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oyetunji12: mine hapind sum yearz ago...mysef nd my ex ws 2umin bck 4rm a programe wit ha elda bro so it startd rain nd d garl ws complainin of cold nd dat she does nt wan ha dres 2 get wet MUMU lyk me i remuv my shirt 4 ha 2 cova ha bodi nd i ws walkin unda d rain wit jst singlet even d elda bro cnt try d stupid tin dat i did

oyetunji12: mine hapind sum yearz ago...mysef nd my ex ws 2umin bck 4rm a programe wit ha elda bro so it startd rain nd d garl ws complainin of cold nd dat she does nt wan ha dres 2 get wet MUMU lyk me i remuv my shirt 4 ha 2 cova ha bodi nd i ws walkin unda d rain wit jst singlet even d elda bro cnt try d stupid tin dat i did

djeezy: Being self conscious around those you have crushes on is natural.

deshclones: Once nd I will forever be grateful to her..cos I have learnt to appreciate nd understand women better...heartbreak is indeed very painful...I promised never to love agaim but ma mumu heart has been messing me up again..met this gorgeous brillant chic at a function 3wks ago..nd ma heart as usual is making me look like a fool...I just pray this new gal doesn't break ma heart again..cos it won't be funny...

Tgirl4real: Admire, yes. Crave, hell no! He must have the right personality for him to be desirable.



huh?

That woman must have married the dude cos of something else. How can you be happily married and still crave for a handsome devil? If this happens it will most likely be the handsome dude is her ex.

edelweiss: Ever since I got to Nairaland all I see on the romance section is ladies do this and do that and I seriously wonder are we seen as fish brains? Don't we think the men themselves need some orientation?Guys tend to talk about the ladies alone and feel as if we are the only ones with relationship issues, all thanks to u all though we pick some of our mistakes and adjust, but seriously guys u need to re orient yourselves too! Guys have lost all morales, cheating is the order of the day, the think being romantic or loving is being weak,the have lost their true self to the society and made up believes! How can u be a good husband or be responsible man when u think u are prefect? We are all human, we learn everyday. I would like to see the responsible ones who have set their priorities right to educate some of the rest.

jhydebaba: The simple answer to all ur questions is that she is fish brainy. What are u telling me That men should teach "cheap whores" as u rightly called them No, no, I don't think so. What happened to all the teachings especially on morals taught to them by parents, teachers and religious bodies (church, mosque etc)

Until una get sense, we go still dey finger una brain

kennylabe: im a guy of 30 graduate of UNILAG. Pls need a serious lady. Note xtian call 08181565044. Tax 4 ur understanding. Hearing 4rm u soon.

kabsun: Exactly wat I think

Joliecoco: Why are African men so unromantic and unaffectionate ? All they want their women to do is cook , clean , take care of kids and be a wife ,but they are so unromantic, unaffectionate and Cheap to their wives and girlfriends. Is it because of African culture , their parents do not sure the kids affection when they were growing up unlike the western culture.They don't take their women to nice resturant , if they do it is like pulling their teeth. They will complain about the money that they are spending.I don't date African men because they are stuck in the 1900s.

legalwealth: It is obvious that women like attractive men.

What qualities will a man have before he can be tagged attractive?

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tzetzefly: How can you tell the difference between genuine love and correct infatuation... ?

lalaboi: Decided to go join the queue for midnight release. . . and i've got work 2mrw

sino: Hmmm, i have a feeling you'll make such a good husband insAllah. I pray when the time comes, Allah blesses you with a compertible partner amin.
You need to work on your being percieved as snubbish and mean, and the best way is by spreading the salam with a smiling face...its sadaqah(hadith) .
Shyness as been discussed on here, its got its good and bad, most important thing is be confident in yourself.
I want to agree with you on d bolded, its really nice to see a young man thinking in such direction...putting it in another way; "be the best man for the woman of your dreams".
NB: You know you aint too young to get married ehn? You fit do am first before all dem dis big bros wey dey hia o lol
I wish you the best in your academics.

bittyend: To be honest, not everyone is going to get married - and forcing 'marriage' down people's throat is the reason why the divorce rate is high. You need to find the right person to get married to, and in the world that we live in right now, that's the most difficult thing. Women run things right now, and they have raised the bar to a level, most men can't get to. Feminism changed the game - and women run things right now.

Blame the society and 'modernists' for this madness, because a lot of men are scared of getting married to women who will end up disrespecting them because of the new status women have in the modern world. The bar is too high for most men, and women aren't helping matters with their new found 'fame' in feminism.

In short, marriage needs to be re-defined!

bittyend: Women run things right now, and they have raised the bar to a level, most men can't get to. Feminism changed the game - and women run things right now.

Blame the society and 'modernists' for this madness, because a lot of men are scared of getting married to women who will end up disrespecting them because of the new status women have in the modern world. The bar is too high for most men, and women aren't helping matters with their new found 'fame' in feminism.

Not 2 criticize u,bt how high has this bar being raised?, feminism is here to see that women have enough freedom of choice,preference and recieve fair and equal treatment with their spouse and other men.

I dont wanna talk abt how women were treated and victimized in d past centuries and decade. But u must realise that feminism has nothing to do with disrespect for men bt more respect 4 women who have bn treated as a lower being created 4 nothin than to serve/worship men.

It all comes down to trust and love. If a man believe his gf/fiance love and trust him and vice versa, there wont b problem of disrespect that men believe is the birth child of feminism
In short, marriage needs to be re-defined!

omotolsy: u guys ar not talkin about pc games! y? pc games ar almst d same wit ps games if nto better expecialy wen u play wit an AMD laptop.

deols: Thank you sooo much for this video @tbaba. I enjoyed seeing the video and it is a good wake up call to Muslims. The home is what makes the society and Muslims just cannot continue to be the way they'v been. I am saddened when I see the way Many Muslim women live in Nigeria. Because I am very outspoken about it, some people term me a feminist but I am not I am just a Muslim woman who thinks Muslim men are going overboard with the 'I am the head of the home' thing

from this video--

*Muslims should not think their Iba'dah end with fasting, reciting the QUr'an, jihad.
*All of the other things we see as important are naught if we wont address injustice to women.
*the issue of injustice to women is one we should not run away from
*when abused women cannot get the injustice from the muslim community, they seek it elsewhere
*if they leave the religion as a result, everyone involved would be questioned on it
*Men justify these wrong actions against women using the QUr'an
*whereas they are getting it wrong
*and maybe the men need to put themselves in thhe shoes of these women
*smh @ situations where the victims(women) become/ are termed the criminals

gentlegg: You're now in light age, abi?

@Topic
If a woman keep having female children only, the man SHOULD never think of marrying another because of that. I am 100% against that, after all, biologically it's the man's chromosome that determines sex of a baby. Nevertheless, it's 100% understandable why a man will crave, pray, wish and prefer male child to female child, 1001 reasons abound. Both sex are very important but a male child is still far more important than a female child. Forget that stupid mentality of "we're now in 21st century", "this is a modern world" we're no longer in dark world" bla bla bla in women, that makes them always wanting to equal themselves to a man, and that remains their undoing till today. Presently i have two beautiful daughters now and i love them with my life but am seriously praying and ready for fasting that God will give me a male child next.