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debbydams:
we ladies behave like mumu because of love..hia men don't worth it..I hop all ladies can place some value on themselves to avoid all this rubbish..

Really!!?. Noted!!!

debbydams:
they are fun to be with nd very caring..dated one when I was in school,dude is very caring,he Introduced to me to all his friends,carry me on his back.buy me anything,I had access to all his things..I feel protected when we were dating..

debbydams:
I Hop u v have a good heart, because with your age u should have a wife nd considering the fact that the mother of your kid is not with you,there's something u are not telling us,cos I met a single dad few month ago tru my friend, Initially he's not my type of man but my friend was saying he's nice blah blah I gave him a chance,

I was in 3days fasting,I decided to visit him nd I told I wont be eating anything he said OK,the next day I was supposed to eat a good food,dude gave me 200 to buy egg nd tomatoes paste to do corcortioon nd I don't take egg I just told him not to worry, I helped him clean everywhere, he called Me nd ask if I can marry him I told him he should give it time,he dropped me at my friieend place, I was very hungry my friend got my oranges nd den gave me food,I was very weak already.

I was about leaving I wasn't that buoyant i went to his shop nd told him Im leaving cos nobody is in my store, he said I should wait that he wanted to collect money from someone,I sha calm down it was 6pm already nd said I should wait till Monday,I was very angry, he den make a. transfer to me I was like so u have money but choose to waste my time..I left nd pass the night with my friend, after 2 weeks he didnt call or. check on me I ignored him,my friend den asked if he called I said no nd I don't have time for his bullshit,my friend confronted him, he said 'I purposely don't cal her because she ddidnt sleep at my place' I was surprised, I told him no woman will ever stay with him, had similar experience with a divorcee I promised myself not to date or marry older men, divorcee or single old father most of them are toxic..forget money peace of mind ni koko

debbydams:
lol I nd my bf wennt to get attachment,I wanted to started pricing, babe was like are u the one paying,I just do pim

Where’s the bf

debbydams:
cos Nigerian men are useless

[ :oquote author=Drfernandez post=106973073]

Whenever I see people like you trying hard to form nonsense on this forum, I just laugh hard. As a wretched, ugly single mother, you don't really have a choice if we must tell ourselves truth.[/quote]

debbydams:
Seriously, i.cant remember the last time I spent an hour with a guy indoor..this happened to mw 4months ago.. There this guy that has bin asking me to date me nd I refused, on this day a friend came to my store very late to buy things she complained that my padlock is small. So I rushed home to pick ⛏️ another padlock while going back to store to change the padlock was around 10pm it late so I had to call this guy who happened to be my toaster to help me with car.. He agreed after changing the padlock he said he is finding a place to turn nd I thought �
he said 'tor' urinate in yoruba nd he is Muslim I said shey your hostel is not far go nd pee at home theres no space here.. We got to his hostel I sat down expecting him to pee so that I can leave na so this guy dragged me to his bed tight my throat nd raped me I nearly stopped breathing with d way he tight my my neck.. Imagine how I cried that day.. Each time I tat of it hurt me so hard. Since den nd even before that I didn't visit a guy because of raping... I dated one foolish guy after the incident he left me because I refused to visit him for sex… I wonder where men will end their lives because of sex

Who’s the foolish guy u dated after the incident

Which kind father b this. End time father….

Military order for the footballers. Hope no b fear fear them go Dey use play

Season of ex’es

If at all you didn’t caught her she would have been in the same hotel with u banging on another dick. I wonder what that guy used in enticing her.
This is your lesson. Make good use of it.!!!

Zaazu nko

Bonanza643:
someone told me those people selling grounded pepper in bulk do mix it with other things such as millet.... joro.......ginger......wheat......flour... caprioca.....etc
they add one or more of this so they can get even more profits from their grounded pepper business....
please how true is this?

Some people will even add walnuts

frozen70:
Go for paramilitary, it comes with personality besides its a federal Job so you have Job security

Are u saying the job is still secure even after he travel…?

No b malouda b dat bald headed in the group pics

There’s an adage that says person wey get head no get cap nd person with cap no get head. Ur bro was even chanced to b offered a job twice nd e Dey misbehave. Well I think he wanted to b living a celebrity life with no work that’s why he is engaging in fraud. At this point just pray for him. A lot of dudes out there hustling nd striving hard to make ends meet make ino talk my own make ground no full.

At this point just pray for him nd when u find him pls don’t pamper him punish him severely cos he’s no more a kid. I hope u guys has not been panicking and whatever he brought upon him self out there let him dance to the tone. He’s really stupid to burn that amount of money nd punctured ur dads car.

Kudos to the cops but I’m beginning to wonder if 100 bucks is a big sum in the US with the excitement on the motorist’s faces.

MufasaLion:
That should be my own worry, not yours.

All the best…

MufasaLion:
Foolish clout chaser.

I want to join Illuminati also.

U fit survive?

I am not supporting baddo neither this prophetess but I remember one of his lyrics that year ‘awon eleyi jeyan awon idi ami ilefo illuminati…. It was rumored that year that he was invited to join the cult but he ran for his dear life thereby making such statements

Scammers why?

Karleb:
Tell him what you just told us


People can be funny sha. Their ringtone changed when they saw money.

Tell him to let go of the money. I'm very sure the girl's family will kill themselves for the money.

The money they will end up spending abi e no finish. Some people re just so stupid cos of money.

Negroid001:
Yes and it was a wonderful experience.
Although i no knack am.

Hahaha u acted Jesus abi na she acted mary

Negroid001:
Travelled all the way from lagos to Ibadan to go visit my first Facebook girlfriend.

Did u meet/see her

Too bad. Useless cultists, may God catch them.

wetdspace:
I am currently looking for a job.
Been at home for 2 years now.. even if it's a 100k per month job or lower, kindly refer me, please I no mind .
My Location is Lekki.

What did u study sir.? Are u not on any job website. U are in a good location pls.

Ramirezkhay:


Their tricks worth nothing less than 20 naira

Supreme145:
There is this motion that giving birth to children is an achievement in this country. I see young guys in mid and late twenties rushing into marriage while they are barely standing on their feet. From someone that comes from a family of 10 I'm sure if my dad is given a second chance he won't give birth as much children again. Let me share some of my experiences as regards giving birth without proper planning or sustainable income.

I've a neighbor in my compound, he's 32 and in his final year in the university, I can hardly have decent conversation with him without hearing about how he wants to get married. I would always remind him that he's living in a one room apartment, still a student without a strong source of income, but he would counter me saying that he can always start small and grow with his wife. Moreover when he gives birth he would have an investment.

I've have another friend that was a classmate in secondary school, he graduated the year I got admission though he had some issues with his results. One day he called me that he's married and I was surprised, though he is an artisan into all those parapets and pop stuffs I know he wasn't financially buoyant enough to carry a family. The last time I visited him he was looking malnourished and unable to sort out his issues in school almost four years after because according to him any money that he gets already has a pending issue waiting for it. He's looking far older than his elder brother who's still single, he looks 38 when he's just 30. He consoled himself by telling me that even if he doesn't have money he already has two kids which he sees an investment and a great achievement. Meanwhile they are cramped into a single room apartment and none of the kids are enrolled in school.

Last week while we were training in the evening, an argument broke out between two young guys. I was just by the side observing what was happening, I kept hearing stuffs like....why you dey argue with that guy? you no know say na person father he be? that guy don born two children o abi you think say e easy to born, na big achievement be that o. Now this is a guy that is about 25 years and has no sustainable means of income, he works in peoples farms and other menial jobs to make ends meet.

My next door married neighbor has become a torn in my flesh, he's always borrowing from me without paying so it's obvious he's struggling financially, factor in the constant arguments with his wife due to shortage of funds all the time. I once asked him why rushed to get married without a good source of income and he bluntly told me that he had always been broke while he was single and still broke now that he's married the only difference is that he can boast of his kids as an achievement unlike when he was single that he had nothing to boast of.

I have no issues what so ever with how anyone choose to life their life but considering the economic condition of this country now bringing in kids without proper plans is not the way to go. If my dad had given birth to maybe 3 kids I'm sure he wouldn't be stressed out the way he is now and the resources used in training 8 kids would be better managed on just 3kids.

Personally I feel that one of the surest way to perpetual poverty as a young guy is to get married while struggling financially. Like one of the examples above, he cast aside his personal development and aspirations just to cater for his family. Supposing he's still single I'm sure he would have cleared he's outstanding school fees and maybe get his certificate.

Well since I'm still single and still struggling I don't judge anybody, every mallam to his kettle. As for me no marriage till I'm financially stable enough to afford at least 3 bedroom flat, a small car and substantial savings. It would be an abomination for me to bring a child into this world to pass through the kind of life I had growing up.

I use to tell friends and anybody that care to listen that after a child I’m stopping. If wify wants more I’m gonna file a lawsuit and she’s gonna put down a signature on paper to cater for any kids aside the one with my consent. She’s gonna b working as well no b all this daddy go soon reach.
We are no more in the oldies and this present day Nigeria is no joke. U gonna plan yourself well, be financially grounded and have peace of mind till thy kingdom come. Op just chill we are many on this race and ideology. May God help man.!!!

Ramirezkhay:


I don't know if they all attended the same school cos they usually give similar excuse concerning how they got deflowered!

The lie goes thus;

They usually go to this fake birthday party with their friends and the said guy!

They will now proceed to make you believe the guy get them drunk then do his thang with them before regaining their consciousness!

Who be Foooool

Hahaha bro the newest lie is they got rape either by one uncle or neighbor. The one I heard last was she got raped in the middle of the night and she didn’t see the person naso I shake my head Nd stop all communications.

All the best bro. I wish u luck out there.
Also spent 10 years in sch. It’s not easy i must say
Pre-ND to ND 3years
Degree 5years + 1year strike
Nysc 1year.
Hit the road hard Nd u will come back to smile again.

backnbeta:
Private university still has grades in Nigeria! You can say this about Afe Babalola, Covenant, Redeemers, Bowen and a few others, but some private unis are just trash! Sometimes again, it's all about the tuition. What you'll spend N200k on in UI may cost you 3M in a private university. If you don't have money, even if they offer you physiology in a public uni, you will manage it. BTW, I'm very familiar with both systems.

Why u come use physiology as ur example bro. Are u saying na thrash course