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TheKingIsHere:
You don dey change mouth small small. From my man, to my fiancé to my hubby.

We know una type wella.

Later on na to use another moniker pour out the frustration

I said my fiance initially, before I said my man. Which he will eventually become my husband.


When he' becomes my husband I will still say he's my man.

Don't get it twisted oooo

Ntorrrr!

TheKingIsHere:
With this type of attitude, we already know what's going to happen in the long run.

Don't worry, this your post of "my man" has been bookmarked for future reference

You go shock soon.



If I mention my fiance again now? All the bad belle them will eat me raw

The sounD of me, my hubby and our family pics will kee some people in this forum


Have seen it already. Please don't burst a nerve biko

TheKingIsHere:
Don't worry, after 10 -15 years passes and you are still single,nobody will tell you before you join her in doing vigil

For your mind.


My man is not trash Biko!

You can be trash! I no stop you . Keep being trash for all I care.

ogbonti:
Never let anyone on naira land irritate you to the extent of revealing your picture if you really don't want to.... anyways. Nice pics..... enjoy!

Nothing bad in revealing my pics

I'm proud of myself and my looks. I own it!

And I'm happy showing my beauty and freshness off!

It's my decision and I adore myself alot.

I can remove it later but for some few hours, let my looks sink into his depraved mind. I love me, simply put

I'm a goddesss

Joromi12:
who dash iya arugbo fiancee. He get small get somewhere

Na today..?


Iya arugbo is none of my business


Scream it from now til your breath chokes you to death

It's none of my business.

Joromi12:
be there forming strong lady. U self dey long for marriage he never show

See you!

I'm very happy with my fiance and I'm not depressed nor desperate like her.

Heavens forbid
We are on different levels...

No compare us at all.. Peace and joy radiates all over me, it's clear in all my pics. I don't fake it

So swerve!

Before I beat you to a pulp!


Ode!

Asinwin jati jati.

It's clear she doesnt have a job, she sells her body for peanuts and men have used shege commot for body and pussy.
Then where she's staying, they either tormenting her daily to pack out, no where to stay.



Too bad, she sees getting married as an avenue to escape poverty.

Na wa

She needs counseling and she has to stop selling her pussy !

God pls help her amen.

Gidah:
Dem for come Lagos come drop an now ,nobody go report na to sell for owode be d next thing

As in Lagos don't waste time

Awon Boys will pieces that car straight up and sell as spare parts

No time to dull.
Money must be made!

femi4:
Aaaah...see where your mind go. Some guys can be shy. Its not everybody that's use to Public display of affection

It's not about public display of affection, just hold the damn fingers lightly mehn! It creates another level of bond.

She wont bite for Christ sakes.

femi4:
Learn to stay close to her when walking together

You are right

But some men mindset , they've tasted everything already.

In their mind, what else again?

Assuming hes still trying to get her attention and wooing her to accept him, he for hold hands , wrap his arms round her shoulders as if she will disappear if he loosen his grip.

Na dem sabi.

He's still doing guy man.. Lol

cococandy:
Only you knows what you’re talking about right now.

Lol


It's well.


But any ways guys, Listen! I always say the truth, no matter how distasteful it is to hear.

But if any of you believe any lady online or offline saying why are some classes of girls expecting money from their men, instead of working. That shebi it's the same 24hours God gave to men, and also gave to women. That there are women who do not need a man's money. Even the feminist.

I will just say experience will be the best teachers for you guys.

If all u can afford is roses, their is a lady out there, who will love you to pieces cos of that.
If all u can afford is 1k, as weekend money. There is a lady out there who will smile and say yea! I have a man.
If u can afford a Range Rover as her birthday gift or wedding gift, my brother . She will use you make mouth to her friends and family. Singing your praises. Even though she's a manager of a bank or owns a bank! She will be happy u can take out of from what u earn to place a smile on her face!

All her stubbornness will melt away, she will be so submissive and quiet like a mouse.
Just those two things, be there for her emotionally and financially. It's finished. You don't have a problem as a man anymore.

I hate it when women lie to themselves online just to make guys online happy. It doesn't make sense! Stop all these confusions about understanding women!

All women, I repeat! All women all over the world, ,working class or jobless ladies love guys or men who are responsible enough to care for them emotionally, and financially or else one day "she go change am for you" ( I think that's the new slang recently)

That's the stark truth.

cococandy:
If it’s a Nigerian girl he would regard them as olosho but his money is good for US stripper. Low self esteem mofo

You are complaining?

I'm surprised.

I thought u were one of the numerous ladies online supporting Nigerian guys not spending on their gfs? And babes shouldn't expect a dime from men or else such babes should be called oloshos, even though they are in relationship with their men.

So why vex he's spending his hard earned cash on abroad babes?

As you ladies, dey forbid make guys spend on una. Nigerian guys who have the money will travel abroad and spend on women they feel like spending it on.

At least the strippers need money too.

emmaodet:
Waoooooooo
Excellent!
Excellent!!
Excellent!!!

What else does a man require from a woman again? If only the average nigerian lady can bring just 30% of this into a relationship, many men will kill to marry.
It's okay and nice chatting with you.
Have a blessed weekend

Smiles thanks dear.

Most average Nigerian guys who need women like us, run from us because their myopic and insecure minds deceive them., they are as blind as bats!

And they feel ladies like us are mammy water or too pretty to be kept or too good to be real. With such decisions, they end up pushing us to our glory.

When they leave us , wealthy men who have gone through alot in life and know what they want in a woman, sees us , take great interest in us, have us as masterpieces in their homes and lives and also sees us as women meant to be kept and cared for in their empires.

Although It took me some considerable number of years redefine and refine my qualities all over again and again.

I'm saying from the heart and what I'm contributing to my man's life.

Thank God he appreciates it. He doesn't take me for granted. Unlike my exes.

But nice chatting with you too, it's refreshing.

Happy Sunday

America no need your money, u no go stay one place?

Abi, you dey forbid to spend your money in Nigeria?


Smhhh.

I'm shocked.

Other pastors will be in great pain seeing this crowd and not a dime was collected from the members.

Chai! And it's all in pounds.

erifeoluwasimi:
Madam, never live under same roof with an in law. I keep my family away from my home so as to keep in laws away.
You can't have freedom yet you get the blames for all sacrifices made

So true, worst decision a man will ever chose for his newly wedded wife .

Worst ever.

It always ends in divorce or separation.

fyneguy:
Hahahaha@taken

Yeah yeah...eku taken. Let's hope he ties the knot sha

Thank you

emmaodet:
It's a pity how we got to this stage, the guy you met is the typical 21st boyfriend who knows only sex, sex, more sex and money.
Do i blame him? Of course not, the tune of the music in relationship as changed, so also we expect the dancers to change there dancing steps.
Gone are the days of good manifestos from guys to prove there worth and values to women, majority of the ladies want money, money and more money and it's normal that is were the average guy will channel his energy and use it to sleep with as much ladies as he can.
Back to the topic, if am to be in the position of the guy, this is what i will say -
For me approaching you means i have a plan towards you, if not then i don't have any business doing here.
My plans are in 3 phases and depending on the outcome of the relationship, it will determine if we are going to graduate to the next level.
I have a short, medium and long time plan for you.
Short term plans - daily reoccurring activities like giving you the needed daily psychological, emotional and moral balance you need daily by calling regularly and encouraging you.
Medium plan (1-3 yrs) depending on how long the relationship will be. This is by looking into your life and programs, see how i can come in and impact positively by doing things that even if the relationship doesn't work(though, i wish it doesn't get to that stage), you will look back and appreciate the fact that you are a better person then than when we started.
How do i do that - observe your shortcomings, your strength and weakness and see how you will maximize your strenght and improve on your weakness.
E.g i will observe if you know how to swim or drive a car. If not, then i will make a plan to teach you and that is making an impact in you. Adding a little value to you so that when you look back 5, 10 or 30 yrs after, you can boldly say that the reason why you know how to swim is because of Dee-One.
Long term - that is getting married and see how to raise and support you more financially and any other way to achieve your dreams, aims and objectives in life.
So to whim much is expected from, much must be given which leads us to the question -
Mademoiselle Victorian, what should i be expecting from you? In other words, what are you bringing to the table also?

Hahahahahahahaha

You try, you've done well with your 3 tiers of plan

That's a good one, at least it's different from sex sex sex, jeez!

Well , what am I bringing to the table?

I will in return be your best friend . I'm very versed with life issues ,very understanding especially if you are sincere and Not trying to play a script on me , then u will have a sincere paddy from me.

I'm knowledgeable with the ups and downs of some good number of businesses in Nigeria, especially in Lagos. I'm well versed in how to handle people in the real world, in case u have issues with your boss ,.colleagues or clients. I'm the go to lady for advice . I'm perfect with customer care services, in fact people around you will appreciate your services. Like they do mine where I work. I love communication it makes life easier to live in.

We can talk about all stuffs except football. Football ? I'm not naturally interested in it.

I'm spiritual, I'm rooted in Christ Jesus, I'm a praying but cut the chase kind of woman. Spiritualy u are protected, if only u believe God exist and u listen to some advice and perhaps subtle warning to things have seen ahead. If you can listen and adhere to it, then all will run smoothly. Cause most times the spiritual controls our physical life which some men don't believe . But it does.

A praying individual will not become a Prey.

I will teach how to pray ,if that's not one of your strong points. Then understand God better.

I'm a wonderful cook. Chai! I love home made meals to a fault.

I can support financially as well, but in the long term goals. I'm a giver, I'm not stingy except if I don't have at the moment or other ideas will come up on how to go about it.

By the grace of God I'm a strong lady emotionally, nothing surprises me anymore . And I have a great wonderful shock absorber in case of emergencies., I don't panic in tough situations

That's what I'm bringing to the table.


I hope that's fair from my side?

cvibe2:
Why do you have so much anger and bitterness in you?
Have you got a comprehension challenge?

I seem to have touched a wrong nerve in you, but hey you didn't have to display the Hallmarks and Trademarks of an evening newspaper.

No be only evening newspaper , na midnight newspaper.

At least I'm still intact and frosh from una rooving dicks ,looking for whom to impregnate and dump next. Nonsense


Who asked you for your unsolicited advice and you are the worst of them all.

Bloody hypocrite.

Don't go and look after your babymamas and kids littered everywhere.

Smhhhh

cvibe2:
Warning to all the ladies applying for Obodo Oyinbo husband.

Whatever you do, just don't let him impregnate you before marriage, Or before you collect your Visa to go and join him in his base abroad.

If not, sorry is your case...if you want experience, I will show you two different young ladies that all these Obodo oyinbo guys have impregnated with I want to marry you and take you abroad.

These two young ladies are seating with babies now, no marriage, no Visa, no abroad, no or scanty child support from the "I want to marry you and take you abroad"

The guys have long returned to their abroad, hardly send child support, the ladies have been turned to baby Mama's and left alone to care for the kids. The ladies are looking depressed and dejected everyday.
I feel for them


biacan
Victorian
Preshy561
Ibkayee

Don't say I didn't tell you.
My own 50cents.

You are nuts!

Do u think. I don't have experience from guys abroad asking for wives?


You must be stupid mentioning my name . Better go and help those two friends of yours saddled with babies and left on their own by their abroad bobo .

Na today, I have experience with abroad guys? Have u gone mad?

When I said I'm not interested I wasn't joking or saying it for fun!

Useless Cretin.

Do you know how many abroad guys I'm chatting with? Or known for many years till date. None has impregnated me or left me with a baby or babies.

Most Guys in Nigeria that are so useless, only thing them know na to fucvk fucvk upandan, leaving millions of girls pregnant and as baby mama's. Every nook and corner u will see single moms, no husband. And you are there typing rubbish! Single ladies who are intact with no kids are becoming extinct and u are there spewing trash! About abroad guys. Only God knows how many innocent girls uv impregnate and turned to after one. Ode oshi.

Jealousy will not kill you as you read ladies online excitedly send their CVS to guys abroad. When the ones in Nigeria are so useless . Work u won't work! Even when u work, stinginess kill una there! No responsible girl takes u serious anymore.

Marry you won't marry, Na to play girls up and down, leaving them pregnant.

Village hegoat!

TooMuchStuff:
Wow...! Maybe when am in Lagos ..
I will check out the church

That will be so nice of you

Will expect you. Just hala at me , you will love every moment spent in our worship service.

Cool!

Toks2008:
Lol!

Nah you frosh pass.

But your own na follow come o!

Biko invite me to UK, make I join your govt finally.

No shaking!!!

TooMuchStuff:
U have a branch in FCT?

Only in Lagos, mainland, for now.

It's a new church itself, created this year.

Palmgrove, to be precise.

Fine most frosh looking Toks2008 , I sight you o

I'm loyal to your govt.

TooMuchStuff:
U have a point. Serious point to learn from.
The Grace is sufficient for us.

That's the point.
God's grace is sufficient for us all, if only we believe.

I'm glad u are seeing it in this angle as well

TooMuchStuff:
Hmmmm... !
Every new creature in Christ is already Blessed....!
But there remain the Journey of eternal life on earth that requires warfare by design of God.

There are levels of blessings. There are unique battle for individuals that must be fought and won to fulfil destinies..! 2Cor 10:4.
Bless u

Amen

My dear, if it's battle fighting for destinies to be won?

I have fought battles all through my life spiritually with war waging spiritual pastor's and churches. I have done deliverance sessions in many churches. until few months I met with Reverend Thompson, he prayed with me and said Vicky, u don fight battles enough what u need now is to enjoy the remaining years of my youth.
And he's right

I'm done with fighting battles and screaming die die in Jesus name.

God has taken control of my battles, na to relax and enjoy the dividends of the seeds sown naim remain.



Have hung my boots on battles, God is on top of that section all by Himself.
Thank you

TooMuchStuff:
Wow......! What an awesome worship centre.. !

Is it a new church? Family Church or u .....?

Thanks

It's a new church, founded and created by Reverend Thompson a great man of God and a ardent believer of the word.

He says he's not concerned about fighting witches and wizards, he not concerned about waging wars on evil beings but he's more concerned on God"s Grace and favours overshadowing ones life.

Cos everything he has today is all about the Grace of God

Now is the time for people to start enjoying favours from God. Enough of fighting spiritual wars of death . Na Blessings he present, not die die die.

And he's right.

TooMuchStuff:
Living faith Church. ......and u..?

My new church is Charis covenant church

TooMuchStuff:
U funny.....!
Winners Chapel..... ABJ.

How?

I honestly don't know the meaning of Lfc


OK winners chapel

Nice one!

TooMuchStuff:
Lfc

Full meaning biko

biacan:
That was what he said nah

Lol

You be real case!

Just contact the main guy involved and hear directly from the horses mouth.

Then both of you can come to feasible agreement on whether na UK or canada, if he choose you.

Simple