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lefulefu:

Lol


Funny you

biacan:
Thought you said we can change location

Hahahahahahah

My belle ooo

Lol

lefulefu:
oya oo victorian

Lefulefu if I break your bones! U go leave me alone.

RandyX:
My sister it is not a competition, this guy is just looking for someone to settle down with and I asked to help him out by posting it here. I believe if something is meant for you no one can drag it with you. I'm pretty certain the guy in question is not after raunchy stuff so that shouldnt discourage you. If you think I have gone about it the wrong way and have a better suggestion please let me know.

No prob I understand . U didn't do anything the wrong way.

But I'm in my 30s.

He needs 22-26 Years lady.

So let it rest pls.

Don't mind lefulefu and his persistent nature

lefulefu:
u dat look like one beautiful halfcaste chinco with portable headlamps for front .make u send pics oo.d guy fit fall

Lol.



Let the matter rest jare.

He's needs a lady of 22-26.

I'm in my 30s, so lemme seat my assz down jeje.

At least I can ready and understand simple request and English.

E don do ooooo

Matter closed!

lefulefu:
aghh

Hahahahahahahah


Lefulefu, i don't deal in faceless date and a date that requires lots of ladies to contact him. Biko I no join the band wagon

I hate competing for a man's attention. I can imagine how many gazillion ladies have sent mails, CVS, raunchy pics and all.

I don't need such competition in my life right now

Gone are those days I use to compete. Not anymore.
What will be , will be.

lefulefu:
hmm very nice
Victorian
biacan
ibkayee
jodha
etc
are u interested?
available jardon based bachelor looking for home base wifey
hurry while d offer last

I'm not interested. Others should try their luck.

He could be a great catch, but not for me. I wish you girls best of luck

Mummyimbecile:
i dont intend to have any lengthy discussion on this matter,no guy can say that to a lady when asked such a question..

What the OP said is true,and what am saying is also true,the truth is always bitter!

And if what you said about contributing to the betterment of you guys life is true,then kudos to you!

Have heard it not once or twice face to face.

It's even on family section sef! Such stupid questions asked by guys.

https://www.nairaland.com/5220479/what-women-bring-table


The guys here are asking ladies what are they bringing to the table. That's why they are now quiet like mouse!

Shameless guys with no morals and sense of responsibility are asking ladies such!
So why shouldn't I ask a guy same thing? Shebi u guys want everybody to be selfish and self centred in relationships and that's what's brewing already. Selfishness in the highest order.

But Anyways I dey look face before I ask such. I can sense a responsible do well guy when I see him. But at the end , you feel awkward I'm asking a guy such abi?
That's how we ladies feel.

You guys should have a taste of your own medicine and know how it feels asking insensitive questions to ladies.

Anyways guys can say whatever they like and do whatever they like, I'm less concerned. Women who wants to suffer in the hands of men, it's their choice. Life is all about choices.

There are guys and there are still real men around , who knows what it takes to have a good woman as a companion and who knows what it means to share between themselves.
A relationship where both share what they have between each other is always so sweet and the bond deepens. Cause u know u can count on her and she can count on you.

liberalchick:
Sorry Nigerian guys brought this on themselves, what we are witnessing is a symptom of the excessive materialism in our culture. In the 90s and early 00s, girls were happy to receive mix tapes, handmade cards or a wooden frame with an insert of your portrait as gifts. Then internet came, ‘yahoo yahoo’ came and the game changed.

Nigerians always have some need to show off their wealth or believe the success of a man can only be measured by his wealth. Nigerians will rather worship money THAN intellect. Nigerian society only respect people with money. Who better to show off this new wealth to than girls? As time went on Nigerian men started throwing money at girls to prove they were the best suitor for her affections. The more need to show off the higher the financial expectations became.

Black Americans girls chase Nigerian dudes even though they say they’re sexist because, Nigerian guys have a reputation of out SPENDING men of other race/culture.

For example, ‘The act of proposing’, before girls were ok getting engaged without a ring. Then, boys started buying rings and the rings became more expensive. Now one dude upped the ante and started the whole ‘public proposal with a car’ now it’s almost a norm in our culture to propose with an elaborate gift and show off on Instagram.

Sorry the chickens have come home to roost.

As in ehn?

Mummyimbecile:
you are not making sense at all,in a bid to make sense,you did the opposite!.....

So it is only the guy that will bring something to the table,you,How will you improve the life of the guy....Naija girls tire me,Honestly!

Na dem! I say na dem ooo

I made alot of sense! You are simply dodging the obvious.

I have so much I have brought into my man's life, and he knows it.

But this new guy had nothing but sex to bring into a relationship.

Simply nothing.

Shebi u guys love asking girls: what are You bringing into the relationship?

Now I'm asking what are u bringing into this relationship if I say yes let's date?

What's the purpose of this relationship, u want us to start? Tell me nah? I asked first!

Cat caught your tongue?

TooMuchStuff:
For Christ

Wow!


That's awesome!


Nice one!

Which church do u attend?

If I talk now? All the broke and stingy guys will start screaming on my mentions like wounded lions.

Sighs

OK lemme shoot this shot! To hell with the wailing and curses I will receive later online. No be today, yansh dey back! It's not new to me anymore.

First, I'm in a relationship o, so don't get it twisted.

When guys woo me, I ask them, what are u bringing to the table if I agree to date you?

He will say like what?

I will look at this guy, u are asking me like what?
I say what are u bringing to the table of this relationship if I accept to date you? What's the plan here??
For my mind, I'm already thinking is trying to play dumb or what? Or does he have ear problems?

He will be like hmm ok I will show the kind of love, uv never experienced before? Have u experienced squirting? Have u climaxed to high heavens before with any guy?

I look at him, climax? Squirt? Are you for real? Do I look like sex is my problem?
Jeez!

Is that all u wish to add into my life?

Sighs


Guy! Biko, If sex is all u can offer? Then sorry, count me out! I have past that level since! I'm thinking of higher goals, than just fucvk fucvk Fuvck! I take God beg you date another girl abeg.

All they can offer is just Sex!

Jeez!


Let the screaming on my mentions begin

TooMuchStuff:
A Radical

Wow!

Interesting

Radical in what sense?

Please explain more? Or u are an atheist?

TooMuchStuff:
Welcome...!
Was actually admiring u...and your courage..!

Awwww

Thanks dear.

In life one must have courage to face any situation, or else the society and life itself will swallow up the person without remorse. And to have such courage is in Christ Jesus.

Are u a Christian or Muslim?

Bossjakande:
1. Call him by a pet name
2. Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the
family.
3. DO not challenge him when he is hurt.
4. Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment with apology n explain why you
behave that way that annoyed him.
5. Be quick to say "I'm sorry dear" when ever you
offend him, insist on his forgiveness,appreciate and kiss him when he does.
6. Speak good of him before his Friends and siblings.
7. Honor his mother
8. Insist that he buys gift for his parents and so be
sure that he will do same for your parents
9. Surprise him with his favorite dish especially when
he has no money at hand and never delay his food.
10. Do not allow the maid to serve him food when you are at home. Because u may lose him to her.
11. Give him a warm reception with an embrace when
he returns, collect his luggage and help UnCloth him.
12. Smile when you look at him and give him
occasional pecks when you are out socially.
13. Praise him before your children sometimes.
14. Wash his back while he is in the tub or shower.
15. Put love note in his lunch box or briefcase.
16. Phone and tell him that you miss him.
17. Dial his number and on hearing "hello" just tell him
I love you.
18. If he is a public figure or a politician, gently wake him at the early hours of the morning and romance him to the point of demand. He will not be entice by any
other woman that day.
19. Tell him how lucky you are to have him as your
husband.
20. Give him a hug for no reason.
21. Appreciate God for the Adam of your life.
22. Always remember to pray for him.
23. Pray together and also pray together before going to bed in the evening...
www.jakandeola.com

Nice advice but if you can do all these to your woman or wife as well, except the number two part. Change it to always appreciate her support and submissiveness towards you, as the head. Don't take her for granted.

Then alas! The world will be a better place to live in. There wont be divorce. We all live happily ever after.

No be only man like pampering and adoration. Women do as well. We are human beings as well not Automated machines.

Hahahaahahahaha

Davido sef!

It's not easy having 6 packs with flat tummy. Lol

Odikwa risky

See his face like OBO

TooMuchStuff:
Why naaa!

Cause we have sick, psychotics people on this forum, who uses ones past , copy and paste it, then twist the story up for their own advantage to mock someone or reduce the morale of the person.
It has happened several times to me here. They use my story and testimonies against me

So it's best to delete everything. I thought I was educating normal people online about my experiences, I never knew I was shooting myself on the foot

Since I deleted everything, no one is copying and pasting my stories anymore against me. I thank God.

Make the condemnation from guys against me in this forum, reduce at least.

But I will always say the truth, take it or leave it, that's just me.

kurlz:
And he couldnt put a ring on it?

Some Guys are like that.
They can date forever cause they know placing a ring on it means new extra responsibilities are on the way. And I bet you most Nigerian men of today fear responsibilities like plague. They prefer milking the cow for free.
Why pay for it?

And such idea and thoughts is the most selfish, self centered, inhumane kind of thoughts a man can ever have to a lady he claims to love.

koife:
I will try and keep my write up simple. I wish to apologize as I am a bad writer than a speaker.
I met this young lady sometime in 2013 via fb. Feelings was mutual as we graduated from messenger to whatsapp. We got so fond of each other, yes, I can say we were in love. Her first visit to my base proved it all. Like every relationship, we had our ups and down and I was committed in making sure we stayed together no matter the odds. If she does something wrong, I would be first to apologize…let say, I wanted to be the perfect guy.
At the time, I was jobless but soon had admission to run MSc in NDA, I proceeded, while she had a job in abj after series of fasting and prayer. I proposed to her and she accepted but my new fiancée suddenly changed, she would break up with me at slightest provocation, block me on all social media, and would go weeks/days until I beg and beg….our relationship continued in more struggling manner. I rounded up my MSc and returned to Calabar. Things got worse, she would not call, would threaten to leave me any time we had misunderstanding. She finally did break up in 2016, and asked that she returned the ring I gave her. I was distressed, hurt and felt betrayed, she told me to move on as she has already moved on. I survived, the guys she left me for jilted her, her mom and the guys mom had misunderstanding on wedding date (her testimony), she marriage plans broke down……long and short, they broke up. She came back begging me and narrating all she went through and her being infected by the guy…..i stood by her and got her treated, we kinda found a way to mend the cracks. She promised not to repeat same mistake again. Being someone, I loved dearly, we continued.
She soon found another guy and this time she didn’t hide it…openly told me she has no more feelings for me that she loved the new guy. One of those days I travelled to benue for best mans duties, she sent me breakup text in church, while sited behind my friend. I cried and my friend (the groom) and other grooms’ men rallied to put me in shape for the occasion. It dawned on me I was like a spare tyre to her. I would call her and she wouldn’t pick, as usual blocked me via all social media. I begged through her mother, sister, brother, my sisters and friends but all to no avail. I was broke, no job, no future, no hope….i was struggling with life, life wasn’t fair!!. One of those days, she told me she can never marry me, that even if she did, she would divorce me anyways. Said she doesn’t want to marry me out of pitty!! I felt stabbed the day she picked my call, just to drive the knife in my heart, she left the phone so I can hear her making out with the guy…her moan and all, heard the guys ask her at the background who it was, she said its (mentioning my name), that she has told me to leave her alone
I threw myself to God….God is real, I soaked myself in his service. I asked he forgive me for I had believed in man. I would go days without N500, at age 34….was still living with my parents, I tried all forms of business and none was coming through. I knew I needed a breakthrough….God found for me a shepherded in a certain church in calabar, the man took me in search of gods face.
I started seeing little improvement. Had marketing job in one of leading banks in Nigeria, completed my audio message and launched it same year and dedicated it to God. Had admission I USA, collected my MSc certificate. My faith was rekindled, I could feel God hands in all I did…..even in the simplest of things. During my faith walk with GOD, I met a lady who was kind, respectful and loving, she was everything I needed during my ebb moment. Would cook inside flask and bring to office for me…bought me undies, this girl was everything good. Few weeks in, I told her ill marry her, she and her friends laughed me to scorn coz they knew I was broke. More so, she was engaged to certain guy In UK, chances were too slim
A friend of mine from NLNG ship mgt who lived in my dads BQ before he had the job, came visiting calabar, he wasn’t happy with my situation. Gave an email and asked I sent my documents, time which I had already introduced the new girl to my father that I wanted to marry her, my brother laughed at me and asked where I intend to get the money from but my dad shut them up before the lady….this lady believed in me, she opened good fortune door. I was called for interview and was successful…though as SSCE holder level, I needed a changed. I accepted the offer in USD, 6 digits Naira eqv. Long and short, God showed up mightily, we got married in less than a year and I was able to foot the bills all by myself, exactly one year after my best mans duties…..a year plus after my ex breakup.
Now the twist;
I returned to sea, few weeks after my return to nja/marriage around January ending. My ex came unblocking me and accusing me of being wicked. That I lied I didn’t have money. Asked where the money came from suddenly, said I had my wife under cover all along. That someone told her about my wedding…..saying all manner of things. I don’t blame her, its hard to imagine how far God had taken me in less than two years. God surprised me…..i cant say how it happened myself. She begged that during those times she left me, I cursed her that she demand I revoke my curses, that the guy she left me for is no more with her that she is in another shaky relationship. Couldn’t help but feel for her. Ladies and men, beware of those you hurt. Watch who you laugh at….no man knows tomorrow. Be careful who you mistreat, maltreat, lookdown on…..never hurt those who love you. You could be fighting Gods chosen
Karma is real, just 3years down the line
chat screen shuts in a bit
mode please push to fp for people to learn

Truly speaking, u had to go through those Hard knocks in life for you to seek God.

If she hadn't taken u to such extreme emotional hurt, you wouldn't have thought about God and fight through life with determination . Your ex was the one God used to push you to your glory .
It was necessary.

But thank God, you are restored and with a family join by the side.

God never fails, that's what some people don't know.
Seek Him, and u will Find Him.
Ask and it shall be given unto you.

Thank God uv found Christ.

He's not far from us.


Please change the title. It should be enemies Biko push us to our glory, open our eyes if we refuse to see! . Enemies think they are Destroying one, but instead they are making one stronger and more determined to succeed in life

Lucifer1419:
my guy way don chop ohar soup for the past 7years still go commit suicide, way him for they look for vegetable soup to chop clean mouth, him mumu get master degree.

He's foolishly inlove and obsessed

Why date woman for 7 years??

Some women get tired and fedup dating for years .

Make una dey use brain !

Some women can be nasty, chai!

Onyii just know everybody grows old, even you yourself will become old one day.

Na WA ooooo.

And I was bout complementing Angela that she looks pretty and lovely.

Some women! I pray never to make a terrible mistake coming close to ladies like onyii. God forbid. What a waste of human being!

Well, tough luck.

I have female friends and we don't destroy each other relationships, neither do we go behind to sleep with each other's man or husbands. I don't befriend single ladies who preach Christ. I know Christ already. women from other religions are the ones i keep close .

It's refreshing listening to them talk about their beliefs and all


Sorry Angela, next time choose carefully.

Sterope:
It is not about kneeling down. It is idea that it means submission, which itself is a concept I find silly.

I find both the act and meaning of it, very silly.

Honestly extremely silly.

In fact over silly

As in over the board silly.

In fact I dey vex!

ImaIma1:
Off course it's her problem. But she should not deceive and misinform people out there that it is kneeling down that keeps a man

Word!

Sterope:
Michelle Obama didn't kneel down for her husband. She married a former senator and a former president.

The Queen of Great Britain doesn't kneel for her husband but she is one of the most powerful woman in the world.

I did not say I will not kneel down. So Baba, kool your temper.

My sis, kneeling down is not the deal breaker.

Not all men are Into such archaic stuffs.

Enough said.

If she like let her roll on the Floor serve him. All men are not the same.

My mum, she was the fifth wife Of my dad. Very pretty very fair , with huge boobs and robust body. She was different from all his other four wives who were dark in complexion, one was short , another tall like a model, another average shape and another fat with huge hips, all were dark and my dad married all in one big house.

He brought my mum in, the rest were troubling her. He took her and us to a lovely flat, spent most of life with us. I was his favorite child
He set her up in business, he didn't set the rest up in biz. Her business grew and she built 3 houses! Yes 3 houses to her blessed memory. Both loved each till death do them apart and I never got once saw her Kneel down to service him food.

They even go on dinner dates, while we the kids smile with joy, seeing both of them well dressed going out to have fun time, without our screams and jumping up and down disturbing their peace.

His meals were always made quickly for him when hes home with us.

Even when other wives remarried when my dad died, my mum didn't remarry or have any other man as her companion until she died as well after 5years of his demise.
I love both of them to pieces. May their souls rest In peace amen

So forget kneeling down. Know your husband and treat him with love and respect shikena!

You can't blame Beyonce, before the woman will say JayZ raped her there and then in full glare of everyone.

JayZ sef bone after replying her.

Lol

Oyibo people own no dey pass rape , rape rape.

Wow!

Yankiss:
There is a difference between wearing good clothes, looking good and absolute nudity to near-nudity.

Exactly!

For me? If I where a man with wife, and she poses this way for all and sundry to see, even posting it online, it's a complete No for me.

Anyways her husband is old and white.

Shes giving out messages, she needs a black stud.

Anyways what do I know sef?

But it completely wrong posing half nude online for all to see. This is Nigeria not abroad. No wonder she went to Dubai for the shoot.

If na barbeach ,Lagos Nigeria, she try this shit! Boys will manhandle her before she leave the beach.

Fact#

fyneguy:
lol She will get married and her daughter may end up getting married before you.

Lol in your mind.

I'm already taken if you don't know.

Although You can marry her and her unborn daughter, Im not holding u back.

Abi I use chain hold you?

truthsayer009:
You're are always trying to Overstate what you do. If I remember clearly, last time I had a conversation with you 3 years ago.

You live in Mende, Maryland & I have a little idea of what you do, perhaps that has changed, no problem.

Well, I rest my case. If you say you're not, who am I to say otherwise.

Cheers!

You should know me already by now

I don't overstate Or sugar coat what I do for a living. People who have met me in person and interacted with me one on one, know exactly what I do for a living and it's no different from what I said few minutes ago
I know it sounds Incredible but that's exactly what I do for a living.

When one becomes a graduate of marine biology. Go through the four walls of one of the leading universities in Nigeria, we cant help but redefined ,re-brand our career by creating a special niche for ourselves in any industry we chose to belong in. It's a choice.

That's why it's good to be enlightened and properly educated, it helps in the growth of life , career, business , family and the total well being of an individual.

Anyways my case is different, that's who I am. No apologies.

I simply think out of the box.