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dannyla:
I opened a new account to remain anonymous.
This story is a bit long but pls bear with me.

I met this man almost 2yrs ago at an event a friend invited me to. The next week, he collected my number from my friend and called me, we began talking from there and agreed to go on a date. He proposed marriage to me on the first date which I rejected. I told him that I can't marry outside my church and from the little I've heard from him, our life dreams differ. I decided to cut him off from that day and I stayed away for about 3months. Meanwhile he got my friend to introduce him to my sis, mum and another friend who happened to be from his place, I'll call her Grace.
He made them all aware of his intent towards me and my stand and asked for their help to change my mind. Grace became his biggest ally and convinced me to have another date. He asked that we date for a while and see if we can work out our differences. During the date I noticed he has a very hot and quick temper and he listens to gossip a lot so I do tell Gracethat I don't see a future with him but he was too persistent, Grace always had words of encouragement and considering the fact that for some strange reason, it was mainly married men always approach me for a relationship with stories of how they got married to a wrong woman and they are or are almost divorced, dating a single man with no kids was very tempting and I decided to give it a try.

He asked me to tell him everything about me so there are no secrets between us and I did. Starting from secondary school to that day, I told him everything, from my first kiss, the colleague who tried to rape me, my ex who lied about his marital status and disvirgined me etc. he did the same too and I felt a burden roll off my shoulder.

Few days later I began to notice changes in him especially towards my business. I thrive in a male dominated industry in a ratio of 9men to 1woman. He asked me to show him the pictures of my colleagues which I did, he also asked if they make passes at me which I said is almost inevitable but my boundaries are clear and rigid.

Fast forward to now. I noticed that whenever I drop my phone, he goes through it. Facebook, sms, WhatsApp etc. He even picks my call when I'm not close to the phone. He asked me about a certain colleague who cracks dirty jokes like how I rushed to get married (I told him I'm already married). I didn't think much about it.

He later began to complain about my partners and how I'm sleeping with them like the prostitute I am, called me an unrepentant liar, unsubmisive, manipulating etc. Said he regrets asking for my hand at all and he's just waiting forthe day he'll catch me redhanded so he can dump my sorry a*s.
I told him to end it now cus I'm fed up, family came in and I later found out that Grace has been telling a lot of lies against hoping to get him for herself as well as hate filled advises from some aggrieved friends who felt ladies from my tribe are no good and just there to "chop money". Apologies were said and received and we continued.

Another time I visited him and we had an argument, he gave me several heavy knocks on my head and I developed a headache and began to insult him which resultedin more heavy knocks. I broke up with him and left. Later my mum called him to ask why he laid his hands on me, he denied it swearing with his life. Said I insulted him and he lost his temper and insulted me back that he's sorry. He began to drop messages everywhere and I eventually gave in.

3rd incident happened on our way back from an event. He saw a message from a colleague he told me to stop doing business with cus he feels the man has his eyes on me which is totally not true. He flared up, stopped the car and was even threatening to beat me up. I came down from his car and stood by the roadside. He came down too and gave me the insult of my life in full public view and glare and told me to enter the car which I refused. I had no money on me and had to beg a stranger for money. By that time he was coming back, he quickly took a picture of both of us and sent it to everybody of how he caught me in the act with my lover on the road. He called me and said that if he must marry me, I must break my business sim card and look for a wife friendly occupation or sit at home.

He later apologised over it. Meanwhile he and my sis don't flow as before as he once called her a prostitute.

I want to call it quits but everyone around me feels it's a mistake and he is saying everything out of anger and if I'm patient enough, he will change completely.

I must admit that he has changed alot since we met but the progress compared to the timeframe and the heat I face everyday is nothing to write home about.

He loves me to a fault and I don't know if I can find someone who loves me like him but his other attitude is sniffing life out of me. Do I stay or quit?
Thanks for reading and pardon any typos

Aunty as much as I personally like a homely, submissive woman, abeg run from this man because this one will be the end of you should you continue with this nonsense relationship. Flee!!! Change location if you can do that you won't be manipulated into giving in when such repeats itself.

OP you dey craze. A very slow man na hin you be.

mrvitalis:
Sue them for 50 billion
Offer an out of court settlement of magu resign and the officers that did that scaled via 5 national dailys

Someone need to teach them a lesson

For which court?

Damn oh my goodness. I shouldn't have opened this thread ooo

The boy is a heartless deekhead. With that being said, why would the deceased accept those terms and still be cutting corners? The whole story is just sad. Allowing a kid to be chopping you, all because of glitz & greed.

Dannonye:
Look
I guess u shd read d page and replies all over

You are d one who insulted me yet ion care

Ion hate anyone
You simply misunderstood ,judged and insulted
You shd be d one saying sorry not me

but then ion mind

Happy Sunday

Okay, cheers!

Dannonye:
Goan look for someone else's to suppress

Ion have ur time

If u can't understand d comment then drink hot water and sniff a rose

Look luv, no one has time for a vituperation contest with you. You spoke from a place of hate and you were simply called out. Hypothetically, even if you didn't mean it that way, it doesn't still absolve the retardation of the statement. So man up, grow some balls, own it & apologize if you feel like or alternatively, remain the puxxy you are. Nobody cares.

Firefox01:
She thinks we're stupid

Don't mind the dolt.

Dannonye:
I'm sorry if that sounded like tribalism


But then reread and u will see I meant no harm

Aseobi parties are beautiful btw

Oh shut up. You knew what you wanted to convey adding "probably on credit".

Freehuman:
To marry or date a Muslim girl as a Christian in NIGERIA is very easy but you must be rich. That's all.

To also marry a Christian girl as a Muslim In Nigeria you must also be rich.

All of you saying stuff like " Muslims girls don't Marry Christian men" should chill.

I thought D'banj was going to marry Indimi's daughter. They were always romancing even in public. They were so much in love and Indimi is a very respected Muslim in Nigeria. Buhari's in law .

Did it materialize between them though? No! They both found their levels. The ratio of a muslim girl marrying a Christian guy is 1 to 50.

This one is always happening but when last did you hear muslim girl weds a Christian guy? Very rare.

grandstar:
It's not as simple as it looks.

It is believed that one of these Okada services belongs to the Ambode's (The wife presumably). That may explain why they were able to operate without a license for so long.

Oh pls... Opay is owned by Opera.

I think the transport union guys have started to grumble about Opay, probably wailed to Tinubu and the Deputy governor MC Oluomo hence the decision to have them frustrated.

Meaning she won't even do herself henceforth. It's a good one.

AlwaysPositive:
Hack her WhatsApp. Then thank me later.

How?

Respect55:
I have joined u

I have joined too.

@pamelaayomide

Go and tag segalink on twitter with this story of yours.

I made her believe I had, then went on a shagging spree for the next few months. In the car, in the club, in her school. Smashed everywhere unconventional then cut her loose. She fxckn activated the sociopath within.
In retrospect, I derived no joy in treating her like that.

Take your fake concocted story elsewhere jare.

writefreely:
Edo is not Lagos or Abuja or Kogi... That's all I will say to you...
Even when Igbinedion was working with the might of the Federal government, and tried to rig oshiomohle out, it didn't work and Oshiomohle made political history without any backing, just the courts. Now I want to see how Oshiomohle will openly destroy the foundation he built when Obaseki has the support of majority of Edo people.

The difference is that now we have people with no iota of respect for the law.

mrvitalis:
No body should complain of you are not from or staying in kogi ....they like him like that

If a people really want change no amount of intimidating can stop them from voting the person out

They don't hate bello enough

Abi oo. Look at what happened in Oyo for instance. I don't want to sound tribalistic but we Yorubas don't do things blindly like this.

MDBrand:
You are very stupid

Somebody that is a product of bad parenting.

You didn't leak a sextape, you are busy leaking a chat.

xynerise:
Just negodu this man!

Some people at 28 they are still writing jamb. What is wrong with kids of today?

My brother. These kids worry over nothing. No wonder suicide rate keeps spiking. Their gf leave them depression, their mummy chided them depression.

Four4Clien:
where's Idowest tho, i no dey hear from am again





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You can't feed on awon omo shepeteri forever, can you?

Fa44me:
Yes, he's a scammer. He scammed me of $20

Eyah. The idiot Odunayo258 would tell you that the card you sent him was a used one. Was even busy telling me he had no use for my £15. Elebi oshi.

Don't be surprised she has a nice phone in her bag. This photographer is a cloudy chaser. Must have had a terrible childhood.

CosmeticChemist:
3 trillion from sales of textile ? How is much is Nigeria's budget for 2019 ? I don't believe this..

People that are mad.

Nigga please. 3 Trillion bawo.

EmptyCoconutHead:
she never still pregnant up till now?
the abortions wey Dem been dey do don dey backfire them just like Banky and Adesua.
that's what u get when u marry a slay Queen.
Tufiakwa!
my advise be say make Banky and this Teddy A kukuma divorce these barren slay queens and go get the services of Benue girls cos those people sabi born pass rats.

Your moniker explains it.

Another thief lurking around,looking for who to devour is Odunayo258
Avoid this boy like a plague. I tested him yesterday with an Amazon GC and the hopeless son of a c.unt pulled a silly scam. Thank God i didn't send him my high denomination's cards.

His phone number is
+2348120278536
08120278536

778resources:
@ Odunayo258 , you got paid for $50 amazon gift card over 3 hours ago and you have not delivered the amazon gift card.

Is this what you referred to as your legit 100 performance?

How long more do we have to wait?

Nairalanders, (@Odunayo258) Odunayo Exchange has not delivered the amazon gift card and appears not to be willing refund naira collected.

That guy is a scammer bro. Sent him £15 pounds Amazon yesterday. The idiot logged went offline instantly only to reappear 30mins later that my cards were used one. The theif said there was nothing he'd use my little money for. Everyone should steer clear of this their.

I should have checked checked his profile. My mistake.