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I like her response. She has a good sense of humor.

bigpriik:
I brought up this topic two years ago, it was about a girl i loved so much we were good friends, but she is Just into a kinda flashy lifestyle funded by runs. She always posts twerk videos on her Instagram and whatssap status and of course she is very beautiful and the kind of woman I want to spend the rest of my life with.

Hoestly I don't know why I love her, it's just crazy. Last year I deleted her number and pictures from my phone, because we had a fight over the tatoo she drew on her upper arm so I avoided her..

But yesterday I saw her in my street, meeen this girl don fine scatter and she is looking so fresh like those men are really paying her well. She called me and I answered we talked and believe me all the nuts in my head was loose because I talked to her.. ,i felt all the old emotions back again and it was so strong again. I immediately collected her number and she sent me a hi on WhatsApp so we begin talking again, we chatted all Night and she told me how she missed me so much and all.

Is it sensible iI take her in, i am 29 now and rounding up for marriage and she is the only one i see but i am afraid because i feel runs girls don't really retire even after marriage..

Elders please i need your help..
I need

You already answered yourself. Don't allow lust to mislead you.

CsRockefeller:


This is so funny. But why are you scared though?

If I am in a relationship with a lady, that means I'm very much interested in marrying her.

Never thought of marrying her. Just wanted to smash. But I'm surprised she started catching feelings.

paulolee:
a very pure talented and blessed Nigee wey no get time to worry about wat critics says about him, the expectations of him being d next goat after messi no bother am atall....e jus de flex life..
na dis kain life i de find....do my job, make more money n am not bother about wat others think or say about me..
the funny tin is dt...dt PSG deal made him d highest paid player in his 30's.... even cr7 n messi in dier prime didnt made such a stupid wage.....dts d definition of being BLESSED..

The value of footballers and other sports in general always rises. Some years ago, Kanu Nwankwo was one of the highest players in EPL. He was just earning #45,000 a week.
CR and Messi in their prime didn't make this much cos of that era they found themselves.
Just imagine off Messi and CR were in their prime today and they get a new contract.

redstaarx:
I asked her to tell me why before I deleted her pics and contact and block her on WhatsApp.. she got pissed and said goodbye she actually wanted is to be friends after we broke up ..

I just wanted to know why ..

Getting rejected by a lady you're interested in can be really painful. But threatening to delete her from WhatsApp will make matter worse. I just ignore and find someone else.
Best thing is to be non reactive. Just chill and watch how things unfold. It's not usually easy but just chill.

Sebastine1994:
I will never date a man that has no friends. He is a dangerous man,

I used to be an introvert until I had a business idea and would need to execute it. Some business ideas need teamwork not Solo, and you would need to convince people. How can I pull this off when I have no friends. I don't socialize, I don't even go to church.

My advice to all introvert is this: Make friends before you need them.

What is the need of having good ideas stored in your head with no way to execute it.

Are you a man or a woman ? Cos your moniker says male.
To your comments on introversion.
Firstly, being an introvert doesn't mean one can't speak or one can't make friends. Secondly, not all introverts are the same contrary to what many people may think.
It will surprise you to know many fantastic people are introverts. Bill Gates is one of them.
Introverts can be charming as well. Take a look at James Bond character.
What I've come to realize is that both introversion and extroversion have advantages and limitations. No one is better than the other.

kilisi:
I don't understand how people find it so hard to express their mind sha. When I wanted to break up with my fiancée then, I called her that we needed to discuss something very important. Looked for a quiet place with very few people because I don't wanna do it in my place. Told her how great a person she is in many aspects. Then I told her I cannot continue with the relationship due to our irreconcilable differences. Told her I'm sure she will definitely meet someone who will be more compatible with her and all that.

She burst into torrent of tears and was begging me to please reconsider my decision. But I told her my decision is final and irrevocable!

She fell sick so much so that she landed in the hospital. Her parents called me, went to see them and after all the talks, they agreed with me.

She's now doing very fine as she's married with children.

After you don chop her finish, you come look for fault, abi ? (Just kidding).

Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.

You said 3 years and you even promised her marriage ?
I'm with a lady for barely 6 months. I've not even made any promise of marrying her and yet she told me her mom wants to see me.
My guy, you went to far. My situation is small compared to yours and I even need advice..

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Instead of patronising street girls or oloshos with ur hard earn money, isn't it better u get a gf? Even If u don't want to get married to any woman or have a wife. Perhaps, u are scared or avoiding the responsibilities and headache in marriage. How can u spend ur hard earn money on oloshos that only last in some minutes? Whereas u can have ur Gf for the whole day if u want. She can cook for u, wash ur clothes and do other housecore for u. Some guys do this on daily basis.

There always a trade-off in every relationship. Patronizing oloshos have it's advantages and disadvantages.
With Oloshos, there's no issue of jealousy.
You can have sex on demand.
You can have varieties.
There's no commitment at all.
When you travel and you need companion, you can have it.
It's easy and convenient for those who cannot toast or those who get flaked on.
When you talk of expenses, it is relative cos you spend alot on girlfriends.
No girl will keep giving you free sex and wash your clothes without wanting something in return.
Girlfriends also have their off days like every other person.
But GFs do have advantages. Cos if you have a cute Gf, you'll be free to flaunt her.
You both can have quality time together.

Maxymilliano:
https://punchng.com/i-stopped-attending-a-church-because-pastor-always-attacked-buhari-adesina/?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook#Echobox=1636098683-1

I hope he attends Deeper Life or any other Church that doesn't speak about PMB. If he doesn't, then he just want wants to look for an excuse not to attend.

Kaynnedy:
Good afternoon House.

Someone told my sister that there was a connection for a sales rep. Job in UAE, since she's yet to get a job after her NYSC, (you know how tough Nigeria is now. But it will require her to pay some money for her visa, flight ticket and other necessary documents, but my sister told her that she currently don't have money to process any international papers.

After much discussion this lady told my sister not to worry that all documentations including flight ticket will be paid for her but on a commission fee when she arrived her destination and upon resuming work in UAE, a percentage of her salary will be remitted to them until she pays up the debt incurred.

This was two months ago precisely August. Now fast forward to yesterday 3rd November 2021, I got a WhatsApp message from my sister telling me that she was being forced into prostitution upon arriving and not the sales job as was agreed.

I told her to find a way to come back to Nigeria since she has a return ticket that will expire in 4 days time valid till 8th November 2021.

Now the issue is:
1. Her Boss, as she called her earlier took her passport upon arrival in the pretense that she may misplace it or it may get stolen.

2. Her boss insisted on her paying all the debt incurred in processing her peppers which is 125% extra on what she spent in bringing her to Dubai, which amounts to N3.5 million Naira.

Please is there a way she can return back without her international passport since she went there legally and her return ticket is still valid.

Please we need help as during this altercation since yesterday, I cannot communicate with her as her Boss has seized her phone. It's now a matter of life and death.

Let her locate Nigerian embassy.

How much did GEJ spend ?

richmondefosa:


Not an ambitious man in my books.

Manchester United gave this guy relevance by losing the Europa League final.

If not, who is Unai Emery?

An Arsenal reject.

He's a decent coach. He's even better than Arteta.
Most great coaches have been rejected before.

I don't know if any sincere person that would like to support Buharis Government.
Femi Adesina and Joe Igbokwe are Buharis spokesmen. You shouldn't expect to hear the truth from them.

Shame on Bakare.

Livelystone01:
"If he (Wilder) had known...". This is the summary of the numerous noises in his head as we speak.

3 straight beatings...SMH

In like 28 rounds of fighting, he won less than 6 rounds in total, losing like 22plus and being knocked out twice.

One of the fans knew Wilder was cold even before he was knocked out.
The fan was shouting "he's out" for like 20 seconds before Fury completed the demolition.
The left hook by Fury entered wella and the talker melted like ice in seconds.
Pheeew.

Don't mind people who say Wilder will destroy AJ. Wilder is over hyped .

PotatoSalad:
How often do you see blood in boxing rings?
Go watch brutal UFC fight compilations on YouTube and come back

In UFC, their gloves are smaller than that of boxing. In addition, elbows and kicks are used as well.

PARADIZEPRIEST:
YOU PPL KEEP CALLIN BUHARI.BUHARI IS NO FINANCE MINISTER,HIS NOT CBN GOVERNOR IS THAT CLEAR? YOU SHOULD BE ASKING ABOUT HIS ECONOMIC TEAM AND POLICY HOLDERS.
WHEN JONA AND OBASANJO WAS THERE THEM CALL OKONJO EVERYDAY! WHEN WHN EVEN IBB WAS THERE HE USED PROF SAM ALUKO (ECONOMIST).
NIGERIA NEEDS OYIBO-TRAINED ECONOMIST WEY E HEAD CORRECT.CLAMOUR FOR WORLDCLASS ECONOMISTS!NOT DULLARD LIKE ZAINABI.
MR PRESIDENT BRING IN ECONOMIST WITH INTERNATIONAL CLOUT TO TAKECHARGE AND REVAMP NAIJA ECONOMY TO BOOMS RECOVERY.LET OKONJA RECOMMEND. MAKE UNA GET SENSE MY NAIJA PPL TO ASK FOR THE RIGHT THING AND STOP D BLAME GAME.

The buck stops on the president table. Or who appoints ministers?

RiceProducers:
Go and source your raw material locally or start consuming a substitute.
IQ is low if you want USD to be low and still consume imported wheat at low prices. IQ is generally low in Nigeria anyway

So people should look for substitute to bread ? I think it's your IQ that's low cos you're not reasoning well.
Since you talked about locally sourced materials, how many farmers are going to farm ?
Or do you think we don't produce flour as well. Go and do your research.

Afriqan:
I believe this loss has everything to do with his training camp; a pure technical deficit.

It's obvious his coach McCracken can't take him to the next level of his career and he played according to the script all through the fight. If AJ must evolve, he needs to change his coach and reinforce his technical team.

I am emotionless, I am not shocked, but I won't blame AJ much. Usyk outclassed him tonight, 70-30, no cap.

Yes, he needs to change his coach. I wished he had done that since.
It's this same coach who coached the British Olympic boxing team when she should have been in camp with AJ.
AJ didn't have a plan B for Usyk. I had expected him to brawl with Usyk. He should have gone for knockout earlier in the fight. Secondly, why did he loose so much weight ?

okoroemeka:
quite possibly a civet can easily kill a cat,it looks like a small leopard,moves at night and can climb a skyscraper

Civet is not a domestic animal.

There are several animals that can kill a cat but they're not domestic.
Only domestic animal I know that can kill a cat is dog. Not any kind of breed, but breeds like Pitbull terriers.

WibusJaga:

Enough of the media show-off.
Let him come prove his worth on the field of play here.

BigDawsNet:
Dude, I saw your mention about how to be a Developer...

I drop the tips few hours ago on your mention but my account was suspended for no reason


Maybe I will rephrase and resend you soon

That game was feisty. It was a match to watch.

internationalman:
They were never England teammates.

Only Aguero I can say was better then Kane in EPL..

And yes Kane is currently better than Ronaldo because he is way more expensive than Ronaldo

103 goals in 131 games is not a small feat. CR is well tested and has paid his dues.
By the way Kane is more expensive cos he's younger and has a longer contract.

Pierocash:
Reno is becoming mentally imbalanced like Daddy Freeze. Today he is coherent, tomorrow he begins to sound incoherent.


God's work for Adam was social,not domestic. He said God placed the man in the garden of Eden to till it.

That garden represents office and not house work,the garden was God's business empire handed over to man to manage and eat from there.

There was no kids then,so how could raising kids be man's responsibility when it is the woman that has the breast and the milk. Is Reno not confused?

Short and simple.

CXLVII:
Stupidity!

Look at what lots call man of god! Calling a while tribe in Nigeria vagabonds!

Short people are naturally stupid, when the happen to be bald, they are demons.

So, why are you insulting all short people? You're also making the same mistake

emmykk:
As soon as you mention Tinubu made lagos the way it is now i give up on you.

I tell you.

Oshigun:
You losers should talk better for once abeg and show you have progressive thinking and ambition, instead of ethnocentric bigotry, flowing through your veins

It was because of how terrible GEJ was that Buhari becsme an attractive and messianic choice to many, including myself , in 2015. GEJ wasted the slot of the SS and you lot should be honest enough to admit that.

You should tell us what GEJ has been able to do for Bayelsa, in and out of office, to warrant how you continue touting him the second coming of Jesus.

You guys have set your standards really low and that is why you keep talking of GEj today when he is best forgotten as part of our sordid and failed past.

Meanwhile the Tinubu you all love to hate has made Lagos the only State that makes sense and continues to move forward in our entire Nation that is now so troubled by insecurity, economic hardship, ethno-religious strife and abject misrule.

Buhari might be a mistake but GEJ's abject misrule made Buhari appear a messiah then and it would be good, for the sake of seeking solutions, if you lot spare us your revisionism about the failure called Goodluck Jonathan.

For you to claim Tinubu made Lagos state what it is, shows that you're not sincere.
How can you attack GEJ and hail Tinubu?
Can Tinubu account for all the wealth he has amassed?
Someone that converted state owned properties to his own. It baffles me how you guys keep hailing a well known rogue.
You may attack GEJ and call him names but he did better than what we are experiencing today. I won't hold brief for GEJ but his administration was far better. In terms of security and economy, Nigeria was better.

seunmsg:
The same Oyedepo campaigned for a “Fulani vagabond” in 2019 and his darling PDP will zone its 2023 presidential ticket to the north for it to be picked up by another “Fulani vagabond”. So, how will the “error” be corrected in 2023?

Oyedepo obviously don’t rate his followers, if not, he won’t mention the “Fulani vagabond” part. How can you be using “Fulani vagabond” to campaign for a Fulani man? Atiku is just somewhere right now laughing at the stupidity of some southerners. He will so deal with them if he ever becomes president.

At least, resealable people can see the duplicitous nature of Oyedepo. He is only interested in putting his rogue friends in power for selfish self aggrandizement irrespective of the overall interest of the south and Nigeria in general. He demonizes a tribe and still campaign for his friend who is a well known rogue from the same tribe he demonizes to be president. Spits!

Bishop Oyedepo never supported this government

Vickym1:
Is he advocating for the terrorists people?

Sometimes I don't understand this man.

blasterman:
They bought 2 defenders and a defensive midfielder when everyone knows they need attacking midfielders and attackers.


They couldnt break down villareal in europa



Their 2 real madrid loan players have returned back Odeegard and Ceballos.

They didnot replace Sanchez, Ozil or Ramsey and brought academy boy in Smith rowe.
i can go on and on

The board has always been the problem but Wenger took all the blame.
There's a reason why experience coaches are used in the top clubs. Arsenal is just visionless. If care is not taken, relegation awaits us.

Oogly....