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GutsOverFear:
There's this girl I love very much..i offended her and now she says she still loves me but she just needs some space and some time off from me.

I told her that's another form of breaking up; but she said no that she doesn't want to break up with me.

My question is has anyone ever gotten back to normal with their partners after some time off from each other..

But she assures me that things we be back to normal before one to two months.

So I'd like to seek the advices of mature guys and ladies who have experienced such before..

NB : I'm 95% sure that this girl in question loves me.

op base on experience, your babe is 95% gone...

my advise? give her space, respect her wish and give her what she ask for..
dnt call, message, or even ask of her..
get busy with other things in your life while you patiently wait and observe if she will actually come back after the said period of time.

if she comes back, good for the both of you, BUT if she don't, OP move on with you life; D

this method can actually tell you if she really love you now or not.. BUT don't seek or act wanting, like calling out texting her... DNT!!!

BEANSANDBREAD00:
You are just talking balderdash
You can use your hand/talents to become breadwinners?? What are your hands/talents? Working in the saloon or eatery?
Or I guess your talent is prostituting

A lot of males are self employed and are doing well they are surviving with the skill they know not the certificate
Okay women can become breadwinners by prostituting fine!
Please you don’t have anything to say don’t quote me!

dude, that lady is right...

your comment should be for those ladies without handwork or skill.,waiting for men to come and pop money on their hoes..

not for a lady with skill and handwork,please respect them..

stubbornman:
Alot.... i mean alot just in few months!... If you love someone just say it rather than beating about the bush and letting that person use or friendzone you.... if they say YES you flow , when they say NO you relate with them as friends ....just friends


Learning how to say NO will save you a whole lot..... there are no Mr Nice guy in the jungle , a man without standard is useless


Give people the benefit of doubt just once... kick them outta your life the next time.

You may not really like what you or work for now..... but equip yourself with skills..... i mean invest in yourself till you see results.

Family comes first, niggers cum next, ladies come last.

Never betray a loyal friend!

Always help strangers everyday... you never can know when you help an angel... i mean little things counts.. buy a cheap shirt for that beggar, pay transport fare for those students, crack a joke to that guy with a heavy heart

Do not strive for success because you wanna revenge people who treated you bad.... rather strive because your family deserves a better life!

may God bless you for this comment.

its as if you are referring to me.

Bluezy13:
If i were you, I'll remain in my final year until i get a job.


Kidding.

Anywhere you find yourself, there is always a way to go about life.

If posted to the North, chances are that you may not touch your 19800 if you can manage the stipends from the school or state government coupled with perhaps lessons because food is cheap and affordable. You may even be involved in food commodity business etc.

If posted to the major city, you may not be able to save due high standard of living but you may have employment advantage.

thanks alot for this

am in my finales oohh..am deadly scared...
are you guys sure of all this things you are saying?

shortgun:
What advice do u need exactly?
To date her?, marry her or leave her?

From what u posted I will tell u from experience to run from that girl as far as ur legs can take you.

You see...the way she lies to her boyfriend whenever she is with you is the same way she lies to you when she's with him.
A girl that cheats is better than the one that lies.
If you want her badly tell her to break up with her boyfriend since she claims she doesn't love him anymore.

OP this is the simple answer you need...

if she can do that to her guy who she's currently in a relationship with, and despite their parents being aware of there relationship,dont you think she will continue doing that? this shows/tells alot about her..

o.p from you comment,i can actually deduce that you are not a player,but ask urself,is it that kind of lady you actually want? if you want to hit her and run,no probs, but a future with her? you are O.Y.O

the said guy might have even spend alot on her during her schooling, thinking he's going to end up marrying her.. not knowing he's about to enter one chance; D

that one will soon come to nairaland to come and complain; D

o.p the thing they sweet you as she dey lie and cheat on her guy now oh,

O.P what goes around,comes around ooh...

just expect ur own too,even marrying her wont stop her from cheating on you too

novice here
please what it is to ask a girl out?
i mean whats the meaning of that outing?
is to ask a girl to be your girlfriend or to take her out?

kingxsamz:
She asked you to take it but your conscience did not allow you... Now a man without conscience has taken it
Lwkmd...

dude i was eating wen i saw this comment,pepe almost enter my throat

Preshy561:
You should be angry not cos she lost her virginity to a riff raff (cos, im sure she never cared when and how you lost yours), but for the fact she cheated on you cos of misunderstanding you guys had.

why do girls always use little misunderstanding as a means or excuse for cheating?

refuse to pick a girl's call for just 2days, then call her the third day,only to find out that she's already married with 3 kids..

lilianofentse:
the guy is an extraterrestrial player.

lolxx..i jst pet her n told her nt 2 cry

when she left,i nor knw wen i take laugh troway food wey i cook

Headlesschicken:
Never make plans based on a woman,there's every possibility that u would fail.

this comment does not concern me but i will keep it in heart.. vry important.

vibbb:
Having a bad wife is not an issue but having a bad in- laws is a calamity.

Oga, be wise. Focus on ur career, whn u ar fully successful you will select babe as if u ar buying okirika cloths in yaba.

lolss..this comment jst motivate me

Bojack:
1. Dat nigga has a girlfriend already

2. He is only looking for sëx

3. Don't trust any guy named kelvin

thesame name of the guy who stole ma babe...n my ex latter discover he has 3 extra babe and one was pregnant for him

though am a guy,thanks for this,it will go a long way..
so so heart brokeeenn...hurt like hell.

i did all that, but she still cheated on me..

fishguide:
Chat me up on WhatsApp...

your numb pls

please, am in my finales and i need someone who is dam good in reject research to assist me..

logan2:
YOUR MONIKER IS ONE OF MY FAVOURITE WORDS, I WISH I CAN SEND YOU SOMETHING ,BUT IM AFRAID OF SCAMMERS

lolxx...that true sha..

but please try n help if actually you can or want to..

astro500:

don't be surprise, what he said is the truth... check the dam phone, you never can tell, you might even be her 4th or 5th guy

OP am 2billion% sure you never run any test, but if actually you did,then the person who did the test for you is a complete quack!

that is toilet infection..it can also be called scabies or commonly also known as "junk itch"(google more about)...

its as a result of not;
cleaning or washing you yanch properly after toilet
sweat generated from or in those conners of ur balls,
wearing one particular boxer over and over again,
using dirty hands to scratch those conner of your balls

solution? go to any pharmacy and ask for kentoconezole(wrong spelling though), either the tablet or tube cream or ask for visita or skinny anti fungal and bacterial cream..

apply is at night before sleeping (best),cause the itch may increase at first use..

and I TAKE GOD BEG YOU, BAFF B4 YOU USE AM...

Please landers gurus and engineers in the house,

how can i solve this issue on my windows 7ultimate

anytime i try to open some apps like bible, fire fox or chrome, it keeps on telling me Application unable to start (0x0000005).

i have tried recovery mode and formatting, non seems to solve the issue..

please help!

Please landers gurus and engineers in the house,

how can i solve this issue on my windows 7ultimate

anytime i try to open some apps like bible, fire fox or chrome, it keeps on telling me Application unable to start (0x0000005).

i have tried recovery mode and formatting, non seems to solve the issue..

please help!

My first love, my first EX, i tired all i could,i needed your care and support,you disappointed and left me when i needed you most..

i wanted the best from you,i wanted you to excel above your equal..i wanted to always be there for you, i wanted a future for us.

i really dnt know what came over you,i change overnight,all of a sudden.

well, have now learn to always work alone in life..i feel free now.

though my heart still ache,i know am going to be fine..

your instinct are always right..

but meanwhile,if she's a student, flirt way too much, receive alots of calls most especially with a sexy tone, get attention from guys,and if she's way too beautiful,just comort ur mind and emotional whatever from her body and activate the Bleep boi mode

she may like you but she's wont be loyal,she's cant date you alone...

i may be wrong,but if am not and you still want to continue, since you are that jealous type,it will be very difficult for you to coup especially in the area of trusting her..

#dropmic

mayort12:
That's how I decided to ask bae what the future holds for our almost 7years relationship oo( we met when we were very young). Settling down is not in his short term plans at all, he wants to work, hustle for cash, go for his masters before even thinking about settling. It's not like I'm in a hurry but I don't think I'd be able to wait that long when there are others that can't wait to start a family with me, besides I have lots to do with my life too and I intend starting early. The thing just tire me because I love this guy.
What will you guys advice?

women age way too fast..
biology clock is not on there side as they say.

you might end up waiting for him and las las,he go Bleep you up..

though its up to you to wait or not.

for me,see if you can talk him up, tell him your mind and hear what he has to say.

waiting for another extra 2-3year is still a good try "only if and only the oboki is serious ooh"

or rather,you know the next opt

now i understand why people say women dnt end up marrying who they love

i wish to be consistent in serving God..

i wish to be spiritually, emotionally, academically and financially balance..

i wish to have a beautiful woman,standing by each other, get married to her, have beautiful kids, a wonderful and awesome home.

paiz:
KKK
Don't thank me, what are friends for

lolxx..u bad gon

IANAGI:
Bros please I beg you... Don't push my helper away you have sent nothing no make God punish u.

hahahahahahahah...that guy self enhh

Brandonx:
I don't know if it's a great idea to stay friends with an ex.
She broke up with me last month although we have been having issues for a while before we finally parted ways, but recently she would always call to check on me, asking my friends about me and all that caring stuffs. I don't know if she's trying to get back at me cos it seems she wants to get into my life and flaunt her new lover, which would definitely hurt me, because when she asked that we went our seperate ways I didn't object , didn't trying talking her out of it , which I believe made her feel very bad. Although I'm yet to get over her, I'm just scared if we stay friends I might never get over her.

OP am currently in your shoes right now..though we broke up last month,she ask for friendship and i totally decline,though she has bn calling to check on me..i dnt even remember when last i even picked her call..

staying as friends is good cux you nvr know where you both will meet in future,but i will you this, its not healthy for you,decline it ASAP, it will keep on hurting you, your mind will start developing and giving false hope and lies that she still need you,if you want to stay as friends,then forget getting over her cause it wont be possible or easy for you..

though your broke up is still fresh,if you must stay as friend,man up and activate that i dnt care attitude,dnt call,dnt text,ignore at atleast her first 3calls,and den pick the forth on with jst short replies,never you return her calls or text..,infact thinking of going a month with hearing from her..i mean,jst move on,and let her be the one to do the friendship herself,or rather let her be friendshiping herself..

Dami12345:
Serious red flag.
1. She doesn't love him anymore. Fact .
2. She is hiding a lot worse.
3. She doesn't respect or care about his issues, marrying such a woman is suicide.

Your friend will just waste money. I can understand if she was a virgin, but a non- virgin? Bro your brother is being scammed. The girl is probably doing her last rounds or sex till proper marriage is done.
Besides , didnt you guy see a proper virgin to marry.

I recent heard. Shocking news. A man called his in-laws to tell them that their daughter was a virgin and thank them. There was jubilation in front of me. A 28 yr old lady who finished university? Wow. Such marriage starts on a good footing.

OP here is what your friend needs..

i can bet my life that the man is 101% right...especially that no. 1 and 2....

Bossjakande:
I dont tink u have ever bin in love DAT want to make u commit sucide. I was sick for a long time wen my girl left. guy love is powerful o

i feel u niggi..

dated my ex for 5yrs..loved her with passion..

she cheated,we separated..
i love her 2 d extent despite knowing she cheat,i was d one begging her 2 comeback after breakup n am already 2 forgive her...

well days after days,weeks after weeks,am starting 2 get over her...and am feeling gud now..though,the door of her coming back has bn completely close by me...

love shaaa

my revenge? though have forgiven her but if she comes back,i will expect her for d purpose of destroying her future..

AntiBrutus:
Some ladies have seen it is easier to make money with their bodies, than their brains. Those ladies are not dumb after all, they studied their target market, identified their needs and realized it isn't the brain, but the natural factory down there.

quote of the day...respectttt..!