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FamilyRe: Why Do Mothers Get The Blame For A Child's Bad Behaviour? by vanstanzy(m): 3:42pm On Nov 06, 2012
tavon: Because African culture is against feminism. A womans job is the kitchen and the kids and if theres a problem its the woman's fault.

A friend of mine once asked me has your father ever cooked for the family before. Even on your moms birthday?

It was then i realized that we dont treat our women as equals.
WRONG!!!
FamilyRe: Why Do Mothers Get The Blame For A Child's Bad Behaviour? by vanstanzy(m): 3:39pm On Nov 06, 2012
bola4dprec: Mother will always shoulder some blame
for their kids' bad choices. It's just the
way it is, they are responsible for raising
our children and teaching them right
from wrong, they are also responsible for
their behavior (at least until they're 18).
That being said, the child is also liable for
his or her bad decisions. It's a
combination of the two. Until a child's
brain is fully developed (late teens, I
believe mother is the best teacher), he or she cannot properly
process information fully and therefore
cannot be held fully responsible for his or
her actions. As mother, they have to
teach their children critical thinking skills,
forethought, and logic. Once their brains
can completely process these thoughts,
they become fully responsible for them.
Until that point, it's mother responsibility to
ensure that they're making the right
choices.
U HAVE SPOKEN WELL and DESERVE TO BE REWARDED.
FamilyRe: Why Do Mothers Get The Blame For A Child's Bad Behaviour? by vanstanzy(m): 3:37pm On Nov 06, 2012
tavon: So in a situation where both father and mother are working why should it be the woman's job to take care of the kids?
Is that question directed to God or to man?
FamilyRe: Why Do Mothers Get The Blame For A Child's Bad Behaviour? by vanstanzy(m): 3:36pm On Nov 06, 2012
ciphoenix: The Nigerian Mentality
It has nothing to do with Nigerian mentality.

Its better to bend a fish when its wet than when its dry, cos it'll break. So is a child, the beginning years are when habits and characters are easily picked and formed in the childs life.
Secondly, the children of no doubt spend more time with their mums, take directives from her and learn whatever they see the her do. That's why people will quickly blame the mother if her child goes "dark side". But this doesn't exonerate dads from the responsibility.
HOPE PARENTS ESPECIALLY MUMS WILL LEARN FROM THIS?
PoliticsRe: Okada Riders Beat-up LASTMA Officers by vanstanzy(m): 3:14pm On Nov 06, 2012
These Okada guyz are waisting their time, the ban is On, and its On. So they'ld rather sentence innocent masses to the hospital in order to earn their daily pay. LAWLESS BUNCH! angry angry angry Fashola really needs to impose a tighter ban on these guyz. At least some level of sanity can be seen on most Lagos roads since the ban, which to me is GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD. cheesy cheesy
Christianity EtcRe: Do You Believe In Heaven And Hell? by vanstanzy(m): 9:08pm On Nov 05, 2012
Heaven is real and Hell is real too. I believe in both, and do take the word of the Atheists, Satanists and lest i forget, the Jehovas witness about heaven and hell as LARGELY UNREAL. Just follow the Holy Bible, it has the entire truth in it.
The fool sayeth in his heart, there is no God.
EventsRe: 2012 World Transgender Beauty Pageant (Pictures) by vanstanzy(m): 12:07pm On Nov 05, 2012
Okija_juju: WTF!!!! shocked shocked shocked

No wonder some dudes have started boinking Animals..

Women be lying about their height, nails, face, hair, complexion, name even their native tongue..

As if that wasnt bad enough, Biitch niggas now are disguising as biitches to con straight guys into becoming fagg0ts.. angry


Atleast a Camel is a camel. It wont fake an accent, wear make-up or undergo sex-change surgery.... angry

Lucky Northern Cowfuckers..

Guy, na u start to dey insult North now. U are on ur own o, when they start to take at ya.

Come to think of it, this thing called freedom is beginning to be abused greatly. Before long this transgenders' will start claiming right. SMH!
EventsRe: 2012 World Transgender Beauty Pageant (Pictures) by vanstanzy(m): 9:31am On Nov 05, 2012
free2ryhme: two wrongs does not a make right
Yeah, u right, instead i'll pray for 'em to realise their sin and repent...
But still yet, i'll torch 'em. Na, i dont mean "Do" 'em, GOD FORBID, i mean burn 'em.
EventsRe: 2012 World Transgender Beauty Pageant (Pictures) by vanstanzy(m): 9:21am On Nov 05, 2012
Americas_man: Please dont tell me this is halloween. shocked
Halloween has passed in the US, but not in Thailand. Yep, these are real halloween creatures.
EventsRe: 2012 World Transgender Beauty Pageant (Pictures) by vanstanzy(m): 8:14am On Nov 05, 2012
If i were a TERRORIST, i'ld kill 'em all. HE-B!7CHES!
What's this world turning into?
RomanceRe: Getting Married In 2 Months - Why Does He Distrust Me So Much? by vanstanzy(m): 4:14pm On Oct 31, 2012
naijathings: [size=18pt]from experience, women tend to come out with these stories when they are sure they have someone else under consideration. if not you will not be here looking for a reason to leave your man. you have been with him, laughing and crying and playing and shopping and furking now you come to seek publik opinion when it is just 2 months to wedding and the guy has been spending money and making plans and sending Invitations. I wish i can catch you and lock you up in a room then go out and give the guy the key so he can give you his opionon. LMAO.
I bet N100,000 that you are seeing someone else and now looking for excuse to leave this one.
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If she has someone else by the side that values her, that's a very, very good thing.
Put ur sister in her shoes, what would ur advice to her be then?
Let her kick the "buggers'" @ss to the kerb, and move-on jor!
RomanceRe: Getting Married In 2 Months - Why Does He Distrust Me So Much? by vanstanzy(m): 12:35pm On Oct 31, 2012
cheddarking: So you think you can just come here and tell our story abi?

You think I dont have an Alert for your Nairaland account too?

OK. I'll see you at home
angry angry
Who be this, kwanu? huh Joker! abeg go sidon jor. grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Getting Married In 2 Months - Why Does He Distrust Me So Much? by vanstanzy(m): 11:21am On Oct 31, 2012
His sins in the past is hunting him, since he has never been faithful in any of his past relationships. His conscience is always playing tricks on him that u are returning the favour he did his other girls in past relationships by cheating on him too. "What goes around comes around", now its playing out itself once again.
Lady this is just a courtship and not a marriage yet, so u can, infact should walk-out on him if u value ur happiness and life. Since he has come to start threatening u. That guy is bad news, girl.
Don't worry, God'll give u another. wink wink wink
TV/MoviesRe: 6 Promising Movies To Watch Out For Before the End of 2012 (trailers) by vanstanzy(m): 5:28pm On Oct 30, 2012
Logicboy03: Wrong wish. I wish the govt and the wealthy elite could invest in the film making industry to make better films. Proper acting schools and movie producing courses.

Then, we will have better Nigerian movies and more promotion of the movies
Good saying. But until then, we have to make do with these dull Nollywood directors, actors, actresses etc. Nollywood films are just a pure waste of money, wouldn't dream of buying any.
TV/MoviesRe: 6 Promising Movies To Watch Out For Before the End of 2012 (trailers) by vanstanzy(m): 4:14pm On Oct 30, 2012
Tony Spike: ...SKYFALL will premiere at the cinemas by Friday/Saturday. The anticipation is high!
Like u said i hope Daniel Craig manages to smile like Pierce Brosnan or Roger Moore.
Noone wants to comment now, but just bring up a thread on Nollywood movies (drama) and u'll see nairaland commentators flood everywhere. Just try it, it works like magic. grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Aftermath Of Catholic Church Bombing In Malali, Kaduna by vanstanzy(m): 11:30am On Oct 29, 2012
Horus: [img]http://1.bp..com/_5UoCh3Euly0/S9zepuIMRWI/AAAAAAAAAMc/VU2MO5wUoGs/s1600/nuttyMooselums.jpg[/img]

[size=17pt]What did you noticed in this picture?[/size]
THESE FV-CKING MUSLIMS ARE IDOL WORSHIPPING THOSE INCOMPLETE, NAKED GIRL DOLLS. NO WONDER THEIR god CANT FIGHT FOR HIMSELF, COS HE HAS NO LIMBS AS DEPICTED BY THOSE DOLLS. ANY MUSLIM HERE TO PROVE ME WRONG? BRING IT ON SUCKERS! angry angry angry angry angry
PoliticsRe: Aftermath Of Catholic Church Bombing In Malali, Kaduna by vanstanzy(m): 10:30am On Oct 29, 2012
ONTO THEE O LORD, DO I LIFT UP MY SOUL.
ONTO THEE O LORD, DO I LIFT UP MY SOUL.
O MY LORD, I TRUST IN THEE,
LET ME NOT BE ASHAMED, NEITHER MY ENEMIES TRIUMPH OVER ME. sad sad sad
PoliticsRe: Boko-Haram Declares War On Emirs, Governors In Its Own Oct 1 Speech - Video by vanstanzy(m): 1:30pm On Oct 27, 2012
Sammyashol: I will appreciate them if they leave the masses and descend on the Emirs & Governors as said in the video.... If we loose some leaders, the Government will act better dan dat of before.... Always loyal
I would really prefer that the Boko Haram attack the Northern Emirs and Governors, at least they (Northern Emirs and Governors) have security details attached to them. If only BH would make good of its threat and leave the poor defenseless masses alone in peace.
Afterall, its these Emirs and Governors that have plundered our wealth, rendered the common man helpless and signed-on Boko Haram for their own selfish course, in the first place. Now let their own pit-bulls turn against them. "WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND!" angry angry angry angry angry
PoliticsRe: Northern Governors In Saudi Arabia To Pray Against Insecurity by vanstanzy(m): 12:13pm On Oct 26, 2012
deols: Can you please change the title. Thwy are praying against and not for insecurity.
I WAS ALMOST MIS-LED.
PoliticsRe: Lesson For Those That Want To Die For Politicians (Picture) by vanstanzy(m): 10:54am On Oct 26, 2012
OtunbaGm: I remember very vividly that Fashola was distributing helmet to Okada riders before his re-election for seconD term in oFfice! Now hE is serving them with traffic laws! Weldone d Captain!

I am in Ondo stAte now, ur brodA akEre fail yakata. Don't forget you mite need dos okada riders again!

Iyan ogun odun man joyan lowo! D good in those okada are beta dan baD ones! We shall see saw! O dojo alE......
IF FASHOLA IS GOING TO WIN ANY POLITICAL OFFICE, HE'LL WIN WITH OR WITHOUT THE OKADA GUYZ. ONCE HE'S DESTINED, THEN HE HAS NO PROBLEM, HE'LL GET THE NECESSARY VOTES FROM ELSE WHERE. GBAM!
THE BAN ON OKADA IS VERY NECESSARY.
PoliticsRe: Lesson For Those That Want To Die For Politicians (Picture) by vanstanzy(m): 9:55am On Oct 26, 2012
smackimorn: all this daft, good for nothing YORUBA's here...who alwz say village nd igbo anyhow are useless.....i live in lagos, nd i'm happy to have a village, buh the lagosianz gave dia land to d white pple wu came during d slave bla blah...tinkin d whyte were godz...shame on lagosianz..
Guy, u dey make sense at all? huh huh huh Are u speaking to the spirits again, boi?
PoliticsRe: Lesson For Those That Want To Die For Politicians (Picture) by vanstanzy(m): 9:15am On Oct 26, 2012
RICHIE BOI: The Changing Face of Lagos. Eko o Ni baje oooooooo.
[Governor Fashola's relationship with Okada people, during the governorship Election and after Election].

Naija Can Do Better!
This man is heartless, but this is the kind of sanity Lagosians have been begging for... now we are getting it. Though its bad, but u've got to admit that since the ban of okadas' some level of sanity has entered into Lagos roads. Those okada guys were really beginning to get under our skin anyway.
CelebritiesRe: St.Janet Caught Her Husband Sleeping With Her Daughter by vanstanzy(m): 1:20pm On Oct 18, 2012
lillyveezy: Lewd singer u said she is? Well daughter is just learning from mum's stock of trade.
Apprently she does not see anything wrong with sleeping with step-dad,afterall mum can appear on screen unclad.
my töt.
The apple doesnt and cant fall far from its tree. Just as it sounds, 'like mother, like daughter'.
Foreign AffairsRe: Romney And The 'Binders Full Of Women' Blunder by vanstanzy(m): 1:08pm On Oct 18, 2012
Seun shaGARRI: If na tonto or davido thread now, e for don reach 3pages. As e come be say na intellectual analysis see as people dey yawn, some no fit read am finish self.

Una dey tire me
Have u forgotten that if u want to hide anything from a black man, put it in a lengthy write-up or better still, a book.
Foreign AffairsRe: Romney And The 'Binders Full Of Women' Blunder by vanstanzy(m): 12:48pm On Oct 18, 2012
These analysts, they are very good at picking holes at every comment and body language. At this rate, one needs to be very careful with what comes of him/ her.
Talking about Mitt, the GOPs have never been trustworthy individuals to me. So am the least suprised he made such comments.
CrimeRe: Uniport Killings: Suspects Charged With Conspiracy, Murder by vanstanzy(m): 9:04am On Oct 18, 2012
ItsModella: If there is one thing I hate about the court system in Nigeria, is the way they adjourn cases. December 20 is too far way, dammit!!!
CrimeRe: Uniport Killings: Suspects Charged With Conspiracy, Murder by vanstanzy(m): 9:04am On Oct 18, 2012
ItsModella: If there is one thing I hate about the court system in Nigeria, is the way they adjourn cases. December 20 is too far way, dammit!!!
Guy u are not the only one who dislikes the court system. All court systems world-over are like this. As long as JUSTICE is served, and i hope powers that be wont meddle in this case and set those lunatics free.
Christianity EtcRe: Is It Wrong To Give Your Tithe To The Poor by vanstanzy(m): 6:18pm On Oct 17, 2012
Mcdondayan: Good day brothers and sisters in the lord. I have been pondering over this issue, and have asked some questions about it.
The bible tells us to give one tenth of our proceed to the lord and there are many promises attached to it. But if we look around us there are many poor people around us.
I have asked this same question to a clergy man and he said it is nt wrong because God is also in the poor. So i want to bring the same question to NL christains (not the brainwashed ones) who have proper reason to clear my doubt. IS IT WRONG TO GIVE OUR TITHE TO THE POOR?
Tithe itself is for God, like the clergy man said, God's in the poor. There, u have ur answer, give to the poor.
CrimeRe: Police Arrest Mastermind Of UNIPORT Killings (Coxson Lerebori Lucky) by vanstanzy(m): 6:12pm On Oct 16, 2012
I dont care if they've caught Osama bin laden, justice must be served!!!
PoliticsRe: Some N’assembly Members Can Barely Write Their Names – Deputy Senate President by vanstanzy(m): 7:29am On Oct 16, 2012
For our politicians, 'IGNORANCE IS BLISS'. Pls noone should tie this predicament to any tribe, it cuts across all tribes.
This is so disgraceful!
PoliticsRe: Some N’assembly Members Can Barely Write Their Names – Deputy Senate President by vanstanzy(m): 7:23am On Oct 16, 2012
acidosis™:
Christ!! I don't blame them. It's the fault of voters.
In a way u're right. But mosttimes u dont need to vote them in, they are forced on Nigerians.
What a very big shame!
PhonesRe: Phone App For The Adulterer, Makes Lover's Texts Disapear! by vanstanzy(m): 9:16pm On Oct 15, 2012
This is bad, real bad. I pity this generation of mine.
This's really bad for humanity!

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