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RyanD147:
I hope my brethren at winners chapel will learn.

My first day at winners, after service, they gather all of us wey come new go back of church.

As we reach, after introduction and the rest, they started forcing us 2 speak in tongues.....I felt embarrassed!

That was the last time I stepped feet in that winners chapel!

jesuuu

am sure that was my set...

winners chapel

they just gather us go one side say make we they blast ohh

thanks alot for this..
great and best for me to take a bold step

Samyj247:
that's how these churches lie to you. Speaking in tongues is not to be learned or forced. Don't deceive your self. Tell her that you guys are just been deceived

very very true..

i went to one popular church and as a new comer, i was recognise and lectured, during the lecture, d ask us to speak in tongues, i was just looking at dem bcux i knw what the bible say's about it..the pastor said i shouldn't worry that i will learn it..

ever since that day, have not step foot there..

but o.p you funny, i swear

Gofwane:
My favorites are:
*Sex on credit *That breakup she initiated for nothing *City girls scheming *The p cartel
. . .the guy is damn good mehn.

please help with the link of the breakup she initiated for nothing

o.p listen,

las las, you will settle with ONE.
and when you do, you will still cheat on that one with another one.

and better start doing the needful now, like someone said, LAS LAS, DEM GO KICK YOU OUT.

dingbang:
your world is just filled with dump dump na so dem dump you? Lol allow local man to fall in love jare...

he is saying the true oh...

Authority1o1:
Those may help,but are not exclusively the basis of living a sinless life.
It may have worked for Op but may not work for others.The grievous mistake people make today is to tell infant believers(christians actually) to fast,pray and read bible.To be candid with my humble self,85% of sinners who wish to repent may not be able to live a holy life through this process.

So what's my suggestions:
Christians and everyone who desires to experience light(jesus christ) should surrender their life to God through Jesus and with the help of Holy Spirit. Then strive hard to attain a significant level of self-restraint.With self control one can overcome certain sins because they are significantly in control of their actions.A frequent masturbator would gladly reach for his dickson to relieve some urges,but would not do that if he has given his life to God and apply self caution.
A klepto who has decided not to steal would overcome with prayer and self control.

Don't get me wrong,the above listed by the op are right but are too advanced to be used by a sinner.
Remember,Jesus lives forever.

oga am with you..

this is what many people dnt feel concern about and this is what helped me..they just fast, study the bible, pray and relax while miracle comes on its own when even then bible told us to be "ALERT, APPLY SELF-CONTROL AND BE SELF DISCIPLINE"

akinade28:
everyone has big dreams but our circumstances, choices and decision sometimes determines our destination
Anyway, it is no too late for him to be a pastor.

he should go and do his pastor I.T inside prison..

nonsense and circumstances

Silentspeaker:
I don't know if this is the right place to post this but I have no choice.
I opened this moniker to keep my identity anonymous.

I'm in a point in my life were I feel like everything has come to an end. I'm living in regret, desperation, depression, anger, frustration and fear.

I'm a 400L student of Electrical/Electronics Engineering in Rivers State University. I'm 21yrs old. Apart from my education, I'm a music producer (trap music & Hiphop), I'm skilled in computer hardware & software repair and I'm competent in programming languages like C++, Java and Python. Even learnt a bit of HTML. I even represented my Uni in Nigeria Computer Society and came 4th in Nigeria in 2016. I was somewhat a brainy during my early days in sch. But everything suddenly turned around and I'm frustrated and confused.

I'll continue the rest later. I have to give the phone I'm using to the owner. I'll borrow another persons phone to continue...


I NEED HELP!!!

what's actually making you depress?

hahahah...u funny nig..

i dnt even have half of what you have including the skills and am in my finales too with absolutely NOTHING in my account..

i have no girlfrnd, no male friends, no helper, not much to eat, not much food stuff left, no money in my account but man, AM VERY VERY VERY HAPPY ...life too sweet.. irrespective of my conditions, bro LIFE is sweet..

please be patient, talk to God, he knows what you are passing through, he just want you to come your self and tell him; and trust me man, all will be well..

if wat you actually said is true, trust me man, please pray, have faith and be patient..

dnt kill yourself ooh cux if you, people and things causing all this will still remain thesame, nothing will change, life goes on, people will still cry and forget you..so why dnt u fight it and put them to shame..

one more thing, NEVER, NEVER, EVER depend on anything in this life aside God, except God, Never ever put hope on any thing or person..NOT EVEN YOUR PARENTS OR YOUR SHADOW.

look for how to engage in mini jobs with those 'SKILLS' and talk to 'GOD' in anything bothering you..those are the two things that can never let you down..

XhosaNostra:
Guys don't deserve love, I swear. Smh.

not all guys please!


and girls do the same too to guys..

beside that, something tells me the o.p dnt love that girl anymore..frankly speaking..

SouthSouth1914:
Lol.., dude we have been dating.., if I wanted to do anything, I could as well go to her.. I just haven’t been chanced. Please try and get details very well before commenting so you don’t sound like a clown. Cheers

hahahaha...nairaland guys ar laughing at you..

dude, i swear, you really do not know how stupid you are

if you knw, you will laugh at urself

come here they form pro and big man

nothing dey head

hand go still meet you before you meet the right woman, enough milking and sucking will be done on you to restore your stupidity

o.p you have no idea of how stupid you are..
next time please add "graphic image"
i really wish i can unread this crap
at 30 you still think like an idiot
you are still way too behind.

richmind2019:
Like DVD cassette abi

... How did u feel about our match yesterday

bro pogba should Bleep off jor..

its a sin..the truth is hidden in the bible..
am so happy in stopped it..

o.p u are very funny i swear!.

wtf!??

who d Bleep is the primary school boi?

do u think nairaland is full of kids

you aren't even thinking of fixing your home, wife, your job, common boi, you gat kid..But NO! your major aim is to look for female friend with no string attach

you dnt even sound worried or depress

and by-d-way, why aren't you searching for male instead? why are you so specific about female?

come, oboy, goan and restructure this your 16 century scam and come back "with another account".!

goodman41:
I was happy that i have found a wife,

i burst laugh when i read this

o.p abeg settle down look for wife oh, this ur strategy of finding a wife is very funny

hahahahahaha

bcux of 1k o.p say him done see wife

i wonder the kind of shock you received when she asked you for 5k

atleast o.p, u still get sense.

Niageriaunite:
bro 5months ago I was in ur shoes, it affected my level of productivity my business went down seriously is not a good experience one should wish his enemy

with the experience, I was able to understand the reason why the Bible teaches us to to stay away from fornication, pre marital sex is evil, these are sins we comite not to hurt God but to hurt our selves, now see how u are feeling now who is suffering it God or you?

I was laughing when people were advising you to get other girl, bro u will add more salt to ur injury, cos u will be with the new girl ur mind will still be beckoning on ur ex, and the now one will noticed and leave u again, when u must have slept with new u will now be having double heart break.

it very unfortunate that 2 are in same office, this is what u will do

first Go to living church alter lie face down and cry to God that u need help that he should come and deliver ur from the Spirit of ungodly soul tie you find ur self

secondly go to a living Church seek for deliverance let her spirit be cast away from ur soul

then give ur life to Christ completely not partially

delete her number don't view her on facebook, Instagram and whatsapp status

do all this bro u will get back ur life

I did It and I have permanent peace of mind now, how are wish I can talk to u on phone
send me an email let's talk more

dude i did all this when my ex broke up with me February this year..am so at peace now and i feel free being tied to anybody.

jiboladhino:
My girl broke up with me after 6years and even up till now I am still in denial, I can't tell my friends or family she broke up with me because I once fought my entire family for her, I can't bare the shame, she claims she broke up with me because my love for her was more than what she feels for me, till now I have swore never to have anything to do with women again, she was y first and only girlfriend ever, the only girl I have ever had sex with

same with me.

vivavik:
Take this from a lady who has seen and understands life, good things fly away so that the best will come in, never ever do "payback" or transfer agression, cos it might bounce back in a hard way.
Never listen to evil counsel cos u might Dig your own grave thru it.
Work hard and focus all your energy to been successful.
Don't rush into any relationship just yet, this method won't help u.
Above all, pray and be closer to God now than ever before, I know peace will find you with the best things in life.
Live, love and laugh, this is life!!!

dear thank you for this.

Blackivy27:
Not true. My mother is a single mother, a widow who brought up two infants to teenagers. I can say i am proud to be her daughter. She is to me deserving of the award BEST MOTHER. Shes like a father and mother in one.

its true
especially single mom of this present world/generation within the age of 25-30, not gone at the days wen ur mom was still fresh.

jst fix her within or inside the 25%..

eleko1:
single mothers! Only about 40% are truly,committer ok,the rest 60% are useless,prostitute,thieves.Some are demon in nature.Don't force me to open up about someone here biko

40% is way to big..
for me 25% manageable.. even the 5% inside sef, there head dey skip

luv336:
Young blood,I guess you're still new in d game of life when it come to dating, my girl dump me after 5yrs of successful relationship while in school,she mean everything to me,i almost commit suicide, mine is far worse than yours,but I gather d broken pieces of my life together, I rather convert d emotional heart trauma to my carrier, after making so money, with good job,I came back and married her Best friend,and left a scar in her heart,she (my x)is still still single searching,anytime I post a pic on fbk,she call nd cried,just focus on how u can make it in life with God by ur side, he will give u someone that is ten times better than her. Goodluck

lol...a copy of my past..
no difference
same years of dating, same school where she left me
bt girls shaa

Fidecoo:
I been no want put mouth for this your matter,but see guy make I advise you, better free the babe oo!!. I was once in this kind of your situation and guess what?? "THE GUY WITh THE CASH AT THE MOMENT MOSTLY WINS". I nearly want die because I been date that babe for good 7years. So,I managed to give up (they got married,I change state) and let go ,focusing all my attention on making money. but guess what? ??,today she begs I pick her calls and very happy when I talk to her on phone. God answered my prayers, turn things around for me (now guy with cash income is just my 1 week take home). I am not saying this to praise myself, but to advice and encourage you. So be wise and decide on time. My opinion sha

thanks for this

Michaeljnr225:
Aptly put, because I don't have much to give ATM. She's got fees to pay, rent and a host of other things. She told me he's uninteresting as a person and she's only using him because I'm broke but she loves me still

BIG TIME SCAMMMM!

op na so them do me ooo

"make i chop e moni, make i chop e money", before you know, VOOOOM!

Michaeljnr225:
Do you think I should move on? It is interesting to note that she still texts and calls me on a steady and we get intimate still

nigga trust me, its just a matter of time before you see her change..it will even shock you..

e be like film trick..

its not dat she dnt love you, she loves you but soon ,she's going to start having a double mind

dude i knw what am saying..okay..

o.p i can bet my life that babe will leave you soon.

its jst a matter of time, how and when but she's going to leave you soon!

i swear..!

jst prepare for your heart break..from now till February next year..

funny enough, you are pitying someone that has already won

a girl will cheat on you with the guy she always complain about to you.

fullofgrace:
Bro I salute ur courage!
To be realistic, the kind of trusted woman u wish to have no longer exist. They are found in the first heavens not in this sinful planet. It is very difficult for Ladies to be faithful if u are not ready to marry them. Because of the nightmare of being dumped.
Bro my solemn advice to you is if you know u are not ready for marriage don't date any Lady to avoid another heartbreak similar to the case of Samadina vs Regina Daniel. My advice to you is remained focused and uninterrupted in ur dreams and aspirations. Let them go wen u are ready to settled down then you prayerfully make ur choice.

i nvr wanted to comment here, but bro, this comment hite hard..

though its not for me but i will keep it to hearth..

thanks alot..

EBUBS:
Go and listen to pastors Christ don't compare yourself to others...

pless can i get the audio from you via whatsapp? pleasee

SultanOfAbia:
I go fork this Landlady 65k per night for 1 month.. Sugar Mummy tinz

fork dirty

Disease kill you

J4JUVENTUS:
Its not easy o.. Thank God for internet,if not I wonder how I would have survived it.

There is this part...People will say,that people like you can be very wicked. Chai! E can pain me,because I am not wicked.

I hardly forget if you offend me.If i no dress well,i no dey go out,even if na to go buy recharge card. I hardly go to occations,to d extent say,i dey ask myself say,if i wan do wedding,who go come? Got few frds and its hard to make new ones...
Even if i try to make new frds,to keep d tin going,na war.

I can be indoor for days,my neighbors will be asking "bros u bin travel" I will just smile..and say something like that.
While in school,them go say I dey form,but that wasn't it.... I just want to be alone,do things my own way.

To work with people na problem,everybody will be looking at me,as if I'm a demon. Although some are very friendly,they will want to know what you're up to...

Any introvert into online biz viewing this thread ,plz quote me... Help a brother oo

guy mine is even worst..

i have alot dress bt am shy to put them on..
hardly relate and flow with siblings and parents.
you even get few friends, me i dnt have any..
to keep ur friendship na war, bros, mine na "warest"