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Mine is not really a scar, my body seems to do well when it comes to covering up injuries and making it seem like they were never there.

What I do have is a mark, strategically located on the right side of my chest...proof that I was reincarnated.

HantaVirus:
The court marriage protects both the man and woman but especially the woman. Some Nigerian men can be very polygamous in nature but the law states that if you practice bigamy, the punishment is 5-year imprisonment. So your partner needs to get a divorce before getting married to someone else !

On paper.

From the little I've seen so far (not really a consistent viewer of the show), this Laycon dude is a perfect example of what a man should never be around women.

I once belonged to the school of thought that as long as you love a man/woman, then this is all that matters. Even if parents were against it, the love between the couple will always prevail and everyone will live happily ever after.

Well that's a lie, a BIG LIE.

I have seen too much, learnt too much, and more keenly observed the world around me with realistic eyes, instead of forming opinions based on what fantasy movies & books portray.

The truth is, you ABSOLUTELY want his parents blessing on such a serious lifelong commitment as marriage, there's no long essay to be typed regarding this.
It's just what it is.

I advise that you tell him to try convincing his parents and get them to change their minds, but please don't hold your breath because they probably won't.
And if you were truly wise, you should not be so eager to marry into a family that wants nothing to do with you.

bukatyne:
Celebrating divorce is celebrating a failed marriage.

I would wonder someone who celebrates a failed WAEC, sack at work, an extra year, a failed final exam etc.

While divorce is not the end of life nor should a divorcee 'mourn' the death of their marriage forever, there is nothing to celebrate.

Point.

It's an overkill - that need to want to prove you're happy when no one is really checking, is a psychological overcompensation for much deeper issues.

I reckon such celebrations as the 'posh' equivalent of "Shalaye", which should be resisted. Lol

Something happened along the line.

A lot of people might be too young to know/remember, but you should ask your parents about how Nigerians behaved under the regime of Buhari/Idiagbon in the early 80s.

Their War on Indiscipline was so effective that Nigerians began acting like proper human beings while it lasted.

As for the African man's tendency to pander to the west (white folks in general), that's just Stockholm Syndrome at work.

stino4win:
Honourable is ok, off your mic please.

Lol

Celebrating failure, that's my opinion on it.

A Divorce = A failed marriage
No more, no less...

And it's not surprising that it's usually women doing these divorce celebrations. The ex-husband may probably be getting his cöck sucked by another woman already, all without the need for theatrics.

Lmao

A real nigga indeed, no argument

But why is he a wanted man?
Does the woman look like she was kidnapped? I'm ROTFL

In all of this back and forth, no where has the OP actually stated what the kid's father has to say about her plans.

@Senoritaluvy, have you told your baby daddy about your intentions to have his son come live with him for a while?
What did he say, what was his reaction?

Personally, everything you need to know, you will surely discover it in that conversation with him.
If he accepts, even if for a short time like a holiday, then perfect, your son can stay with him. And if he doesn't, you should forget all about it.

This is something ONLY both of you will have to decide together because the last thing you want to do, is to go drop your son with a father who does not want him.

shugabasbn:
I don't support NK but to be frank no country with working cerebral will not want to. If someone think the way America n NATO destroyed Libya, Syria, Iraq, and overthrow elected Egyptian President.
The rate at which they are sectioning Iran n intentional collapsed Zimbabwe economy. Their atrocities against Vietnam n Afgha. Their Handwriting all over the world.

You are fully awake bro.

Only an American stooge would see something wrong with NK or any other country having these weapons as a measure of protection.

wetmenow:
What's Kim problem?

He doesn't want to end up like Gaddafi or Saddam Hussein who were cut down just because they didn't give a shït about paying homage to the west.

It's just common sense for Kim to want to protect himself from the United States - having nukes is just a defensive military tactic for him, not offensive...

Scatterscatter:
This Kim boy sef!

Come to thing of it, the North is always the problem everywhere in the world.

North Sudan
North Korea
Northern Nigeria
Etc

North America

braveboy64:
USA has more nuclear weapon compare to North Korea.

So what's their point

Lol, don't mind them. They want only themselves and their allies to be the ones with nuclear weapons.

OLAADEGBU:
See this thread on EBLM (Every Black Life Matters) --> https://www.nairaland.com/6054258/every-black-life-matters-eblm

I've seen the thread before, even made a comment on it.

mutter:
Like many Christians I was constantly reading and quoting sections in the bible.
Somewhere along the line I did a course in Theology and I went back to read my bible with a better understanding.
Many women don't know what submission means and why they should submit to a man.
They have real issues with submission.
So too it is not quite understood that the man has a much higher obligation imposed on him than the woman. He has to protect her with his life.
I have made a video on this and I'd be glad of you watch and comment...and perhaps this will lead a few women to submit with purpose.
This advice is also compatable to other religions.
We need to save the marriage institution!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qJZT2eTTRoQ

Enlightening video.

Hopefully, the target audience will get to watch and appreciate it.

Lmao, Pastor Funke on tha beat again

But please, she should not refer to prostitutes as idïots. Those are hardworking women who provide a very important service.

Prostitution is a job just like any other job and those engaged in it should not be looked down on or discriminated against.
I learnt this from Feminists.

But she's right though, if a man is really intent on it and has no reservations, sex and food can be gotten outside the home quite as easily as you can get a new toy.

phrancys001:
Another protest loading "Black babies lives matters"

Lol, BBLM.

You learnt absolutely nothing from your last thread obviously.

Hintona:
Sometimes I wonder what I would do without Google

Lol, I hope Google is not assisting you with porn?
Don't start learning things from porn.

AnonymousRebec:
I was on my own when my friend said he wants to introduce me to someone. So he must have done his checks before the whole introduction.

Everyone's been trying to respond to you as nicely as possible, but you seem to want some cold hard truth.

Allow me to oblige you.

He is simply not finding you attractive enough, you probably bore him, and he expects you to get the point on your own.
Even a married man looking to have a fling will still give you enough of his time, at least until he gets the püssy.

He probably feels you're not worth the stress required to have anything sexual or romantic with you.

Lol @your disclaimer.

Anticipating the reactions

Hintona:
Quite true.

There's this girl that lives in my neighborhood, 2-3 years ago she was skinny, guys no dey even look her side, but since she added, dem no dey gree her rest again.

Hahah, I can imagine.
Girls with curves always get the most attention from African men...there was never a time we were attracted to skinny or flat anything, Lol

Totally repulsive

These are strictly things Caucasian men find attractive.

African-American men and African men generally have never been attracted to skinny, flat-assed or flat-chested women.

The genetic makeup of an African woman's body doesn't even allow it to remain so skinny.
In other words, being thin/skinny is an aberration among women of African descent.

CuteVally:
lol it might seems silly to you but wait till you experience strange occurrence.

I don't doubt the story at all.

Nah you don't get me. Notice how I quoted only a portion of the story to express my misunderstanding?

The overall idea about seeing and/or living around a supposedly dead person, is one I believe. Someone very close to me experienced it with a neighbour (tenant) of hers and shared it with me, she had no reason to make it up especially when she's not even a religious/spiritual person.

The part I find silly in this particular story, is that shenanigan with the jacket. I feel it was deliberately included to make it more sensational...plus the story doesn't specify if the parents of the girl actually saw her in person, or at what point she dissolved into thin air.

I'm finally caught up, read through the entire thread and I must say this is the first time I am dedicating this much time to Red Pill content on NL.

Although these are principles I have put into practise for many years, it wasn't until a few years ago I realized there was even a name for it - Red Pill, they term it.

And for the first time, I can actually say 100% that the author of this content shared here benevolently by Glycolysis, is in fact a true nigga. His OT is on point!

Good job guys.

GLYCOLYSISS:
--Men,

Did she call you a narcissistic bully, misogynist, an asshole, a jerk,a badboy ?

Congratulations!

You are doing it right. You are inexorable. Her manipulation is not working on you as she would love.

You don't bend your principles to please her.

As much as she hates it, she loves it !

I always relish it when I'm called those names because only two things are involved:

1. My immunity to her manipulations pisses her off, and I don't care.
2. She secretly harbors some feelings for me, hates herself for it, and I still don't care either way.

Skepticus:
I was about to touch on this lately observing the pattern of comments that female and their simping cucks make when a thread is opened or a comment emphasizing the red pill. I'm glad you picked on it.

You all might be familiar with this scenario.

Nairaland Thread: Woman cries for justice after she slaps and pour drinks on a man at a party without provocation and get beaten in return

Red Piller makes a comment: She deserves what she got. Women need to start taking responbilities for their action and live with its consequences

first female drops her comment in a mention of that of the red piller's: All these small Nairaland boys sef. Why should someone lay hands on a woman? Only weak men do that

Second female makes a joining sequel: Don't mind these small nairaland boys. They are still living in their father's house eating mummy's food

(Notice how the females deliberately avoid responding directly to the issue by deflecting and age-shaming even though they are unaware of the red piller's age).

Their Beta Cucks step in for major simping:

Male Simpleton 1: That's irresponsible of the boy. Even though it's unprovoked, he should be a man by withstanding abuse from ladies. Only weak men do that

Male Simpleton 2 (quoting first female): I can bet on it that the boy you mentioned is not married. I have been married for 100 years and I get slapped by my wife everyday but I endure because in life and marriage, you have to let some things go for the sake of peace. He is a small boy. He would learn when he gets married.

Male Simpleton 3 (who is obviously, a clueless, thirsty goat with no game, quoting the second female): You write very well. You are very intelligent. You must be a writer, I guess. I like your profile picture. Check your mail. I just sent you a mail

Smh.

Lmao

Whyem15:
The problem here is that, we all know that many of the countries still participating in the deal are client-states of the US. It is very possible that US will make either UK or France to trigger the snapback. The hawks in US will do anything and everything to bring Iran down. Iran shouldn't relax yet.

You know exactly how they roll, but hopefully, China & Russia will be able to block it.

How in God's name did I ever miss this thread?

These are things every man ought to know, very important for the culture.

I can't believe people are actually telling her to steal the jewellery

No wait, I'm not surprised...