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UjuJoan2:
What if it comes back that the child is yours? What about the damage you must have caused? Are you willing to take that risk.

I don't know but if a man questions the paternity of a child I had for him, I'm not sure I'll ever forgive him.

Lol, typical.

This is exactly why DNA tests ought to be done.

dermmy:
US cannot disarm, in fact no nuclear power would want to do that. Obama made a speech in Prague on April 5, 2009 that he wanted to see a world without nuclear weapons and that if it didn't happen in his lifetime the time to start was now. He said the same thing in July that year in London when he met Russian president Dmitri Medvedev. In Sept 23 that year he addressed the same nuclear disarmament topic to the U.N General Assembly.

On October 9 he was awarded a nobel peace prize. During his 8 years as president he committed trillions to the modernisation of America's nuclear arsenal building high tech nukes

Nuclear disarmament is an elusive topic among arms control and proliferation experts. How do we achieve that? Even if great powers like U.S, Russia and China are ready to disarm what about North Korea who sees nukes as detterrent. What about Israel, India, Pakistan. Will these lesser nuclear powers be willing to disarm?

Even if they are willing how do we set up a body that monitors and inspect these countries from building them in secret cause Syria once tried that. Nuclear disarmament is a big and very elusive topic.

Lol, good one.

The point being that no country will be willing to disarm or ban the development of nuclear weapons when countries like the US are still keeping their cache intact.

It won't happen, hence my question to that other guy.

Benblaq:
Explanations please.

An immovable object is not indestructible.

mysticwarrior:
After the Hiroshima/Nagasaki atomic bombing of 1945, the Geneva convention of 1949 placed a ban on the use of Weapons with such destructive capabilities during warfare, in 1962 these terms was almost violated by the USA and USSR during the Cuba missile crises, when nukes where planted in strategic locations in a quest to demonstrate weapon superiority.

The Geneva convention would have placed a ban on the production of such weapons rather than placing a ban on its usage, they should place a total ban that would compel and even prevent the most powerful nations from producing it.

Including the US right?

Fake news.

I'm finding this hard to believe. Is he breaking down already?

Trump's ego is much too big to allow him say such defeatist things about himself.

I want to see a video, not what some reporter wrote. Lol

Background story first, please.

How did she get to 40 without getting married?

Has she never been proposed to, has she been rejecting proposals, has she being unlucky and keeps getting disappointed by men?

This is probably the best guide for husbands that I have read on this forum in a VERY long time.

Excellent.

She has a very good sense of humour, I like it

Ask her what she means by 'missing you' but be prepared to listen pointless & evasive explanations, some emotional blackmail, and a tinge of some expert reverse psychology thrown back at ya for going through her messages in the first place.

If you know what's good for you, get a grip on your emotions & don't react. Just take note of this and keep checking up information regarding this particular person - the frequency of their exchanged calls, the WhatsApp messages.

No woman will ever admit she is cheating on you until you catch her red-handed in the act itself, or perhaps you see a chat where she is specifically talking about having sex.
Anything other than this, it's long expert analysis you're just looking for, lol.

Sixfeetbelle:
Why?


Don't worry, hubby. I have no plans to cut off your preek. Yet

Anything having to do with a surgical procedure and I'm scampering in the opposite direction, now it's on penis matter. Just kee me

Just reading this story gave me chills and goose bumps. I'm even feeling some unusual pain in my groin area.

There should have been a viewer's Reader's Discretion warning attached.

Faithdamy:
Yeah that's true, but it will affect them too

Lol, TikTok is just one of many apps on Google Play & the IOS app store that was developed in China.

Originality007:
china will ban all apps from other countries in their country, but will impose thier own on u

Do they really impose them?

Sixfeetbelle:
Why is it that men never seem to agree that they're just not that good in bed in some of these "wife denies sex" cases? Sticking it in always can get boring and uninteresting very quickly for someone who seeks enjoyment in the bedroom.

You, sef, you sabi knack woman into seventh heaven? Different women against different styles?

A wife who seeks sexual enjoyment and is not getting it from her husband ought to guide him and take charge of the bedroom with her superior knowledge. Simply laying down like a log of wood and expecting him to work a miracle, helps no one.

Lol, it's not about paying bills, man's got it wrong.
The only reason your friend's wife can withhold sex without any care in the world is because she knows that it gets to him, it's the power she wields from it that makes her continue to withhold it for as long as she wants.

Some men really need to understand Game Theory, not just in relationships but in every aspect of life. The last thing you ever want to do is give someone the idea that you are a prisoner to what they can offer you.

Some men out there don't pay no bills and are still getting steady sex from their wives.
Some men are the least romantic husbands ever, yet sex is never their problem.
Some are paying all the bills, are very romantic, getting sex from the wife, but still keeping a side chic for the culture.
Then there are some (a category your friend falls under) who are being sex-starved for one reason or the other, but they have mastered game and are not so bothered. They don't even make any moves to try getting sex anymore, could be because they're getting it elsewhere or maybe they're not. The idea is, they just don't give in.

Your friend needs to man up. If he has done all he can and all he keeps getting is the tired excuse, he should step back.
The more he asks for it, the more power she gains and that will solve nothing in the long run.

Lol, and the war games continue.

bukatyne:
Loneliness is different from being alone.

Marriage does not cure loneliness, it however ensures you are not alone in the journey of life.

Short simple response, but with a mountain of meaning.

Of course it can be done.

The earlier you do it, the better. Let no one tell you otherwise.

lisa286:
Same here, covers face...

Lol, I'm not alone

UjuJoan2:
Some kids are very very dramatic. He may not be as terrified as he is pretending to be.

Remember children can be manipulative too. They do something wrong, knowing the consequences, yet do it anyway. Trust me if that mother is truly abusive, that boy will not won't even have the guts to say 'calm down'. As a matter of fact he will never even dare comit the crime in the first place.

My second child used to be the most stubborn and daring, and that's because she is so much like that little boy.

Anytime you want to discipline her she will scream and beg and tell you that you're going to kill her, that she loves you, that you are her mother, that she will never ever ever do it again. . . . . And the next second she's doing the same thing. I never used to be able to go through with spanking her because of her highly dramatic cries and pleas, untill I learned to ignore them. . . . I realised it was a tactic. Infact she bragged to her elder sister one day that "Mum can never spank her, that she will cry and beg and Mum will forgive her"

Let's just say she has now become loyal!

Lol, drama

I already like her, she discovered your mumu button very early

Lol, a demon indeed, invented by the same country which now tries to stop other countries from developing it while keeping theirs intact.

For a second, I thought I was about to read an MSM article accusing North Korea of indiscriminately killing it's own citizens which resulted in dead bodies found on North Korean fishing boats.

What an anticlimactic feeling, but a good one regarding this news.

BluntNigerian:

100 - 100 = Zero..

Big Zero

Hathor5:
You first. No reason to write long epistles mentioning Westerners like you suffer from an inferiority complex.

Okay miss superiority complex

Hathor5:
I haven't seen anyone bring up Westerners but you.

Mehn whatever, just calm down

Hathor5:
I stopped reading after this paragraph. You brought up Westerners for no good reason at all.

I truly don't care if you read it or not.

And I did not bring up westerners, the responses above already did by comparing Nigerians with bla bla bla, but hey I figure you were blinded to those because they reinforced your bias.

Lol, someone said that westerners will see it as child abuse
Nigerians always want to appear more western than the westerners themselves, more religious than the pope, etc, everything is always more, lol. Wannabes

Go on YouTube and see videos of white kids crying in reaction to something done/said to them, or just crying to avoid doing things a parent wanted them to do. There are television shows (e.g Things Children Do) dedicated to getting a good laugh from the antics of kids, some of the clips shown usually mirror this same situation with kids crying/begging and trying to talk their way out of avoiding things they don't like or want.

Y'all should just get a grip on yourselves, there was no torture, nothing in the video suggests abuse. The mother was desperately trying to hold back her own laughter throughout the whole thing, meaning she was only recording it because she found her son funny in the first place. Perhaps, her decision to share the video is what could be debated, but this still would be adjudged strictly on personal opinion. Some people don't like sharing their lives on SM, others do.
The same western wannabes decrying her decision to share the video with the world are usually the exact same people who will say stuff like 'live and let live' or 'everyone has a right to choices', the very next second.

And fück no, that boy is not going to be emotionally or pyschologically scarred because of what went on in the video, anyone saying this is simply projecting their own emotional scarring from life experiences.
Children don't think like adults, they are completely innocent and free from those things that make adults want to question or distrust situations. An adult who tries to analyze a child's emotional response through his/her own adult coloured lenses will always fail woefully.

That boy was probably playing and running around the house/neighborhood with his friends not more than 30mins after that stuff happened, that's kids for you. They will get scolded, they will cry, even act like they want to die from the tears, but the next second they're back to themselves jumping and being a nuisance with no thought or recollection of what transpired earlier. This is something that an adult is incapable of because we have completely lost that childlike innocence and tend to dwell so much on the whys and hows, depressing ourselves in the process.


You all need to just

mariahAngel:
It's easier if you've figured out what you're passionate about.

Did you watch the video?

She didn't really say anything different from what some women are already thinking deep-down regarding rape accusations.

I'm aware that there's a set of women who simply don't like it when a man who was accused of rape decides to fight back.
I mean, Dbanj was called a bully for suing his accuser, the krest pastor was accused of trying to intimidate, the London doctor was insulted, etc

The only special thing about this woman is that she's brave enough to express her insanity in words without cowering behind attacking the character of an alleged rapist.
She tells them to simply accept they are rapists in good faith even though she knows they may not be guilty.

I rate her 100 for her unhinged bravery, and an equal 100 for her undiagnosed insanity.

If such things are not allowed, then she had no business doing the dance videos without expecting consequences.

It's one thing to be a liberal, it's another thing to be plain stüpid.