybe she needs me, fight and get her back..
i really really dnt know..
am confused..
am jst scared, never been this depress like this before..
u are female,please just helping with any skills or pattern to win her backnif there is..i know she still very much with me and still love me, but deep down in my heart, its like am fighting a lost BATTLE.

Justpd:

So You can find other girls, if that's your priority.

thanks...
i just don't want to love againn...its hurts like hell...!

dcommissioner:
She gat your full balls Mahn..
She will dump u soon...

okay thankss..

Orla234:
My dear please just take some *lionheart * pills and you'll be fine.


Your girl is on the way out.. The signs are too crystal to ignore.

thanks alot...

it hurtsss alott.

Justpd:
ASUU have called off the strike. Please I beg you in the name of anything you serve,
















































go back to school.

am already preparing 2. but why did you say so?

Good-day landers in house.
sorry for the lengthy and a bit boring story. but....
Please i need your help, strong and sincere advise.
am emotionally heart broken, scared and seriously depress at what is happening in my relationship now.
have been dating my girlfriend for about 5years now, we both love each other so much.

cutting d story short.

we both attend the same institution,while am in my finale,she's in a par-time program,200l to be precise. while she's currently in school attending lectures for some time now,am preparing for resumption due to the ASUU strike.

Of recent, she has been changing her attitude and character towards me to something else i really do not understand. all this started when i couldn't pick her calls because i was seriously unhappy with her recent i dont care attitude. recently i noticed she hardly pick my calls,takes about 1hour before replying my whatsapp text, sometimes blaming me for any failed plans or agreement,hardly apologize when she's knows that she is 101% wrong, even when i try to caution or correct her on this,she takes it personal,pretend she don't care and i will end up apologizing for both what i did and did not do,recently always taking advantage on my feelings for her cause she knows i love her so much.

of recent, have been generating this mindset that things between us isn't normal,have been worried and scared cause i love her so much and i don't want to loose her. so i had to text her yesterday that i don't like what's happening between us, i don't feel good or comfortable and this her recent attitude is not normal, i had to apologize and apologize both for what i may have done in the past, present and had to even apologize for my wrongs in future if actually it has anything to do with me..i told her all my feeling about her and that i cant bare the pains of loosing her.

she told me nothing has change between us and that i am her first love and she still love me..she keeps on telling me this anytime i try to dig deep on what is bothering her.

i was very scared, worried, bothered, and heart broken when she ask me if i still remembered a guy she told me about that lived very close to her elder sister's house, a friend of her elder sister's husband, i told her yes, and she told me this guy has been having feelings for her that this said guy has to tell her elder sister's husband that he is liking her.

i was so worried and scared cause this is my first love and i love her so much, and i myself knows she still loves me, at that moment,i dnt even bothered to ask more about the guy,i started expressing my feeling 2 her, that i dnt want to loose her,i love her so much and wants 2 have a future with her, i just keep saying things i really cant remember and alots of promises i made, telling and pleading to her not to hurt me with all this.

i try to ask her about her feelings and her own side of the story, she wouldn't say cause she said i overreacted when she told me,i told her i was only scared of loosing her and she keeps on telling me that she still love me and that nothing has change between us. told me not to think much about it that she is still with me..

please landers in the house especially the females, please i need your advise, please, i really dnt know if i should be patient with her or my days with her are numbered...please no matter how short,lengthy and hurtful it is, please i need your MATURED advise!!..

Thanks!

irumole1975:


@ bolded, Thats me currently.

Its painfull.

Should I kill myself just because I'm broke and I cant meet up with the standards other guys across the world are setting?
Ouch

please take it easy bro..no kill ur self..dnt push urself too hard abeg!
its fucking hurt bt wetti man go do?

Elsah:


Lol, you're laughing. Truth is you can have a job but still not be rich. My advice to guys is to stay away from relationships until you're earning something at least. Well, except if it's a casual relationship, which is just for fun. But if you want to go into something serious, have a job first. Not so you can be feeding her here and there, but so, she can take you seriously as a potential husband.

noted!

acorntree:


Even ASUP is also being discrimated against . ASUP has been on strike over a month now, did you hear any information about them like ASUU. Polytechnic is seen as second fiddle. The only solution is for the government to upgrade them to degree awarding institution. polytechnic education relevancy has actually becoming relegated. I pity those brilliant students who found themselves doing HND. Bsc in Nigeria is highly overated. Even those with Bsc from muchroom universities still believe they are superior to HND as can be seen here. All what you hear is we design, we conceive ideas, we are intellectually sound, we are these, we are that but what's their contribution to development of their field , just boastful, proud. They can't compete internationally with their Bsc but only to remain as local champion .

u said the raw, naked and bitter truth..
ASUP has bn on strike for some time now,the FG,the society,the medias,no one cares!!

malisah:
To be Honest the dichotomy can never be abolished.

I had HND with upper credit in minerals Engineering and got admitted into 300L(special admission) ABU Zaria Met/Mat Engineering. After my first year then I come to realize that to be an engineer no be moin moin. What I passed through made me to conclude that the discrimination is justifiable.
University settings is totally different from polytechnics in all ramifications. Forget the notion that university students only good in theory not in ABU. Here apart from Designs and Calculations they equally study the principles upon which a system works so that when situation changes they will know how to go about it (engineer).

If you have never been to the university, don't be quick to judge on this matter .

wow....i love this comment...
atleast u have tested both qualifications and see how they operate..
am an HND undergraduate anyway and thinking of DE..

NarnieSnyper:


Bro, it is very rare I tell you. When she started doing it, I was kinda of worried because no woman in my past relationship has ever done these things.
Good girls/women still exist in this our bad society but they are like 1 in every 2,000 women and you'd be very lucky to have one. Not all pretty girls play games, some are true to you as long as you are true to them

that's true.

NarnieSnyper:


Sorry about it. You should have given more than 101 reason why he should.

Always be truthful about your location.
Treat him like a king.
Try to always be honest with him
Call him maybe twice a day, telling him how u miss him. Then at night send him a romantic message that is a little erotic.
Whenever u are with him, pay 100% attention to him.Don't be chatting with other guys while u guys are together. Its disrespectful and increases the doubt he has towards u.
Always kiss him like there'll never be any other man in ur life.

I know this because this is what my woman does, because she tried everything humanly possible for me to trust her and I do.

its fucking difficult to see a girl who can do this..
this is what i want from any girl i date.

b0rn2fuck:
Now I enjoyed life, no pressure, no seeing miss call and be panicking , no unnecessary transfer from mobile application, no woman following me to ATM and even be helping me press the amount using her nipples to reset my brain system to suite her task, I don suffer , life is sweet if you stop looking for woman and stop impressing them, if you don't care/you don't get hurt even if she snap with 1000 guys and be uploading, but the moment you turn to father Christmas/ you will almost died of attack or commit suicide even she snap with just 1 guy self, my dick cannot give the directions of my life anymore, my brain do the job now while my dick hear words, I dab for my lifestyle now but the mumu past make me a better person, I dab again!!

please how did you get behind all this.
am trying to get out of this break up..
ouchh..its hurt like hell..

DanielOc lolxxx i understand your situation,bt the thing is that when you where digging down the drain,y dont you call us for assistance?

buh self enh,you were having unsafe sex and after spilling,u know what it will result to and dnt even border to gav her pills.

anyway,am an amateur in this so i dnt knw any pills,bt with my little knowledge,i know vitamin-C can do the job

nairaland0753:



I made up my mind not to go to church from today 3rd February, 2019 cos i just realized that the unjust keeps excelling than the just. I have tried and tried and the more i try the more i get to hear "IT'S ONLY A TEST OF FAITH" when will all these stop? Well, untill i am proven wrong then i will return to the church. I am fed up... Please Don't come here to give me some sermons. Salvation they say is a one man's race and YES! there's more to Christianity than just going to church. Thank you

hahahahahahah bro calm down nnaaa...enh..
please dnt stop..
have been absence from church for the past 2years now,not because i dnt have faith,i do n i believe in God be things aren't going d way i want either.
going to church i will gv u hope,not going wont change anything either..
u even went to church today..i wish i can belike u
i dnt even remember wen last i enter and i cant predict wen next i will go

gloria34:
Truth 4 who? Are u me? Me u are? U are me? Abi me are u?

lolxx..dis girl, u well atall

gloria34:
Speak 4 Ur self, who is "we women"? U and who?

there is nothing like you and who..
she said the plain and bitter truth.

Nacoss25:
brother, your situation describe100% the situation am into currently into, infact i just announced to her today that i have move on. below is the good bye message i sent to her

that message was not sent,are you sure you did not delete it?
and pls gist us the full details after d message was sent naa
cux am a billion percentage sure you have not moved on..trust me

please add mee 07039566435

Bestlily:
I was initiated into adulthood last year October. I finished school last year and since then I have tried different things.
I tried home lessons...but it did not last because the pay was ridiculous and the family overstressed me.

then I did one or two ushering jobs...the pay was just there and the job hardly comes. then I saw something about carton business which I want to give a try.

I already paid for the PDF but its seems I'm dealing with a scammer. I have not received anything since I paid day before yesterday.

and now I'm trying to get the ad hoc inec job for the 2019 elections. its been tough.

lolxx..you are still fresher
God bless ur hustle..
never give up.
and
keep no striving hard..
d lord is strength.

edoman2016:
How old was the girl then in 2015?

why asking? you want investigate why she was still a virgin? well,she was 17

samisj4real:
Team Virgin.
Nothing really special about sex..

just tell us say you never see opportunity

mine is abit long though..
it happened 2015, a very honey and konjided satuday,i invite her over to our house while mom and sibling's were all away..i took her to our setting room and starting playing normal children rough play till i hug her from behind and my hands went down to her pussy by mistake oh,at first she waited a bit to see if i wanted to start something weird that we both haven't done before, when she notice i was abit scared and shy,she start struggling to take my hand off her pussy..i jst cross mind raise her skirt and put my hands on the surface of her hot pussy of which i felt despite putting on pant,i couldn't do more dan that cause i was vry scared and shy

that was how she took my hands off,and went home without saying anything cause she too was shy..

not less 10mins,she called me on phone that she is coming again and that she jst went home to check if her mom is back..

when she came back,omo,i jst cross mind kiss her why undressing her as she was undressing me too
when i took of her pant,she used her hand to cover her pussy and breast until i forcefully remove hands and told her its okay, she then use her hands to cover her face
i just carried her and laid her on our big sofa,spread her legs like news paper;Dsuck d puna for some seconds and angrily forced my dick in vry tight wet pussy..she moan so hard that she almost chop off my neck,i no mind,i jst continue wetti i come life come do till i moan while cuming on her stomach cux i have nvr felt such a great pleasure before..i was abt cleaning the cum only for me to see my hairy dick stain with blood..

such a fantastic and cokecastic experience that day

though we both are still together.

JbravoAdodger:
I also teach a craft, except it's way more lucrative, way less stress , all online and I don't collect that much.

see this one want to reap where he did not sow

o.p God bless d work of ur hands..and please stop moving from house to house before them disarm your pant

newdawn2017:
My dear op, garlic gets rid of yeast infection, women re offer prone to yeast overgrowth which is also called candida. Garlic treats it effectively within 3dsys. As well as keeps it at Bay. I do it too, guess the lady 4got 2 remove hers B4 sex. I crush mine & put into a very thin sheet of cotton wool, mold it into a small ball; sqat & insert it in2 my vagina @ nights only, then take it out in d morning due to d smell of garlic people find offensive.

smelling*
hmmmm
smmhh..
spit**

Pythondancer1:

I'm referring to you olodo.
Go back to school.

Pythondancer1

i just like you i dnt know why i just like you

who knows,may its because i like delusional and pathetic sub-human psycho's like you

shey u don spoil the trend finish

Fidelismaria:


Nairaland no go kill person ooo

Nigeria is just turninoninown

A lawless country

This aren't the type of topics we should be discussing

We should be discussing about technological advancement and what we as Nigerians can do to impact the world positively

Anyways I just hope that girl ain't my sister cause my sis just turned 16 this January

Op where do you reside?

lolzzz