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chumaZ:
Nairalanders I need your advise, please pardon my grammar and my typographical errors as I am under pressure, I will try and make this story short in order not to bore you guys

I finished school 2016 and went for nysc at abuja 2017 unfortunately for me I ran into my best friend supposed fiancée since I know her too well, we bounded till one day she ask to know where I stay in abuja, but because I was staying with my aunty, I couldn't take her to my place.... One Friday morning I got a call from my bestie that his girl is down, that I should take her to hospital, I left whatever I was doing and rush down to apo resettlement. When I got there her fiancée was in good condition to my greatest surprise, she begged me not to let my friend know, that she needed attention and all that. she didn't know it will got to this extent, and I agreed with her and bid her a goodbye but she wouldn't let me go until I kiss her.... I swear I had no option if that would make her free me because she was creating a lot of drama already. I kept cool and avoided this girl till I left abuja after nysc and never mentioned anything that happened between her and I to my friend.

Fast forward to October 2020, my friend called me that her fiancée have an event to attend in yaba Lagos for a week and want me to accommodate her since I stay in two bedroom apparent alone, I refused and suggested it was better he get a hotel room for her, my friend said the girl have not been to Lagos that it would be better she stays with someone who's familiar with Lagos. I contacted a female friend I know to see if she can stay with her, but my friend's fiancée' complained the place will be far from where the event would be taking place, my best friend was now seeing me as wicked person and I don't wanna help his girl. I had no option than to allow her to come stay with me, I made sure I invited my sister to stay with me for the one week, to avoid temptation. But my sister couldn't stay for a week because of some personal issues, that's how I was left with my best friend fiancée, I don't wanna talk about what I pass through staying with her alone but I ended up having sex with her which I regretted bitterly, when she left Lagos back to anambra I pleaded with her not to chat me nor call me, but she wouldn't listen. She's always chatty and sending me nude which I finally blocked her. A week ago, my bestie called me that he was in Lagos and would want us to meet, I was reluctant, because I can't stand him after what happened between me and his fiancée, when I got to the bar(venue) the face I saw around his table were kinda strange aside one of our old friend who was with them. Uncle no even allow me finish greeting before I know it a broken bottle have landed on my hand, his target was my face but thank God I defended on time, that's how my blood spilled everywhere and his friends tried to calm him down while other ones was giving me general beating like a common criminal. Thank God police arrived on time, I might have been a dead man today over a girl I never wanted to help.

Please I need help on how to go about this and clear myself from whatever this girl told my bestie, from the little I heard, she claimed I raped her during her stayed with me. Although I have got a lawyer now who is handling this issue but I still wanna clear myself before my friends, none of them believes me maybe because of my lifestyle back in school. Even my family are aware of this ugly issue and are calling me bumper to bumper, because me and my bestie are from the same village and we are like family friends. I don't know how to clear my name. Please help me. I am depressed already, I can't believe my OG tried killing me

Even me I don't believe u

walkingshadow911:
when i showed my ex girlfriend her sex vid from xvideo, she was devastated, after crying for hours on my bed she said she doesn't care afterwards....

Help us with the link pls

Can a man be an evening newspaper?
Or is it restricted only to women?

justosee:
nothing in the article suggest she was raped.

She saw hell which could mean she was also raped

stacyadams:
Pls run and dis virgin her oooo


Cos for that school lol
Her ttooto will be panel beating ,rough handled,,ravaged, scavenged,vandalized, annihilated, manipulated and destroyed by big dicks some of those big diccks will come from nairaland boys

Guy are very funny but what u said is true sha

Gudiza:
Is he CHRISTIAN or Traditional though?

He's a Christian & he even went on pilgrimage to Jerusalem.

Note: He's the king of Jukun ethnic group (totally distinct from Hausa or Fulani) & indeed the Kwararafa empire that covers most of Taraba, part of Nasarawa, part of Plateau state, part of Benue state. It was once a very powerful kingdom that even conquered Kano, Katsina & most parts of the north

If a man becomes possessed by demons, what happens to his spirit?

1. Will d demons chase away his spirit & be controlling the man's body till when 5hey are expelled before the man's spirit will return to his body?

2. Will both d demons & the man's spirit be residing in the same body pending when the demons would be expelled?

Answers needed pls

1. Can an animal ( whether household animal or wild animal) be possessed by a demon?

2. If yes, how can one know?

3. If yes also, will the demon be exorcised out of the animal in the same way a demon is exorcised out of a possessed human being?

I've heard countless stories about ladies who are from the Marine world and are into prostitution.
1. What is the effect of sleeping with them as a man?
2. How can they be identified?

Is it actually Prophet Elijah who returned in the form of John the Baptist?

Gudiza:
Is he CHRISTIAN or Traditional though?

He's a Christian, he even went on Christian Pilgrimage to Jerusalem couple of years ago

The OP probably has no idea that there are states in the North that are majority Christian. Unfortunately most pple in the South always stereotype the North ignorantly as entirely Hausa/Fulani, Muslims, Abokis, Mallams, illiterates, & other derogatory names.
They themselves will feel bad if a person classifies all pple from the South as Yoruba or all as Igbo.

blazesam:
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Mention another first-class chief u know

Aku Uka of Wukari in Taraba State

blazesam:
The Only Christian Monarch In The whole Northeast ‘Mai Tangale’ Dies At 72

Mai Tangale, Buba Maisharu, is dead
Brief history and cause of death.

The 15th Mai Tangale, a First Class traditional ruler in Gombe state, Dr Abdu Buba Mausharu, is dead.

Reports monitored in the social media have it that the traditional ruler died in the early hours of Monday in his Palace in Billiri after a brief illness.

Dr Abdu Buba Maisharu was an administrator and traditional ruler, he was born on May 15, 1948, in Poshiya, Billiri LGA of Gombe state.

He attended, Billiri Primary School, 1962-68; Commercial Institute, 1971; Kaduna Polytechnic, 1974-78, he was Clerical asst while in Government of the then North-Eastern State, Maiduguri between 1971-74; Catering asst in Training, Yankari Games Reserve, Bauchi, 1975-76; ag. Hotel Manager Grad II, Bauchi State Wild Life and Hotel Boards.

In the private sector he was with Ashaka Cement PIc, Gombe State between 1979-2001 serving in various capacities including Depot Mgr, Area Office Kaduna; Dispatch Controller, Factory Depot Sale Controller; Depot mgr. Zaria, Dutse, Azare, Yola; Transparent Planner, Head Office.

The Bible Society of Nigeria honoured him with Life Long Service Certificate of 20 years service, 1979- 99; Ashaka Cement PIc; Certificate of Appreciation as Adviser for 6 years, 1995-2001, by ECWA Church, Ashaka; Certificate of Philanthropic Service by ECWA Bayara LCB, Bauchi, 2003; Special Commendation by Billiri Local Government, Gombe State for Maintenance of Peace and Security; awards in 2004.

He was included in Contemporary Who’s Who by American Biographical Institute, 2004; presented with a Second Class Staff of Office in 2002; recognised as third highest traditional ruler, Gombe, State; holds Doctorate, in Canonical Law (Honoris causa) by Pan-African Christian Theological University Inc, Abuja; Institute of Management and Technology, Enugu, 2004.

It will be recalled that the First Class traditional ruler some months ago last year, tested positive for coronavirus but recovered after treatment in isolation for the mandatory period of days.

Sir nobody can be compared to all you have done in your regime as the Mai Tangale and as the only first class chief to be a Christian in the whole northeast of Nigeria, your time on earth will be remembered for ages. Last time I saw you was when you were caped as the patron boys brigades of Nigeria in your town and in your palace at Biliri. Rest in peace Sir. Peace maker.



https://dailytrust.com/gombe-monarch-mai-tangale-dies-at-72

Pls this news is misleading. If we are to go by geopolitical classification of states in Nigeria then Taraba state is also classified in the Northeast geopolitical zone. For the records, there are 1st class Christian monarchs in Taraba state which is also a Northeastern state like Borno, Yobe, Adamawa, Bauchi & Gombe.

So, you don't mislead the public by saying he is the only Christian monarch in the Northeast, unless you are excluding Taraba state from the list of Northeastern states in Nigeria.

Pls be guided

Maybe the guy is a ghost

In the story about a great man of valour called Jephthah who made a vow to offer as burnt offering to God anybody that first comes out of his house if God gives himvictory against the Ammonites. We learnt that it was his only child (a daughter) that first came out to welcome him & he had no option than to fulfill his vow by sacrificing her after giving her 2months to mourn her virginity in the mountains with her friends.
Now, here are my questions:

1. By fulfilling his vow to God does it mean that he actually sacrificed her as burnt offering to God in the same way animals are sacrificed to God?

2. If the answer to the first question is yes, then does it mean that God accepts human sacrifice (as burnt offering) at that time?

Remember that God did not allow Abraham to sacrifice Isaac & there was no record of any human sacrifice to God before & after the incident with Jephthah

3. Could it also be possible that probably Jephthah actually meant sacrificing his daughter to the service of God & not actual sacrifice that entails burning her to death?

Pls I'm eagerly awaiting your replies

When Saul asked the witch at Endor to summon the spirit of Samuel for him & she did. My questions are as follows:

1. Was it actually the spirit of Samuel, a prophet of God that came out or it's a familiar spirit?

2. If it's actually Samuel's spirit, then is it possible for a witch ( a devil's associate) to summon d spirit of God's prophet? Remember that as a prophet of God, his spirit is most likely with God. Then how can a witch summon his spirit from God's presence?

3. If it is actually a familiar spirit ( most likely a demonic spirit acting like Samuel) that she summoned instead of the actual Samuel's spirit then how come the spirit could prophecy accurately what would happen to Saul & his family?

Remember that the spirit spoke to Saul as if he's delivering a message from God (a familiar/demonic spirit can't do that.

Pls if u know the answer, let it flow

Is it advisable for to settle down with a girl that works in a beer parlour? ( though she said she only drinks once in a blue moon ).
She likes wearing very skimpy clothes & receives calls from random numbers even at odd hours of d night when we're together. Apart from that, her general behavior is good.
What's d probability of her being an olosho though she refused to talk about her sex life.

Note: we stay miles apart but I visit her when chanced & I have never spent a dime on her. We also talk on phone whenever we're not together.

Pls advice me

I have some matured cockerels but I want to buy some local hens.
Pls can cockerels mate with local hens & produce chicks or must I mate d hens with local cocks before they can hatch chicks?

Pls I need answers

vanbonattel:
Only 5 states are safe out of 19 northern states?

Apart from Borno, Yobe, Katsina, Zamfara, parts of Niger and parts of Sokoto, all other states in the north are as safe as those in the south. Stop stereotyping the north when it comes to insecurity in some parts.