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JovialJune:
You see that "accumulated pains of the past", I can relate or let's say I know of stories of such, that's why she is indifferent to him

What men don't seem to realise is that, how you treat/behave to your gf during courtship, determines how sweet your marriage will be, she may forgive whatever hurtful things you did, but she will never forget, after all she is human,there will always be a little disdain when she remembers and anytime she sees you, so men pls be good to your women, don't think that because you're dating her, you can behave anyhow, she is taking note of it all especially when the issue is unresolved, always treat your women right, it's for your own good.

Why would she go on ahead to marry him if she has disdain for him?
All BS. The guy should let her go.

These people are senseless and insensitive. I wonder what would happen in GEJs tenure.

Tranquillity360:
I remember how one Nigeria miscreants were crying all over the Internet over alleged death of two police men,all because they claim it happened in East and IPOB is responsible.




Even the stvpid Arisenews is not talking about death of 42 the way they talked about alleged death of two police in East.

The problem with the media and apologists are selective condemnation.
The condemn and criticize one aspect of evil and close their eyes and mouth to the other.
Tunde Bakare , Woke Soyinka et Al who brought this Government in are silent about this
Pastors who assured us the PMB is the chosen one are not saying anything.

dre11:
When You Raised My Leg To The Ceiling, You Forgot? - Lady Fights Client For Refusing Pay After Action

This looks like acting

sotall:


It would have been better for Lewandowski not to talk about any unfairness regarding this Balondior.


When people speak for you, that is the time to keep quiet.

He is obviously pained he didn't win it.

This is an award that is given based on voting.

Why attack the winner?

Why not attack the voters?

He did not attack Messi. Don't mind the heading. It's misleading. He only spoke against the unfairness.

God1000:
You are right bro, my niece own is still paining me, but thank God she's a family member.
Me and my brothers assisted her in uni from 100-400 level, one stupid boyfriend later hijacked her and she forgot her entire family, we didn't even get a thank you from her

That's life.

Brushstrokes20:
Bullocks ... An elderly friend of mine sent his wife who bore him 4 kids to the University, guess what?

She still left the man for another sugar boy!

ONLY give/invest in a woman what you can afford to LET GO or lose without grudge.

That's a rare case but the guy wouldn't be that pained if he had trained her before marrying.

God1000:
I just came across a story on Facebook today, a man was lamenting and seeking for advice on what to do, he's at his wit's end.
Here's the story, the man lost his wife at child's birth and after awhile he met another lady that assisted him in raising the child, he eventually had a soft spot for her and sent her to university with the hope of marrying the girl the moment she finishes from school.

The problem now is that the lady doesn't pick his calls like before, she hardly calls him and the man is nonplussed.

Why are ladies giving guys every justifiable reason not to help them
again?
Is this smartness or turpitude?

Training a lady you're not married to most at times do not end well.
Marry her first and train her later.

Grace001:
That grandma kemi need someone like bishop David ibiyeomi…

She tried her nonsense investigative journalism with Bishop David and it landed her to prison, she start speaking in tongues when she saw the bishop and even gave her life to CHRIST.

Funny journalist.

It served her right. I was so happy when she was dealt with.

ademasta:
Can Zoom connect 900 persons at once..

Yes. The maximum is 1,000

We4all:
Omo….they just mentioned that he loves to play soccer. That statement might work against them in the court of law since they already debunked the school authority’s claim that he played soccer before and after sustaining the injury.

It won't work against them. Playing football can't give one such injury.

Abike is such a fxxlish insensitive woman. She should stop blaming the lady for not informing the Commission.
After Abike got to know about the case, what did she do ?

Odoogu:
It's a merry go round...
Cos at a point in time me, you also gonna need people to work with or and for you.

That's the point.
Some so called "motivational speakers" castigate people working for others. But these same motivational speakers would want others to work for them. If everyone has this their useless mindset, who will work for them ?

Tokskob2008:
Saw this on FB and nostalgia kicked in........

What movie or movies comes to your mind when you see this old video cassette player?

For me it's Jackie Chan's POLICE STORY PT 1,2 and 3.

Share yours.

Enter the dragon

Richdad50:
They give up their limbs and eyes for the club but not for the country.

You know how much they end for their clubs ?

ILoveDemMANNA:
They are all very dumb sets of pigs, including the bald headed one representing them on this forum.
Everyone creating chaos, unrest and violence in this nation no go ever die better.

Idiotic reno,
Where is James Nwafor ?


How i hope this was the same way you talked about , created a website and start petition about the killings of over 100 youths that were killed and thrown into the River few years back by James Nwafor and his killer squads, under your administration as special assistant to looters and
criminals. (Birds of a feather!)
Maybe SARS could have ended 8 years ago.
But it was all swept under the carpet by your cronies.
Where were you When Obasanjo destroyed a whole village,
Sending soldiers to kill all the men found there!
Just some few years ago too, not in 1970's

The truth will set us free in this nation.
Someone of us will continue to say the truth,
Until it destroyed the wicked one.



Reading the link below will bring tears to your eyes if you have blood flowing in your veins.

https://hallmarknews.com/chilling-tales-of-sars-brutality-the-awkuzu-abattoir/

Excerpts.....

I was tied, my hands and my legs at the back together, and I was being tortured. They just wanted me to say, Yes, I did it. Of course, I didn’t do anything, I was just 17 at that time, and I was not ready to say I did it. But the torture was too much, I couldn’t stand anymore. I had to agree that yes, I did it. Because that was the only way they said they would stop torturing me.

“The social action team came in; I had been in prison for three years, because my case was dumped in a court that was not sitting. So, they helped me to pick it up and transfer it to a court that was sitting. And they were paying my lawyer to hasten up the case. That was how I was discharged and acquitted.”

Esther’s account is one of many, and the bulk of such happened in Anambra, particularly in Awkuzu, where activists say, is the ground zero of SARS brutality in the country.

Everyone chooses his fights. There's nothing wrong if you take up this James Nwafor up. He's a wicked soul.
Btw, has Nnamdi Kanu, the leader of Biafra spoken about this Nwafor guy ? It's good you brought this matter up. And I hope the authorities handle it.

hybrid11:
Offload ronaldo and get your team back
Goat my yansh

Ronaldo is not the problem. Where was Man. U last season before his arrival?

SultanOfPuna:
Not just the regular STD, he collected the Buy 1 get 2 free type of STD.
My boy has been scratching since monday. He has tried lots of antifungal creams but it keeps worsening.
Today he was driving me, his left hand on steering the other hand on his gbola scratching it furiously..

Today he confessed that he paid a runz girl from Choba uniport 50k for 4 rounds sex during weekend.
He just spent 50k to collect free STD and with the way he is scratching i have decided to no longer shake his hands anymore..
I just dey vex for am, based on say him just waste money and the bani sef don block him number.
He doesn't want to go to hospital, and he don't know what StD he has but I'm worried that if I continue hanging around with him. The StD might transfer to me via air or by touch.
Is StD transferred by hanging out with infected person.

Thank God it's not HIV (I hope he tests for that as well). He better treats himself before it turns into something else.
But that runs babe is wicked.

It's fake...

I like her response. She has a good sense of humor.

bigpriik:
I brought up this topic two years ago, it was about a girl i loved so much we were good friends, but she is Just into a kinda flashy lifestyle funded by runs. She always posts twerk videos on her Instagram and whatssap status and of course she is very beautiful and the kind of woman I want to spend the rest of my life with.

Hoestly I don't know why I love her, it's just crazy. Last year I deleted her number and pictures from my phone, because we had a fight over the tatoo she drew on her upper arm so I avoided her..

But yesterday I saw her in my street, meeen this girl don fine scatter and she is looking so fresh like those men are really paying her well. She called me and I answered we talked and believe me all the nuts in my head was loose because I talked to her.. ,i felt all the old emotions back again and it was so strong again. I immediately collected her number and she sent me a hi on WhatsApp so we begin talking again, we chatted all Night and she told me how she missed me so much and all.

Is it sensible iI take her in, i am 29 now and rounding up for marriage and she is the only one i see but i am afraid because i feel runs girls don't really retire even after marriage..

Elders please i need your help..
I need

You already answered yourself. Don't allow lust to mislead you.

CsRockefeller:


This is so funny. But why are you scared though?

If I am in a relationship with a lady, that means I'm very much interested in marrying her.

Never thought of marrying her. Just wanted to smash. But I'm surprised she started catching feelings.

paulolee:
a very pure talented and blessed Nigee wey no get time to worry about wat critics says about him, the expectations of him being d next goat after messi no bother am atall....e jus de flex life..
na dis kain life i de find....do my job, make more money n am not bother about wat others think or say about me..
the funny tin is dt...dt PSG deal made him d highest paid player in his 30's.... even cr7 n messi in dier prime didnt made such a stupid wage.....dts d definition of being BLESSED..

The value of footballers and other sports in general always rises. Some years ago, Kanu Nwankwo was one of the highest players in EPL. He was just earning #45,000 a week.
CR and Messi in their prime didn't make this much cos of that era they found themselves.
Just imagine off Messi and CR were in their prime today and they get a new contract.

redstaarx:
I asked her to tell me why before I deleted her pics and contact and block her on WhatsApp.. she got pissed and said goodbye she actually wanted is to be friends after we broke up ..

I just wanted to know why ..

Getting rejected by a lady you're interested in can be really painful. But threatening to delete her from WhatsApp will make matter worse. I just ignore and find someone else.
Best thing is to be non reactive. Just chill and watch how things unfold. It's not usually easy but just chill.

Sebastine1994:
I will never date a man that has no friends. He is a dangerous man,

I used to be an introvert until I had a business idea and would need to execute it. Some business ideas need teamwork not Solo, and you would need to convince people. How can I pull this off when I have no friends. I don't socialize, I don't even go to church.

My advice to all introvert is this: Make friends before you need them.

What is the need of having good ideas stored in your head with no way to execute it.

Are you a man or a woman ? Cos your moniker says male.
To your comments on introversion.
Firstly, being an introvert doesn't mean one can't speak or one can't make friends. Secondly, not all introverts are the same contrary to what many people may think.
It will surprise you to know many fantastic people are introverts. Bill Gates is one of them.
Introverts can be charming as well. Take a look at James Bond character.
What I've come to realize is that both introversion and extroversion have advantages and limitations. No one is better than the other.

kilisi:
I don't understand how people find it so hard to express their mind sha. When I wanted to break up with my fiancée then, I called her that we needed to discuss something very important. Looked for a quiet place with very few people because I don't wanna do it in my place. Told her how great a person she is in many aspects. Then I told her I cannot continue with the relationship due to our irreconcilable differences. Told her I'm sure she will definitely meet someone who will be more compatible with her and all that.

She burst into torrent of tears and was begging me to please reconsider my decision. But I told her my decision is final and irrevocable!

She fell sick so much so that she landed in the hospital. Her parents called me, went to see them and after all the talks, they agreed with me.

She's now doing very fine as she's married with children.

After you don chop her finish, you come look for fault, abi ? (Just kidding).

Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.

You said 3 years and you even promised her marriage ?
I'm with a lady for barely 6 months. I've not even made any promise of marrying her and yet she told me her mom wants to see me.
My guy, you went to far. My situation is small compared to yours and I even need advice..