₦airaland Forum

kaorama:
Drunkenness is bad. He is only saying this and getting away with it cos PDP is a party that doesn't know their left from their right. I have been expecting PDP to rise up to the challenge of letting Nigerians know how much APC is deceiving Nigerians, but behold, PDP doesn't have the ideas to pay back APC in their own coins. No body in PDP knows what to do, even media houses like AIT who should be on ground in Bornu this time around to expose the dismal failure of APC in tackling the insurgency is shying away from their responsibility. Their reporters are all seated comfortably in their ABUJA studio browsing for news in the internet. No body that has anything to do with PDP is willing to make sacrifices. Channels TV which was the subtle propaganda mouth piece of APC has suddenly gone silent. The carnage that was recorded in Maiduguri over the weekend never attracted their attention. And this morning Maope Ogun and co sat comfortably in their cushion to make some cursory remarks about the explosions in Maiduguri. If it were in the time of GEJ, Channels' Maope Ogun and co would be standing up and with much energy, throwing punches at Goodluck as if he was personally responsible for the insurgency. I hope and wish PDP and their supporters would rise up to their challenge of providing a strong and determined opposition.

On point. You dey mind Maope ? They try to look objective but I know she's biased. It is left for we, Nigerians to speak out. We can't let ourselves to be fooled. Channels spend less of their time discussing boko haram.
Lai Mohammed should be flogged and stoned to death.

MosakuAW:
Brave journalism is common with the white. I love seeing brave journalist on war front telling the true side of a story.

Our Naija journalist will sit at one corner of his or her office and write ghost interviews and later claimed it was a mistake.

I love journalism that write the both sides of the story rather than one side only.

God bless all good journalist around the world for taking bold steps towards revealing the truth.

For those who had lost their life in these cause of action, may they continue to rest in Peace.

I agree so much with you. If it's to cover world cup or Olympics you'll hear, "Our correspondence in Brazil or Germany, bla bla....." But let it be boko haram, they'll say, "it was reported that 20 people died, another report put it as 30 people....."
But that's not to say that we have never had war correspondence before.

wisdomguy4u:
This is a true story of an unforgettable near death experience I had on the night of 24th December, 2015 that changed my life forever. I decided to share this story here not because I want you to castigate me for my act (you can't castigate me more than I have castigate myself), but because I believe a lot of people will learn from it and thereby avoid the pitfall in the coming 2016.

It all began when I attended the night church service held in my village. I came a little late so I wasn't opportune to get a seat. I had to stand up for the mass. After standing in the cold for about an hour, my legs began to shiver, I decided to walk toward the church gate and back to stretch my near stiffed knees.

As I got to the gate, I stood for a while and then turn around to walk back when I heard a female voice from the dark corner of the gate; she said, "it's boring right? ". I walked toward her to get a clear view of who was talking; I saw a light skin girl sitting on a small flower pavement. I asked her "what's boring?". "The service , the night, everything" She replied. It was obvious she wanted us to have a conversation, so I quickly sat down beside her.

To cut the story short, from our little conversation I got to know that her name is Aderoke, her father is from Ogun state while her mother is from my village. She was born and brought up in lagos and can't speak or understand Igbo language (meanwhile the service was coordinate in igbo language). This was few things I was able to get from her before she told me she was shivering due to the cold. As a sharp guy i reasoned she wanted me to cuddle her, so I told her to draw closer so I can hold her. Without hesitation she moved closer and placed her head on my shoulder while I placed my hand around her waist.

Everything went so fast, before I could say "bingo!" We were already into deep romance: kissing and groping . In the climax of it all she held me and whisper in my ear " sex me please". As I look around for a more hidden corner, a part of me was persuading me to control my urge that she could be an agent of darkness sent to destroy me, and another part of me was telling me not to lose the opportunity that she's just a lonely girl in need of some fun. I fell for the latter. I got a more hidden corner were we began to have it; first she bend low while I got on her back ; after awhile she suggested I sit on a pavement there while she climb on top.

Few minutes afterward, I felt a sudden sharp pain on my butt, I thought it was an ant or something similar, but the pain grew bigger. With a trembling voice I told her to stop and get down that I think something bit me, but she was so carried aways that she couldn't hear me out. As the pain kept increasing , I had to push her out of me . I stood up, flash my phone touch in the pavement and there was a long big snake rowed up . The strange girl screamed and ran away. By then I was already feeling dizzy and fainting, I managed to pull myself back into the church premises and disclose to someone that I have been bitten by a snake after which I lost conscious of myself. I heard I was even fuming from the mouth.

After 2 days of serious traditional treatment, I regained consciousness. When I was asked to explain how I got bitten by a snake in the church, I didn't know what to say. I can't believe I nearly lost my life because of a few minutes romp with a total stranger, it's a very shameful thing to tell your family. The only person i finally told the true of what transpired was a man of God; whom after praying, disclosed to me that the strange girl has a jealous spiritual husband who is a serpent. So the snake that bit me wasn't ordinary.

I believe God gave me a second chance for a reason. And I have sworn never to continue my careless lifestyle, I have given my life to God and anything premarital sex is not for me anymore. I know it's not easy to overcome temptation of premarital sex, but I believe with pray and determination we can overcome anything.

My fellow Nairalanders join me and thank God for my life, and at the same time learn from my story. For the seek of your family and loved ones, stop living a careless life . Stop sleeping around with strangers, so many people knowingly or unknowingly have spiritual spouse, some of who are viciously jealous . Sex is sweet , but life is sweeter. Try and live a safe life in 2016. I pray God see us all through in Jesus name: Amen!

I don't know how your pastor got to that conclusion. There are also other circumstances too. For instance you guys slept with each other outside and probably in a bushy area.
I thought you were going to tell us that she changed into a snake or something like that.

Lanretoye:
My overall best in 2015-"To forgive terrorists is up to God,but to send them to him is up to me"...Putin.

That's my favourite quote too. I think these quotes featured are quotes from Africans (Obama inclusive).

greenhulk:
Accident happen everywhere in the world, not just Africa so spare me this maintenance culture thing. Paul Walker and his friend were professional drivers and they know about maintenance culture than any of us. But did that stop their car from having an accident thereby claiming their lives? Plus they died in an expensive Porsche, not some Camry. If that was in Nigeria u people will say ONLY IN NIGERIA. Also princess Diana died in a top of the line Mercedes Benz s class.

The picture below happened in Houston Texas USA. A train detailed and fell on the road. If that was in Nigeria u people will shout ONLY IN NIGERIA, or u will start calling Buhari.

Hold on. If you look at it critically, a lot of the accidents in Nigeria could have been prevented if there was or is proper maintenance. Just look at this one in SA. It could have prevented as well. The one of Princess Diana was just human error. The driver was running away from paparazzi and he hit a curvet.

examhall3:
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Super Eagles forward, Odion Ighalo grabbed a 41st minute goal on Monday which leads him to become the highest goal scorer in England this year.
Monday’s strike marks Ighalo’s 14th goal this season and 30th in total for 2015.
Although Watford maintained a less than average possession 43% to the visitor’s 57%, Ighalo and his teammates refused to give up to the 87th minute leaving the shoreline at 1-1.
Following Spur’s and Watford clash on Monday, it takes Odion’s Premier League tally for the season to 14, and his league goals to 30 in 2015, more than anyone else in the top four divisions of English football.

Source: http://360jamng.tk/nigerias-odion-ighalo-ends-2015-as-highest-goal-scorer-in-england/

That's great. I hope he remains consistent.

Diddyydiva:
Age is nothing but numbers.

She is 17




Just make sure you are compatible in other ways.

. Which kind number

pedrilo:
hey guys, happy Sunday to you all. just felt i should share an experience with the house and probably get some reactions as well.
i was cleaning my house yesterday morning and found something in side my wardrobe.
i'm 28, work in abj and live alone. not in any serious relationship since i got heart broken 2012 while running a masters programme.
although i have female friends who come around to spend weekends with me, i noticed a disturbing act from these ladies wenenva they visit not once or twice. "they often leave either a bra, top, panties, footwear or tooth brush in my place even when they have their hand bag with them.
ladies in d house, what will make u leave any of these items in a guy's place.
and for the guys, wat do u normally do with such items.
enjoy ur day guys, i love u all

They are marking their territory the dame way animals do. If you watch Natgeowild, you'll see this often.

shepherd77:
This is very obvious.


Jonathan was never serious with anything while in power. Always drunk to the boots.

Imagine a president who went dancing skelewu after Nyanya bomblast.


The only time he showed seriousness was when he forced a 6-week postponement of the election sooooo he could win

If Gej continues to be blamed, what responsibility will this govt accept ?

Bubu was not elected to complain. It's a tough job, but someone has to do it...

Oghenekohwo1402:
I'll take no. 2 period but I'm already married to the perfect gift of God for me

Your children go worwor oh....

Toks2008:
Many ladies have always loved the idea of getting married to that man that suites her desire and for every lady you ask to state the type of man she wants,you can be sure to have varying choices[b] so i present to you these options and you must pick one of them having in mind that you are not allowed to remain single,their qualities are unchangeable and these are all the types of men in the world.[/b]


1.Mr A
-Extremely good looking
-Tall
-Rich
-Romantic
-chronic philanderer

2.Mr B
-Ugly
-Short and fat
-Rich
-Extremely romantic
-Super faithful

3.Mr C
-Drop dead gorgeous
-very rich
-faithful
-romantic
-Ritualist

4.Mr D
-Very cute
-rich
-caring
-faithful
-Hopelessly addicted to alcohol


5.Mr E
-Very cute
-faithful
-Rich
-Very abusive and a wife beater.


6.Mr F
-Very cute
-Rich
-Very romantic
-Extremely caring
-Wants you as a second wife
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The bottom line is that no man on earth is perfect and no matter how many times you change a man,you will always realize sooner that there is always a wow side and a bad side of every man so just settle down with one who cherishes you and hope for the best.

As a lady,you must learn to celebrate the good sides of that guy and ignore or tolerate the bad side as long as it does not threaten your life.

Your dream man can easily be found in one place...[size=13pt] INSIDE YOUR DREAM[/size].

You even try sef. All the men dey rich. But I believe Mr. C is the best of the worst.

mightyokwy:
Huhuhu, wait you mean I shld just wake up nd pray for these bunch of liers. What kind of prayer shld pray for them, that God shl stop them from lying or God shld help their gulible followers who are currently under the effect of red oil jollof rice from villa to stop being gulible. APC is scam, this is a story we must tell our unborn generation so that when they hear change they will knw that they are about to be duped

If you listen to the lies of Lai Mohammed and the propaganda of Apc, you will want to rejoice in what's happening. He should have shut up his big mouth instead of boasting that they have defeated bh. His recent statements have rather provoked them the more.
But there are innocent people there that are suffering. And this could spiral out of control to affect us all.

APCLyingBastard:
What they are refusing to tell you is that Boko Haram have been attacking Christian towns like Chibok and Michika


Innocent Christians are dying in their jihad.

Even though we can see the foolishness and ineptitude of this govt towards tackling boko haram head on we should not forget those at the receiving end.

I really pity the Christians. They don't deserve this. It pains me. And I don’t think Apc cares about it. Bakare, Mbaka and co are quiet about this. When Pst. Ayo Oritsejafor was shouting that christians were being killed, they lambasted him.

Right now I'm finding it difficult not to call Lai Mohammed a fool. Pls God help me. He should have shut up his fat stinking mouth. Now, his statement has further provoked bh.

mightyokwy:
Go Nd blame your lying master for reminding the boko boys that they have to attack

Yes we should pray for Nigeria. But the problem is that, did they pray for Nigeria during last administration ?
Body language and lies are no longer working. Alas we have rssorted to prayers.

APCLyingBastard:
Nobody should celebrate this news rather we should pray for our troops but condemn liar mohammed's attempt at lying on the war.

Now is the time for the FG to come clean.

If they need a draft to fight the insurgency let them call for one.

The army even though not on my good books must not fail because a defeat in the NE will spell doom for every region.

We pray for Borno but this government is full of lies and propaganda. When Gej suffered this same thing, Apc people were busy blasting him. An elder statesman like Buhari kicked against the fight against Bh. The Northern elders shielded them.

Now, there are no more churches to bomb. They have now turned against everybody irrespective of religion. Lie Mohammed should have resigned if we live in a sane country. How could he just tell blatant lies ? He has no integrity at all.It's a big shame. If they like, let them call me a wailing wailer. Let's see who are the true wailers.

Despite all the lies and deceit, l pray God shows us mercy because innocent people are dying.

Ginaz:
Benin boys are wicked, I once had a friend he's from Benin, I was in need of cash to settle school stuff so he volunteered to help me on his free will o, not that I begged him. So I went to his house to take the money, to my surprise this dirty pig swine wanted to touch me.

Ha! I said what is this na?'' He opened his rotten mouth to tell me he like me and first he has to do something before giving me the cash.''. I was like what? God punish you. I couldn't find the money to pay for my project. It was a kind lecturer who helped me out, and to God be the glory everything went well when my results came out. Till today, I hate benin guys, that guy have destroyed whatever good that could come out of Benin that won't sound stupid to my ears.

Their girls are worst! Seriously eh, Benin need deliverance.

Hahahahaaa.... sorry about that. But you can't conclude that all Benin guys are like that because of your experience. Btw, I'm not Benin.
But whay about Edo guys ? Not all Edo guys are from Benin

Is this story true ?

HonPatrick:
What would you do If your girl decides to wear this hairstyle during your traditional wedding?

She can't wear this to an office, so I wonder where the lady works. The hair style doesn't mean anything.

Many people are insane but don't know it. May God help us with our policemen.
Abeg make nobody argue with police oh. Try as much as possible to avoid them.

Another reason why we pray so much in church. It's because of things like this. We live in a wicked world and unfortunately, our police is part of it. There are a few sane ones though. But it's not written on their heads.

FuckTheMod:
Liar

Who told you he didn't sin


1) oh lord, why have thou forsaken me > He lost hope in God (on the cross according to your bible)


2) He came to the church and was "angered" by people trading in the house of the lord and then, he "kicked" and "scattered" their goods.



In conclusion,

All humans are sinners, JESUS CHRIST WAS ALSO A HUMAN.

So in other words, Jesus sinned ? Hmmm

kepstone:
Sir, I am a Pastor, and what you wrote or posted is heyressy. I will not and never teach this nonsense to my church. U are not spiritually matured yet bro or whoever u are. U have not understand bthe concept of SIN. Time will not permit me to elucidate more on this, cos I see u don't know homiletics ( law of scripture interpretation). Please just ask God to to forgive u for this s trash you posted, cos this is not the HolySpirit speaking through you. 2tim2:19-22, 1thesss4:3-4, Gal 5:19-21. There are many scriptures that talks about purity, Holiness and much more. Please don't derail people with this. God did not save you to keep you in sin, and for you to keep on wallowing in sin. If a pig falls into the mud it wallows, but if a sheep falls into a mud it cries out for help because its not in the nature of the sheep to wallow in d mud. No matter how you sin and how you fall, or make mistake, never endorse sin, cos sin is not the nature of a believer. But when a beliver consciously sin.... Does he think grace will abound. If many will run with this as believers they will end up in HELL FIRE. So please correct yourself and go and study your bible well before you come out to the public to tell people about the bible you did not authored.

I don't see anything wrong with what the op said. It's possible that people will interpret it the wrong way. What I see as holiness is accepting the sacrifice of Jesus, then you are made holy automatically. We are holy by our new birth in Christ which is by God's grace and not by works.

But we have a responsibility. Our responsibility is to live right.

akinsbaba2015:
Does that look like sahara reporters to you? The mischief makers and shameless propagandists will rot in the hottest part of HELL.

They did same under Gej, why wail now . Our leaders should be held accountable.

sorextee:
Why una go confront soldiers?? That means u guys were prepared for what happens next.. .. u go see man carry him wife, and kids comot, say dem dey do procession, then end us losing them all. It's so pathetic.. I dont know what/who u guys believe in..

So children should be murdered too ? Mind you, we were not told that the little niece followed them for the procession. Most likely they were amongst the 300 killed..

perry2020:
I so bliv ur story and sumtin similar has happened to abt two people I no dat I even witnessed wif my naked eyes.1st happened to an ex best frnd we were all at d beach and he saw dis flawless white clean babe he said e wanted to approach her and we all laughed at him before we knew wassup he approached d babe as e was getting closer to her she was Goin into d water,he kept following and following and then we all turned just to c him Goin deeper into d water and d babe was nowhere to be found,my ex had to rush to save d guy and called for help and den the water began to take both of them.the second experience dunno where dis friend of myn met dis babe bt mehn she was light skinned pretty as heaven,we would joke wif him that is he sure dis babe ain't mama water,as tym went on they strtd dating,she moved in wif him she claimed she dint have friends,said her parents where outside d country,weneva she was alone she would open all d taps in d house,sumtyms lay inside d bathtumb and wenever he got home,he would knock and knock she would have been lost and she will say she loves the sound of water or she likes laying inside it,whenever they had issues if he dares try to step out all d locks of d house will suddenly lock her eyes will change colour and d windows and curtains will be shaking until he kneels down and beg,der was a tym wenever they were sleeping he would wake up at d middle of d nyt to c d whole bed wet as an ocean.she was very friendly to everybody and seemed lik a good girl he was always gisting us we refused to bliv till d day we were at home n e kept screaming for help in d same room wif her we tried Goin to open d door bt twas stiff,she told us she was busy wif ha husband and if we are not careful we won't leave d house alive,hmmm me that love my life removed my shoes and that was d day I new I could run so fast,i even abandoned my car and bag forgetting I came wif a frnd he was d one dat drove n picked me at d entrance of d estate.we started avoiding him bt had no choice dan to help so we linked him up wif a pastor dey did prayer for him and at end of d 7days fasting he got home and dint meet d babe or even a pin of hers.
PLZ NOTE; b4 e met her he was just a normal average lagos boy bt wen e met her money strtd flowing from several sources that e bought a house in a very big estate,opened offices in abt 5 states withing d period of 6mnths so he never wanted to belive she was mami,he just felt she had good leg,wen d babe left ehen e became mur wretched dan e was b4 and all ez business and houses went,it took d grace of God for him to stand strong again.
I never used to believe mami water stories until I saw it REAL LIFE I mean with my two small eyes.u guys have got to be careful,nt every fyn girl is pure human.i am nt forcing any1 to belive my story.just shared it for d sake of dos who want to learn.

. Jesus is Lord. In your second story, could it be that the lady in question was possessed ? Cos there's difference between being possessed and a mermaid.
Pls where did this happen ?

DeKen:
Her problem.

3 Questions though:
1. Who cares?
2. Was she invited to social media?
3. Will anyone miss her?

Reminds me of the peace of mind when a noisy generator is finally put off.

Lol. Best response so far....

anonimi:
Like this one



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Even with this glaring evidence, some zombies will still support him.

VampireeM:
Cant you try doing casual jobs like marketing, sales girl or cleaner. My aunt started as a cleaner in a multinational coy and now she is a director... Stop looking down on jobs and start from somewhere while you submit CVs and await them to call you.. You are a female... There are plenty jobs in esp mainland.. you can work in factories too.

Another thing is you need to review your CV and make sure its inline with the job you applying for cause it increases your chance of being invited, register in all these Job alert websites and pray too

Hmmm..... how did your aunty get to that stage ?
Can this be possible in a one man business or an indigenous company ?
Let's hear your aunt's full story cos it could be encouraging to us all.

samocholi:
Greetings to u all,please I need a candid advise because am fed up and confused at same time.It all started in 2011 when I met my wife through my collegue in the bank. I used to work in operations and hardly have time to truly search for a wife that is what I thought back then.so I had this collegue of mind who appears responsible and is also a church worker in a responsible church,not all these money making churchs.so I confided in him , so one day he came to me that he has this lady where he normally goes to worship atimes that he will take me to meet her ,that she is God fearing ,a church worker and her father is a pastor in one of the northern states,which he did and introduced us and gradually we started dating,


I even took her to see my parent.to their amazement she woke up around 4am and swept and cleaned the house before we could even wake up for morning prayers.when my Dad saw this he was really please and was like this truly is wife material.but my Mum was like don’t conclude oh as per girls of nowadays that we should keep praying.at first I wanted us to do our traditional marriage in April 2012 and after that white wedding but she started indirectly pressuring me that we should do trad in August and white in November,2011.i thot about it,and with my naïve mind said to myself that since she seems nice and am ready to marry.


I agreed and we got married in 2011.we did both court and church marriage.immediatly we came back from honey moon my life has been one hell of a life or another.it began when my former collegue in the bank sent her sister to bring her cv to me incase we are recruiting so that I can submit for her.so the lady called later to thank me for the assistance and my wife was with me in the sitting room.it was around 7-8pm.after the call my wife started quarreling,that who is that lady calling me that am cheating on her,she went inside the room and brought out our wedding cert.that she will tear it and that we should go our separate ways.i became shocked ,I then told her that she can take the lady’s number or I can call the lady in her presence.that I don’t even know the lady. I did not even have the lady number in my phone,the lady collected my number to follow up and that is all.



I left her with my phones and entered the room.this was happening barely a month and a half after our wedding.as the days go by she started bringing different quarrels and problem.after like a year two month into the marriage,one faithful Friday night after I came back from work and I was fast asleep she woke me up around 11pm that we should talk.and I told her that if we can leave it till morning knowing fully well that the next day was satuday unless if the matter is btw life and death then I can wait.she said it is not btw life and death and was insisting that we talk before I knew it she brought out a knife and wanted to stab me so I manage to collect the knife and threw it into the wordrobe.


By then the sleep in my eyes cleared immediately and I was like what is the matter what is wrong or what wrong have I done to her,my people up till tofday she has not given me an answer.so she stood there speechless so I assume all is well then as I was going tom bed she took one of her high heel and struck me behind my head I fell down and went blank.after a while I woke up and saw her looking at me.so I got up and entered my car with blood all over me to her uncle’s house and showed them and told them what happened.before I continue we live in Abj,so the uncle called her parent and her mum came to Abj the next day.before then I had written and taken my divorce letter to the pastor that am not doing again.


After that the pastor and her people intervened and talked to her. I went to that my colleague that introduced her to me that what does he know about her that I may not know so he said she told him in confidence that she was in cult in the university and that her boyfriend then was the capon.she also told him that the boy friend was shot in school then and died in her arms.when I confronted her she down played everything and wanted to pick a quarrel,so that one died down.


Before I continue,am a banker ,and my wife has a boutique that she sells men wears in Abj. She hardly laughs but b4 we got married she was always laughing.i havs severally asked her what the matter is but she will say it is nothing. Before now I did not know that my wife is a runs girl,after our baby’s birth in Dec 2012 my wife went and did family planning without my consent,it was in the evening when the stuf started disturbing her that I got to know. In August last year that is 2014,I was watching news when she came back by 9:30pm,she started making it a habit of coming late in 2014 and that has caused serious quarrel btw us. So when she came in she droped her phone on the center table and went inside to take her shower.as I was watching the television I now said let me go through her gallery because she likes taking pictures.after that I now checked her messages.i was shocked what I saw.

She sent a text to a married man,saying that she cursed him with the sperm he pured inside her and the man said it was mutual that she is the one came to his house to collect money for the shoes and shirts he bought,he also said he will curse her with his children’s life that she is not the only one that has a child and insisted that it was mutual.at that point my hands started shaking and before I know I she jumped out of the bathroom with soap on her body to take her phone.immediatly she came to the sitting room and saw me with her phone she frozed for like 15seconds not knowing what to say after that I asked her who is the man and she said that I was one of her friends from owerri that used her phone to chat the man.

when I checked the chat history it was not just one day chat it spans four days becos the chat was very lengthy. So I was pissed off, I reported the issue to the pastor where we got married and he down play it that she cannot do such a thing..
My wife has quarreled with all my neighbours in my compound of 8 flat,she has also quarreled with our security guards at the gate to the extent that they have refused to wash her car.On 25 of dec 2014 after returning from the church my wife spreed her cloth under the sun and my neighbour’s puppy came and played with the cloth and tore part of it.the next day she went to tell then but she did not grt a good response so she went behind and boiled hot water and pured on the puppy. My neighbor’s wife went and call police for her the next day being Sunday.but their aim is to keep her in cell till Monday to teach her a lesson.unknown to them my uncle is a top police officer so I called him and we were able to bail her putting Monday date.since then small thing my wife will start saying things that she is suspecting me , that am having am affair.i now told her how,she now said a man that does not drink alcohol and does not smoke will surely womanise.i then asure her that I have done nothing of such.and truly since I married her four years ago I have never looked at any woman aside her.

To cut a long stry short,February this year as usual during valentine I to her to a shop and asked her to pick whatever she wants.then she picked cloths and shoes worth 70k and I paid. After that February ending I usually give her 50k for upkeep so tha day I had keep the 50k but there was a plumbing problem that I had to take 5k out of it to solve so I gave her 45k promising to bring the balance home or I credit her,and that faithful morning we were having a meeting in which a top official is coming from head office and my head of operations was nor around so I was sitting in for her.

so I asked my wife to help me take our daughter to sch that day as I have to rush to the office b4 time. After giving my wife the 45k she threw it on the floor that it is not enough and started insulting me that what kind of useless job is that ,unknown to me she had gone and locked the entrance door and taken the key,as I was about to go out I discovered that the door was lock,so I called her aunte to talk to her,as she was on the phone with the aunt I went through the back door. As I was about to drive out I saw my wife rushing to close the gate with only pant and singlet,I mean pant and singlet not bump hort or rapper.i was surprise,but before she could close the gate I had already passed she now took a big stone and stared running after the car.
she threw the stone at my suv ,it sounded like a bomb very loud.at first I did not know what happened untill I saw her running towards the car so I stoped,she now came held my side mirrow and started breaking it so I had to drive off. I was devasted and could not make it to work,so I called someone in the office that I won’st be able to make it to the office that am having some issues at home.


She went back to the house and called my Dad that if I come back she will kill me.so my Dad called me and I explained to him immediately what happened. so he said I should not go back home that day, I went and slept in a hotel In town .so the next day her mum came and I went home.Now it is not that am afraid of her but because I respect women and will not want to beat ofr fight her,I am far biger and taller than her if I decide to cough she will vanish so is not that am afraid of her am only respecting the marriage institution. When I got home the second day to resume work the third day I discovered that she had tore all my cloths,my shirt both office and casuals,all my suit including my wedding suit,.so I had nothing to wear the next day.so I missed work wednesdy,Thursday and Friday,during all these happening I have been in touch with my office and told them am having some family issues and could not make it to work.



I resumed the next Monday to work and everything seem to be going well, then on Tuesday I got a sack letter from human resources of the bank.unkonwn to me. the new manager that was posted to my branch got a querry for myself and the head of operations not being around for the initial meeting. so he was angry and he wrote to the bank’s human resources and when they checked that I was not logged on for the three days I was sacked,all because of my wife.most times she sends abusive texts messages to me while in the office.For instance if am attending to customers and she is calling and I did not pick on time she will now send a nasty text that I delibertly don”t want to pick her calls.i have even told her to come and see how we work in my office.so since march am yet to get any serious thing to do.
I January I had 2.5m I paid our rent 1m and part pay for a land 1m and the remaining 500k lasted us from march till june.as usual with banks I was not paid anything.so when my savings finished in june the major financial burden fell on her,with little coming from me now.Since then my wife has made my life a living hell with all sorts of insult. For example in November,there was nothing in the house so she went to southern fries and bought rice and chicken for herself,then bought a watery oha soup with out meat that I should make garri and eat with it.it was when I wanted to microwave it that I discovered that it was watery and has no meat.i did not say anything.


Most times I stay back at home unless I have an appointment or an interview just not to spend unnecessary .so I was checking one of the cupboard in our room and I saw somethings she got from a native doctor,they include a bottle of concosion with the label witches and wizards destroying oil,the second one was two of her bathing soap with burnt candle on it when I looked at the soap closely I saw small cross buried inside,the third thing I saw was the complimentary card of the native doctor.All these things I just mentioned are real and I have their pictures that I snapped.i picked them and went to her uncle’S place to show him and he was mad,he immediately called her parent to come to Abj immediately and I called my parent to come becos I told them I don’t want the marriage again. Both parties came and the meeting lasted from 5pm to 12 mid nite and continued again the next day.

she could not defend her sellf and I said am not doing again and everyone started beging that I should give her one more chance.and it seems the issues was resolved.i started my investigation and discovered that unknown to me my wife is a runs girl even b4 I married her and after marriage she continued .that is why she went and did family planning without my knowledge so that she can be sleeping with me with out condom.and this days she dresses sugestivly.i have reported to the pastor ,her parent about her dressing but she has not changed.presently she is fighting with a lady in her former church the lady is a leader in the church.she said the lady has been attacking her in the dream and anytime they lady sees her the lady calls her prostitute.She told me that the lady is sleeping with her pastor.My wife has bad mouth and insult at every provocation,she hadly laughs always moody but when some kind of men call her she will be laughing as if tomorrow no dey.

Today being Christmas as we were preparing to go to church,she was noW feeding our daughter who just turned 3 last week.becos the baby was being slow to eat she started shouting that if the baby does not eat quikly that she will injure her.when I heard that I came and told her that such statement to a baby is not good,I have cautioned her severally not to be telling the baby that she will injure her.because there was a day I was playing with our baby and the baby was telling me that she will injure me.so becos of that I cautioned her.that was all,instead of her to take corrections she started insulting me.that am useless,that the whole burden is on her that she regrets marrying me.that she will surprise me one of these days.


My dear brothers and sisters in the house especially the married ones I frankly need ur candid advise as I am tired of her ,her bad and unrepentant character and her evil ways but am only looking at the term Christian marriage in terms of divorce as I ultimately want to make heaven just as every one.

Thank u for taking ur time to go through my ordeal.

With the kind of friend you have, you don't need enemies. I'll advise you to discard that thing you call a wife.