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zomoears:
Paid sex is a hot topic.
If I give a babe money after nacking her kpekus, in my mind she is nothing but an olosho and may probably never hear from me again.
The payment is to assuage my conscience, and also to protect me from their evil curses. If I paid you, your curses no go work and my life goes on...

Even if she gives u for free.

She still won't hear from you again after three or four sessions. So what's the big deal in paying her tfare? Or booking a flight for her if she's traveling out of her state to meet with u?

I don't see any issues in it. If all you want is sex that same day of meeting up with her.

MissRaine69:
Why should you give her money for transport? How is that different from paying for sex?

Must we have sex, if I decide to visit?

Can't I just pay my tfare my self, visit have fun time, he takes me to the movies, we watch a lovely film, we drink, eat, talk. And he foots the bill because he wants to be a gentleman here , he needs a woman to talk to and share ideas and time with but will not end up requesting I open my legs for sex at the end of the day.

My dear such guys exist

Everything should not end with sex.

And any lady visiting a male friend or stranger shouldn't be coerced to have sex for free. Haba !
If you know as a guy, all you want is sex! Biko order Uber to go pick her up and drop her back home. It's that simple, only if she agrees.

Auxtin85:
Thanks a million

You are welcome dear

Happy Father's Day to my handsome Olorogun, although resting in the bosom of the Lord. I will always love you dad, Cherish the memories we shared together, I love you so much even after death. till we meet again rest well

Then to all Responsible fathers out there, wishing everyone of you a Happy Father's Day. Be the best you can be for your kids. They're all you've got .

Then to my Boo, my one and only heartbeat, the right father for my unborn kids, waiting to be unleashed soon I'm wishing you Happy Father's Day as well. Can't wait for you to come back home soonest next month. Love you to the moon and back.
I simply adore you Boo, so hardworking, loving and grounded

Height of foolishness.

So Pastors now bring husbands from nowhere to women waiting to have a man for marriage .

Na wa.

Nigerians oooooo

Auxtin85:
I dedicate this FTC to myself and all responsible fathers all over the world on this Father’s Day.

I say a big thank you to God for making me a father and I appreciate my woman for not giving up on me while I was balling with different women, more love to my son Jared for coming through me.

As for Nigeria, May God give us good leaders that will treat us as humans and do the needful at the right time

Awww


So cute!

Happy Father's Day dear.

Guys and yansh!

Even American guys are all over her. No wonder strippers in clubs in the US earn so much money with their ukwu.

Lefulefu, food don ready o.. Dish to your satisfaction.

A lawyer friend of mine was trying to convince me to join Loom.

I was like what? You too?

Ha!

He was talking seriously with that calm no nonsense face of his, that look Princess Vicky, I'm telling you this Ponzi scheme works, I have been cashing out since three weeks ago, cos my team is fast. Just join my team and u will be cashing out.

I looked at him, with a resigned look. And I replied cash out what?
He said money of course. Look you know me, I don't dabble into things that don't work this one works for real. It's not like MMM. It's different.
I replied really, he said yes. OK wait lemme show u something in my phone.

I was already having headaches. I said D Law, lets leave this your loom, I'm not interested . Im serious here. In fact I'm not ready to talk about anything online biz that will yield money. Im not interested. He said wait first ,as he excitedly scrolled through his phone looking for God knows what! I just tap his shoulders , guy I'm off. No time to waste abeg

Mehn I wonder how he will be feeling now. I'm tempted to call him thru phone and yab his life

Lawyer Tony! See ya life??

Why is Blossom wife screaming??

Shebi she started it, with posing and almost licking one half naked random guy nipples!


Tit for tat!

She go shout taya. Lol

Mercy Aigbe for that matter!

It's very intoxicating, when a rich famous rugged hardworking sexy dark tall guy knows how to make love and hit that spot with finese, precise expertise in a brutal but loving way.

The babe will propose marriage sharperly and cling on you tightly.

If you know, you know.

He's got the magic dick! And so focused on his career
He try

FuckDaMods:
once i collect am and collect you too i am satisfied with the things of life

Lol


Greed!

Oliver Twist!

FuckDaMods:
I don't understand
1m to 50 pple is 50m.
He got 3m from one mr. Mc galaxy.
So therefore, 3m - 50m = -47m

Hahahahahahahahah... Ole!

Kukuma collect 50million from hin hands.

Shepherd00:
Tell him that what he experienced happens to all faithful disciples of Christ. If we all shd open up and tell, we all have our down times.

It's very critical because satan takes advantage of this testing time and wld break us out we don't surround ourselves with the right brethren.

The Lord put you in his life because of this reason. Thank you for being there for him. Keep it up.

He who waters shall be watered also. The Lord shall send you help when you need it.

Eeyah.

It's not a problem for me to help, cause have been through hell and back before.

My New pastor always encourages me that there is a reason God is still keeping me alive, even with all I have pass through in life. Because ordinarily I would have been 6ft below before Now. Or kept in a psychiatric home due to depression and emotional troubles in the past.

But God kept me alive. Renew my mind, soul, body and spirit. Made me healthier than before, against all odds. It's good to serve and depend on God.

My past experience also made me sober , I view life differently these days.


Alright i will tell him this one as well. He's truly grateful and in high spirits

He said few minutes ago , that see life o, me that started out as his student and was teaching about the Holy Spirit and God, I inturn Now became his helper , mentor and angel.

I replied, we are all still learning, with different gifts imbibed in everyone of us , while God is using us for different purposes . So we shouldn't be far from each other.
He said its true, smiles.

Amen Sir. thank you once again.

God bless you, we understand better nw.

Shepherd00:
Psalms 92:12-14 The righteous shall flourish like the palm tree:

he shall grow like a cedar in Lebanon.

Those that be planted in the house of the LORD shall flourish in the courts of our God.

They shall still bring forth fruit in old age; they shall be fat and flourishing;


Pls let him know that our destinies are distinct. We don't mature and produce fruits at the same time.

As it is with plants, so it is with humans.

People with simple destinies gets what they ask for easily and in few years, no one hears about them anymore. But great destinies takes llllllooooonnnngg to mature and when they begin producing fruits, it goes on and on and many of those whom he thinks are ahead now will come back to collect from him.


Tell him not to compare his life with anyone's. Things are working for those he prays for, but the same prayer seems not to walk for him. It happens.

Tell him he has the destiny of a Palm Tree or a Cedar. or even a Cocoa plant.

Let me explain. Crops like groundnut, maize, vegetables, beans plantain, Cassava, yam, takes less than or not more than one year to mature for harvest. But, crops like Cocoa plants, Mango, oranges, palm trees or cocoanuts altho planted the same time with the first group of crops I mentioned, would still be in their germination stages or just still in the nursery.

It takes them more than 7 or even some 10 years to begin to produce fruits. Remember they were planted the same day with the other crops o. But, see the duration it takes for people to start even talking about them.

If you were a Cocoa plant that knows you were planted the same day with corn, and in 3 to 4 months people are eating corn, beans, Yams etc and are praising it, while you have not even germinated from the ground, what will be your reaction?

Will you cry, be envious of the Corn? Will you hate God for making you a Palm Tree or a Cocoa plant which takes forever before bearing fruits?

Will you cut yourself off from the ground like this your friend almost did?

What will you do?

But, watch when the Cocoa plants begins to bear fruits, its fruits comes every year for for years. while his friend Corn bears fruits only for just that season.

Now, all these years that the second group of crops are just watching others flourish, what will they be doing?

They won't be idle, they'd be gathering momentum by digging deep into the ground. their roots are sinking deeper and deeper into the soil. Their roots will get right down on the soil that they begin to suck from the underground water for sustenance.

They won't be depending on rain or to be watered by any one to stay alive. Dem don grab ground and when they begin to bear fruits, not only them will eat from it. Generations will be supplied by the fruits they bare. Neighbors, thieves, friends and enemies shall eat from them

When dry season comes, no shaking

When rainy season comes, okay o.

Wind can not shake them.

Tell your friend to find out from scriptures what type of person he is to God.

And he knows to tell others about the Holy Spirit, but can't ask the Holy Spirit about himself?

Hmm! You are right

I will tell him.

He said this morning, that him who always counsel people about the Holy Spirit and Christ, got so weak and lost faith completely last night and he realised the devil can really play tricks with one's mind.

Hes happy I revived his faith again. He never knew he could break down like that.

Sighs


I will copy and paste your message to him. Thanks so much!

Shepherd00:
The Spirit of heaviness is responsible for depression and all he needs if the Spirit of Joy to replace heaviness.

You are on the other side so won't understand. don't bother responding.

God bless you.

You understand fully.


Don't mind Cosmic or whatever he calls himself.

Davash222:
Did you give him the money

I will. I have already promised him.

Let him train his voice the more through a professional choir master in church and when I listen to his tape again.

I wil give him the money to go remix and launch it and do what's he's meant to do.

I will be one of his sponsors. I'm ready to back him up as well. He's full of talent with his voice.

It's amazing

He was crying he's fed-up, he just want to end it all and have peace. His job is nothing to write home about. He's as broke as hell to go back to the studio and work on his gospel songs he knows will make lots of impact and also boost his life, but there seems to be no money no where. Nobody to finance his song. Everyone is saying nope they can't help, he just tired of life.

I just weak. I said please don't go! Listen to me . Please just listen.

Lemme ask you, which church do u attend?
He mentioned his church. I asked are u a chorister there? He said work will not permit him to go to church on Sundays and Saturday. I said there we go!

My brother what u need is exposure and a choir master to train your voice and bring out the best in it. Not just going to the studio and remix the song again. You need someone to train your voice!
You cannot do. It alone

He said what do I suggest?

I said look leave that church, my spirit is directing my thoughts to another church u should attend.

I remember the Pastor of the church but I have forgotten the name. Of the church. So we checked on Google , type the pastor's name and everything about his church pop up.

I said look go to this church! Become their member, join their choir, u have a awesome voice people will Love and fall in love with. Get trained by the choir master, your voice needs more depth.

Then along the line, members in the church will notice your gift, including the pastor and someone there will sponsor you. Me, my self I will also be one of your sponsors when that time comes. So please I beg you, don't end your life! Can't u see the devil is showing u a negative picture of yourself which is untrue?

You are almost at the finishing point . Don't allow the devil to deceive u and end it all.

It's a trick from hell
I decree that spirit of depression out , right now! In Jesus name.

My dear, that's how this guy was just smiling, joy, relief in his face.
We jot the name and. Address of the church down and he said he will go there on Sunday

I said good!
You need exposure in the right church not depression or frustration.

He's so happy . Very happy


I almost cried with joy.


I spoke to him this morning
He's full of vigor and hope again.

God will. Settle him and his dream of becoming a known gospel singer will arise sooner than he expects in Jesus name Amen.


God is good o.. Say No to suicide! The devil is a liar! You are a blessing to yourself and to others. Look inward. There lies your answer to your worries.

Shalom! Thank you Lord for saving my friend's soul and body, thank you Jesus

I'm so happy this morning
Two months ago, I changed church because I felt pressured by my Pastor to become a worker in church. But deep in my mind, I knew my job is not spending almost all my hours in church working for God and the church. I felt I'm meant to counsel and help people outside the church. I'm a free spirited person and I don't like been confined to a role.
So when the pressure came for me to become an official in church, I respectfully told my Pastor, I'm sorry that's not where my spirit is leading me in serving God. And I told him what God wants me to do but He's having none of it. Then he became too possessive over me. I had to cut off and join another lovely new church.
So that aside, I then had time to chat with people from all works of life online whenever I'm free from lecturing in my Fashion class.
Last week I chatted with some people and amongst them was a gospel singer. Upcoming gospel singer. The first thing he said when we chatted was his spirit led him to give me his song to listen to and tell him, how good or bad he is with his song.

I said OK,add me up on whatsapp lemme listen to it. He added me and sent his song. I listen to it, its a lovely song mixed with Yoruba and English but his voice isn't so powerful in depth on it.
And I explained to him through whatsapp the next day about it, that he needs to train his voice more to bring out the best in him.
He took notes and he was grateful. Then we got chatting.
About personal stuffs. And he was praying with me concerning my relationship with my fiance. So he lectured me on how to tap into the Holy Spirit and use him to answer all my prayers.

My inner eyes opened when I tried it with the verses of Bible he sent to me and I was like Wow! I tried it and it worked . Through him, I got to know the Holy Spirit is a quick messenger in solving problems of life. I was happy, I felt more enlightened and he was happy to be of help.

But I never knew he was having challenges with money. He has a job but a dead beat job just to keep body and soul but the job sef is not really helping for him and I knew all that last night.

Last night he was like he's done with his part in my life and he's going and I should promise him I will marry my fiance ,because my fiance loves me so much which he can discern in his spirit and I must not disappoint my fiance. I was like why all these talk of u are going? U are going to where?

Where are you going? I asked again, my heart was pounding with fear and I stuttered but I thought we are friends for life. Whats the problem? He said he has to go and he's done. I was like wait! U are scaring me what's the problem?
He said why I'm I stubborn like this and his part in my life is over. And he wants to go!

I'm like going where for God sake! He then burst into tears that he's fed-up of life, he's frustrated. He helps people with advice, prayers and how they can pray to get result but in his own case he has prayed done the same thing hes advising us to do and we are getting results while his own looks as if God is deaf. He's tired of living.

I was dismayed and shocked

All I can see is pure creativity.
He has the voice, he knows he loves singing..
So why not use it, and make money in his own little ways of thinking.

It's not a bad idea. At least he's sincere to himself that he cannot hustle, as in real hustle working for someone or going into biz. All he can do in life is sing his way through life.

Then so be it for him. He has chosen his path.

Better then duping and scaming people of their hard earned money

Profkenny1:
All I can say is WOW!!!.....Nigerians are indeed dangerous pieces of garbage!

Not all.

Just be careful and wise when dealing with people.

Because of one rotten egg, you can't castigate everyone in Nigeria to be bad.

No sir, you can't.
I'm in Nigeria. I select and choose my friends, and they are the best friends one can have in life.
Then my family? I always pray for them to be good and for God to make their ways straight and not crooked.

Bad people abounds everywhere. It's just wisdom to handle people and discern in your spirit, who will harm and who will not be harmful. And that's how I also became perfect in reading people's face expressions ,body language, eyes expressions and even their spirit join. . It took me years later on to understand people and follow them accordingly , without getting hurt or bloody.

So don't judge everyone in Nigeria like that. It's wrong.
You yourself, u are not a man without sin, So relax

Ekaka1:
Sad...but wait, was this also a contributing factor to why you guys broke up because of the long distance thingy....It will be really sad

Yes , it contributed a great deal to our breakup and he talks too much on his wealth and achievements . No filter.

He thought everybody is good. But he got the shock of his life.

I had to move on.

openmine:
The problem with our society is that most people are too judgmental!
If they were in the shoes of the victim,they would not have done any better!
All they know is to condemn!

That's Nigerians for you.

Majority can condemn like crazy, until they av a taste of what the victim is going through, then they will keep quiet.

Robbers came to rob my ex fiance, who loves bragging of how wealthy he is. Fortunately one was caught and guess what? The robber confessed it was his family friend's wife that gave them the tip off, that he's coming into naija with lots of money to complete his duplex.

Police tortured him blue black before he confessed.

They quickly went to arrest the wife. The husband of the wife was so ashamed his wife is an informant to armed robbers.

Police invited my ex, that the case is now having head way he can come and identify the remaining robbers and informant. Mehn we were shocked when we saw his best friend wife amongst them. Her husband, his friend and their family were begging him to withdraw the case ,or else his life will be in grave danger and he won't be alive to travel back abroad.

Mehn the pressure and threats were much, the next day he withdrew the case from station .

That experience made him fear Nigerians.

He travelled back and didn't come back again. He sold off the uncompleted duplex.

Can u imagine?

openmine:
You are the one that is not serious!
Do you know if the families of those kids may have hired or sent some men to rough up the family of the victim in order to put pressure on her to withdraw her statement against those guys?

What you and those making condemnations should be doing is to ensure the security personnel offer her and her families 'witness protection'...that's what is obtainable in saner societies!

All you pips know is to sit your butt down on your high horse and condemn as if you would have done any better!

If you had used your brain properly to peruse my statement,you would realize that i never asked that she withdraws her statement but that people should sympathize with her in this trying moment!

Wait until you are in her shoes before opening that loquacious mouth of yours to spew trash and to erroneously condemn someone!

You are right.

And they will definitely hire some Men to rough handle or even wipe out the family.

Is it not Nigeria?

Now her family will be begging the rapist family that the case is out of their hands , so they should please spare their lives.

Na naija we dey.

Terrible things happen.

She must have been threatened, that if they go to jail?
All everyone in her family wil be raped killed .
So she better drop the case on them

And yes it can happen in Nigeria.

Sighs what a pity.

If only she had stayed back at home and not visit any guy anywhere.

...

Princedapace:
LOL, saw this pics, remembered our discussion, didnt know how to tag u before I got to see the comment and quickly checked the name. And it is u. U got it, this shows a humble man. U got the spirit. It takes one to know one.

My dear, you are also in the Spirit

It's so clear! I love it! So refreshing to look at