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RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 1:56pm On Feb 06, 2019
peepydelano:
dont give up easily,obviously he has an emotional battle to overcome,you can help him and afterwards you take your decision.
Exactly! He has learnt his lessons the hard way and he's remorseful about it.

I think she should give him another chance. We all make mistakes one way or the other.

And she should always keep her quarrels with bf offline and away from female friends online, cos the ones here are terrible back stabbers. That's the truth.

If I quarrel with my man nobody knows, if we make up nobody knows, if we don't? Either way, it's nobody's business. Have learnt thru the years to solve my emotional problems on my own without a third party, cos I don't need complications in either moving on or making things work. I'm not a kid, I know what's right and wrong, so why should bring my issues to a faceless forum? Hell no.

Make una remember Valentine is around the corner O cheesy
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 1:48pm On Feb 06, 2019
Auladimeji:
Good for nothing rusty shameless hooker.las las na Benz dem go use you do
cheesy cheesy grin grin grin grin

Chai! cheesy

Pity her small nah cheesy

Mehn! So savage! cheesy

Lol.
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 1:02pm On Feb 06, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
This went straight to d heart. I've forgiven you But I fear I can't be that person. I'm not independent enough, matured enough. I know fate will give you the second chance you deserve at making things right. Be Strong, be very strong if not for anything but for your son. I know you'll find her soon. Thanks.
Sighs sad sad sad sad
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 12:12pm On Feb 06, 2019
Yigiyaga:
Obim as you fondly call me,babym we misunderstood each other yesterday and flew into rage over nothing. It was not about the money but the insult i percieved in the asking. You agreed you asked wrongly and apologised but my defence mechanism had been activated and the thoughts of my ex and all she put me through came flooding my mind. Run!! Run!! Please run now!! my mind kept telling me even as hard as i tried to resist it.
I Wasted 6 years of my youth dating the wrong person and 9years trying to make a marriage work,yet i had to abandon the marriage and everything i had laboured for just to save my life. All the fun you and your friends poked at my broken marriage never hurt me one bit because im probably supposed to be in a lonley graveyard unable to take those jabs. I need time to disable my aggressive defence mechanism but i dont need any time to know that i truly love you.


Nwanyiawkaetiti
sacx: Exactly y i want ur help.
Victorian thank you for your encouragement.

I apologise once again to NL.
Awwww cheesy That's so sweet. It's eventually turning into a romantic story

Nice!!! cheesy

Eeyah smiley Don't worry she will come back to you. It's just a matter of time.

smiley
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 11:21am On Feb 06, 2019
Yigiyaga:
It is not shakara,it is fear. Needed more time to be sure it's love.
OK, both of you should be calm, think about it thoroughly before plunging in fully.

Best of luck smiley
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 11:19am On Feb 06, 2019
Valerie47:
Where is your pastor boyfriend?
Radio without battery, did I call your name?

Face front biko

Im not like Op, so don't get it twisted.

Hypocrite!
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 9:24am On Feb 06, 2019
Raalsalghul:
Oh my God.
You've reverted back to default mode with this your no sex talk.
Next we gonna hear about is your God fearing boyfriend. undecided
Please copy and paste, where I said I want to have sex with yigiyaga or with any guy here.
Cause it seems u cannot read and understand simply sentences.

Anyways u may it or not? That's your problem. You are the least of my tasks this morning smiley

I have a man and he's on Nairaland , he's a born again and for your information I still love him so much, even with all the rubbish that happened yesterday between I and some women who ganged up against me because of one faceless man. Lol.

But still i thank God for yesterday drama, it clearly shows people will definitely hate, no matter how plain one is? And me? I'm not ready to please anyone. Except my God, my biz and my man.
God is my number one husband, followed by my man. smiley we simply do not have issues on that understanding.


You can see when a guy and a lady talks about sex sex sex , for at least 80percent of their discussions or chats. Sexual tension piles up and they would want to have it badly on the first moment they set their eyes on each other. I thank God mine is not based on sex .

The Op, got caught up sexually with their chats from last year till January, the bf knew and that's why he was making yanga towards her.
I pray and hope they end up married , after all the sex. Now, sex has not occurred and she's this hurt. Just imagine when sex occurs all through the year, and God forbid they end up not married?
How do u think she will feel? She may go AWOL! And only God knows what she will do to him.
Or she will certainly open another thread later on and talk about what happened between them in an abstract way and himself will come up and defend himself again. Sighs, the same cycle of bashing of words, all over again.

Anyways Nwaeketiti, word of advice : any issues u have going on with your bf, don't spill it out online, try and manage the situation, calm down and later u guys talk about it. Guys make shakara when they know the woman is dying for them. U need to make your own Shakara too and withdraw. Don't come online and talk about it. It won't help the situation. Later when he's calm too he will contact you.
But spilling out his marital status, his life online is not good. Try keep certain private things of your partner to yourself or talk to a friend who is offline.

Lastly Yigiyaga, if you know u are not ready for marriage? Don't have sex o! You can't eat your cake and have it. Be serious and focused on Nwa. This one no be chop clean mouth and waka o!

And lastly I'm a delta babe! No shaking! cool
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 10:32pm On Feb 05, 2019
luminouz:
I was talking of the OP and yigiyaga or yoyoyaya guy!!!
U can chat with him if u want to of course!!! wink
I know I can chat him up, we've even chatted sef

It's no big deal in chat.
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 10:31pm On Feb 05, 2019
jakandeola:
lalas247 meet her bobo here skarlett meet her guy here vizkiz and rosieluv meet here bibijay123 and crazygod meet here.sexybbstar met her guy here. forget that thing you can meet ur hubby here if God say so. pocohantas you can meet ur guy here.
Exactly! They were behaving as if men scarce!

For me, I don't have issues with scarcity of male toasters. So they shouldn't get it twisted. I don't even know how the yigiyaga look sef, even till now.

Honestly the women here dissapointed me sha.

Thank God, I have funmistiqueen as a dear friend and sister. The rest can go to blazes. Honestly I was shocked about all their attitudes today. Very annoying and childish!
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 10:26pm On Feb 05, 2019
jakandeola:
uyailncomparabl am in pains today am not a kind of guy to attack woman wit bad words like hoe and prostitude but u got me mad wen u insult my girl I dont have any issue wit u as for those Preshy Victoria funmisticqueen valerie47 stephleena no need to fight let and d mata
I'm not fighting them

They are the ones threathening and insulting me. And I can't just keep mum while some bunch of women throw my name in the mud, because I want to chat with a guy here.
No sir! I don't accept rubbish from anyone. I will fight back.
It's so unfortunate that some women here loose their minds and reasoning, when they see a guy they fancy chatting with another lady. Very shocking today.

I tell you, I was shocked but I fought a good fight! grin

My calm face doesn't mean am that calm.

And I also played along with yigiyaga at the end, not because I want him. But I was simply angry at the women! OK do your worst then! I will chat him. It's! Kill ya selves cool
Make una do the worst! No shaking!

At the end Uyi wanted to use jazz on me, I was like really? On top man?!!

Na WA o! She will get the shock of her life if she tries it.
Na back to sender straight! No mercy. I'm not that naive weak lady she probably think I am. I have Jesus! I have God! And His power is supreme above all small Powers! I fear no one! That's the truth!

smiley
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 10:13pm On Feb 05, 2019
luminouz:
Lmaoooo..I tell u
I told the girl to accept his calls and settle amicably. who knowshuh Next week might be interesting!!!
Let them reconcile Biko cool

There is no smashing on my side.

Abstinence is the key for me.

I simply want to chat with him. And that's not a crime in any part of this world.

He can smash whosoever he wants but not me cool

My case is different. cheesy
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 8:47pm On Feb 05, 2019
funmisticqueen:
yes. Learn to spell it correctly
grin


You sef! cheesy


Oh Lord! Chai! grin
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 7:35pm On Feb 05, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:
Alright. Watch me. smiley
Smiles

You honestly think your Jazz! With witchcraft combine will work on me? cheesy

You are still a small child! You! And all your cohorts of evil! Una power no reach! Try me! Idiotic child! angry

Try it! And u will know, who is who!

I pity your life and family! angry
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 7:32pm On Feb 05, 2019
funmisticqueen:
would y'all stop pronouncing my monicker with a ghetto Yoruba accent. It is irritating.
grin
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 7:29pm On Feb 05, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:
Victorian, I'd have loved to teach you a lesson outside of this forum, not because I hate you or stuff, but because you need to be taught that lesson with rigidity and no pity.

You don't mess with people and walk away scot-free.
Reallyhuh

Wow! Am scared already

Useless bitch! angry
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 6:24pm On Feb 05, 2019
Yigiyaga:
Baby reply my message pls who cares about some disgruntled woman and her collection of witches who are pissed that i pulled back from a relationship trap.
Ok
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 5:32pm On Feb 05, 2019
Yigiyaga:
Thunder fire you and admin401. I am looking for a woman with brains not a woman for her body. So should i continue for d sex? Hell no! Im not that cheap. F00ls!
Correct! grin
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 5:31pm On Feb 05, 2019
CreamyBanana:
no mind them. na jealousy and frustration dey cause am. see as dem gang up like sey na you say make dem no progress for life. forget them. do whatever you wan do. no be dem dey buy subscription put for your phone. na you get your phone and your subscription and the fingers wey you dey use type.
Honestly pure frustrations grin

Thanks dear smiley
RomanceRe: erious by victorian(f): 5:27pm On Feb 05, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:
I thought you were going to say something to annoy me right now. I'd have smitten your mouth to bread crumbs.
I don't need wasting my precious time on you, you've shown whom u are already all by yourself, without help from anyone cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

You are a shamelessly prostitute. Any woman who has u as friend, has an enemy as friend. You will simply collect her husband easy!

Tufia! angry
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 5:25pm On Feb 05, 2019
CreamyBanana:
guys, if una toast girls for here and you break up, no come dey wash the girl for here. the thing no nice. if you no wan pay tf, tell the girl. no come dey wash the girl for here. make we dey try use our brains. wetin the girl do you wey you wan come dey wash am like that? my guy, yigi abi na yaga, no dey try that kind thing again o. man we dem train well no dey behave that way. i no dey take nonsense from women but i dey respect women.

as for girls wey dey attack Victorian, nawa for una o. why you dey attack the girl because sey she wan shoot shots? una come put the matter for head like sey Victorian thief una husbands? if una hate the girl, no problem. no be everybody we go like. but make una no dey use this kind tactic dey gang up on your fellow woman. the thing wet funny pass be sey many of una dey do worse. but because una be hypocrites, una want make Victorian dey shoot her shot like hypocrites wey una be.
God bless you Bros!

And the real fact of everything, I didn't have the intention to even shoot shot. I only wanted to chat with and try understand what happened between him. And nwaketiti outside this forum. I'm not the kind of lady that likes spreading any dirty lining online. I don't talk about my problems online especially in relationships, cos Im very private with my love life issues.

So I was like lemme chat up this guy and know what's up? That's all but quickly all the evil women here ganged up on me saying I want to date him, raining insults on me from left, right and center. Whereas they all have agenda to even go woo him in the midst of chaos.

Can u imagine? Honestly thank God, all their secrets has been revealed!

That's why I flared up and give them the insults of their life's

All bloody hypocrites claiming to be holy. angry
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 3:43pm On Feb 05, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Bia Calm down with the Insults Biko. Ogini du!
I hate back stabbers and these snakes around you, just show whom they are! Jeez!

Lemme insult their miserable life's well! Hoeloshos them.

Smhhhhh
RomanceRe: erious by victorian(f): 3:42pm On Feb 05, 2019
UyaiIncomparabl:
Don't let us start. You'll run in the end. Don't just let that imbecilic monkey put you in trouble. I'm warning you now. Fake ass bitch.
Fucvk off!

No sense!

Do u think I'm as desperate as u all!

Use your advice on yourself!
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 3:40pm On Feb 05, 2019
Paxie55:
Shameless hoe begging idiot.
How many guys do you need to send pms to.
You get luck seh I deh busy today. grin grin
Was expecting your usual long epistles.
Am done with you since!

Your case is closed.
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 3:39pm On Feb 05, 2019
Raalsalghul:
Hmmm. Maybe the content of the chat sha. Well, I'm going to assume it was a business related chat. Rather than spitting venom help clarify things now. We don't need all this. Can y'all kiss and make up.
They didn't even care what I wanted to chat with him about

They started insulting me , saying all sorts!

Are they mad? Are they useless in life?

Are they so desperate for a man's dick that they cannot reason correctly anymore?

I was like what's wrong with these useless women online?
If they frustrated in getting married, I didn't cause their frustrations in life.
Nonsense!
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 3:37pm On Feb 05, 2019
I can now smile with content.

Other people can now see how shameless all of you women are

God forbid!

Bloody back stabbers! Claiming to have nwa best interest at heart.

Mtchewww!

Bye bye to bad rubbish at the Hoeloshos insulting me here.
You all will never do well in life! Amen!
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 3:34pm On Feb 05, 2019
Valerie47:
F**king desperate old bitch looking like a swollen fufu, what are you? 39? 40?
Hahahahahahahahah cheesy


Fowl Yansh don open! See your life outside!

Useless prostitute

Gerrout!
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 3:33pm On Feb 05, 2019
Uglymugg:
hahahhaah wow ahahahahav grin grin grin grin grin
What do u think I wanted to say to him offline?
Dirty mind.

At least I didn't cause commotion online and go behind everyone to ask him out.

You all are just useless!


Nwaketiti insulting me, whereas her supporters and fighters are already sending him. Messages.. Lol

Unbelievable!
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 3:27pm On Feb 05, 2019
Paxie55:
You are trying to salvage your already online dirty linen.
Come on, how much has your online gold digging leech of a boyfriend asked you to deposit in his account before you send that pm? grin
Lol cover your face in shame

Idiot!
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 3:25pm On Feb 05, 2019
Paxie55:
Madam, are you no longer married to your imaginary husband or dating your churchy boyfriend?

Why are you being an online hoe? You that's always crying on how guys have ripped off your pussy, scatter your clit and broadened your vagina?

Come on, let's do this.
Shut up!

U useless hoe!

Prostitute! Hoelosho like your dirty self talking to me

You must be mad!

Useless idiot!

Jealousy go kill all of una!

Ntor!
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 3:24pm On Feb 05, 2019
Paxie55:
Madam, are you no longer married to your imaginary husband or dating your churchy boyfriend?

Why are you being an online hoe? You that's always crying on how guys have ripped off your pussy, scatter your clit and broadened your vagina?

Come on, let's do this.
Shut up!

U useless hoe!

Prostitute! Hoelosho like your dirty self talking to me

You must be mad!

Useless idiot!

Jealous go kill all of una!

Ntor!
RomanceRe: Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. by victorian(f): 3:22pm On Feb 05, 2019
Valerie47:
Uyi shot her own shot at the right thread but you doing yours at the wrong thread to show how desperate and shameless you are, I just pray you don't die single, I can only help but buy you a Love Machine.
Ode!

See what shes saying?

Can u just listen to yourself!

Had not even thrown any shot!

You devils have already pounced on my words

God punish you! Idiot!

Can u imagine? What the fool is saying

Gerrout!

Nonsense!

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