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RomanceRe: Fuckboys Are Just Too Much In Nigeria by victorian(f): 12:55pm On Jan 30, 2019
wetdick:
so why you dey vex. i am quoting all the passages that says you shouldn't starve him since you are very religious

born again boys always receive the bad part of the fruit
I'm baffled , you're so obssessed with our sex lives

Huncle? Face front biko

We no ask you for directions .

Some men aproko na wa o
RomanceRe: Fuckboys Are Just Too Much In Nigeria by victorian(f): 12:47pm On Jan 30, 2019
Rextizz:
She won't listen to me, since you are a lady like her, maybe she will.
I don't advice ladies , I don't know or I'm not in close relationship with , even though I'm also a lady . I respect my space and other people's space as well.
But for a man , your pokenosing na wa o

Abeg , who do you like this ?
RomanceRe: Fuckboys Are Just Too Much In Nigeria by victorian(f): 12:44pm On Jan 30, 2019
wetdick:
My God, that man will suffer konji die, what a wasted life, how can you be reading the bible when Bleep dey hungry person, No abeg, i didnt come to this world to come and be rooted in the teaching of the christ when wife dey and she no dey give good fucking. a sexless married man is a frausted man.

for your husband to be lusting after , you, dont you knw it is a good stuff and every woman love that. i now understand why you love those born again men, they wont be able to speak their mind. o girl! na mumu you want for husband.

even in 1 Corinthians 7:5, the bible wrote it clearly, Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

1 Corinthians 7:3, The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband.

1 Corinthians 7:9,But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
But wait ! What's your own on how we live our sexual lives in marriage ?

If I starve him or he starves me , its certianly not your buisness or if we decide to fucvk all night and day, 24/7, 365 times in a year for many many years , its still none of your concern sad

This one u carry our matter for head like gala? Even quoting passages of bible ontop

Biko, Who do you like this?? huh
RomanceRe: Fuckboys Are Just Too Much In Nigeria by victorian(f): 12:32pm On Jan 30, 2019
Rextizz:
Baddest African China, but seriously you suppose dey advise pocohantas, fvcking those small boys won't help her in anyway, sometimes when I see how single and frustrated she is, it hurts me.
Sorry but I don't know her and we are not close .

Nothing stops u from advicing her . no need placing me in between.
RomanceRe: Fuckboys Are Just Too Much In Nigeria by victorian(f): 12:23pm On Jan 30, 2019
Raalsalghul:
Typical
Sorry to say but your boyfriend is a beta male. No offense, just the truth.
The stuff you just said is the schemings of the mind from the average Nigerian female.
Hop and ride dicks while young and then past 30 years of age become a church sister to lure in one broda for church for marriage.
It's a pity the poor guy fell for it.
I would have believed you were a real born again provided you still maintained your virgin status.
Well, other guys fit fall for am. No be me. Not for once do I believe you are a born again.
You just doing this stuff to lure in some nice guy to put that ring on it. It's all by the book. cheesy
Anyway congrats, your scam is working. Again I mean no offense. I'm just saying the truth. undecided
Its not scam either dating a born again or been focused in serving God in truth and spirit .

And so far , God has been blessing , protecting and taking very good care of me .

If my God knows I'm not scaming Him or my man , who are you to judge me from your lame man's view?

I simply don't want to be a divorcee after some years down the lane .

And whether beta male or alpha male ? I don't consider such as long as he has almost everything I desire in a man . He's perfect for me .


But come to think of it , You are there messing up girls upandan and you are so proud of yourself , not knowing u are carrying curses of lots of girls, uv dated and dumped and date . do u know why I will not go for a lame man like yourself ?

You guys carry curses from your ex's , which u then transfer to any woman u end up marrying ! That's the plain truth !

A born again guy is already free from any curse any woman would wish to place on him and the family lives a peaceful life thereafter , as long as they are a praying family.

But alpha male guys like yourself carry extreme curses that starts affecting the new family , u are so proud of ,and per at venture u marry a virgin? Her eyes will see pepper not knowing where spiritual and physical attacks is coming from , until she digs deep spiritually before she will understand her alpha male husband has been cursed by different women in his past!

Bros! Its that bad . So its for your own good to give your life to Christ , for the blood of Jesus Christ to wash off any lingering swear that could be following u and your lineage . am serious .

Serve God in truth and in spirit

Think about it .
RomanceRe: Fuckboys Are Just Too Much In Nigeria by victorian(f): 12:11pm On Jan 30, 2019
wetdick:
this woman no go make men laugh. so you became born again after the non-born again boys have dealt with you.now the born again boys are now the best, boys wey go dey fear to Bleep you or wey go to fear to slide in sometimes for night. you go starve those boys even for marriagesmiley

anyway, sex infact brings freshness and happiness to women, if a woman take care of herself well, she will still be tight and fresh.
but anyway, i know that you want to settle down now.
Na you sabi! Keep laughing .

It's best for him to fear to fucvk, nothing in abstaining . Infact it will build up my spiritual life the more and keep us rooted in the word of God .

Don't u know its better for a marriage to start up and built with God and its teachings , than to be built on sex and lust?

Na the power of sex and lust dey cause divorce, beatings and killings here and there these days .

But if u can control the urge and both come together and build the relationship with the word of God and with Christ in it . There won't be any form of going overboard in some certain nasty behavior or actions .

Nothing like I caught him sleeping with my best friend or he caught me fucvking his best friend . All those shit won't happen. Or he caught me in a club house with another man giving him lap dance . Those things won't happen.
Cause we are both rooted with the teachings of Christ , knowledgeable and aware of our actions that ordinarily people out there will simply over look and say mehn! Lemme hide and have sex with his best friend small, and enjoy my single hood jare . After wedding I won't get close to any man again. But thats a lie from pit of hell .

Once debe! Always debe! Especially if one is not caught .
RomanceRe: Fuckboys Are Just Too Much In Nigeria by victorian(f): 11:44am On Jan 30, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
Hehehe...
Lol

cheesy

Its just Grace of God cheesy

Sighs God forgive me .
RomanceRe: Fuckboys Are Just Too Much In Nigeria by victorian(f): 11:39am On Jan 30, 2019
wetdick:
it is not super story, it is the koko, the real truth, when a lady wanna settle down she goes for Mr born gain, naive man that they can tell him to wait for sex after 3 months or after the wedding. are you are a virgin? grin grin
Lemme tell you, for me to look this frosh! No be beans! Inugo?

Before I became!e born again, if my ex want to fucvk and suck all my nutrients and freshness , na breakup straight! I don Japa! No wasting time !

You can't use all my freshness and leave shafts and bones for the man who will end up marrying me , nah?

Haba! You sef check am!

So its better even the best going for a born again guy . Do u think I want to waste my remaining years fucvking for free? Then later wrinkles will then start appearing and I wil start look old before my eyes clear ?

No way Bro! I ain't that dumb!
RomanceRe: What It Really Means When A Lady Uses The Word "Dear" On You. by victorian(f): 11:28am On Jan 30, 2019
Onnasucs1:
seems like you've experienced it before dear tongue
Smiles kind of .
RomanceRe: Fuckboys Are Just Too Much In Nigeria by victorian(f): 11:28am On Jan 30, 2019
wetdick:
the only ladies that attract born-again boys are ladies that have been banged and dumped many times when they were young

born again, naive boys are their desire after they have passed the wall.
Its a Super storyyyyyyy
RomanceRe: Fuckboys Are Just Too Much In Nigeria by victorian(f): 11:27am On Jan 30, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
So there are still ladies who love "born again" guys?? cheesycheesycheesy
Of course! He even has broad shoulders with some nice 6packs! Damn!

He looks delicious, I swear and he behaves like " he doesnt care, if hes hot or not!" angry

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Then as long as hes got a job , hes nice, romantic ( effortlessly) and dashingly handsome!

Hell yes! I would love him .

I'm kind of old school . undecided

Today's kind of relationship where sex is the first greeting a lady gets immediately she agrees to date a guy . And the guy behaving as if she has been owing him sex before he was even created , is so boring and annoying , I swear ! Total turn off !

Infact I get turned off immediately! Like a deflated tyre. angry

Sighs . he's indeed temptation! But I thank God hes not rushing into sex and all DAT. . it keeps my hormones raging and calm all together .

I hope am not confusing this morning ? cheesy
RomanceRe: What It Really Means When A Lady Uses The Word "Dear" On You. by victorian(f): 11:21am On Jan 30, 2019
Onnasucs1:
He loves you. He's still testing the waters to see how you'll react. If you react fine, he'll move on to Sweetie, baby and the likes
Hmmmmm.
RomanceRe: What It Really Means When A Lady Uses The Word "Dear" On You. by victorian(f): 11:20am On Jan 30, 2019
Regiinald:
it depends... Why do you call guys bros in the first place?
Lol ,just joking

Its only married men , I call Bros!

Infact Big Bros! So he will remove any thoughts of wooing me early in the friendship .

I no get time for married men and their wahala.
RomanceRe: Fuckboys Are Just Too Much In Nigeria by victorian(f): 11:14am On Jan 30, 2019
Raalsalghul:
The way you talk sound funny. I'm not even sure you believe in what you are saying.
Most of my comments are kind of funny but am saying what's real.
Its working for me , at the end . If a guy truly want me for keeps and not just to hit and run! He will stay put and be friends with me .

Its working for me sha.

And if along the line he can't hold down the sex part say after 3months and we both feel we've grown to be best of friends , we like our comoany and all , then the guy propose I will say yes but even at that , the guy is not having the cookie , until after wedding . Cos I'm a born again Christian!

Even if world guys don't buy my plan , born again guys in my church will.

My bf is born again , so hes cool with it .

And mind you, am not virgin.

Its all about knowing who truly want me for keeps ,that's all . and I love it this way . My pussy and body is relaxing with joy and happiness until wedding night! Not introduction night o! But hell yes! Wedding night ! angry
RomanceRe: What It Really Means When A Lady Uses The Word "Dear" On You. by victorian(f): 9:41am On Jan 30, 2019
Foodforthought:
Lol. You call me Bros I call you sis
Hahahhahah cheesy
RomanceRe: Fuckboys Are Just Too Much In Nigeria by victorian(f): 9:36am On Jan 30, 2019
Op, simply become born again. Choose Christ and you won't meet those Damagers anymore ! Infact u will smell them from a mile off and keep them where they belong !

That's how I now handle guys disturbing anyways .
This year : Theme give your life to Christ Jesus! He's the only way !
RomanceRe: What It Really Means When A Lady Uses The Word "Dear" On You. by victorian(f): 9:28am On Jan 30, 2019
How about Bros!

Do you guys like been called such? cheesy
CelebritiesRe: Chioma Saves The Day, Davido Breaks Down In Tears After His Concert(video) by victorian(f): 8:09am On Jan 30, 2019
There is this undescribable great joy when u are successful with what u know how to do best . You simply can't explain it. .its really overwhelming.
He deserves every successes coming his way, he works hard , he balls hard and he gives without looking back .

Baba God bless my hustles too. Amen!
CelebritiesRe: Jim Seuh Steps Out With His Girlfriend by victorian(f): 8:34pm On Jan 29, 2019
JjBankys:
lol you don't envy her? but your post reek of jealousy.
Ironic don't you think? undecided
jealous kwa? Na so!

My own man is drop dead delicious.

I won't exchange him for anyone in the world. My heart still races when we are together . Strange but thats the truth .

Have dated guys like kupe brothers before , and no big deal there .

At first its exhilarating, he's tall , fine face ,muscled in the right places with a huge strong dick, wealthy but seriously nothing to die for there , just sex sex sex and show off , o tan!

Guys like him don't settle down with any gf , and that's the truth .

Do I look like I want to date and just be doing endless fucvking forever ? Without a ring on it ?

Nah! I don't think so!
CelebritiesRe: Jim Seuh Steps Out With His Girlfriend by victorian(f): 7:49pm On Jan 29, 2019
The girl don enter one chance !
She thinks , he will be her last busstop? I laugh in Chinese! Hahahahahahahaha


Such guys don't get married on time !

They can fucvk and date forever !


Heheheheheheheheh grin Enjoy the stardom babe! Her eyes go soon clear !lol
I don't envy her one bit . Maybe the steamy sex ? Yes but marriage nah! She go wait taya!!!!!lol
RomanceRe: My Sugar Mommy Wants Us To Get Married...im Confused by victorian(f): 4:44pm On Jan 29, 2019
lefulefu:
grin well as long as he is happy
For him to stay til 20 years and still counting means hes happy .
No fight , not quarrel, no calling of family to settle case , no beating , he looks very content , whenever I visit him . So he should be happy .He's not complaining .
RomanceRe: My Sugar Mommy Wants Us To Get Married...im Confused by victorian(f): 4:41pm On Jan 29, 2019
wetdick:
LOL, you read what i wrote upside down. attention to details is very important, i was talking about what will happen to the 23 years OP not your brother
That's his choice to make .

Let him follow his mind , cos that's where lies his answer .
RomanceRe: My Sugar Mommy Wants Us To Get Married...im Confused by victorian(f): 2:13pm On Jan 29, 2019
lefulefu:
but this ur step bro hope he is happy in the marriage oo? i am asking cos money is not everything.d woman fit dey stinkinly rich and ur bro dey chop money yanfu yanfu but if im heart no dey wit d woman and cos of ur dad im come marry dis woman he might not be happy oo.anyway for me i cant end up with a lady i dont like even if she is richer than bill gates.omo i love my happiness .
If he's not happy , he could easily have divorced her after our dads death.

At least she no tie am rope or chain for leg .

He's unarguably the richest amongst my elder siblings . He can divorce if he wants , nobody is stopping him but he chose to stay with her and I see nothing wrong in it .
People with younger wives are divorcing here and there , breaking each others head wit bottle and hammer in marriage but his own is not like that . Nobody has heard their voice outside .

Have u ever seen an older woman beaten black blue in her marriage and thrown out before ? Have you?

Or say an older woman in marriage wan commit suicide ? Have u?

So if he likes he can divorce his peaceful home and bring in a young 16. Its his choice . Na look we go just dey look am.

Abi?
RomanceRe: My Sugar Mommy Wants Us To Get Married...im Confused by victorian(f): 1:50pm On Jan 29, 2019
wetdick:
in my opinion this what will happen to that 23 year old boy when they are married

1-Tons of baggage from past relationship from her
2-she will lock down his ability to be a provider
3-Low self esteem and depression(will constantly askhim why he is with her, why he isnt with someone younger )
4-when she gives birth to that kid she wants, the kid will come first, herself second and that guy third.

i have dated older women before, I am yet to meet one who has her sh**t together and is the strong-independent-woman as she claims to be.
Well maybe you are reading what I typed upside down

She made him the provider in the home

She didn't come with lots of baggage , infact she had to deal with his baggages and he has a whole lot of baggages .

Infact she over try , with her calm nature in the marriage . She has never been bossy towards him , cos have put up in their house for a two months . she's over meek in my own understanding when I was with them.

My step brother is not a saint . She had to mellow down for him to be the boss .
So don't get it twisted . I can defend her anywhere because she's a good calm and dutiful wife . If my step brother had married a younger lady , I doubt if he wont be divorced wit kids by now, cos he's proud, arrogant and loves women.

If not for her input at the background in his company, I doubtif he will have the type of choice buildings and properties sprawled around delta today .

He's the man of the house , not she . she simply assisted him in becoming rich and successful. Such woman I will never talk down on because she's God sent .

If he didnt want her anymore. He could have easily divorced her as soon as our dad died but he didn't.

So biko talk bad of other women but not my step brothers wife!
RomanceRe: My Sugar Mommy Wants Us To Get Married...im Confused by victorian(f): 12:16pm On Jan 29, 2019
wetdick:
just because it worked for your stepbrother doesnt mean it will work for him, your story infact seems lke those Nollywood stories, happy ending stories, heard similar stories a thousand time
Well its real and true life story .

The wife beared a lot of his excesses and still stood firm by him. If it were other ladies they would have divorced him, cos he loves carrying university smallish girls , all the time . He even has a house built where he takes his gfs to. But the wife is calm and has been calm all through their marriage . Hes now close to 50 but they are still married with a good front . Even with all his cheating she loves him to pieces.
I also feels they are more concerned about the well being and emotional psychology of their kids , than their own happiness . Although they are happy but they've grown to be like brother and sister , while the children are happy . I think that's all they care about .
Its working for them.
RomanceRe: My Sugar Mommy Wants Us To Get Married...im Confused by victorian(f): 12:13pm On Jan 29, 2019
wetdick:
just because it worked for your stepbrother doesnt mean it will work for him, your story infact seems lke those Nollywood stories, happy ending stories, heard similar stories a thousand time
CelebritiesRe: Monalisa Chinda Coker Looks Flawless In Beautiful New Photos by victorian(f): 12:01pm On Jan 29, 2019
I just love this woman to pieces . kiss
CrimeRe: War Against Satanic Manipulation! Must Read by victorian(op):
Donemmy:
I will be there
God bless you!

Its a life transforming crusade .

My life has changed completely and I feel inner peace within me .
smiley
RomanceRe: My Sugar Mommy Wants Us To Get Married...im Confused by victorian(f): 11:38am On Jan 29, 2019
Akious2k2:
Well, better said than done... Word is cheap... Your dad may be a man of principle though
I'm a lady of my words .

Sighs my dad was a man of principle . May his soul rest in peace. He hates it when men don't fulfil their responsibility or when men dodge from what they are suppose to do. That's just who he is . He has 17 children and trained all to university level .
CelebritiesRe: Chidinma Ekile Moves In To Her New House (Photos) by victorian(f): 12:21pm On Jan 28, 2019
Akuruoulo:
That's awesome dear
Thanks .
RomanceRe: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(op): 12:10pm On Jan 28, 2019
MannieA:
hmmm..you are right. Some women are desperate to become wives of married men.
Such things can only happen if the married man is dating the side chick.
If married man no give women face , no smile at you , not to talk of date or touch a woman? Will she kill the wife , so as to make him marry her ?

She will just be wasting her time .

So the seed of killing the wife starts growing from the husband actions in reciprocating love to a psycho Lady . That's how it starts . If not ? If he gives other ladies blank stares and walk away, will they tie him up and Bleep him?
CelebritiesRe: Chidinma Ekile Moves In To Her New House (Photos) by victorian(f): 9:25am On Jan 28, 2019
Akuruoulo:
I just used adultery as an example. There are so many things that can break up a marriage. Some heated argument can lead to so many things ,and She or her family will remind you of how you can't afford a house etc. Then everyone will laugh at how u pushed of the house by ur wife or embarrassed by she or her family.
I will only live the house wen am the force behind all her success.
Adultery and physical assault are the only two reason that can break my home.

I will never mock my husband if he's not earning and I will never ever allow anyone in my family to mock him. Cause the man or woman u mock today, whom I regard as the mockee ? Can be great tomorrow. While the Mocker , possibly the wife can be down trodden tomorrow . So i dont believe in such!

They know me in my family , you don't pocknose in my affairs . How much more my marriage? No matter how many years , any one use senior me in my family , u just do not interfere . Everyone is mind your buisness unless they are called to interfere . if not? We all mind our buisness and face front . Any man I marry will never be mocked either by human beings or spirits .

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