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FamilyRe: Wife Not Being Supportive. by usj(m): 4:15pm On Aug 27, 2020
This is stranger than fiction! You too can achieve more together as a team rather than individually, What's the point in marrying if you can not contribute to the growth of the Union?

RomanceRe: How Do Girls Like Guys They Meet For The First Time Even Talking? by usj(m):
There is nothing wrong with a girl admitting/accepting who she truly loves. If anything it shows:

1. she knows what she wants,
2. she is expressive and bold,
3. It shows she loves herself dearly,
4. not willing to lose him to any sought of games of love others play. And that my friend is not desperation.

On the other hand.
Acting desperately for any reason especially for love it's a RED SIGN and it doesn't matter who is exhibiting such an act, Be it a man or a woman.
FamilyRe: My Igbo Father Refuses To Tell Me About His Family by usj(m): 9:22am On Aug 27, 2020
Boy! Be careful what you wish for, but if it means so much to you then appeal to his inner sense of reasoning. Him not telling you should've made you realized that his is trying so hard to forget something about his family. Away Goodluck with your quest. Your mum can be of tremendous assistance, why don't you try asking her?
FamilyRe: Guys What Your Father's Reaction The First Very Time You Told Him You Loved Him? by usj(m): 3:48pm On Aug 26, 2020
We don't say it, but we all know we love ourselves. Our actions say it all. I have never imagine saying I love you to anyone, typing it would be much more easier for.

Anyway! It's too late for me because he's no more.
RomanceRe: How Will I Stop My Madam(boss) From Assualiting Me Sexually Pls Help by usj(m): 6:15pm On Aug 24, 2020
Tell her you're gay. And if she says you should come let her confirm it herself make sure you eat raw onion and drink some lime, it will make you to be so exhausted that you penis will not even rise. That will make her to leave you alone.
RomanceRe: 50 Ladies Code by usj(m): 5:58pm On Aug 24, 2020
Op just sat and propagated her own code. Bros code of yesterday was about ten points.

Even God gave only Ten Commandments and we are still struggling with it everyday.

No wonder men find it hard to understand women! Op you're the testator of these 50 codes which is nothing but your own opinion based on your own point of view.
RomanceRe: Should I Engage In Yahoo Or Not by usj(m): 5:14pm On Aug 24, 2020
Your observation are right. Doing good or bad is a chioce. I will say, if you Are going into yahoo don't forget where your mentor (Hushpupi) is now.

I have had my laptop stolen and recently during the lockdown someone stole my precious phone which I have not adequately replaced.

Sometimes I secretly wish I could have my dog chew thief and fraudulent people to death.

I don't see why they should live, imagine creating pains for others because of instant gratification.

RomanceRe: My Heart Is Bleeding In Pain, Please Help. by usj(m): 4:58pm On Aug 24, 2020
It's a very captivating story, what I don't know is if it's a true story or someone simply looking for traffic. But it's okay, I'm coming when I done shitting I could say something.
FamilyRe: What Would You Have Done? by usj(m): 1:48pm On Aug 24, 2020
Sorry for what your going through. It's difficult but you have to remain positive and always do your best. Don't let the situation at hand now swallow your sanity, you need all the positive energy to fight for a better life. Things will get better.

FoodRe: How To Make Seafood Okra (photos) by usj(m): 1:37pm On Aug 22, 2020
Pocochanta
See what your're doing to me, I'm just here salivating over that attractive plate of soup of yours.
Please test me your address, I'm coming with 20 raps of fufu. grin
FamilyRe: Wearing Buba / Agbada As An American Married To A Nigerian by usj(m): 12:01pm On Aug 13, 2020
It's beautiful on you.
FamilyRe: .. by usj(m): 6:17pm On Aug 07, 2020
Cheating partner, what will I do?
My women wouldn't have the need to cheat on me because I will pay attention to her sexual needs.

Have you ever seen a child that eat 3 time a day begging for food? No, because it just not hungry.

So I will give it to my woman hot hot in bed, just the way she wants it. If my penis is tired and she wants more, I will simply us my finger. I know how my woman rolls on the bed when I'm doing that alone.

Anyway! I don't atract disloyal people, loyalty and trust is want I stand for.
FamilyRe: Man Tied & Sent Back To Family After Abandoning Them For 6 Years by usj(m): 6:10pm On Aug 07, 2020
That's inhuman, tying him like that can cut off blood supply from his knee downwards not minding the fact that he is been transported to the north, judging from the dressing.

That man can't give what he doesn't have, they can even hang him and he will still be a liability.
FamilyRe: They Just Married by usj(m): 10:58am On Aug 07, 2020
I respect their decisions to get married, but as for me hmm, I can even have erection for that granny. The only reason for marriage for me is child bearing that that granny can't give me. Happy married life
FamilyRe: Nigeria Girl Turn Model Because Of Her Kaleidescopic Eye by usj(m): 9:15am On Aug 07, 2020
Kenny242:
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Is this not the same kind of eyes one man in Ilorin Kwara state, left his wife, and two daughters over? Sorry for some people for not knowing the value uniqueness.
FamilyRe: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by usj(m):
Masturbation and porn go hand in hand!
One of the side effects of it is premature ejaculation and bonding with virtual naked women instead of the wife.

Please:
1. Get him to see a doctor to run some medical test, you just have to be more persuasive since he had previously Said no, let him know it's for his own good as it could be related to cardiovascular disease.

2. Let him do more physical exercise that he loves, and kegel excercis for men too.

3. Is he hypertensive? That too can be a factor.

4. Pressure from you can also affect him sexually. If he is constantly thinking about how to satisfy you or you constantly reminding him about the sex lasting for only 5 seconds, that too can affect him.

5. Is he under stress? If he is then do something about the stressor if you can.

6. Tell him to relax during sex, no need rushing it. Use doggy style or ride him gently yourself, that will reduce sensitive of his penis and make him last a little longer.

7. Communicate with him during sex and let him learn how to use his fingers to excite the clitoris during pre sex, sex is not all about thrusting, let him learn how to suck the breast, the clitories and bite the ears gently. That itself can even make you sing a new song.
CrimeRe: Nduka Anyanwu Of Lord's Chosen Impregnates 2 Underaged Sisters 13 & 17 Years Old by usj(m): 9:54am On Aug 05, 2020
Please I need a warm blanket to cover myself, a cold chills just ran down my spine after reading this taboo. I thought I've seen it all!

FamilyRe: Age Long Tradition by usj(m): 8:52pm On Jul 30, 2020
Kobojunkie:
Did you read the OP's statement? That is what his gal says they should both do, but Sirjames001 seems to be having a hard time with that.
That's okay, I just read a few lines.
FamilyRe: My Wife Cannot Cope With My Sex Needs by usj(m): 5:28pm On Jul 30, 2020
EastanPower:
My wife is complaining that I demand too much sex. Personally I can have sex every day as I value it even more than food . She is saying that I want to kill her. What work do women do during sex? Is it not just to lie down at the very least while I sort out the rest?

What can I do as I am determined not to cheat on my wife but I am being denied. I am confused. embarassed embarassed undecided
Bros that your energy is needed in the farm, with that kind of energy you can be digging tunnels everyday and not get tired.

FamilyRe: Age Long Tradition by usj(m): 5:16pm On Jul 30, 2020
Life is tough already! I'm not looking for ways to make it more difficult. I don't worry myself if my partner cheats, or not, on my own I will remain faithful, that's all I need. I don't have the energy to be policing anybody. Op oath/tradition is too small. get 2 padlocks: padlock her private part, and keep the key; while she padlock yours and keep the key. That way both of you can feel secure.

FamilyRe: Two Woman, One Child , One Pregnant What Should I Do ? by usj(m): 4:24pm On Jul 29, 2020
Life! Who I'm I to judge you.

FamilyRe: Married Men Who Cook For Their Wives Have Lost Their Dignity by usj(m): 3:50pm On Jul 29, 2020
Newstrumpet4:
A young man with a Facebook name Iwe Ego has expressed his discontentment over what he considers as lost of dignity for men who cook for their wives.

According to him, "once a married man start cooking for his wife, he has lose [sic] his dignity".

However, the post did not go down well with some of his Facebook friends who saw his post as an insult.

See below for his post and reactions from his Facebook friends.

https://mikasmedia..com/2020/07/married-men-who-cook-for-their-wives.html
His opinion, his view. I will do what I love for my woman.

FamilyRe: Research Enrollment Closed by usj(m): 10:53am On Jul 28, 2020
SCDResearcher:
Good Morning Earlybirds,

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Thank you and God Bless
Alright.
Edit:
Sorry, I can't open the form (Google.gle).
FamilyRe: Husband Receives Beating From Wife For Failing To Impregnate Her by usj(m): 8:54am On Jul 23, 2020
Hmmm! Home ought to be the safest place to be, and couples are supposed to act as a team. Fighting a team mate will only create more problems.

FamilyRe: Men, Please Avoid Strawberries. by usj(m): 5:18pm On Jul 21, 2020
Op! Why do you eat fruit, for taste or for what it has to offer? How it taste shouldn't be your priority, the health benefits should. We eat to live, and not live to eat.

Tofu for you

FamilyRe: Man Narrate What He Saw Her Wife Doing With Their Son In Bathroom by usj(m): 5:09pm On Jul 21, 2020
Na wa o! Instead of simply saying, my wife used herbs in bathing our son, you're writing this long nonsense false story. I thought the wife was DOING THE DO Wife the son. You're just looking for cheap attention, Op. I'm out of here.

FamilyRe: Video- Man Kneels To Beg His Wife For Forgiveness After Labelling Her A Witch by usj(m): 8:00pm On Jul 20, 2020
Laseye008:
Man kneels before his wife to beg for forgiveness after labelling her a witch and sending her packing.


A video making the rounds on social media has shown the moment a Nigerian man went on his knees to beg his wife for forgiveness, in the presence of a pastor.

Reports gathered that he labelled his wife a witch sometime ago and sent her packing from the house.



According to the pastor who shared some details of the story, the man had blocked contact with his wife for over a year after sending her packing over false rumors.

However, after his encounter with the pastor, he was told his wife was innocent, so he returned back to her with the pastor, and some other members of the congregation, to plead for her forgiveness.

Watch the video below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNuBAZ6SbP8
If I'm the wife, this is how I will be looking at him.

FamilyRe: Stories That Made You Sit On The Edge by usj(m): 7:46pm On Jul 20, 2020
I was told not to go out at night, that bush baby kidnapps people at night. That stopped me from staying alone in the dark and going out at night.

I love stoning animals that fly at night, repeatedly I was asked to stop, but I didn't until my mum came up with a clever story.
She asked "do you know that some of the birds that flies at night are witches? If you hit anyone witches would make your hand to start facing backwards." And that my friend was the last time I threw stones at night.
FamilyRe: Here's What Happens When A Woman Knows You Love Her by usj(m):
Nice piece bro, good luck in reproducing the kind of atmosphere you grew up in. Don't forget the kind of woman your mother was! Somebody I know married a look alike.

FamilyRe: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by usj(m): 7:28pm On Jul 20, 2020
This is how it begins, before we hear "MAN RAPE HIS COUSIN". Don't think you can handle her, you better run and avoid being alone with her at all cost. People will believe her anytime before they listen to your own side of the story.

FamilyRe: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by usj(m): 7:50pm On Jul 19, 2020
Godlovesyou28:
The person referred me back to my dad to get the identity of my real mum.
I can imagine your pain, sorry.

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