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See op you or ur sis is over doing it

I have female siblings and I'm the only male
three of my sis are no more living with us
Just me and my lil sis wic I'm certainly my lil sis will leave someday too... She's done with nysc last year
So we are living in three bedroom apartment(with big cpd ) even this my mom complain to our elder sis's how we no dey talk to her wella sometimes wic make me thinking if my lil sis leave nd I decide to leave as well to start up a family else where.... How will this woman cope
It's not a matter of SIMP all this my brother and sis are shouting here about but then ur sis needs to evaluate her points right....

I see some people saying is the house very space enough? Yes pls consider if the house is not just a random small house. . Living with MIL is no bad choice and the man is doing himself of saving up money rather spending it on rents wic I'm very sure will hinder him of building a house.... Paying huge rents sorting family expenses and building house is no easy task

I see some people saying is he the only son are there no people in the house.... Yes ur sis sud look into if there aren't too many people in the house to avoid dramas ... If it just the son nd mother then that place will b peaceful to a bit and it's not they living there for life.

Why do some ladies run for there MIL see I'm considering any lady that will wanna b with me lucky cos my mom isn't drama mother at all.... She has four female child nd pray to God everyday for there to b okay in there marriage why will she want to spoil her own son marriage....

This technology age has brain wash so many ladies why won't u want to stay with ur MIL...
But then if u notice some harsh behaviour of your MIL pls my dear sis don't stay in that house!!!
And moreover if ur sis has both MIL and FIL pls don't let her leave in that house she should stand on her ground of him renting an apartment

All what I'm nailing is pls try and consider these single mothers who suffered and struggle enough to brought up man!!!

Good luck in decisions to her!!!

This happened to my guy yesterday this unfortunate and bastard came to my guy shop to change money(thou not in dollars but naira in smaller units) cos my guy deals with POS and selling of gas so he do need changes for his biz nd the bastard cast away 20k
My guy has been perplexed he just started the business!!!
When I see these people murdered in cold blood I do pity them but they are not to shed tears for cos they heartless

Yoighaman:
@OP:
This your matter na real case study, couldn’t help but smile whilst reading other people’s comments but it is a serious matter that should not be swept under the carpet; at least that is why you have spoken up, so I’d try to give my little cent briefly.

Guy 1- Dubem: Let go of the relationship, the incompatibility in your genotypes will always rear its ugly head; why go through unnecessary stress?...and like you rightly mentioned, he could wake up one day and make a big deal out of it, citing his family as an excuse.

Guy 2- Nedu: To me, this seems to be the right guy for you and I’d like you to give him a chance. You see, a man that does not have money today can have tomorrow as long as he is ambitious and not lazy, forget about the hallucinations of other ladies, saying that they cannot date/marry a poor guy, blah, blah, blah. You can make money at any time; you can also have money today and lose it tomorrow but you see, those other qualities he has, my sister, they are very hard to come by.

Guy 3- Victor: This guy is arrogant; you will have issues with him later in future should you become more successful than he is. I can see you have great academic ambitions; this man will be intimidated and might make your life miserable. The misery would quadruple if you dare make/have more money than him.

Guy 4- Denver: I don’t have an issue with him having just an HND or not being in the corporate world, he is a businessman and can ‘blow’ tomorrow but my concern with him is that he is putting you under pressure; please take a walk, never marry anyone out of pity or pressure, you will regret it.

Guy 5:- Bright: Leave bright out of the picture, he is an unserious serial cheat, more of a playboy roaming around probably looking for whom to devour, such people can be on a revenge mission for rejecting their previous advances.

These are just my opinions, please pray to God if you believe in him, I do anyway; he (God) knows your future, I don’t, he is therefore in the best position to guide you.

Wish you all the best.

Bravo bro!!

WomaninherPrime:
Thanks so much for this. Denver's family house isn't occupied by other family members, though. He lives there alone, just that the relatives keep making claims to it.

For Bright, in all honesty, I have no idea what his problem is. He really was planning an engagement dinner... His friend gave me the gist first. I'm even tired trying to rationalise what hus problem is. He just won't put effort into going for what he wants. He wants me to make it easy for him by being compliant and reciprocating his advances even though they are half-hearted.

Nedu is working, actually, and has prospects. Perhaps I'm just too concerned about his present situation. He can't do half of what Dubem would typically do for me... the standard of living and courting that I've become used to. Yeah, I shouldn't compare. But the readaptation would be a real test! I thought I had left all those "the future will be bright kinda relationship" in uni.

Perhaps my prayer should be the patience to build with Nedu... but I've built enough, haven't I? My first ex and Dubem, I started dating them in their days of little beginning until they became really comfortable... perhaps it's why Dubem is always going the extra mile for me and spoils me... But to go back to that building-from-scratch life again with Nedu... drains the energy in me.

Sorry ma'am I'm just reading comments to your sensitive post but this your last paragraph caught my eye... Don't you know from the on set that your genotype with dubem isn't compatible before starting with him from the scratch... I'm pretty sure you get your hopes high and careless to look into his genotype!!

Where are u located??

dlaw70:
A friend gave me a tip off about DSS application,as I was rushing to go and apply this morning,I was shock to learn that,they wrote exams yesterday.But officially,the dateline for submission is clearly stated as 15th of this month.
This country matter don tire person finish.

Which DSS are u talking about

He won ball
Stupid boy

This is what we tell them when they adore thieves and scammers as their role model

Onyi22:
Apple phone any day, anytime.
The rest brand are for broke ass guys

I'm sure you're either using UK used iPhone 6,6+ or 6s plus which is a low budget phone to some Android phones not the transmission phone they all yelling about here on NL....

Tell me that's a movie scene they acting film

debetmx:
you should change your moniker to vicgreed01. dem don't go use your money flex.

emmy512:
To me those guys didn't comit any crime.
Before joining they're always risked involved in things like this and I'm certain you thought of the risks and still went ahead to pay them.
The moment you sent cash to them you were indirectly having an agreement that included risks that you were willing to take.
Trust me, if i weren't ready for such risk you wouldn't give them that money.

Sorry to say u suffered as a result of greed which is one of the most common reasons people fall for such scams.
Anything too good to be true is .....

Pls any banker
Can I report to my bank as error/mistake so the the guys account can b flag down

emmy512:
To me those guys didn't comit any crime.
Before joining they're always risked involved in things like this and I'm certain you thought of the risks and still went ahead to pay them.
The moment you sent cash to them you were indirectly having an agreement that included risks that you were willing to take.
Trust me, if i weren't ready for such risk you wouldn't give them that money.

Sorry to say u suffered as a result of greed which is one of the most common reasons people fall for such scams.
Anything too good to be true is .....

Yes brother I bear the blame 100% but remember I said I have been watching them for almost a month now I screwed up

Pls what do u suggest for me to tackle this and retrieve my money if possible!!

cbrezy:
Thank God you said it yourself "In this hard time" and still yet you call for them how could you be this gullible, those that duped you are also hustling in their own illegal way to survive and now you took too low to fall for them now you're the one in pain

I'm trying to say in this hard time is that money a small money
How do I tackle this sir!!

cbrezy:
Dude your money is gone and there's nothing you can do about it, because it's not a big money

Can I report to my bank as error/mistake in sending the said amount!!!
So they can flag those guys account

Anybody with useful information!!!!

livebyday:


I need to ask you a favor
Please be kind and agree to this favor
It is said give and ye shall receive
So grant me.this favor pls

What I want to ask you is ...please allow me to slap you. Just once please , just one slap I beg of you please!!!

Pls do u have anything I can do about it!!??

livebyday:


I need to ask you a favor
Please be kind and agree to this favor
It is said give and ye shall receive
So grant me.this favor pls

What I want to ask you is ...please allow me to slap you. Just once please , just one slap I beg of you please!!!

Pls slap me as much as u like
I was carried away by the fun in it even make some fake friends !!!

cbrezy:
Dude your money is gone and there's nothing you can do about it, because it's not a big money

In this hard time that money na small money

cbrezy:

Pls what can I do bro
I have their bank details can I notify my bank or what's the possible way to tackle this

E dey pain me

Good day my people
I happened to join a group on WhatsApp just to kill boredom during this total lockdown of a thing.. I have been on this for almost a month now and I know a lot of activities going on in it. Activities like lectures, relationship advice, adverts, jokes and memes , free give away to mention a few and I do see how things are fun and lively..
So now my issue is I partake in TWO of the free give away contest ( send any amount and get double of it) so I sent an amount of 5k to two of the guys and till now these guy has been acting up . I messaged and messaged but they refused to reply back and they keep posting shit and lying about
I didn't get my money nor the free give away

Question: can I report to my bank? Are there chances of getting my money back(10k)??


Awoof won kill me.....
P.S: pls don't abuse me much ooo as I'm pained now...... I have been on the group for long and I didn't notice any foul play!!!

ruggedtimi:
Not sure if dagrin is alive today he would be at thesame level with Wizkid.

Were u aware how 50 cent reacted to his death.... he was already international back then!!!
who's wizkid then!!!

she sent I'm back to my hostel to the guy's number

confronted her: it was my gfriend I wanted to send the message to but my phone hanged and send it to him....

I still cant believe it

..

Maryjane001:
Nope. I almost dated the younger one though.
But I thought about it and saw no future in it so I refused. Right now,we avoid each other as much as we can.
And I never want to have anything to do with them ever again.
Not all stories have a happy ending tho

Maryjane001:
Nope. I almost dated the younger one though.
But I thought about it and saw no future in it so I refused. Right now,we avoid each other as much as we can.
And I never want to have anything to do with them ever again.
Not all stories have a happy ending tho

Maryjane001:
Nope. I almost dated the younger one though.
But I thought about it and saw no future in it so I refused. Right now,we avoid each other as much as we can.
And I never want to have anything to do with them ever again.
Not all stories have a happy ending tho

hi do u care for a chat

lilyelv:
i wont really say that i have regrets sha..finished secondary school on time..wrote jamb for the first time..it didnt work out....then later got an admission but cause of money issues i had to lay off the admission and work..worked for a while but i wasnt paid sha...... then straight to last year.....i was about going to school....had a serious accident which affected both legs..and i couldnt walk for a while.....and that actually made me lose my self esteem a bit ..........i had to use all my money to take care of hospital bills...now that am ready to go to school..i have no funds to futher..and am even thinking of running a business instead of going to school....i have no idea what i want to venture into self.....i am just confused sha.....i do feel that whenever am about to do something....something comes up and prevents me from moving forward....am not bothered jare....am taking life the way i see it everyday.....las las i go dey alright..pls ignore any typo errors

lilyelv:
i wont really say that i have regrets sha..finished secondary school on time..wrote jamb for the first time..it didnt work out....then later got an admission but cause of money issues i had to lay off the admission and work..worked for a while but i wasnt paid sha...... then straight to last year.....i was about going to school....had a serious accident which affected both legs..and i couldnt walk for a while.....and that actually made me lose my self esteem a bit ..........i had to use all my money to take care of hospital bills...now that am ready to go to school..i have no funds to futher..and am even thinking of running a business instead of going to school....i have no idea what i want to venture into self.....i am just confused sha.....i do feel that whenever am about to do something....something comes up and prevents me from moving forward....am not bothered jare....am taking life the way i see it everyday.....las las i go dey alright..pls ignore any typo errors

lilyelv:
i wont really say that i have regrets sha..finished secondary school on time..wrote jamb for the first time..it didnt work out....then later got an admission but cause of money issues i had to lay off the admission and work..worked for a while but i wasnt paid sha...... then straight to last year.....i was about going to school....had a serious accident which affected both legs..and i couldnt walk for a while.....and that actually made me lose my self esteem a bit ..........i had to use all my money to take care of hospital bills...now that am ready to go to school..i have no funds to futher..and am even thinking of running a business instead of going to school....i have no idea what i want to venture into self.....i am just confused sha.....i do feel that whenever am about to do something....something comes up and prevents me from moving forward....am not bothered jare....am taking life the way i see it everyday.....las las i go dey alright..pls ignore any typo errors

do u care for a chat?

DenreleDave:
I no no as ur matter take be, u shud ask for job not money..

Shey u get? The only solution to financial problem is getting a job

[quote author=Mood11 post=83747453]Me I have problems o.

Financial, Emotional and even Political.

But I want to Bless 3 People with #1k each for breakfast Tomorrow because na when Person talk him own you go know say your own better...
you can do well with the 1k I will much appreciate it 0118163003 gtb

the beginning of rick ross
be aware bro!!
no come talk say ino tell u

hello everyone pls i have a similar que related to this topic there are many school abroad who always requested ur transcripts be mailed to them in a sealed envelop my que is can someone get the transcripts mailed via post office.

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oya twins come my way

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