Romance › Re: Ladies Come In Here And Pick Your Dream Man. by Vikky014(f): 2:37pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: When Your Bae Insists On Investigating Your Past. by Vikky014(f): 2:23pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
avicky: Openness is key in starting a new relationship. Both parties need to open up about the past and present to avoid unpleasant surprises. And if you want the relationship, you continue or otherwise move on.
And don't be scared of marriage. No marriage is perfect, it's how the adults concerned manage their crisis that matters. But it should be enjoyed not endured.
And exchanging password and laptops may happen since love still dey shack una, but is it really worth it  THANKS DEAR |
Romance › Re: When Your Bae Insists On Investigating Your Past. by Vikky014(f): 5:47am On Dec 27, 2015 |
ogawisdom: After all d investigations they may still nt tell u they had 8 abortions and 15 failed rships highest they will admit one  |
Romance › Re: When Your Bae Insists On Investigating Your Past. by Vikky014(f): 5:47am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Daniel058: Luke 1:37 - For with God nothing shall be
impossible...lol nite dear. yes u r very right |
Romance › Re: Why Do Igbo Girls Behave This Way If U Fail To Marry Them After Having A Child by Vikky014(f): 5:43am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Qualer: you head dey there!! one gallon of zobo for you!!!! JEEZ one gallon of zobo  . guy u r partially wicked ooo. instead of u to give me a wine.( pure heaven to precise)  |
Romance › Re: When Your Bae Insists On Investigating Your Past. by Vikky014(f): 12:13am On Dec 27, 2015 |
Daniel058: Maybe God make it you get married to a guy from Catholic Church..  LOL. My popsy na Protestant pastor ooo might nt b humanly possible bt wt GOD all things r possible  bt DAN stp derailing this thread oo. bye |
Romance › Re: When Your Bae Insists On Investigating Your Past. by Vikky014(f): 12:08am On Dec 27, 2015 |
holaralph: Life Experience......In my last relationship that was almost getting to marriage level I made some mistakes then all because I was so inexperience despite my age ( temiyemi ) and I commit some mistakes that a man shouldn't have committed and she has her faults too but the hallmark of everything is that I never dig into her past. I was only rushing I have to get married. All thanks to God for helping Me to take the uneasy decision that I took As you can see I never blame the lady in question so much I blamed myself very well that is what the experience taught me. More truthfulness, straightness, more wisdom, more knowledge, great understanding of what is embedded in life , to be more reliable and faith and believe in God almighty. Even though I use to see it on movies it happened to me Cos I had to cancel the wedding 7days to the wedding day......... Hmmmmmmm ( huge sigh ) it is well anyway but I thank God Almighty for His goodness. Conclusively Not All people we hooked on social media can't be married and can be married..... It all come down to this topic how patient are we to dig into the family core of the fellow, how sensitive are we when we are together or are we only concerned by the physique, curves,beauty.tallness,colour,money or material thing,or social status,the religion, parent push or self push without digging deep for informations. Digging deep or seeking information could be prayer by oneself or by true man of God be it pastor, prophet , alfa, imam etcetera etcetera, family history is also inclusive, health issues or history, it doesn't matter if they are rich. Relationship that never go through digging today will surely go through unending and rigorous digging tomorrow. I rest my case....... God Bless You God bless u |
Romance › Re: When Your Bae Insists On Investigating Your Past. by Vikky014(f): 11:59pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Daniel058: Chai! Lady playing piano in the church, where are the guys? are you the choir_mistress??..
It's going to be 9am mass here ((Catholic tinz)).. A holy family Sunday. lol. piano is nt meant for guys u know? i love playing musical instrument. am nt the choir mistress. Wow i love catholic church. ur choir members hv angelic voice sometimes i do visit your church in sch jst bc of the choir |
Romance › Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by Vikky014(f): 11:51pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Cutehector: Mchew... This is the reason why i insists ladies are very confused No we r not  |
Romance › Re: When Your Bae Insists On Investigating Your Past. by Vikky014(f): 11:43pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Daniel058: I know but you too are yet to sleep.. Aren't you going to be in church tomorrow?? sure i will. will even play the piano self. i slept too much in d day time |
Romance › Re: When Your Bae Insists On Investigating Your Past. by Vikky014(f): 11:37pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Daniel058: hehehe Go and sleep tomorrow is church service |
Romance › Re: When Your Bae Insists On Investigating Your Past. by Vikky014(f): 11:35pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Daniel058: Rev Sr vikky014 , I wan marry you ooooooooooooooo LOL |
Health › Re: My Bitter Experience As A Doctor Today by Vikky014(f): 10:47pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
cosmatika: Tears run down my cheek as I type this. I went into d medical profession to Save lives, but today I watched a patient die and I could do nothing. It was around 11am today, 26th Dec 2015, I wz in the emergency room as the only Dr & House officer on call in a state Specialist hospital wen a peugeot wagon followed by a police van drove in. They opened d doors & trunk and started bringing out Accident victims. I did a quick triage & saw dat d 2 in d trunk were in a more critical condition, So d immediate plan was to refer d 2 to FMC wia dey hav better hands and equipment to handle it. So I asked d policeman who d driver is so dat d 2 will be rushed to FMC & he said he died at d Accident scene. I ran outside to buy airtime to start calling other HOs, b4 I could return, dey had dropped d 2 & drove off. I called other HOs, only 2 showed up, others had travelled. To my greatest suprise, I called a medical officer who is a snr colleague in d proffession, she said I shud nt touch anyone till dey paid. That I shud Infact refer all of dem. I was incapacitated, d patients were in pains, crying, calling on us to help, some already unconscious, but we couldnt help cos we have an order frm above. Within 5mins, 1 young lady in her early 20s died. Abt 10mins later, another police van came and carried d remaining 7 to FMC. This evening, some road safety corps came to inquire if any Accident victims were brought to our center. They had retrieved d manifest frm d vehicle and contacted d families of d passengers. Dey came wit d relations of one of d patients, and wen I told dem 1 of dem died, dey asked for d Description of d 1 dat died and I showed dem d pix of d gal dat died, behold she was d 1 dey were looking for and right there was the gal's fiancee. Their traditional wedding was to be in 3days tym I want to use this medium to call on the govt to make policies dat"ll enable Drs treat patients in such condition. Let's Save the human race JESUS CHRIST. CANT believe am in tears nw. May Her soul RIP. DT ur snr colleague is very wicked may God reward her in 10 folds atleast u would hv help her despite the order |
Health › Re: My Bitter Experience As A Doctor Today by Vikky014(f): 10:43pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
cosmatika: Tears run down my cheek as I type this. I went into d medical profession to Save lives, but today I watched a patient die and I could do nothing. It was around 11am today, 26th Dec 2015, I wz in the emergency room as the only Dr & House officer on call in a state Specialist hospital wen a peugeot wagon followed by a police van drove in. They opened d doors & trunk and started bringing out Accident victims. I did a quick triage & saw dat d 2 in d trunk were in a more critical condition, So d immediate plan was to refer d 2 to FMC wia dey hav better hands and equipment to handle it. So I asked d policeman who d driver is so dat d 2 will be rushed to FMC & he said he died at d Accident scene. I ran outside to buy airtime to start calling other HOs, b4 I could return, dey had dropped d 2 & drove off. I called other HOs, only 2 showed up, others had travelled. To my greatest suprise, I called a medical officer who is a snr colleague in d proffession, she said I shud nt touch anyone till dey paid. That I shud Infact refer all of dem. I was incapacitated, d patients were in pains, crying, calling on us to help, some already unconscious, but we couldnt help cos we have an order frm above. Within 5mins, 1 young lady in her early 20s died. Abt 10mins later, another police van came and carried d remaining 7 to FMC. This evening, some road safety corps came to inquire if any Accident victims were brought to our center. They had retrieved d manifest frm d vehicle and contacted d families of d passengers. Dey came wit d relations of one of d patients, and wen I told dem 1 of dem died, dey asked for d Description of d 1 dat died and I showed dem d pix of d gal dat died, behold she was d 1 dey were looking for and right there was the gal's fiancee. Their traditional wedding was to be in 3days tym I want to use this medium to call on the govt to make policies dat"ll enable Drs treat patients in such condition. Let's Save the human race JESUS CHRIST. CRYING |
Family › Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Vikky014(f): 9:53pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Cutehector: since wen did linda become curvy..babe if u see her unclothedness, u will see alot of flabs  Lol. so my eyes hv been deceiving me? ok then enjoy urslf as u enter into the gold digging business  |
Family › Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Vikky014(f): 9:40pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Cutehector: she just aint my type... .. U should see agbani darego  LOL. so u r nt among #teamcurvyladies#? good for u |
Family › Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Vikky014(f): 9:35pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Cutehector: why not... What a woman can do, a man can do worse hahahahahah. u r so funny . goodluck. bt i think u shld go for LINDA IKEJI  |
Politics › Re: Buratai's Son Weds Today In Yobe (photos) by Vikky014(f): 9:29pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
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Family › Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Vikky014(f): 9:24pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Cutehector: girls gold dig too..  Lol are u in competition wt girls  |
Family › Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Vikky014(f): 9:12pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Cutehector: In ur late twenties
Multinational coy
Buy a car

And ur brother says it will chase men away from u?
Babe abeg pass me ur number  hahahahaha. is this not Gold digging  op please buy a car if u can afford one. jst b a loyal lady dnt b arrogant bc u hv a car |
Romance › Re: Please Help! My Girlfriend Has Really Changed by Vikky014(f): 8:40pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
refreshrate: Is getting married to someone not part of the "future" abi what is this one saying?
Everybody now na philosopher
OP meanwhile hard as it may seem, I think it's best you free the girl. She's at that stage of her life where she feels she's unstoppable cos of the attention she's getting from so many chaps.
You need to allow her to thru the period (& be dealt with) I don't think she's particularly smart either quite frankly & nothing worse than having a mumu for a partner ( forever is a very long time)
I've walked this path before. I won't lie to you that it's easy but I swear to you everyday I remember the decision to walk out of that relationship I can't be grateful enough to God. She got married to the boy o but now they're divorced and she don marry another one again.
Is this what you want for yourself?
To be counted amongst the many?
You should see the woman God eventually brought my way, incomparable by every single ramification.
God won't come from heaven and tell you this girl isn't good enough for you he sends f*ckboys to distract her.
You won't see it now, but believe me, your intentions are good & for that I believe God has good lined up for you.
Forget the girl.
You don't need the introduction clause sounds like you're blackmailing her to marry you. Believe me what will come your way after this You won't believe.
Do you know after that eediot for married to that boy she still came to see me by herself (trust your Guy na, I smashed her wella!) then I got thinking so if I had forced my way thru to marry this girl na so she for dey go my back? Tufia!
Saw the "husband" a few days later before they had divorced with the girl behind him the guy was feeling like a terminator. How do you think I felt? Anytime I feel low I remember that moment and I scatter laugh.
God is saving you, you're doing stiff neck.
As you can see my advice isn't with sentiments or emotions, experience they say is the best teacher & a wise man learns from others.
It won't be easy leaving her but trust me you're better for it. dts my opinion. didnt force any1 to make use of it. jst share urs and move on Thanks |
Romance › Re: Meet The Most Handsome Guy In Nairaland/romance by Vikky014(f): 2:50pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Igbo Girls Behave This Way If U Fail To Marry Them After Having A Child by Vikky014(f): 2:46pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
4hys: the igbo girls i cant really understand them when it comes to relationship breakup.
d issue is dat my uncle was dating an igbo girl for over 2 yrs and tending to even marry her but along the the line their was some controversies and they brokeup and she left with the child. no contact, no trace. frankly speaking i have seen this in so many occasions
the question is, is that how other tribes in Nigeria behave or what is their main reason for their act
lalasticlala, ishilove help take it to fp Did i hear u say igbo girls  pls jst say some girls and dnt attach any tribe to it thanks |
Romance › Re: When You Call Her After Sending 2k Credit And She Says "Who's This?" by Vikky014(f): 2:39pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
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Family › Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by Vikky014(f): 2:39pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
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Nairaland General › Re: The People Perish For Lack Of Knowledge- VANGUARD by Vikky014(f): 2:33pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Nice write up |
Romance › Re: Ladies Come In Here And Pick Your Dream Man. by Vikky014(f): 1:17pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Cholls: my sister see your life. jst saying though. |
Romance › Re: Ladies Come In Here And Pick Your Dream Man. by Vikky014(f): 1:06pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
hmmmmmmmm. IF IT IS A MUST TO MARRY I WILL GO FOR MR A. my fear is dt i will easily learn the game of Philandering from him if i find out.. No one is perfect |
Romance › Re: When Your Bae Insists On Investigating Your Past. by Vikky014(f): 12:47pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
bknight: What is the meaning of hian? I don't understand you ooo lol. go jare |
Celebrities › Re: Banky W & Rita Dominic All Smiles As They Share Intimate Pose (photo) by Vikky014(f): 12:43pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Teryfik: xo e no reach 7,u try lol. nt me oooo  |
Romance › Re: When Your Bae Insists On Investigating Your Past. by Vikky014(f): 12:24pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
bknight: You need to be investigated 
Odunharry, Just roger me the venue & the eagle will land hian. meaning  i dnt understand u ooo |
Romance › Re: Why Some Women Will Never Be Happy In Marriage by Vikky014(f): 12:22pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
i cant evn imagine getting married to a cheat bc if i do it might cme to pass. so let me jst read and pass  bc am very sure nothing will make my future hubby to cheat on me by Gods grace. rather he will always b watchful so dat anoda man wunt snatch me frm his house  |