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Romance › Re: Why Do Brides cry When Going To Their Husbands' House. by usermane(m): 2:57pm On Dec 29, 2012
chiover: simply becox she doesn't have any idea of how dangerous it will be to have a joystick inside her USB-pot for the rest of her life cool
My Lord what are people turning into these days?Hmm, youth of nowadays. Hard to beleive 2 people liked the above comment.
Romance › Re: Show A Nigerian Girl Love, & Loose Your Pride As A Man? (An Assertion) by usermane(m): 8:43am On Dec 29, 2012
k2039: [color=soyouquotedme][b]@ the bolded if you are not getting the result you want, it's time you change your strategy.

If you can't attract them with your present self, then your opposite self will(it's called reverse psychology)

When I mean jack, I don't mean beating or being rude.
It simply means there should be a balance in everything, don't over do anything, be it calls, sms, gifts e.t.c

Don't ever show her you so love her, don't ever make her feel indispensable, never kiss up to her a*ss, stand your ground, be firm, be decisive, in fact act emotionless(I killed my emotions with my bare hand some few months ago, I can under go anything when it comes to emotion, so if she doesn't behave, I won't hesitate to cut her loose, my honor is greater than my feelings and mood)

If you decide to stick to your rules, I'm afraid you won't have a wide variety of girls to pick from and you may likely not end up with the best choice.

We are in the 21st century, we need to follow the rules.

I will always be a nice and good guy, but when it comes to dating, I play by the rules of the game[/b] [/color]
There is just one basic rule in life ; Do to others as u want them to do to you. If u r going to be emotionless, then have u thought of dating an emotionless girl just as u urself? Like i said, i can really relate with u a lot. And i agree everything has to be done in moderation but moderation ain't the same for everyone. A nice guy isn't one that agrees with whatever his girl says,or tolerate whatever word or act from her. That isn't a nice guy, not the one am here for. He is a guy that is considerate,knows both partners must sacrifice for prosperity. He can put himself in his lady 's shoe at times and access her level of comfort or distress. He believes love shouldn't be mind games but a honest demonstration of one 's feeling.
As for me, if am dating a girl and acting nice and she fails to appreciate me then i leave, it mean she isn't the right girl for me. A nice guy isn't a doormat. He chosed her cos he feels as much as she could benefit him, he could benefit her too so if she is misbehaving then he is better off without her.
I am not trying to attract girls,am trying to attract nice girls and any girl that that prefer a jackass wouldn't be right for me. And remember, being nice attract nice people
Romance › Re: Show A Nigerian Girl Love, & Loose Your Pride As A Man? (An Assertion) by usermane(m): 7:35am On Dec 29, 2012
k2039: [color=soyouquotedme][b]Na today.
I'm yet to find one that will fit into your assertions.

I have made up my mind, I'm playing by the rules, No more mr Nice guy, I'm a nice guy by default, but now I'm using a preset option(Jack a*ss loading.........).

On romance section, most guys crying about break ups are the nice guys and most girls crying about break up are the one who date jack a.s*s.

So it's simple mathematics, I will rather be a jack a*s.s. than be a nice guy in my next relationship.

When a girl knows you love her so much(applicable to dating not marriage) the man is doomed. Most girls will say they love nice guys, but in reality it's a lie.

I'm a victim so I know what I'm talking about, never show a girl she is indispensable(In fact I'm writing an article presently '22 Truth's I've learnt in 22 Years' and one of the lessons is that until you understand there is no girl who is indispensable you are doomed in your relationship.)

If your assertions are true, there are only few girls who will meet up to it, I guess you are one, you are take, so there is a deficit of one. I'm yet to meet one single girl that meets your assertions(I'm not disputing that they don't exist but they are just few, this is why I have decided to subscribe to Sagamite's school of thougth)

The only way your assertion will be applicable is for the girl to love the guy more than he does, that way he is in control and based on my value system I won't hurt her, I will love her for who she is.
But if the case is the reverse the man is doomed.

I know how much I spent on flowers and gift and I know how she treated me, I'm not dating any girl who is'nt crazy about me.

No girl is worth getting crazy about except you wife(there is a limit even to that also or else your wife will take you for granted.

My assertions are verifiable, we start from every romance break up on this forum[/b] [/color]

Disclaimer: I don't subscribe to beating of ladies.
I understand u and can relate very well with your point. But i do not buy into it. I too have be wondering why girls prefer jackass but now i know and am not willing to adopt such a character. Doing the right thing evn at my detriment is what satisfies my conscience and discarding that belief wouldn't happen cos a girl dump me and say 'u r too nice'.
Moreover some girls will decide to play by your rules, that levels the playing field and leaves your new theory in question
Romance › Re: How Do You Restrain Yourself From Falling In Love? by usermane(m): 8:13pm On Dec 28, 2012
tpacalipse: Whenever I think about how much it will cost me to date Naija girl financially, I quickly restrain myself frm falling in love
:-)
It shouldn't have to be that way. All girls are not the same
Romance › Re: Can U Marry A MAN U're Richer Than? Guys,wat If SHE Is FAR Richer Than U??? by usermane(m): 8:06pm On Dec 28, 2012
[quote author=prof e.o.o]Oh yes,u sure hv 2b independent urself[/quote]uh hmm, anything so hard about being independent?
Romance › Re: Don't Open If You Won't Say Anything! (urgent Advice Needed) by usermane(m): 6:25pm On Dec 28, 2012
Looks like a near replica of my own unrequited love tale only this time i am not the subject.
@OP i think u have to move on and trust me this advice is coming from a guy who have been down the same road once before. U 've made the move and she declined. I didn't evn have to knock b4 i realised the door was under key and lock.
Brooding over and over it will only throw you to the wolves. It was hard for me initially but when i realised how powerless i was about it all, i knew it was high time i take her off my love radar.
Just move on. Prepare for yourself a cup of coffee tonight, just one cup and you can drown your sorrows in it just lyk i did
Romance › Re: How Do You Restrain Yourself From Falling In Love? by usermane(m): 5:36pm On Dec 28, 2012
Well while not in support of a felon restraining himself from falling in love i 'll give an answer. The question is, are u ready to do whatever it takes to deny yourself what fuels ur heart. Do u deem the sacrifice you r about to make worthy and affordable?
Alright in case you answer in affirmative, then "STAY COMPLETELY AWAY FROM THE OPPOSITE GENDER". Neither cast your sight nor speak to them.
Ain't the best advice i 've evr given @op, it 's just not.
Romance › Re: Many Relationships Breakup During Christmas: Why? by usermane(m): 5:12pm On Dec 28, 2012
Are there?, well if yes then your guess is as good as mine.
Romance › Re: Is It Possible Or How Do I Get A Date On Nairaland Forum by usermane(m): 5:05pm On Dec 28, 2012
How 'd u want to begin that?. I mean no nairalander have been able to reveal a face yet....
Romance › Re: Can U Marry A MAN U're Richer Than? Guys,wat If SHE Is FAR Richer Than U??? by usermane(m): 4:46pm On Dec 28, 2012
Yes i can. And nothing wrong with that. I prefer independent ladies
Gaming › Re: Which Video Game Scared The Hell Out Of You. by usermane(op): 1:10am On Dec 28, 2012
Andre Ogara: I guess I should have asked if you are on Facebook or Twitter first. lipsrsealed
Am on facebook but not on twitter yet.
Gaming › Re: Which Video Game Scared The Hell Out Of You. by usermane(op): 10:54pm On Dec 27, 2012
Andre Ogara: I honestly would like to know you man. I'm drooling over your articulate analysis. Just as no game would be able to match the horror and monstrosity of RE4, I doubt if any one can match your review of the game. You have even reminded ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ places I forgot about totally. It's easy to see the flaw in some games' graphics once you start playing next gen console games but RE4 has remained relevant even with the recent release of RE5 and RE6. Fans of the franchise still hail RE4 as the best ever. The stages, the bosses, the weapons, (chicago typewriter), the characters (Ada wong is ​S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ sexy) and the storyline are all frighteningly good! Hit ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ up on facebook amigo. I like your review. http://www.facebook.com/andreogara
yeah, thanks 4 d compliment. I 'd b sure 2 link up with u on facebook though i keep a low profile.
And for DS, i want to get it too. I hear its very scary. Hmm survival horror is one genre am really curious about. What i 've learnt recently is that resident evil is now more of action than horror considering Re5 & 6. Can't blame capcom as many gamers r more into action than horror.
I got RE2/3 but my Ps2/3 wont play them at all. Perhaps there could be remake for Re2 just like Re1 got it remake on gamecube.
Gaming › Re: Which Video Game Scared The Hell Out Of You. by usermane(op): 10:51pm On Dec 27, 2012
Andre Ogara: I honestly would like to know you man. I'm drooling over your articulate analysis. Just as no game would be able to match the horror and monstrosity of RE4, I doubt if any one can match your review of the game. You have even reminded ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ places I forgot about totally. It's easy to see the flaw in some games' graphics once you start playing next gen console games but RE4 has remained relevant even with the recent release of RE5 and RE6. Fans of the franchise still hail RE4 as the best ever. The stages, the bosses, the weapons, (chicago typewriter), the characters (Ada wong is ​S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ sexy) and the storyline are all frighteningly good! Hit ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ up on facebook amigo. I like your review. http://www.facebook.com/andreogara
Gaming › Re: Which Video Game Scared The Hell Out Of You. by usermane(op): 10:03am On Dec 27, 2012
[quote author=*Kails*]lol dang usermane!! grin

what a testimony!! so basically the entire RE4 scared you huh? grin[/quote]@kails, a lot of parts scared me cos i was alone at home throughout most of the game. But the game is very long,about 20-25 hours,hence beside being scary there were some part of the game that seemed like a walk in the park.
I don't know if u ve play the game though
Islam › Re: How An American Lady Converted To Islam by usermane(m): 9:10am On Dec 27, 2012
HOLD IT!,HOLD IT!!,NAIRALANDERS I SAID HOLD IT!!!
This is an informative thread,not a debative or arguementative thread. Simple news- AMERICAN LADY CONVERTS TO ISLAM.
All these outbursts, comments after comments tells how insecure some believers are about their faith and how scared they are of facing their insecurity of faith.
One Advice ; Insecurity tears the soul to shreds... even much faster than self hatred. If u are insecure about your faith, it ain't too late to press the Reset botton,go back and confront your pastor or imam. That would help rather than filling 100 nairaland pages with hate speech,false accusations,insults and malicious words.
Romance › Re: She Also Liked A Bad Boy Too by usermane(m): 8:20am On Dec 25, 2012
I don't know why girls just prefer a life of discomfort with bad guys rather than contentment with a better guy. No wonder some parents select a husband 4 their daughters cause they believe she can't make d a good choice. Quite unfortunate but true.
This guy must have been abusing her long before d day he murdered her. Hard to fathom why she stuck to d relationship for so long.
Gaming › Re: Which Video Game Scared The Hell Out Of You. by usermane(op): 7:45am On Dec 25, 2012
[quote author=Andre Ogara]Gawd...those Regenerators....talk less of the Iron Maidens(Worse-Regenerato)...RE4 is a masterpiece!!! [/qute
SPOILERS
Some of the moment of fear 4 me in RE4 were
1. The chainsaw ganado(Dr salvador). Its kind of freaky when amidsts the chase in the village u run into a murderous chainsaw wielder whose face is covered with a dirty brown sac that only reveal his eyes. He charges at u with rage as u try to take him out initially in futile attempts with ur pistol and only one touch is enough to get ur head rolling.

2. The cutscene b4 the fight with the town mayor. U think the room is empty only to see the monster grab leon out of nowhere from behind as though he 'd bn hiding and watchng u d whole time.

3. The castle was scary with the zealots endless chants. Sometimes u dont know where the voices come from hence u keep running about amidsts the confusion only to hear a cunning laughter, noticing all of a sudden that u r standing just a step away from them.

4. The Merchant. Evn though he is a friend. U get scared when u see him unexpectedly and this happen on several occasions as i get so frighten that only after aiming at him would i recall he is for me. The issue is that his robe is black and brown,the very colour of the villagers and zealots outfit so u easily think he is one of them.
Well he is. The merchant is a ganado but somehow he is able to retain his freewill and rebel against Saddler.

5. Salazer 's right arm, the creature that chased leon across the underground sewer. Put urself in Mr kennedy 's shoe and visualize this in reality,...oh u see,.. that 's easy when u play alone on quiet night in d dark whether complete or partial dark. In addition to his terrific look,he is fast swift and quite intelligent. He is invincible except when frozen with the liquid nitrogen. Though u need not to defeat him, u spend time running out of his sight and dodging his attacks impatiently expecting d lift.

6. U-3. This is the boss u meet when u r finally out of the castle. U-3 is ugly,powerful and very stubborn coming after u evn after crossing the valley to d other end. During the bout i locked myself in a narrow pathway gate sighing with relief of escape only to see U3 crash it down to my shock.

7. The Lab, the regenerators and Iron maiden.
The lab was quiet, not dark but full of abandoned bio experiments which confers feeling of imminent horror.
Once i picked up the card an inanimate regenerator i saw earlier, paying no attention, animated and matched towards me. I held my stand, equiped my shotgun and tried shooting. Too late leon, this beast was already grabbing and chewing out my avatar 's throat. I screamed and threw d pad aside. And how about when u switch off the freezing mechanism in the ice room to collect infra red scope, again a frozen regenerator thaws, collapse and reanimates, heading straight towards. Meanwhile u saw him frozen,initially only being the least of ur worries. How on earth will u get d scope if u don't melt the ice and how on earth will you melt the ice without the regenerator thawing out and animating.
Unlike the ganados(villagers/zealots) the regenerators don't linger around u,neither do they play hide-and-seek with u. 0nce within their vicinity they come right towards u, matching steadily. They r deadly enough to grab and attack u evn while been knocked down on d floor. And their look is immensely dreadful.

8. The Oven man.
Came as a jump scare. They r many cupboards in resident evil 4, mostly containing valuables. Of course this isn't a cupboard but i believed as long as it can b opened, therein lies an item 4 me. How wrong was i only to yell in fright when i opened it and a burning ganado jumped out pouncing upon me b4 i could blink an eyelid. Sapping out all leon 's health till they both collapsed. I nvr saw this coming. The room was small,quiet,bright and full of bakery foods,enough to calm down my nerves, so i didn't need to think twice b4 opening d oven.

9. After my knife fight with krauser, i had to follow Ada to get d anti-virus as the parasite was gradually taking over leon 's mind. At one room, i stormed into a big box. Not learning from the oven experiment, i opened it and in it was a sac dangling like something was forcing it way out, and God knows, whatever it is, am in plain trouble. So with fear i managed to grab my Red-9 unloading bullets after bullet on d sac till the shaking ceased. Its kind of funny now cos i 've realised there wasn't anything inside. But them the whole campaign to rescue Ashley had been full of horror usually disguised initially as puzzling surprises that u 'd rather kill b4 u r under attack. At this point in the game, u 've almost lost ur grip on reality,so much absorbed in d game that u can take nothing 4 granted. All i knew them was that, whatevr d content,it was safer to shoot than to stand watching 4 anythng, perhaps ur patience only 2 b punished by another yell at d sight of d tv screen.
Gaming › Re: Which Video Game Scared The Hell Out Of You. by usermane(op): 7:43am On Dec 25, 2012
Andre Ogara: lol you can say that again. No game has ever gotten past Resident Evil 4. Not even Resident Evil 5 on PS3. RESIDENT EVIL 4 can never be matched again sadly. Gawd...those Regenerators....talk less of the Iron Maidens(Worse-Regenerators)...RE4 is a master piece!!!
Gaming › Re: Which Video Game Scared The Hell Out Of You. by usermane(op): 12:25am On Dec 25, 2012
K, who has played condemned: criminal origin on xbox360, another scary and horror first person shooter?
Pls try it out if u got a 360(not available 4 ps3) and i guarantee u fear and hallucination
Romance › Re: Ladies, Ask Him Out This Christmas? by usermane(m): 4:06pm On Dec 24, 2012
This is it for me. Girls Should Ask Guys Out But Not Any Guy.
Most of d nice guys i know seldom get asked out, only the 'not so nice guys(jerks)' do.
Often times u girls ask out the wrong (bad)guy who end up breaking their heart, meanwhile there is a nice guy starring from the corner,pinning in vain 4 your attention evn 4 a moment.
It hurt to see a girl asking out a guy with rare confidence driven by love 4 him only to b underappreciated and shoved out through the door.
Ask him out if
U know he
-is d nice,polite, respectful,responsible and trustworthy type
-interested or cares for u(perhaps he may b shy).
Dont ask out a guy you barely know or trust,a jerk or just someone u met on d streets.
It doesn't hurt your esteem if u ask out the right guy especially in a presentable manner.... not every guy want to chase.
Romance › Re: Qualities Your Partner Must Have by usermane(m): 3:15pm On Dec 24, 2012
Am 6ft+ so i prefer my Mrs. Right a tall girl. Beside her beauty being atleast a little above par, i want a girl with sound character,intelligence and wisdom that matches or surpasses mine, and high moral standard.
She should be loving,sweet,cute,generous,posses a sense of humour and hardworking.
Neatness, a high level of physical hygiene and fitness should be maintained by her.
And She must really LOVE and CARE for me, manifesting through her words and deeds and i promise to be Mr. Right.
Ladies..., i aint asking for too much...am i?
Gaming › Re: GTA5 (new Image) by usermane(m): 10:18am On Dec 24, 2012
Hmm, i have lost my interest and patient with grant theft auto franchise. And that was since i tried liberty city stories and didn't really enjoy the first 1hr. I gave up on it and assumed gta aint 4 me.
The current over hype of gta:v however really bothers me -: what really is in gta games that gamers are so drawn intohuh
Romance › Re: The 6 Reason Guys Beat Up Their Girlfriends by usermane(m): 11:45am On Dec 20, 2012
Maybe you should add this OP- Because the batterer knows she will never leave him come what may.
Gaming › Re: Who Has Downloaded Grand Theft Auto San Andreas From The PSN?... by usermane(m): 6:43pm On Dec 19, 2012
DatNiggaAk: With the download you can play it on your PS3.
I'm in Abuja and would love to have it.
Holla...
Am sorry i haven't though i got ps2 version.
But i have a problem. How do i connect my ps3 slim 160gb to internet? Without that i cant use psn or play online
Romance › Re: 20 Things Guys Shouldn’t Ever Do To Girls. by usermane(m): 6:17pm On Dec 19, 2012
bbeckky: 1. Make fun of her hair, face, body, or clothes. Seriously, Don’t.
2. Overuse sarcasm. It’s one thing to joke, It’s another to speak sarcasm as a second language.
3. Flirt with other girls. It doesn’t make us want you more, It just makes us angry.
4. Cheat. Never in any way will you get away with it.
5. Make promises they can’t keep. If you can’t follow through, Don’t say it.
6. Say “I Love You” when they don't mean it. If the girl you ”Loved” gained 300 pounds, Would you still love her? That’s what I thought.
7. Lie. You will get caught. Don’t ever under any circumstances try to keep a lie going with a girl. It will not work.
8. Deny things that are true. If a girl confronts you about something, She knows the truth. Denying it makes her more angry. Grow some balls
and own up to it.
9. Pressure her. If she wants to do something with you, She will.
10.Talk about other girls. Don’t say they’re hot, pretty, or even nice. We don’t want to hear it.
11.Talk to her about their EX’s. If you’re saying nice stuff, We’ll assume you still like them. If you say shit, we’ll assume you’ll do the
same about us.
12.Say shit behind her back. No matter how much you try to keep it a secret, She will hear about it.
13.Be a dick to her in front of their friends. They might think it’s funny, but she will definitely not.
14.Try to make it look like something was her fault to get yourself out of trouble. It will make things much, much worse.
15.Ask why she’s mad at you.Say you were wrong and apologize. Do not say you didn’t do anything wrong. If she’s mad, You obviously did
something.
16.Joke about wanting to break up. It won’t be taken as a joke, and you’ll be single before you can tell her you were kidding.
17.Tell her she’s overreacting. If you thought she was mad before, prepare to meet the she-beast from hell.
18.Go to parties or hang out with other girls without your girlfriend. No matter how much she trusts you, She will be worried.
19.Make excuses. If you screwed up, Don’t try to get out of it.
20.Talk to her when you’re mad. You will screw something up and end up regretting it.
Quite interesting. The bone of contention here is Girls just want to be considered with notable regard, they want their feelings and trust 2 b respected.
Don't have a girlfriend yet but i will keep to this list to guide me when i get a girlfriend
Romance › Re: What Do You Like Most About Yourself? by usermane(m): 6:55am On Dec 19, 2012
My height,am very tall compared to my age. My solitude
My mystery
My academic intellect.
And a few more
Family › Re: Age Range. by usermane(m): 6:22am On Dec 19, 2012
Age matters cos of our different needs in a partner. For instance independence(sb who can stand on her own),
confidence(can take d lead sometimes),
wisdom
intelligence, conscience and morality
r few qualities i want in my lady so i prefer girls within age range +/-2 of my age. Too much younger would b a turn off as she would barely posses all these qualities

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